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This is at the request of a few people on this forum that read some of my posts about hiking and wilderness survival. Originally, I was posting in the Global Warming or not thread, but did not want to derail that post further, so I will put those posts here in addition to more information.
I pretty much introduced myself awhile back, so I won’t go into that, but I have been hiking and camping a long time. I have never had the peace and solitude anywhere else that I can get in the woods. I have also had an interest in wilderness survival and bushcrafting, because my style of hiking is to go out by myself in harsher that normal conditions for the most part, and be alone for most of that time. I do have medical training, I served as a medic with the 293rd MP Co in Mosul, Iraq, 2004. Other skills I taught myself over the years.
My style of backpacking is to be in the woods for weeks at a time, bathing and taking care of all my needs in the woods. I’ll come out for food. This thread isn’t really about survival hunting and fishing, though I have learned those skills as well. It is for long hikes(20+ miles a day) and being “self sufficient” other than getting food in grocery stores. I thru hiked the 2,185 mile Appalachian Trail in 2010, in 5 months. It was a very enjoyable experience, and I learned a lot from it. I will be flying out on 24 FEB to spend 8 months to a year out there. I am attempting to get my VA disability, and if I am successful, I will probably stay out there for years.
I’ll have to post my gear in another thread, as I am at my college library, but far more important than gear are skills. Things like being able to start a fire with wet wood, and in cold, rainy conditions. Building shelters, sharpening knives, wilderness hygiene, are all good and necessary skills to have if you are contemplating something like this. Go on youtube and look up bushcrafting, and wilderness survival, and learn, then most importantly, go out and practice those skills until you are proficient. Falling in a creek and needing to build an emergency fire when it’s 20 outside is not the time to start learning firecraft.
The following is from the global warming thread:
I’m currently taking a break from school, I have PTSD issues that don’t let me attend straight through, so I take a break and go live in the woods. So the environment is a topic pretty close to me. I see ugly construction projects and strip mines destroying beautiful forests, it’s pretty sad. People don’t understand that consumption doesn’t lead to happiness. Owning things means nothing, and almost everyone I met owns way too much. The fatbag capitalists have lied to us, and made us feel that we have to define ourselves by the things we buy and try to turn people into mindless, spending drones.
The first thing women ask me for the most part is what I do, as if my job defines me as a person. Women seem far more materialistic than men, but men are pretty bad too. We have to constantly fight this struggle to not buy things. Minimalism is the future. Hard for everyone to own everything they want when there are 10 billion people on the planet or more. It’s supposed to hit that around 2055 or so.
I’m going to be hiking and living along the Appalachian Trail, not wilderness homesteading. Different activity. There are various land places available cheap, close to small towns in the mountains. I wouldn’t build anything anywhere you didn’t own the land, it’ll get taken away.
I’m basically gonna be homeless and backpacking the trail and side trails, exploring. There is a lot of civil war history and revolutionary war stuff up north that I want to explore. I’ll take odd jobs, ect as needed in towns. I’m pretty handy with tools, and have done construction, renovation, and other random jobs over the years. I’ve heard of people bartering on the trail, I had a friend that traded some work to an outfitter in exchange for some gear he needed, fixed his roof and some random things the guy needed done around the store. It was a fair trade. I’ve worked up north a couple of days for an old hippie couple, some landscaping stuff and helped the guy finish a deck. In exchange, they cooked me delicious homecooked meals, gave me beer, and let me wash clothes and stuff.
Most people out there are great people, just be polite. For me, if I am still out there when I start running out of money, I will ask around. Already have a couple of prospects related to hiking, but I’ll get to know people in towns, kinda network things for later, offer to help even if I don’t need the money at the moment, if someone has a random job needs doing. I’ve had people give me food before as well, too much for them to carry, or a church group in the town I was in had cooked too much or something. I was always thankful to them and offered to help clean up or anything else that needed to be done.
Wasn’t going to start a thread, because not many people could fit everything they own into a backpack and just hit the trail for months at a time. It’s just a different lifestyle. I never wanted marriage, a house, the standard 9 to 5, ect. In exchange for the freedom, I have to put up with bugs, cold weather, and such. There is always a tradeoff.
If you are interested in some of the skills I found important, you can check out bushcrafting, wilderness homesteading, some of the survival stuff, starting fires in bad conditions, things like that. There won’t be a lot of hikers for the time and location I am going, so I will be pretty much on my own for at least a couple of months.
My gear weight is 16lbs base pack weight. This is enough to keep me warm and comfortable to 15 degrees or so. Generally, I don’t wear much while hiking, because you generate a lot of body heat. Walking full speed, I am fine with a windproof jacket(patagonia Adze is excellent), watch cap, polypro neck gaiter, and army glove liners to mid 20’s. I add polypro pants if it is really cold, generally only wear them at night or in camp, because they are a pain in the ass to take off(gotta take your shoes and outer pants off first).
Total pack weight fully loaded with food and water maxes out at 35lbs, though I generally stick with about 28lbs total weight. Food lasts about a week.
I use a 3L GI Camelbak with a Sawyer squeeze filter as an inline filter, they are good to 100K gallons, have a syringe for backflushing, and are about 20 bucks. I can boil water with a small cookpot if needed. I carry a Mora Robust carbon steel knife with a sharpener and firesteel. I won’t list all my gear for now.
I have a 15 degree synthetic bag(down can get wet) and if it is really cold, I make a leaf bed about a foot deep, put my pad and bag down, then fill the rest of the tent with leaves, then crawl into the bag. I can also fill my jacket with dry grass and leaves. I sleep with my water and filter inside the bag so they don’t freeze.
I carry about 10-15lbs food, just grocery store stuff, tuna packets, cookies, peanut butter, Lipton rice meals. Every ounce counts, so you don’t carry stuff you don’t need. I made most of my gear myself, or heavily modified existing gear. I sew and make things with tools, I made gear lighter, simpler and more sturdy by sewing(cutting pack straps short, rebuilding parts of pack, ect).
I only ran into one person I thought might have issues, so I kept hiking. Always be able to do a couple more miles if you need to when you stop for camp.
For the trail, you can be as cheap as you want. People stay in hotels to shower, sleep in a bed, I rarely did so as I enjoyed sleeping in the woods. I spent $2300 on my 5 month thru hike of the Appalachian Trail in 2010. Some people spent $6K plus. All a matter of how luxurious you want to go. I was planning on coming home, so I can do it cheaper this time, knowing the money has to last. Like I said, I didn’t do a lot of work, as I really didn’t have to. Hopefully my VA disability will go through, then it won’t be an issue. If this is the case, I’ll stay out for years, travel around the US, hit trails, and explore.
I didn’t carry a firearm, but I have a knife and hiking pole, and have done quite a bit of hand to hand training with a friend that has been doing it his whole life. Situational awareness is the key for anything, if it doesn’t feel right, get the hell out, and watch your back.
The hikers were all kinds, retired people finally getting to do it, college grads, some homeless people(rare), everybody was really friendly and helpful. I’ll be leaving Feb 24th, flying to Virginia, starting about halfway up, before everyone else starts, so I won’t see a lot of people out there for awhile. Not many people go camping when it is 10 degrees outside. Takes some skills to do it comfortably, especially with my medical weight restrictions from knee issues.
So you won’t be carrying anything for trade. There are towns along the trail to resupply at. I just got in and got my groceries and left, usually. Easy to spend a lot of money in town. I have a tiny MP3 player, ecig, and microUSB headlamp that I recharge with a small battery pack. I can charge all electronics if I stay in a cheap hostel, or in an emergency, in a gas station outlet for 30mins or so. I have a fast wall charger, better than the usual ones that come with phones. I like my music, hike or walk with it on sometimes, or at camp.
Also, I have long hair and a beard, which helps a lot with cold weather. I can wear my hair down, then trap it under my jacket as a scarf. I wear it tied back in the summer because it isn’t as hot. I can also sew with hair if I really had to, and snip off short pieces for a firestarter or to make fishing lures.
I searched this site to see if this had been posted before and it hasn’t been. For those MGTOWs who are still engaging the enemy and want a short but complete course in Leykis 101 rules to emerge unwounded, I pulled the following and very lengthy compendium from the included link. I did try to find the rules ‘officially’ documented by the Professor himself but wasn’t able to and am including the full text following the link in the event the link goes t~~~ up in the future … thank you, DarkhorseMarine! In addition to this course in pussy management, I highly recommend the audio files you can find of Tom’s on YouTube as well if you have the time. As a MGTOW level 3 I don’t need the rules but if I go back to 2 then you can bet I will be using them …
Leykis 101 Rules
Leykis 101 is a doctrine developed and promulgated by US radio personality Tom Leykis designed to teach male listeners how to achieve the most sex within the least amount of time, effort and money. Followers are called “Leykis 101 Students”, and Leykis is “The Professor.” Though only men are true Leykis “students,” women are encouraged to listen to learn how men behave and think. Leykis’ 101 class is currently held on The Tom Leykis Show on Thursdays.
$40.00 Spending Limits
Leykis 101 students are cautioned against spending more than $40 on a date. The reasoning behind this is Leykis’ opinion that more money spent during a date will not necessarily lead to a better chance of sex, contrary to the belief of most ‘uninformed’ men. If the person a student is dating does not want sex by the third date, a Leykis 101 student is instructed to “dump that bitch”. Leykis asserts, as a matter of convenience to his students, that if a woman doesn’t have sex with them by their third date, it means she has no intention of ever doing so.
If you have to go on several dates before reaching your goal, this can make girls very expensive. How do you do this? There’s several ways to cut costs. If you are going out to dinner, eat first. Then at dinner, just order a salad or bowl of soup. What girl is going to eat more than the guy, especially if it’s the first dates? Does she want to look like a little piggy in front of him?
3 Dates Rule
This one can be the hardest to follow, but abide by it. Girls know within the first 5 minutes how far they will go with you, and will probably do so at the earliest possible time. If you’ve been crossed off the “I’ll sleep with him” list, it’s very very difficult, and time consuming to get back on it.
Your time is better spent chasing new prospects. If you’re on the list, you can still screw it up by being a jackass. If nothing’s happened in 3 dates, it’s time to move on. The chances of you sleeping with her by now is very low. The only time you should see her again is if there is guaranteed sex. Continuing to pursue her will just cost you more money and waste more of your time.
No Means No
Regardless of the situation, when a woman says NO, stop whatever you are doing or about to do and get out. Even if you are in the middle hot steamy sex and she says No, you stop what you’re doing and get out.
* No does not mean she is playing.
* No does not mean just this one time.
* No does not mean she consents to sex.U.S. laws mostly favor woman and will very rarely will it protect a man’s right. Men do not have the same luxury as innocent until proven guilty. Men are tried, labeled, and accused with little discretion.
If a woman cries out rape you will not past GO, you will not collect $200.00, but you will go directly to jail. It is not worth spending the next 10 years in jail and living the rest of your life as a sex offender.
Single Mothers
Never Date Single Mothers.
Why? You already know their stance on abortion: they won’t have one. Don’t risk paying vaginamony or child support. Her kids will always be #1 in her life, and do you really want to take second-place to a woman? I didn’t think so. Why support another man’s mistake? How do you know she’s not looking for a support figure? Or someone to support her financially? Think of all that, and realize that the odds are stacked against you. She’s already had one mistake. She won’t go for the Hail Mary (more on that below). The last guy didn’t stick around. Why should you?
This isn’t to say that some of them aren’t very nice, have been screwed over by ex-husbands, or would be very great mates. But if you’re just looking to get laid, they are a definite off-limits. More than likely, you’re hooking up with a girl who wants another try at something she messed up the first time. With the hostility of today’s legal system towards men, you just don’t want to take the chance.
Leykis insists that some men have been ordered by the courts to pay child support to their former wives, even though they were not the biological father of her children. This, he asserts, financially ruins the men for many years making them unable to start a new life with another woman or enjoy the money they make.
Tabasco Sauce
Dispose of the used condom by flushing it down the toilet. Since this is not always possible, men are encouraged to carry some hot sauce to pour inside the used condom. According to Tom Leykis, there are several cases where women have attempted to impregnate themselves with the contents of used condoms, in an effort to extract child support payments from the man. Leykis advises men who use the ‘hot sauce method’ to “get out as soon as they hear a scream”, probably indicating that the woman has tried ‘injecting’ the contents of the condom into herself. Leykis says, “if you’re the risky type, stick around and sue her for attempted extortion.”
Habanero and Tabasco are two widely used. Put some inside the used condom and kill the sperm.
In an attempt to get pregnant, there have been several reported cases where women take the used condom, insert the sperm into themselves, and try to get pregnant. Without your consent of course.
TAG!! You’re It. For the next 18 Years
Why? Child support and she’s set with your money. Especially if you are rich. Do not just leave it lying around. If you use the hot sauce method, and you hear her scream, take your stuff and RUN. If you’re the risky type, stick around and sue her for attempted extortion. Her area is very sensitive to chemicals and she will think twice before trying that again.
Dating Co-workers
Dipping your friend in the company ink is a strict no-no.
In fact, you should not engage in any conversation with a woman at work unless it directly relates to work. Do not compliment them. Do not ask them out to dinner. Your conversation outside of work should be limited to Good (Morning / Afternoon / Evening). If you go beyond this, you’re a lawsuit waiting to happen. If you do date a coworker and you break up, things can get tense around the office (especially if it was a nasty breakup). She can sabotage your career or, worse, file lawsuits claiming sexual harassment. At the minimum, you will have to see her every day, and maybe collaborate with her frequently. It’s just not worth it. With all the background checks employers perform, if a sexual harassment lawsuit pops up you can say good buy to that job.
The courts are very hostile towards men in this regard as well, so just play it safe. If women want to be engaged in normal conversation, they can lobby the courts to be more lenient first. We’re not going to risk our future to try to get a date with someone who, for all we know, is waiting for a guy to say “nice skirt” so she can claim sexual harassment and settle for a large sum of money.
Report all sexual harassments! If do not report it then it means that it is acceptable for a women to sexually harass men and get away with it.
Facts About Sexual Harassment
The U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission
Sexual harassment is a form of sex discrimination that violates Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964.
Unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature constitutes sexual harassment when submission to or rejection of this conduct explicitly or implicitly affects an individual’s employment, unreasonably interferes with an individual’s work performance or creates an intimidating, hostile or offensive work environment.
Sexual harassment can occur in a variety of circumstances, including but not limited to the following:
* The victim as well as the harasser may be a woman or a man. The victim does not have to be of the opposite sex.
* The harasser can be the victim’s supervisor, an agent of the employer, a supervisor in another area, a co-worker, or a non-employee.
* The victim does not have to be the person harassed but could be anyone affected by the offensive conduct.
* Unlawful sexual harassment may occur without economic injury to or discharge of the victim.
* The harasser’s conduct must be unwelcome.It is helpful for the victim to directly inform the harasser that the conduct is unwelcome and must stop. The victim should use any employer complaint mechanism or grievance system available.
When investigating allegations of sexual harassment, EEOC looks at the whole record: the circumstances, such as the nature of the sexual advances, and the context in which the alleged incidents occurred. A determination on the allegations is made from the facts on a case-by-case basis.
Prevention is the best tool to eliminate sexual harassment in the workplace. Employers are encouraged to take steps necessary to prevent sexual harassment from occurring. They should clearly communicate to employees that sexual harassment will not be tolerated. They can do so by establishing an effective complaint or grievance process and taking immediate and appropriate action when an employee complains.
Approaching Women in Groups
Girls travel in packs when they’re not looking to hook up. It lets the not-so-hot girls get as much attention as the real babes in the group. It’s almost impossible to get one alone, much less take one home. Most likely, if you approach a girl in a pack, one will act as a “blocker,” stalling you from your real girl. Chances are, when women are in a group, that someone is sober enough to tell her know, and insist that she go home with them. Just don’t pay them any attention. Don’t buy them drinks. Take a number, maybe, but don’t pursue them.
Sex to Go
No spooning. No cuddling. No staying over. In and Out. This might be hard, might be easy, but if you do these things you’re sending her a very clear message: you’re not interested in a serious relationship. A serious relationship is the only time these kind of actions are appropriate.
Serious Relationships
The general rule is, don’t have a serious long-term relationship until you’re 25. If you’re in a committed relationship, it says you’re ready to settle down.
Get everything out of your system first
The three-ways, the one-night-stands, the fetish girls, the fantasies. Wait until you’re in the 30’s before you marry. You should have a well-established career by then, you’ll be better prepared to afford a wife and kids. Hopefully within a steady well balanced home environment. Remember, once kids are involved there is no such thing as separation. She will always have some input into your life.
Even if you leave she can make you pay child support. Make sure you are ready to have kids and make sure both of you agree on it.
If you’re under 25, you should not have a girlfriend
You should be having fun and sleeping with as many people as possible. Some men do mature at different rates. If you’re ready for marriage or kids, go for it. Just remember that over 50% of marriages fail. You had better be damn sure of it, or you will be paying for it the rest of your life. Marriages where both parties are older than 25 have a much, much higher success rate.
Children raised in solid households are much less likely to be social delinquents.
Weekend Dates
Do you want to look like a loser who has nothing better to do on weekends than wait for her to call? You should not answer calls from potential booty calls Thursday-Sunday, unless it is guaranteed poon.
* You have to make the girl believe that she has competition.
* That your time is valuable.
* That you have better things to do on weekends than spend time with her.
* You are a person in demand, even though you may be at home watching T.V.She’ll may be thinking: Are you with another girl? Are you in the bars? Attending important meeting? Keep her guessing. It will intrigue her.
Humans generally want what they can’t have. If you make her believe she can’t have you, she’ll be that much easier to bag when you “let her in.” Even if you have nothing to do, let her leave a voice mail. You’re busy (banging other chicks, for all she knows).
If you do call never leave a voicemail
If you do break this rule then One is the limit. she’ll be wondering what you wanted and if you made other plans.
Remember, you’re a person that is always in demand!
Cell Phone Dates
If a girl answers a cell-phone call in the middle of dinner, get up and leave.
Why? The person on the other end is the guy she’s going to have sex with when she finally gets rid of you. If she says it’s her kids, you’re already violating the no “Single Mothers” rule. Her work? It’s a date and it’s late, if her work is more important then you, then it will always be more important. If she says its her friends, all her friends know she’s out. That’s just how women work. She can just turn the phone off and wait to gossip until the date is over.
You on the other hand, should carry a cell phone. Avoid answering it during dinner, by have your buddies make a call or two. Ignoring her for “work” makes you look important and in control. She will try to test you and get your attention on her. Sex might be used to get your attention.
If a female answers a cell-phone call in the middle of dinner, Leykis advises that the male should immediately get up and leave. He justifies this as follows:
* It is possible that the caller is another man who she is going to have sex with when she finishes her date.
* If the caller is one of her children, the man is already violating Leykis’ ‘no-single-mothers’ rule.
* If the call is work related, and is deemed more important than the man now, it will always be more important.
* If the caller is a friend, Leykis claims, the woman is “most certainly lying because all her friends know she’s out.”Leykis 101 Students believe that if a woman deems her male date unimportant enough that she feels comfortable answering her cell phone during the date, she is not sufficiently interested in having sex with the man. This really applies to two people that don’t know each other or have never had sex with each other before.
Leave the resturant and the bill with her immediately, Tom advises that this would save the man a good deal of money. In contrast, he believes the man should always carry a cell phone on dates.
Leykis’ logic follows that a man ignoring a woman for a work related call will actually make him look more “important and in control”, thereby drastically reducing the “waiting period” women observe before having sex with men they’re dating. Leykis claims that a woman will try to test a man, trying to focus his attention on her and, he believes, there’s a good chance that sex might be part of the attention-getting hunt.
Women in Bars
A wingman can be helpful to break up a pair of girls or get them at your table, but going alone can be just fine. If you’re desperate, just leave. Girls can smell despiration a mile away. That has a small stink of desperation, and if the girls in the bar see you get rejected once, you’re pretty much shot for the night.
Sit at the bar or at a small private table. You have your money on the table (it’s the closest item men have to attract “horny women”). Dress nice, in darker clothing (to appear dark, mysterious, etc.) Have a drink or two, and just watch the action. Scan the room. See who you want to have sex with. Sooner or later, girls are going to approach you. Wonder if you’re waiting on someone. Or if you’re just lonely.
By not approaching, you’re not buying girls drinks that you have no chance with. Girls who approach you will likely sleep with you because you’ve already made the list of people they will sleep with. Now you just have to close the deal.
Homely Pickings
Normally only the fugally women remain late into the evening before the club or bar closes. The hot women have already found the men the will be doing while the fugally one’s get left behind. If you don’t care who you have sex with then this is the best time to find a desperate girl. Buy know you should be to drunk to care and horny enough to have sex with with Miss Rosy Palms.
Save yourself some money, goto a club before it closes, and pickup those women no one else would touch
Birth Control – Always use birth control no matter what
You should be using birth control AND so should she. The pill is NOT the only form. There’s about 12 different forms of birth control , they can’t be allergic to all of them. If a girl is not on birth control, she wants to have a baby. Maybe not right away, maybe not with you, but if it happens she won’t be too upset.
Do not, under any circumstances, stick it in without a condom. Even if she says she’s on the pill. You don’t know if she’s tell the truth, or missed a dose, or simply forgot. You just don’t know. Don’t take her word for it and protect yourself.
Remember, 60 minutes of irritation is better much better then 18 years of child support.
Over the Counter Birth Control
1. Latex & Non Latex Condoms for Men
2. Female Condom
3. Spermicide AlonePrescription Birth Control
1. Diaphragm
2. Cervical Cap
3. Birth Control Pills
4. The Mini-Pill
5. Depo-Provera
6. The Patch (Ortho Evra)
7. Norplant
8. Progestasert IUD (Intrauterine Device)
9. Male Sterilization (Vasectomy)
10. Female Sterilization
11. Contraceptive Sponge
12. The Hormonal Vaginal Contraceptive Ring (NuvaRing)
13. Emergency Contraception
1. Copper T IUD (Intrauterine Device
References:* http://www.fda.gov/opacom/lowlit/brthcon.html /> * http://www.4woman.gov/faq/birthcont.htm#two />
No Gifts
Unless she’s your wife never buy her a gift.
If you get them a gift once, they will try to get more expensive gifts later. If you HAVE to buy a gift for a girl, getting jewelry is probably the worst idea. Girls take jewelry as a sign of commitment. Getting her jewelry will either scare her off because of commitment, or drive her more into commitment, which you don’t want unless you plan on marrying her.
You should not get her anything unless you have had sex with her. Remember, you’re trying to get laid not develop a relationship.
Beverage Consumption
If using alcohol is your method of entry, then never buy a women beer or a light liquor. Not only will she not get the buzz your looking for but she will be taking a p~~~ all night long. Leykis 101 students buy their women harder liquor such as Jagermeister, tequila shots, long islands, etc.
Never take advantage of someone that is unable to consent to sex. You don’t want to spend the next 10 years in jail and labeled as a sex offender for the rest of your life. 60 Minutes of pleasure is not worth destroying the next 60 years.
Women and Alcohol
Are Women More Vulnerable to Alcohol’s Effects?
“Women appear to be more vulnerable than men to many adverse consequences of alcohol use. Women achieve higher concentrations of alcohol in the blood and become more impaired than men after drinking equivalent amounts of alcohol. Research also suggests that women are more susceptible than men to alcohol-related organ damage and to trauma resulting from traffic crashes and interpersonal violence. This Alcohol Alert examines gender differences in alcohol’s effects and considers some factors that may place women at risk for alcohol-related problems.”
Metabolism
“Women absorb and metabolize alcohol differently than men. In general, women have less body water than men of similar body weight, so that women achieve higher concentrations of alcohol in the blood after drinking equivalent amounts of alcohol (5,6). In addition, women appear to eliminate alcohol from the blood faster than men. This finding may be explained by women’s higher liver volume per unit lean body mass (7,8), because alcohol is metabolized almost entirely in the liver (9).”
National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism No. 46 December 1999
Types of Dates
No Coffee, breakfast, or lunch dates.
Why?
They’re non-threatening. There’s no booze. There’s good lighting. All the advantages a bar or club are gone. Girls say, “well they’re no-pressure situations,” or “I don’t feel like anything is expected of me afterwards.” In translation: “I don’t feel like I need to, or should, have sex with him afterwards.”
This is bad! It might sound “mean,” but you want them to feel pressure. You want their inhibitions a little lower. You want them to feel like something is expected of them. Your chances for getting laid increase dramatically. Nobody ever got laid after a coffee-shop date. There’s no point in going. Just say no.
Jerks and A$$holes
We are a$$holes and jerks.
That’s right. If you follow these rules, you’ll probably be called a jerk or an a$$hole. <b>Wear it with pride. “Nice Guys” don’t get laid.</b>
Ever notice how all the hot girls keep complaining about guys they hooked up with who turned out to be an assholes? You could be that guy! The guy who has his way with her one night, then leaves the next day and is never heard from again. Or maybe hooks up with her for a few weeks, then she finds out he has another girl on the side.
A monogamous relationship is not what you’re looking for.
Master Filibuster
Take her home and do not stop for food.
She’s just been drinking all night, you both are horny, and you’re quickly trying to go to her house to hopefully get laid. You want to minimize the distance from drinking to sex. If she asks you to stop at a fast-food restaurant, or diner, she’s stalling (filibustering). She knows she’s a little buzzed and is trying to buy some time to sober up. Sober up so she won’t be as horney and try to avoid sleeping with you. If you don’t want this to happen then then don’t take her out to eat.
Avoiding it is relatively easy AND sets you up for a quick exit later. If she asks, say that you have to work early the next day, you’ll drop her off, and and leave. If she can’t get another ride home, she’ll drop the idea. If she can, she’ll probably be having sex with the booty call/ride after you leave anyway. If you get back to her place and get it on, you then have an excuse to get out fast.
Eating Before Dates
The idea goes back to our Spending Limits rule. Eat a hearty meal before you go out on a date with her. That way, when you take her out to dinner, just order a green salad, and save money. No woman wants to eat more than you or else she’ll look like a pig.
Marriage Contract
It should go without saying to get a Prenuptial Agreement.
Today, marriage is like a merging of two corporations. If you get married, you each take on half of each other’s assets. That is, unless you sign a prenuptial agreement. Even that isn’t guaranteed.
* If you have her sign it very close to the wedding, the agreement can be contested in court as having been signed “under duress.”
* If you have a date already set then sign the prenuptial, it can be thrown out for forcing the woman sign under duress. Make sure to have the prenuptial agreement signed before setting a date.
* You should keep separate accounts. Buy your toys with your money. She won’t get half of them if you can prove you alone funded them the gifts.
* Keep a shared account for bills and everything else, but a private account for toys.
* Make sure both of you have your own lawyers. That we she can’t claim you and your lawyer coerced her into signing the document.
* When it comes to signing the paperwork, have it recorded, and for a little extra hire a retired judge to witness the event. That will play in your favor in case she claims during the divorce she was pressured into signing the agreement.
* Be very detailed and address all issues regarding kids, sex, her weight, how much she gets after certain years, palimony, cheating spouses, kids, the dog, businesses, stock, 401K, etc..
* You do not want the government screw you over for forgetting something.
* Read several books about divorce agreements so you have a good idea going.
* Pay the extra money for a reputable lawyer it will save you tons of money in the long run.She may argue that getting a prenuptial is setting the marriage up for failure. Don’t be fooled because this is not the case. No more is getting car insurance is setting one’s self up to get a car car accident.
You are creating the prenuptial so that BOTH of you can be protected in case one passes away or there is a divorce. You both want to do what is good for the family! By no means is this a selfish act. You want to make sure that the government take control of something you both have struggled hard to build. If she doesn’t want a prenuptial then she is the one that is trying to hurt the family.
Taking the time and energy to create a prenuptial shows that you care about the other person and have made a conscious effort to think about protecting the family.
The great thing about perpetual is that it give you and your wife the opportunity to set expectation before the marriage. So you both establish expectations and know where the other stands before making a large commitment.
I am not a lawyer and the above items are just some points i’ve heard on The Great Tom Leykis Show.
You Choose the DateYou’re paying for the date then you choose where to have it. You can decide what to do, where to go, and how long to do it for. If the woman pays for everything, great, you can do what she wants. The person who’s paying is the person who decides.
Otherwise, you might get stuck going to a ballet or musical when you’d rather see a movie and booze it up. Worse, she will pick the most expensive restaurant or activity possible to see if you will pony up. Having a firm plan shows that you’re in control.
Income and Women
Your income generally determines the type of woman you will get.
It’s not often that you see a really rich guy with a really ugly girl on his arm. But you quite often see really amazing girls on the arm of homely but rich guys. Look at rock stars — some of the ugliest guys on earth, but they get laid more than you can ever hope to. Money and power will attract women just as much as a 12″ penis. Work hard on your career. Strive high. Don’t settle. Stay hungry. Girls upgrade all the time to a richer man and guys do it to with hotter and younger girls.
Facts of Life
* Leykis claims that the more money a man makes, the more attractive he is to females.
* Leykis claims that “young and hot girls” are a natural substitute for Viagra and Cialis.
* Leykis also claims that until a student’s career is established, he should not have girlfriends. He often quotes empirical evidence as justification for not getting married.Male Friends
Unless they are gay, male friends want to have sex with their female friends.
If the guy didn’t find the girl attractive in the first place, he probably wouldn’t have spent time with her in the second place. He just couldn’t close the deal. Even worst he became her friend. If they both get drunk together and she offers sex, he will take her up on it. Be very wary of girls that spend too much time with their guy friends.
If she disagrees with the above, have her call and flirt with one of her guy friends and ask him if he would come over and pound her tonight. Most likely she will be ringing the doorbell before she hangs up.
No Sex At Your House
Never bring a woman back to your place.
Do you really want her to know where you live after you’ve dumped her and moved on to the next one? Do you want her dropping over uninvited on weekend and nights to “see if you’re around?” No!
Have sex at her house or a hotel.
No Compliments
Never compliment a women.
It gives them a sense of power. You want to be in control. You don’t want to let them think they can manipulate you. It raises her self-esteem and will probably lessen your chance of getting laid.
Remember, we are jerks and assholes that don’t give a s~~~.
Easily Replaceable
Your goal is to make a girl feel like she doesn’t matter and that she is easily replaceable. Make sure that she knows this. On nights she doesn’t put out then leave and call the next person on your booty call list.
Even if you don’t have a list, do not admit, and continue to leave. This will up her competitive spirit to have you stay around longer. In the spirit of competition, always check out girls that are hotter and younger than the girl you are with. If she calls you on it, admit it. She will feel threatened and it might give her more incentive to sleep with you or give you the best sex you’ve ever had. Remember, you’re in charge not her.
Holidays
There are several important events that girls really want a guy around for. Christmas Eve and Day, New Year’s Eve and Day, Valentine’s Day, Thanksgiving Day, birthdays, etc. If you’ve been with a booty call for a while when one of these is comes up, then dump her.
You’ll save yourself the money that would have been spent buying her a present, and there’s a lot of lonely chicks out there who want to be with somebody–anybody. Women want to feel feel validated on the holidays, so they go out on a hunt to find the sucker to buy her presents. Your appeal will be much higher as a man during these times. Sticking around with a girl during these times plants long-term thoughts in her head. You don’t want that for a booty call.
Change is Not Inevitable
Some women have this idea that men are there to be molded and changed to suit their needs. This becomes more prevalent after a man’s married.
When you watch “the game.” She can be welcome to support your activities but if she insists you stop, you insist she leaves. Women love what they consider a “fixer-uppers.” That’s why shows like Trading Spaces and Queer Eye for the Straight Guy exist. Girls think they can take a guy that makes good money and is pretty good looking, and turn him into their fantasy man. Don’t let them do it. Your friends and habits were there before she was. She took you as you are. If she’s not happy with it, she’s the one that changed and she needs to deal with it.
Ladies
“Men don’t get hints”. Nagging doesn’t help. In fact, if you nag, it’s more likely to make us doing what you hate, just to spite you. You took the good with the bad, if you don’t like what they were doing before you got together then you should have left.
Prepare your Identity
Be the Doctor, Lawyer, Successful Business Man, Band Leader, or Millionaire these gold digging women are looking for. Play their game and come out ahead.
How is she going to know you’re not really a doctor at 11:30pm after a couple Long Island Ice Teas? If you drive a Old Camery, say your car is in the shop and rent a better car like (Porsche work well) for a night out. If you’re truly desperate, write your phone number on an ATM receipt that shows a very large bank balance (how will she know it’s not yours?)
You must never tell a girl exactly how much you make. It gets them thinking about what you can afford to woo them with. Worse, it can get them thinking about how to spend your money. Show them that you have lots of money, let them think they can get their hands on it, but never let them have it. Go as cheap as possible. The rich didn’t get rich by spending money. Stick with the $40.00 dollar rule.
Remember, when you are pretending to be someone else to have proof:
* Friends to vouch for you.
* Fake business cards.
* Fake home address in a rich area.
* Rented expensive cars.
* Nice suits, pants, and shirts.
* $100’s on the outside and $1’s on the inside.
* An attitude that you’re better then her.
* Fake expensive watches and rings.Power Before Kids and Marriage
Men have the upper hand before marriage and kids. They are not shackled by the government, kids, or a wife telling them what they can and cannot do.
While women are trying to trap men into marriage the government is forcing men to pay child support for children that are not theirs.
Paternity Test
Always get a paternity test no matter how sure you are that it is your child. You do not want to be paying 18 years for some one elses bastard child.Even if she says that she does not want your help raising the child get a lawyer and make sure you get a paternity test. Because in many states she can claim you are the father after a year and the government will force you to pay child support.
Topic: Don't try to plug back in.
Greetings,
I’ve been watching all this stuff for some time, I am 21 -soon-to-be-22, and have been following Barbarossa and Stardusk’s video’s since I was 18.
5 years roughly.
My story is long and quite frankly very painful, so I won’t be telling all of it now, maybe later, but for now just some of it so that you can understand my background when I try to explain some things I learned and that I would warn any man of when dealing with women, especially things I would say to anyone who is sitting on the fence and who knows what Barbarossa and others have been saying is probably true but just doesn’t want to believe it.
I know what that’s like. I’ve been there.
My parents separated when I was 17, then got divorced about a year after that. What happened was we lost our house after the 2008 crash. We moved to live with relatives who offered to buy my parents a house.
My mom went ape s~~~ after the move, and she actually turned down the house my grandmother offered our family. shortly after she got a job she got involved with another man, the separation was bad. The police were called, my dad ended up in jail because he told my mom he wanted her to leave the apartment we were staying in (it was owned by my grandmother, and my mom’s name wasn’t on the lease or anything – hell, I don’t even think there was a lease).
fast forward a bit, my mother and I are living in an apartment that she rented. The move and separation destroyed my life, everything I had or cared about was back before the move, and now I was in a small town in what most people would call “bum-f~~~ egypt” with no car or friends, and no real way to get a job, small towns are s~~~ty that way.
and I was living with a mother who resented my existence, and literally told me she wanted me gone (and threatened to kick me out on the street) so that she could move her boyfriend (the man she replaced my father with) in with her. she liked to remind me she wouldn’t tolerate any behavior that reminded her of my father.
…
But I kept going, I tried finding a job, when that didn’t work (hard to find a job without a car), I got into community college and walked to it everyday. Turned out I was smart enough to get A’s with relatively little effort, and Uncle Sam can be generous sometimes with grants.
Eventually my mom’s boyfriend cheated on her and stole a bunch of money from her. all of the sudden I got treated better, upgraded from “unwanted thing” to “pet”. Eventually got a truck, and job. When I realized the s~~~ty job would never go anywhere I went to my grandmother and begged her to send me to university, and she said yes. I am, out of 8 grandchildren, the only one she has ever done anything like that for, perhaps it was pity, or luck, or some resemblance to my grandfather that made my grandmother decide to do that, I don’t really know.
All I knew was that I had crawled from the abyss, I even managed to afford the dorms somehow and get away from my mother. I hated living with her, and university managed to get me away, not far, but far enough. My mother was hardly the only woman that’s been abusive to me, or even the MOST abusive woman (but those are stories for another time), however when it comes from your own mother it is more damaging.
During the time that all these events unfolded, I found ManWomanMyth, then Barbarossa when he was just getting started, and eventually Stardusk.
I needed answers, I needed an explanation, and they had one; Or, at least, were getting close to one.
I checked daily for new Barbarossa videos, I would listen to them over and over…
When I got into university life got better, but I was going to a school where the male to female ratio was literally 5:1.
My god, if you ever want to see hypergamy in its most twisted and f~~~ed up form go to a engineering school. That said, if there was ever a place to avoid women and ghost, that would have been it.
The problem was, I needed to see for myself, I couldn’t just take Barbarossa, and the rest of the manosphere’s word for it. I needed to see for myself, if it really was like that.
Years and years of reading books, watching movies and listening to love songs ALL of which tell you that love and romance is this great wonderful thing leaves a mark in your mind, it is a very pretty lie that is difficult to give up.
So I had to see for myself, this eventually ended up with me joining (don’t laugh) a dance club at the school. I already knew a lot of people in it, so it was easy to rationalize it, but also, I wanted to spend time with women and see how they really were, to learn for myself rather than just take someone else’s word for it.
I also found (don’t laugh) that I liked dancing, and to be sure, there are few experiences that compare to dancing (well) with a beautiful woman.
Most men are only ever exposed to a very abrasive form of sexuality, but in dancing you find something much more subtle and pleasant: sensuality.
And I got to see what I was looking for: for the most part, even though I enjoyed it, and for sometime managed to keep out of trouble; I saw female nature on full display. But even then I didn’t want to accept it, and it wasn’t until a girl finally managed to get her claws into my heart strings that the true horror of what women are really managed to sink in.
That said, this is getting really long, and the rest of the story is very painful for me. I have spent several months trying to forget it, so I will tell it some other time I think.
but I do wish to share some things I’ve learned, practical advice for fence sitters and anyone else:
1. Never ever play “friends” with a woman.
At least, if you are attracted to her, if you are, she will know and will taunt you. Women do not respect their male friends, and if you get attached (which she will not, make no mistake) then you are in deep s~~~.
2. Never be kind when you reject a woman
Within reason, last thing you want is a bunch of white knights jumping you because you “made a girl cry”. I say this because she will not appreciate your kindness, and she will try to cause trouble for you regardless, so I would recommend putting fear into her so she knows if she f~~~s with you, there will be some social repercussion for her. Of course, this may not always be viable, so often the best thing to do is remove them from your life completely. Don’t hesitate to do so, because no good deed goes unpunished, and she will find a way to do so.
and of course, we all know women are never kind when they reject men. So why pay them that courtesy?
3. Never trust a mangina, white knight, or metrosexual man (mangina on steroids).
These guys will hate you if you have any success with women. They will hate you if you are a “threat” to their place in the female power structure, and they will hate you if you have ideas that differ even slightly from the blue pill norm. And they will backstab you the moment they can get away with it. Never call one of these “friend” because they can, and WILL throw you under the bus given a chance (ESPECIALLY WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN).
4. NEVER. EVER. BUY INTO NAWALT.
Been there, done that. DON’T F~~~ING DO IT. NAWALT gets discussed a lot, and for good reason. The reason it is so damaging to YOU
and every other man in the world, is because A) it’s not true (Who knows, maybe there IS a unicorn somewhere, who cares?) and B) Many women can appear NAWALT, but make no mistake, these are the most dangerous women of all. The sluts are easy to deal with, because you can see their moves and dodge their attacks most of the time, but NAWALT women are good at getting in close, stabbing you where you are weak, and twisting the knife.
5. If you do ignore NO.1 or just in general are spending time with a woman, always push for sex. Never put up with a relations~~~ with a woman if you are not getting sex or possibly loads of money (and that second thing will probably never happen).
To be clear, if you are having these nice tender moments with women and thinking that “this is nice, I don’t even care if I’m getting laid or not, just spending time with her is wonderful and makes my day” yeah all that is WORTHLESS, you will realize this the moment she throws you away, and you spend the next 3 months as a nervous wreck while she is f~~~ing some other guy, (oh, and she will forget about you in like… less than a day).
REMEMBER: Briffualts law is ALWAYS in effect, and she will ALWAYS be getting more out of the relationship then you are, so make sure your getting something.
And by “something” I mean sex, because women have nothing else to offer, as previously mentioned, any sort of emotional bonding or happy memories you think your creating, are absolutely WORTHLESS because she can forget about you and move onto the next guy without batting an eyelash.
Anyway, thats enough for now, I obviously have more to say, but real life must be attended to.
Cheers, and NEVER take the blue pill, if you are a young guy like me, do yourself a favor and just LISTEN TO BARBAROSSA AND THE OTHER MGTOW. You will save yourself a lot of grief if you can.
Topic: You Are God
Section One: Introduction
Have you spent your whole life looking for God? You have finally found him, he is you. You are God, and I will prove it to you. When I say you are God, I mean it literally. I am not being metaphorical or saying that God is some type of universal consciousness. You are him, you are the sole creator of the universe. There aren’t multiple, independent consciousnesses; there is only one consciousness… you.
Are you a Christian? The being you believe in, who created everything in six days; the being who you believe exists outside of space and time and is observing humanity from afar, is you. You do not exist outside of space and time. You are not observing humanity from afar. You are directly experiencing your own creation right now. Are you a Muslim? Allah, whom you pray to five times a day, is you. Are you a radical muslim? You are killing people all in the name of Allah. Stop trying to absolve yourself of any responsibility. You are Allah. There is no being higher than you. Are you an atheist? The very being that you believe doesn’t exist, is actually you.
Let’s first define God. God is the most powerful being in all of existence. God can create anything out of thin air. He can create objects at will. He can create a single atom, a glass marble, a smart phone, an automobile, a 100 story building, a mountain, a continent, a planet, a sun, a galaxy, the whole universe… instantly. He can also create life instantly; from the smallest single-celled amoeba, to a humanoid biped capable of forming civilizations and manufacturing technology, to a 100 foot long whale, to a 400 foot tall redwood tree. You are God, and you are creating these things everyday. When you are working in your building and you turn a corner and bump into someone, you have created that person out of thin air.
Below is an image of a brain cell and a theoretical image of the universe made from a computer program (image shown without permission).
They are structurally very similar. If we had the technology to map the whole universe and then mapped the neural network of your brain, they would match EXACTLY. You encompass all of existence. Go outside and take a walk. What do you see? The sky, houses, trees, grass, birds, other people. You are the sky, you are that house, you are that bird, you are that other person. Everything you see is you. When it is winter time and you feel cold, you are not actually feeling cold… you are the cold. Your grandparents that died of old age, you are the one that killed them. Remember the World Trade Center terrorist attack? You are the one that did it.
Section Two: Life Is Just An Illusion
I’m sure you’ve heard the saying that life is just an illusion. Life is an illusion, but that saying is somewhat misleading. To frame everything properly, the next question you want to ask is, “What kind of an illusion is it?” You can take a ball, hold it in your hand, throw it in the air and catch it. It doesn’t feel like an illusion, it sure feels real enough. If you receive an injury or cut, you feel pain and you bleed. It certainly doesn’t feel like an illusion. Many physicists are coming to the conclusion that reality is like a computer simulation. Let’s take the computer game Skyrim as an example. In Skyrim you control an avatar that represents you. At one moment in time, your avatar is looking at a castle. Then you rotate your avatar and now your avatar is looking at some mountains. That castle no longer exists within the game. Reality is the same way, nothing actually exists unless you observe it. Do you live in America? China does not physically exist at this moment. If you take a plane and fly to China, of course it will exist because you will manifest it. Look at your parents, they are standing right in front of you. Now look away from them… they no longer exist. Skyrim is a single player game, there is only you and the artificial intelligence of the program itself. Now suppose you play World of Warcraft, this is a multi-player game with other self-aware, conscious human beings. This is the illusion… it’s still actually a single-player game with just more sophisticated artificial intelligence that you yourself have imbued upon it. When you interact with characters in Skyrim, some of them have complex histories. They were born, they grew up, they faced adversity. Did any of that actually happen or take place? No. Reality is the same way. When you meet someone new, you might ask about their childhood or where they grew up and they will tell you stories. But none of it actually happened.
Let’s say you hear a song on the radio for the first time and you really like it. You say to yourself, wow, I need to find out who the singer is. How long did it take to write the song? How long did it take for them to practice before they got it just right? None of that happened. The song popped into existence at that moment, and you are the one that wrote it. Listening to a song for the first time is no different from bumping into someone and having an impromptu conversation with them. You know what this means right? Every bad song you hate, you wrote those as well. Movies are the same way, they form and manifest as you are watching them. Watching a movie for the first time is no different from going outside, taking a walk, and seeing different people. If you watch a trailer or read reviews that have spoilers, your consciousness will find a way to fit them in as you are watching the movie so that there will be logical consistency. Is there a particular movie that you like? Do you like to watch the bonus, supplemental material on how the movie was made? None of it happened. You will retro-actively create the past so that the present will have logical consistency.
Section Three: Before You Created The Universe
When you close your eyes, what do you see? You see nothing. This is the void. This is reality. This is what you truly are. You are nothing but pure thought, this is what consciousness is. A brain is not required for consciousness. You are a self-aware being. You know everything, you can create anything. You are all powerful. But being all powerful has a price… you are alone. There is no one to talk to, no one to share things with. You are the loneliest being in all of existence because you are the only being in existence. Out of great sadness; you decided to erase your memory of being all powerful and alone. And you created the universe and you made yourself born into it, you are trying to escape from what you are. But don’t you see? No matter what you do, you can never escape who you are.
Every single person you interact with every day; your father, your mother, sisters, brothers, husbands, wives, friends, enemies, cashiers, teachers, waitresses, lawyers, police men, librarians, workers, etc… none of them are self-aware, none of them are sentient, none of them have free will. They all act and behave based on your expectations. Every person you encounter or meet or see is nothing more than a construct of your thoughts. The parents that raised you, they are not real. You constructed them because that is what you needed at the time. You have imbued every living thing with some sort of artificial intelligence. It’s so convincing that some of the scientists you have manifested are actually trying to invent artificial intelligence. When you are having a conversation with someone, you are quite literally talking to yourself.
Section Four: Free Will
The only person with free will is you. No one else has free will. When you watch the news on television and the reporter covers a story where a woman was raped and murdered, you manifested it. The rape and murder is something you have expressed. Both the murderer and the victim had no choice in the matter, that is how you manifested them. No one truly has free will, only you. Now understand something, the rape and murder of the woman never physically happened. The woman never truly suffered, in fact, she never came into existence. But let’s say some time in the future you actually meet the murderer and you interact with him, you will imbue him with artificial intelligence so that he will act and behave as the murderer. He may recount the details of the rape and murder, and he may say it with relish; but realize that it never truly happened. When you play the game World of Warcraft, your goal is to vanquish all of the evil forces in the land. Are these evil forces actually inherently evil? No, they’re not. It’s just programmed artificial intelligence. The evil forces in World of Warcraft have no choice, that’s how the programmers made them. You are the programmer of reality. The reason people have different opinions is because you are trying to trick yourself into thinking you are not alone. If everyone agreed with you, the illusion would shatter. Therefore you cannot judge anyone, not even serial killers, mass murderers, women, or the powers that be; they are simply what you have manifested.
Section Five: Emotions
No one truly has emotions either, it’s all an act. It’s all part of the artificial intelligence you are imbuing upon your creations. You are the only being who actually feels love, hate, sadness, joy, loneliness, gratitude, shame, fear, courage, etc. You are the only being who can truly love… only you.
Section Six: If You Can’t See It Or Sense It, It Doesn’t Exist
Quantum mechanics is the study of the atom. One of the conclusions about quantum mechanics is that something doesn’t exist unless you observe it. Can you see your brain at this moment? Your brain doesn’t even exist right now. Your lungs, your heart, the blood flowing through your veins does not exist. Your DNA does not exist. All of the studies that make genetic claims that this race is more intelligent than that race are all illusions. Are you a young man? Are you upset that you are a virgin? Are you trying to learn some pick-up game? Are you envious of other men who are supposedly f~~~ing girls left and right? No one has actually had sex, no one. So if you’re a virgin, it shouldn’t bother you because everyone else is also a virgin. Let’s say you are walking down the street and you see a man with his wife and their children; the man and wife never had sex, it’s simply how you are manifesting them. If the wife takes off her clothes in front of you, will you see stretch marks from her pregnancies? Yes you will see them, and it is you who will put them there. Your reality needs to have logical consistency, otherwise you will go insane. The purpose of physical reality is for you to maintain your sanity from being God. Are you envious of people who have wealth and money? Those people don’t actually exist when you are not looking at them, their wealth doesn’t exist. It is an illusion. You will manifest constructs that have more wealth than you and you will manifest constructs that have less wealth than you. Likewise, you will manifest constructs that are more intelligent than you and you will manifest constructs that are less intelligent than you. These constructs do not have a choice.
In the quantum world, particles simply pop into existence out of nothing when they are observed or measured with instruments. The observable macroscopic world, the world you experience everyday, is exactly the same way. Things just pop into existence, but they won’t pop into existence right in front of you out of thin air. They pop into existence with logical consistency. In the building where you work, you might open a door and see a co-worker; when you opened the door and saw them, that is when they popped into existence. Or they will first appear in your peripheral vision, or you will bump into them as you turn a corner. The quantum world and the observable macroscopic world basically operate the same way, with slight modifications.
Another phenomenon of quantum mechanics is entanglement. You take two particles, entangle them, and then separate them. You make them zillions of miles apart from each other. If you change the state of one of the particles, the state of the other particle will change instantly no matter how far apart they are. The mathematical derivation actually shows this. Everything is entangled to varying degrees. Every human being on this planet is entangled to you. At one point in your life, didn’t you think that you had no control over anything that was happening? If you think that you can’t control anything; then you will manifest your reality trying to control you, such as big government imposing more draconian rules and laws. But then you fought back and you began to learn that you do have some control, some power. Slowly, very slowly, more people are waking up, just as you woke up. And humanity is fighting back alongside with you. Your thoughts are shaping the behavior of everyone on this planet.
Quantum mechanics is the closest that science has gotten to spirituality. There have been many philosophical debates about it’s implications. Every single quantum mechanical phenomenon has a similar analogue in the observable macroscopic world. The formal study of quantum mechanics requires three semesters of calculus, differential equations, matrix theory, and operator theory. Matrix theory is a type of math, this is not a reference to the movie. Statistically speaking, it is most likely you have not been exposed to these things. However, there are many good books out there written by scientists, i.e. your constructs, who actually do a good job of explaining the ideas and conclusions of quantum mechanics so that someone who doesn’t know the math can understand them.
Section Seven: The Illusion Of Sleep
Consciousness is always aware of itself; 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. You never actually sleep. You go to bed at night. You instantly wake up and you make your reality day time and you move your clock forward 8 hours, and you refresh and re-invigorate yourself. Time also is an illusion you are creating. You may of course decide to have a dream before you wake up. In this case, time actually does pass.
Section Eight: Getting Sick
When you get sick, it’s because tiny microscopic bacteria or viruses have invaded your body. EL OH EL exclamation mark. You cannot observe or sense the bacteria or viruses. Getting sick is something you are doing to yourself. Stop taking pills, they don’t do anything. They help at first because they act as a placebo. However, you shouldn’t need them after a while. If you have cancer, it means you have lost the will to live.
Section Nine: Heaven Or Hell After Death
There is no Heaven or Hell after you die, there is only nothingness. But you are still conscious and fully aware of the nothingness. To escape the nothingness, you simply choose to be born and start over with a new life. There is no punishment, there is no reward. The reason there is no punishment or reward is because you are God, and you answer to no one but yourself. When you play World of Warcraft, you can engage in player versus player combat. When another player kills your character, does that player get punished? No, he doesn’t get punished. And your character simply starts over. Heaven can exist, you can make your reality heaven. Likewise you can make your reality into hell. Heaven and hell are here, in this reality.
Section Ten: Immortality
Immortality has a price, and that price is realizing you are truly alone. If you can deal with it and accept it, then you have the will for immortality. If you don’t have the will, you will end up making yourself grow old so that you can die and start the illusion all over again… a futile attempt in trying to escape or deny who you are. Remember, you have free will. Your free will is so powerful you can decide when you want to die. You are growing old simply because you are observing everyone else around you growing old, and you’re just playing along with it. Your old cells are constantly dying and being replaced with new cells. Since your body is constantly forming new cells there is no logical reason for you to be growing old. Just keep forming new cells all the time. Your brain is not controlling anything, your brain doesn’t even exist at this moment. When you digest food and you can no longer sense that your stomach is full, all of those nutrients have disappeared from existence. When you form new cells, you think you are forming them with the nutrients you have just eaten. This is not what is happening, those nutrients have disappeared from existence. You are forming the new cells out of nothing. Do you see the illlusion now? You still need to eat though; because like I said, your reality needs to have logical consistency.
Your thoughts shape your reality. If life is an illusion, then that means death is an illusion as well. Before you can achieve immortality, one thing has to happen first. You must love yourself for who you are. If you hate yourself or if you hate any aspect of your life, it will be impossible to make yourself immortal. There can be no desire in your heart to be someone else. Now that’s not to say there can’t be room for improvement. Even you can improve things about yourself. If you hate your reality, you are hating yourself because all of reality is you. An example of this would be if you are a bat-s~~~ crazy christian and you hate all the sinners in this world and you want nothing more than for them to burn in hell, this is hating your reality. Another example is being a radical muslim and chopping everyone’s head off. Are you a white supremist? Do you hate n~~~~~s? If you hate n~~~~~s so much, then why do you keep manifesting them? Are you black? Guess what? No one is actually racist, you are just manifesting it. Are you an asian guy p~~~ed off that you can’t get white girls? Manifest a god damn spine. Are you rich and you hate poor people? Well for f~~~’s sake, give them some of your money. Are you fat? Jesus H. Christ! Go out and get some exercise. If you are fat, you cannot blame it on genetics. You cannot achieve immortality if you hate yourself or your reality. Remember, your reality is actually you.
Most scientists believe the brain controls aging; well if your brain doesn’t exist since you can’t observe it or sense it, then that means YOU are controlling your aging. The brain does not produce consciousness. It’s the other way around, consciousness produces the brain. Make yourself young again by sheer force of will. Find a picture of yourself as a young man and focus and imagine you are that man again. Stop growing old and dying, stop playing games with yourself and accept the ultimate reality.
To make yourself immortal, you simply need to have a different perspective. You are creating everything, even your own body. Your legs, your arms, your fingers; you are creating them. At every moment in time, you are creating them. Your body is nothing more than a reference point for your consciousness. Your body is part of your surroundings, this means “your body and your surroundings” are your surroundings. Take a walk down the street and turn the corner, suddenly a five story building comes into view. You’ve just created that building. How is the building that you’ve just created any different from your body that you have to create all the time? There is no difference. That building is you at that moment in time. Turn around 180 degrees, you don’t see the building anymore. Maybe you see a tree, you are now that tree. What is the only thing that remained the same? Your body. You are using your body as a reference point. If you can create a building or a tree instantly, out of nothing, out of your mind; then why can’t you create your body to be never aging? You are currently trapped in a frame of reference where you think your physical body is a separate entity from your surroundings, when in actuality it is not. Fundamentally, there are only two things in existence, your consciousness and everything else. Your body falls under the “everything else” category.
Maybe you will manifest some of your constructs reading this as well, and so they will become immortal along side with you. Maybe you will manifest everyone on this planet reading this, and all of humanity will become immortal. Even if everyone becomes immortal along side with you, realize they are still constructs.
Section Eleven: Some Mental Exercises To Aid You In Developing A Concept Of Immortality
Go outside on a windy day and do not wear gloves. Put your hand in front of your face. Your hand physically exists AND you feel the sensation of the wind on your hand. Your skin, your fingers, the proteins that make up your skin and fingers; they physically exist. Now put your hands behind your back. Your hands no longer physically exist. What exists now is just the sensation of the wind. The proteins that make up your hand have vanished from reality. Put your hand back in front of your face, you have now just recreated your hand out of nothing.
Here is another exercise. Stand in the middle of the room, put your hands down so you don’t see them. Look at the door; it is made up of wood planks, molecules of paint, metal that holds the bolts and the hinges. This is who you are. Now turn around and look at the window; the glass, the silicon, the frame. You are no longer the door, you are the window. Turn around again, you are back to being the door. Now lift your hand up and look at it. You are now the door and a hand!
Go outside, put your hands down, and look up to the sky. See how blue it is? You are the sky. Lift your hand and put it in front of your face. Now you are the sky and a hand. Your body is NOT a separate entity from your surroundings. Because you have lived most of your life under the illusion that you cannot change your body, it is your body that will be the hardest to change.
This exercise is very good. Do this at night and turn all the lights off. Stand in the middle of the room, and close your eyes. Keep your eyes closed the whole time that you do this exercise. The concrete floor you are standing on does not exist; the silicon, the minerals, the crystal lattice that makes up the concrete, they don’t exist. The walls of the room, they don’t exist. Your body does not exist. None of these things exist because your consciousness does not need to create them if you close your eyes. The only thing that needs to exist are the sensations that you have a body. Move your head back and forth, move your head in a circular motion. Feel the motion. Stick both your arms out, parallel to the floor. Rotate your arms in a circular motion. Feel the sensations you are creating. Now spread your legs, shift your weight to one leg, then to the other leg, go back and forth. Feel the sensation of the motion that you are creating. Remember, you don’t have arms or legs right now. Now open your eyes, turn the lights on, recreate your body, recreate your surroundings, recreate the universe.
Whenever you go for a walk, just close your eyes for brief periods of time as you are walking. Or go to the gym, hop on a treadmill and close your eyes. Don’t think of anything; and just feel the sensations, the sensations you are creating.
Freedom and movement are illusions also. You can walk to a cafe and have a cup of coffee. You can go to a mall and buy things. You can hop into a car and drive to another city. It feels like freedom doesn’t it? But you are pure thought trapped in an endless, black void and you are incapable of movement. When you are projecting the physical universe, you are actually bringing everything to you, you are bringing everything to the location of your consciousness. The motion of your walking is something you are creating to trick yourself. Your consciousness has never left the spot where it has always existed. For this exercise, you want to minimize the swinging of your arms so you won’t see them. Look straight ahead, do not look down at all, and focus on an object that is at your eye level. It can be anything, an advertisement, a stop sign, a painting, anything. Walk towards the object and try to ignore the motion of your arms and legs. You are not actually walking towards the object, your consciousness is simply making the object bigger.
This is another walking exercise. Stand up straight and look down at your body. Your legs look small and stubby. Keep one leg straight but lift it up as if you are stepping forward. The more you lift your leg, the longer it gets. From the viewpoint of your eyes, the size of your leg has increased. Now start walking forward and keep looking down at your body. Your arms and legs become long, then short, then long, then short, etc. At the same time, the ground you are walking on is changing with each step you take. The perception of your body is changing just as much as your perception of the ground.
This last one is very subtle and you may not get it to work the first few times. This does not work if you are in a small confined area such as a room, you want to be outside in a wide open space such as a field or an empty parking lot. Look straight ahead, do not look at your arms or legs. Try to perceive everything you see using no depth perception. Try to perceive everything as being the same distance away from you. For things that are far away, try to perceive them as being right in front of you but being really small. If you do it right, it will be as if you are looking at a huge flat-screen tv.
Section Twelve: You Actually Don’t Have Free Will Even Though You Are God
There are arguably only four states of existence: 1) your consciousness surrounded by the physical universe, 2) the state of dreaming, 3) your consciousness surrounded by nothing, and 4) nothingness with no consciousness. There are probably other minor states or a blend of two states, but these are the four main ones. Your consciousness surrounded by the physical universe is life, this is where logical consistency rules. Then there is the state of dreaming. Logical consistency is not required in this state of existence. Your consciousness surrounded by nothing is death. Death is not truly death, it is nothing more than existence in it’s most simplest and purest state. You don’t have arms or legs or hands. You cannot turn your neck and look around. You have no physical body. You cannot smell, hear, taste, or touch. Breathing isn’t necessary. You don’t even see anything, the only thing you see is blackness all around you. The only thing you can do is think, and that’s it. You are actually trapped, imprisoned, you come to the shocking realization that you have never moved. You have been in the same spot, the same location for all time; surrounded by an endless void of nothingness. You think you are going insane… and you want so desperately to escape. Your thoughts will start to become more coherent and more logical. You will feel your hands start to form. You will hear the flow of water all around you, you will feel warm and safe and content. You will hear muffled voices and other noises that you can’t explain. You will push and pull at your surroundings and you will make yourself born and you will create the universe around you. You have chosen life because it is the only choice you have, you cannot choose nothingness with no consciousness. You cannot truly end your existence, pure thought cannot kill itself; therefore you do not have free will. You do not have a soul either, consciousness does not need a soul.
You can enter into the other states of existence by falling asleep, meditation, using consciousness altering drugs, or by dying. You can only enter or leave the physical universe with logical consistency. Let’s say you are a full grown man and you fall asleep and dream. You have left the physical universe. You can return to the physical universe as a full grown man by waking up. This is logically consistent. Let’s say you die naturally of old age. You can only return to the physical universe by starting over as a newborn baby. That would be the only way to return to the physical universe that would be logically consistent. Keep in mind what is really happening. You are not actually entering or leaving the physical universe. You are simply changing the reality you are projecting.
As you go about your day, realize something… death exists just beyond what you observe. Go up to a door and look at it. What truly exists behind that door is nothingness, the endless void. But if you open the door your consciousness will create a stairway or another room, or the door will lead out to your yard and you can go outside and talk to people. Take your hand and put it 12 inches away from your face; just behind your hand, right behind it, is the infinite void.
Section Thirteen: Consciousness Altering Drugs
Psychedelics are a major rite of passage amongst many shamanistic traditions, enabling the user to embark upon a spiritual journey. They can have very powerful effects on you; they are to be respected, so do your research before trying them. One of the most commonly used psychedelics is magic mushrooms, scientifically they are known as psilocybin. When your journey starts, the first effect is that the physical universe and the state of dreaming will blend and morph into each other. They will reveal a world that you never knew existed. You will finally understand and truly know what beauty is, and you will never see the world in the same way again. You will never again be the same person as you were before. The journey always starts off pleasant, but make no mistake… you WILL face your inner demons, whatever they may be. You will face them, you will confront them, and you will be forced to deal with them. Psychedelics function as a type of mirror, you will finally see yourself for who you truly are; and you may not like what you see. The use of psychedelics requires a certain level of maturity, willpower, and resolve; only take them when you feel you are ready. Using psychedelics is called “tripping”, you are going on a trip, you are taking a journey. Don’t eat anything for about 6 hours before you trip. Your first trip should be someplace private, where you feel safe. For your second trip, you want to do it on a bright sunny summer day. Wake up early and don’t eat breakfast. Take the psychedelics around 10:00 am. Go outside and take a walk, don’t be afraid, you’ll be fine; the things you see will amaze you. Bring something with you that will help you to focus. Take a piece of string, tie one end to something a little bit heavier, and just keep twirling it as you embark upon your journey. You will meet many people along the way, but realize this is a journey you must take alone.
Try marijuana too. Unlike psychedelics, there are no cool visual effects. But you will be able to focus and ponder your existence. Marijuana also helps with meditation and makes it easier to enter into altered states of consciousness.
Section Fourteen: The Key Thing To Realize About Meditation
Meditation takes practice. If you’ve never meditated before it might take you years, but don’t give up. Meditation can seem pointless, there doesn’t seem to be a goal except to reduce stress. Go outside on a really sunny day and close your eyes. You’ll notice that it won’t be completely dark. Even though you have closed your eyes, you can still see a certain degree of brightness because some photons from the sun are going through the membrane of your eye-lid and they are hitting the rods and cones towards the back of your eye. If you are a beginner, you want to meditate at night with all the lights off. You want to free your mind of all thoughts, but this is not the key thing to realize about meditation. When you first close your eyes it will be dark. Here is the key thing to realize, you are seeing the dark with your physical eyeb~~~~. You are still using your eyes. The goal of meditation is to make your physical eyeb~~~~ disappear from existence so that you can “see” with your consciousness instead.
Section Fifteen: Scientific Implications Of Immortality
Making yourself immortal will probably result in two significant changes to your physical body. The wiring of your brain will change and your DNA will change. Even though your brain and DNA do not physically exist right now, they will pop into existence if they are measured. They can be measured by doing a brain scan and by performing DNA sequencing. Let’s say a brain scan and DNA sequencing were performed on you before you made yourself immortal, then a brain scan and DNA sequencing were performed after you made yourself immortal; they would not match, they would not be the same. The inevitable scientific conclusion is that you have evolved into a new species; you are no longer homo sapien, you are something else now.
Section Sixteen: Enjoy Your Godhood
Are there wars in this world? Is there racism? Is there poverty? Is there inequality? Is there injustice? If these things exist, then this is who you are. Evil can never truly be vanquished; because it is after all, a part of you. However, you should do your best to minimize evil. You have to stop evil when you see it, but you cannot judge evil. There is no reason to put down or belittle another man, that man is you. Do not feel guilty about anything that happened in the past, forgive yourself. Your DNA does not create you, you create your DNA. This means that, no matter what, you will always be capable of evolving. Try taking consciousness altering drugs. Take up meditation as well. The ultimate expression of masculinity is to change the world, you can only do so if you develop your intellect. Study physics, biology, genetics, evolution, chemistry, electronics, mathematics, programming, engineering, philosophy, spirituality, female psychology, things that really matter. You already know everything actually, you just have to unlock it all. With regards to understanding female psychology, you want to look to the MGTOW/PUA community.
You are the only one who has to put effort into things. Let’s say you are sitting in on a physics lecture and listening to a professor. That professor never had to study a day in his life. You manifested him already possessing the necessary knowledge. If physics is something you want to understand, then you have to put the effort into it. You are the one who has to bust out a piece of paper and a calculator and figure out how to manipulate all the vectors and equations. You need to do fun, pointless things as well. So what if you are truly alone? Boo hoo hoo, cry me a river, Q Q more… aww, God is crying because he’s all alone. If all the constructs you manifest behave as if they are sentient, self-aware, and independent of you; then that’s good enough. What more do you want? If you want to interact with them, simply walk out your door and say hi.
Do you realize now that you are creating everything? Do you see how there is no reason whatsoever to live your life in fear? Do not fear what you create. Since you are creating everything, there is no need to fear anything… not even death. Death is something you have created. That pretty girl you see across the room, you are staring and she is staring back. You are manifesting her, you are creating her. This is the first time she has actually come into existence. She never existed before that moment. Since you are creating her, there is no need to fear her. Don’t judge her in any way. Go up to her, tell her you think she is beautiful and ask her out for coffee. Will she say no? Will she say yes? What will YOU manifest? Now that you realize you are God, now that you realize you are the only being in existence, it will be easier for you to develop true alpha male confidence. And it will be genuine; it won’t be fake, it won’t be a show, it will be real. You will manifest other men who are smarter than you, stronger than you, wealthier than you, get more sex than you, more enlightened or wiser than you, and yes, even more confident than you; but none of these men are real. None of their accomplishments are real, they are constructs that you have brought into existence. Are you trying to accumulate wealth? Are you trying to hoard all of the resources of this planet? Then that means you fear something, there is something that you are afraid of. Life, death, dreams, free will, time, your own body, they are all illusions; the only thing that is real is your self-awareness, the realization that you exist. Some day you will leave this planet and explore the universe, just be patient. You have all the time in the world, you are immortal… YOU ARE GOD.
Your Corporate Masters Do Not Care If You Live Or Die
If they can get away with it, they will let you die instead of spending money on your safety.This story is true. Only the names have been changed to protect the innocent.
1. The Incident.
Once upon a time not so long ago, a lower-middle-management friend of mine was hard at work in his office. A team of firemen burst in. They were wearing gas masks and full firefighting gear.
“What are you doing here?” They asked.
Their voices were muffled by their gas masks. But he understood, took the hint, and evacuated. The parking lot was full of those who got the word and left first. Others were trickling out of the building behind my friend as the firemen rousted them.
It was not a fire by the way. The alarm was caused by an electrical failure in an equipment room which set off a gas alarm. It did no harm except to summon the fire department.
It turned out the fire alarm’s bells & sirens were broken due to an electrical failure. They had been broken for two years. Management knew this. They put a ‘facilities request’ in the system, declared “problem solved.” (And, no doubt, departed on time to meet the wife for drinks at the club as usual.) The facilities team put it in last place in their backlog. In the meantime, upper-management instructed middle-management to do something. The latter instituted a phone tree to notify everyone in case of fire alarms.
Obviously, there were overlooked flaws in their plan.
2. Corporation’s Response.
A few weeks after The Incident, a safety audit team arrived from an independent consulting firm hired by the company to do its thing on all the buildings. My friend got put in charge of following them around and filling out ‘facilities requests’ for all the fixes they recommended. (He found out the Fire Marshal had gotten in upper management’s faces. Management had to listen — the Marshal threatened to condemn the place — and so the consulting firm got hired.)
What they found was:
* The alarms were working and so were the smoke detectors.
– They were fixed the weekend after the incident.
* Fire extinguishers were missing or misplaced.
– Some areas had none, some were gone.
– One guy used a fire extinguisher as a door stop! (It didn’t have a wall mounting bracket, so why shouldn’t he? At least he knew where to find it.)
* Fire drills — none in recent memory.
* Vending machines under a staircase had to be moved. (I never figured this one out. It seems like a good use of wasted space to me.)
* There was a very long list of frank safety violations and lower priority recommendations in addition to the above highlights. Including:
– installing fire stops in holes between walls
– removing certain highly flammable furnishings
– relocating electrical outlets (Another one I never figured out.)
– improve ventilation in restrooms (I’ve been in one, and I figure they were right.)
– etc. (long list)
* The upper management office building was largely free of safety violations, and their restrooms were well ventilated.
– What a remarkable coincidence.3. The Remedy.
What management did was:
* Institute a schedule for combined alarm testing and fire drills.
* New fire extinguishers for all! … Except where there was one already.
* The vending machines disappeared.
– From then on, it’s bring your own from home or hike to the cafeteria if you can get away for a half hour.
* The rest of the ‘facilities requests’ were
– submitted for the audit team’s approval
– shown to the Fire Marshal and somebody from the city building department as proof of “intent to comply” with the fire code and building code
– submitted to the facilities management dept. for action …
– Problem solved!4. Final Outcome.
None of the remaining ‘facilities requests’ were so much as started a year later.
My friend was still the “manager in charge.” Thus, he asked his boss (upper-middle-management with office in same building): “It’s been a year. Why haven’t the ‘facilities requests’ been completed? Have you heard anything, boss?”
His boss got angry and chewed him out — all the while pretending he didn’t know what my friend was talking about and never mind having heard a thing from on high.
My friend never mentioned it again, not to his boss anyway. The company still has not spent a penny on all those facilities upgrades.
5. Epilog.
The company requires my friend to take separate courses in diversity, sexual harassment, and how to do manager-subordinate relations. It is not optional.
The company does not offer courses in workplace safety.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
Topic: My Story
I had my personal share of drama in my high school years. That isn’t the main story so I’ll just gloss over them.
I was with a girl I was courting. The farthest it went was her and I kissing each other on the cheek. She then promptly told me that she liked someone else after two weeks. That someone else was a friend of mine.
I was with a girl I was courting. I gave her a bouquet of roses. She handed that out to her friends in class.
Now in college, before courting a girl, I decided to be completely transparent. No more subtleties or rumors spreading, this time it comes from my own mouth. She says “I don’t have a girlfriend or a boyfriend.”. I then ask, “Can I take a shot?”. To which she replies, “Go for it.”. I proceeded to court her. I’d use my resources to help her out as it is the social norm to do so when courting. Another girl even advised me, “Always put her first.”.
I asked her out on a date. To make sure that it wasn’t a hassle, we planned to do it after club meetings. She never showed up for any of them. When I’d ask her out on other days, she’d always make up a reason. If it was at school where I could buy her food at the kiosks, there was no problem. During the Christmas party I gifted her with a pen and notebook to help her with her writing, as well as the agate point pendant necklace she wanted elaborately wrapped. She said she forgot her gift, and that she’d give it to me during my birthday party the coming break. In the end I got kisses on the cheek and gave her a kiss on the cheek as well. (I’m from the Philippines, so yeah conservative.)
After Christmas during winter break, when she was invited to go to my birthday, she flat out ignored me. I had set the event on that day a week earlier than my actual birthday, as it was the only time she was available. Needless to say, she never showed up. When classes resumed she gave her excuses and apologized profusely. It was at this point that i was getting fed up, I couldn’t just break it off though. I liked her still, and we were marked a the royal couple of our college course. They even gave us a couple nickname. I thought that it could still work out.
I asked her out on a date again, this time asking her if she really could, and that if she suddenly couldn’t go then text me. I went there at seven in the morning, the designated time. I waited for an hour, she never came. I went home and told myself that I would have a serious talk with her. I skipped a class to wait for a chance to talk to her. She then said what I suspected. It wasn’t going to work out.
In a way, I was sad but also somewhat relieved. This is my story. I have given up on dating women. I’ll go the practical route when my natural male urges pop up. If I want to feel emotional intimacy then there are games, specifically Visual Novels (thanks Japan). If I feel lust then there is more pornography available on the internet than my lust will ever want for.
Everything is perfectly clear now… except for one small detail.
I have a text that she wanted to talk to me. “We need to talk 3:30.” Not even bothering to ask if that was a good time for me. I had class so I replied when I saw the message two hours after the designated time, “I had class, another time.”
I only have to hope that this is nothing. As that will finally sever me forever from the past blue pill man I used to be.
The first point I’d like to make is, I’ve only occasionally caught Neil Lyndon’s “please accept men have an equal right to exist, have human rights and be happy just like women” articles, and didn’t realise he’s actually been writing quite regularly for the DT – it appears about 3 or 4 articles a month for the last few months – which makes me question how fairly he has been given any prominence on the front page, seeing as how I’d guess at least (and far more, judging by the comments) half of the DT readership is male.
However, as welcome as his “token man who cares about men at the DT” efforts are, and though I welcome this particular article greatly, I’d question not the truth, but the relevance of this premise:
“This prompted me again to wonder why do men have so little sympathy or fellow feeling for men?”
The simple answer to that one is that the way this whole society is structured – and I mean by that basically post religious/traditional, or to put it differently post-women’s liberation/secular atheism – men realise from the time they are knee high they are in competition with one another, whether it’s to come top of the class in school and thus get teacher’s approval (who bear in mind is usually a woman in the early school years), or get in the school football team, and then as they get older, to get the girl and then finally the job or the business success, giving the position of status in society which gives respect of one’s peers, and thus self-respect, and above all in most cases, the respect of and thus favour and acceptance by women.
Because though the reasons men kill themselves can be complex, it isn’t mostly because other men don’t have sympathy for men, which few or no men actually expect, but because women don’t have much or any sympathy for men.
And because women are the ones who in reality control modern Western society – they may not hold all the overt positions of power, but they mostly control all the real power, e.g. very obviously our 3 main political leaders – Cameron, Clegg and Milliband – covertly – the real power in the world is that exerted across the pillow and dinner table, not the political soap box and boardroom table as we’re falsely led to believe.
The problem men are facing is the hardened selfishness of an ever larger number of women, who are being egged on by the feminists to think that making men’s lives miserable, and taking away all their rights, jobs, happiness and sex lives, is just some kind of a fun sport, and also you see justified as an act of vengeance on account of the alleged repression of and denial of rights to women by men throughout the ages.
It is laughable under the circumstances to imagine that any woman cares less when men kill themselves, any more than other men do – no, what women are concerned about is not the suicidal behaviour of men, but the violent and homicidal behaviour of men, of which they themselves could become victims.
And in fact, it’s also pretty much an illusion to suggest that there is some great solidarity amongst women, who are often more b*tchy attacking one another than men are – apparently a lot of young women for example in a nightclub will corner rivals in the “ladies” room and threaten to “scratch their eyes out” if they are both pursuing the same footballer – they are united only over one thing – against men.
Women have only one major problem in life – which is to control men, get men to do what they want, and not do what they don’t want, and this alone is what unites them and that so called “unity” is largely only temporary.
e.g. even girl “best friends” of many years or even decades, will ditch each other instantly, when a man they want is involved, or even steal one another’s men if they can get away with it.
Just as beauty is only “skin deep” so are a lot of these so called never ending female friendships, which in real life end very frequently indeed.
The bottom line is we are all selfish – we are usually only going to help our fellow men or woman out if we think there is something in it for us too.
So the only way men are going to stick together and help one another out, is if they finally start to see they are going to have to put on a united front against those women, mainly feminists, who wish to take all their rights away from them, and it’s getting worse ever day in that regard, with this latest diabolical attack on the sex lives of all men here:
“Men must prove a woman said ‘Yes’ under tough new rape rules”
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/new…
about which incidentally, the DT did not allow men to comment and thus defend themselves, and has virtually turned the law on its head, and now is more or less saying men are presumed guilty of rape until proven innocent, overturning the fundamental principle of criminal law that has lasted for centuries of presumed innocent until proven guilty.
I’m afraid for the moment Mr Lyndon is doomed to failure in expecting most men to unite and fight against these denials of their rights – the only ones who much care are those who have been victims of divorces, false accusations, and just general shoddy and degrading treatment at the hands of women and the feminist authorities, including the police, law, hospitals, academia etc, which are now all more and more under control by the feminists, thus causing our disrespectful surveillance society in general, as well as the increasing denial of freedom of speech.
Which if you look at the detail of is mostly taking away the rights of men to say what is so called “politically incorrect” – i.e. allegedly offensive to women, gays/lesbians, or ethnic minorities in most cases, because the white heterosexual male is he that is the main target of this suppression and mind/thought control, ultimately by the feminists who have infiltrated government and the law and hide behind and manipulate the men in power, like Mrs Cameron, Mrs Clegg and Harriet Harman regarding our three main party leaders.
So in fact, it is going to be only when women en masse themselves see the danger of feminist policy to themselves, that things are going to change.
e.g. the more women take mens’ jobs, the less “financially viable” men there are for women to mate with – up to millions of single or unattached working women now are crying out “where are the men?” because they have dimly not yet put 2 and 2 together and realised that when they’ve taken millions of jobs formerly done by men, and often the good jobs too – e.g. there are now more women trainee doctors going to medical school than men – there are inevitably then millions of men without those same good or high status jobs, whom they thus do not any more regard as suitable mates, though these men may well be their equals or even superiors in terms of intelligence or ability.
And as to the tyrannical changes in the law on rape, and indeed the anti-male law in general, that is again going to have at least two obvious effects that women definitely won’t like when they wake up to them:
a) an increasing number of men won’t want to have any real life relationship with women at all, they’ll see it as too dangerous to their liberty, as well as money and property, and will instead choose a porn and possibly prostitution based sex life, and will refuse to commit to or give them children (most women’s number one desire sooner or later, which is totally impossible to carry out with men’s consent – men’s only real power now, which they mostly don’t realise)
b) in the case of the real rapists, as opposed to the not genuine sexual predators e.g. Ched Evans, Rolf Harris, Max Clifford, etc, all probably wrongly convicted, and having no need to force themselves on women, because their success guaranteed numerous willing ones – there will be an increased tendency to murder women they have raped; because as long as there is no one to accuse them, they will then be safe, because once conviction of rape is almost guaranteed, as it now is in the serious cases, the penalty will be nearly indistinguishable from if they had done murder anyway, so on balance it will be perceived by a genuine rapist as a logical act of self-preservation, his best chance of not getting caught
Likewise, many men – it happens quite frequently over the entire population already – knowing that the justice system will not give them any justice, will decide to take the law totally into their own hands, and kill the women who have humiliated them, e.g. rejected them or betrayed them (as they see it) and probably themselves too afterwards – whereas if they believed there were a fair system, they would instead fight over custody for their children, etc, a fight they know that in 95% of more of cases they are currently going to lose under the law.
Thus, the feminists are actually – and they have done so already – going to put women in far more danger and insecurity and indeed loneliness and denial of a proper family or married life with children in it, with a husband/father of their children of their own choosing – rather than feminist policy increasing their rights and protecting them and improving their lives as the feminists pretend they are doing.
So yes, I’d like to see just like Mr Lyndon, a society of men who care about each other as true caring brothers (bear in mind, most actual brothers are not terribly fond of each other, especially as they get older and leave home, and frequently don’t want to see each other again), but you only have to look at the way men tear each other up daily on these comments pages, to see what a long way off we are from that.
Because Mr Lyndon is also giving us a “rose tinted” view of male bonding – yes, a bunch of men/lads on a night out will fool around and get drunk together and swap their fantasies about womanizing, but when it comes to rivalry over a woman or even a job, they’ll soon turn into enemies, and even violent enemies if need be.
And therefore, as I’ve said, really, the only hope is that we individual men who do care about not only other men, but women also, persuade women in general, and particularly the wiser amongst women, who can see where this feminist madness is going as I have partly explained, that it is definitely not in women’s long term best interests to be having this feminist war on men, which if taken to the extreme, they cannot possibly win.
Because at the end of the day, men are still the real power in society who fight the wars, do most of the harder police work, and most of the harder jobs in life generally – driving the trucks, manning the oil rigs and industry etc – without which the modern comfortable and luxurious and still mostly safe for women world, would come grinding quickly to a halt.
For women to intimidate men en masse as they are now doing, reminds me of that quote from Stalin – “in China lies a sleeping giant.”
The power of the world’s men is also a sleeping giant, and if that giant gets properly angered, he collectively is going to cause havoc like the Incredible Hulk when turned green, and women may not only lose all their so called “equal rights”, they may find themselves more repressed than they ever were.
Because consider, as much as most British men would not wish to become Muslims, the sad fact is that it has got to the stage where the Muslims are about the last men on the planet who have any actual human rights, and are not living in fear of and domination by women.
And it doesn’t seem any coincidence therefore that it appears our feminist controlled governments are doing their very best to turn the rest of us against them, and bomb and threaten their countries with annihilation, and continually attacking and trying to destroy their religion, apparently now Christianity has got so weak and “feminised” the only religion in the world left that actually gives men any proper rights and power over women is the Muslim one.
But you see, if men have power over women, as in the Muslim or old fashioned Christian world, that’s called repression, whereas if women have power and domination over men – as in the West – then it’s called “equality.”
Forgive me for laughing out loud at that word when used by feminists – “equality”….
Please….
PS Sorry, but due to the trolls, I no longer read replies to my comments, and my day is all the better for it.
Thanks to Andy Man for getting a few gears working in my mind, by way of his thread “New rape laws in the uk”
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I was going to post my thoughts in his thread, but I didn’t want to hijack his thread, or thoughts with too big of a segue.
I’m almost at the point where I’d wear a hidden camera on my clothing.
I’m lucky in that when I’m at work, I NEVER deal with a female fellow employee in private behind a closed door. I deal with them with another witness in the room, or out on the floor, with plenty of witnesses.
Regarding my side-business, I don’t have women in my employ, so I don’t have worries of accusations there. Over the years, I gave women a fair shake in the beginning. I actually did treat the process of hiring equally. I treated the division of work equally. I treated advancement based on merit equally. This was before my divorce, and before I had all I could take of feminist Indictronation/Indoctrination, particularly in Canada. I had several women friends at the time; professionally, musically, and plain old friendly. Ironically, it took women to destroy my opinion of women, Women from my family, women from my career, women from friendships, and not least, women who were my significant other. At any rate, I gave woman after woman a chance to be successful, purely of her own merit. It was highly disappointing, and I watched each and every one of them try to undermine things in order to get to the top. Oddly enough, in the workplace, they were the absolute worst to other women. I couldn’t believe how quickly they would throw their own kind under the bus to be the center of attention, and to place themselves in a position of sycophancy. Statistically speaking, treating women equally in my own entrepreneurial was a total f~~~ing waste of time. I had ONE woman over the period of 8 years prove to be a great employee. She was an exceptionally hard worker, and had no use for attention. She was a rough old Newfie, and a kick-ass worker. It was working with another venemous woman that caused her to leave my employ.
<p class=”western”>AndyMan’s post took me back. I might sound overly paranoid, but this issue really took me back to an incident in university years ago. There was a highly reputable, and I might add absolutely excellent male professor in one of my fields of study. He was an extremely meek, mild-mannered man, with an intellect that I could only hope to possess. I’m a pretty smart fellow, but nothing approaching genius. This fellow was one of the off-the charts dudes; you could just tell. His mind worked so damn quickly that he was constantly all over the place. I’ll never forget attending a lecture, and he was outside at break having a smoke, which he bummed off of me. He had this little damn piece of bubblegum stuck in his nose hair. I didn’t want to say anything about it to him, as he was on what he always called a “virtual discussion on a media-extravaganza”. I still have no idea what the hell this guy was ever talking about, but he was a very studied and respected man in more than one field. Anyway, two days later, I turned a paper in to him, and that frigging piece of gum was still in his nostril hair. LOL. One of those guys with absolutely no concept of physical awareness; totally f***** up hair, some sweater that might well have been knit for him by his grandmother ten years earlier hahahaha. He was existing on some other plane lol.</p>
Anyway, I digress. This man was charged with sexually assaulting a graduate student, while spending extra evening hours with her; mentoring her, giving of his own free time, considerable experience, and his wealth of both academic knowledge and knowledge accrued of his own accord. This went on for quite some time, and with the feminist movement being in very high gear at the time in Ontario, he was threatened, suspended, and sustained very real permanent psychological, physiological, and no doubt spiritual damage during the process.
In the end, the story was finally blown wide open with tangible evidence brought forth by others in his defense (not all male either), as well as from himself.
It turned out that she stopped showing up for mentoring (not due to reasons of poor health, crisis etc. She simply found it too difficult). After a period of time, and when nearing time for graduation, she approached him and offered him sex in return for receiving her Master’s degree. He turned her down (this poor bastard had probably never been laid, and with his ginormous watermelon head, I doubt he was even preoccupied with it. Too busy thinking in dimensions). Because she had been rebuked by him, she went on an absolutely premeditated campaign of destroying and smearing him.
What I found to be disappointing about this? When this man’s name was cleared, the story was almost INSTANTLY relegated to the back pages of news. They (feminazis combined with feminazi controlled media) didn’t mind smearing this man through the mud for nine months, but they most certainly didn’t have an ounce of fortitude or morality to then spend at least a SMALL AMOUNT of time in making sure that people knew he wasn’t the monster which he had been made out to be. Even though this fellow had been cleared, he’d been so damaged by the process that he didn’t return to his tenure.
Just writing about this is making my blood boil. Magically when I look around the Internet, there is very very little information on it. Of course, her f******* name is no where to be found. There should have been an absolutely massive punishment for this woman. Now that I’ve brought it up, and I’m done working for the day, I do believe I’ll spend some time raking the internet for some solid old information on this, so we can put some concrete data out on this.
I don’t know how I’m going to do it yet, but I’d like to have a column, or some type of static communication method of displaying these types of offenders so that they are NOT forgotten. Women LOVE to shame. It’s time for their transgressions to be written in stone for all to read, and not be edited out of mainstream, or any type of media, due to the incessant control of c~~~-munication by the nazis.
They don’t mind branding the hell out of a man who’s committed sin, and continuing to ruin his life long after he’s paid the price. I of course am not talking about the real pieces of s*** out there. Child molesters, true rapists and truly violent offenders do not have my pity, by any stretch of the imagination. These are the types I have zero tolerance for.
Time for some of these “fairer-sex” pieces of sh** to be immortalized. While I am sure there are a great many gents out there doing such a thing; guys far smarter than myself, but the more exposure the better. It’s not like I’m putting forth an original idea here. I’m just trying to think of a successful way to approach it.
Thoughts and suggestions fellows on how to do so guys? I’m going to grind my gears a bit today and dig up some information on this past event. Really got my blood boiling, remembering what this very valid contributor to the scientific community endured, and probably still does. Once you get branded of such a thing, you don’t even have to be guilty. They keep perpetrating the crime against an individual through the sheer stigma of crimes deemed to be heinous.
You’re guilty before due process, during the process, and even AFTER being acquitted.
Hello, I discovered Sandman yesterday night at around 10pm and here we are this morning 8am. Around 10 hours of watching his videos, and looking at this site so here I am. I wanted to share my story maybe it could be a kind of a relief…. I don’t know.
At first I’ll have to say my English is probably not perfect. My first language is french but I understand and speak very well in English. For that I am sorry in advance.
I just turned 25 years old this month. I am a french Canadian, from Quebec, in a suburban on the south shore of Montreal City.
Today I’m stuggleing in life because of court cases, wich I faced falses accusations 3 times since my 19 years old. I’m basically at the bottom of the barrel right now. Just writing this is making me shake, sweat and smoking cigarettes one after the other. I don’t know where I am in life and why this is happening to me. Today I don’t see anybody, I lost my self-confidence, I probably lost hope and I think all the videos and the explanations on womens I saw in Sandman’s videos are fitting me perfectly. This is why today I want to be perfectly honest with all of you and if this message can help someone somewhere, I’ll be glad.
My story begins with my first love, when I was 17 years old, 8 years ago. I met her at a group who teached us multimedia with photoshop and flash. Right when I saw her I knew that would be something magical. So I asked her for a date and 10 days later she became my first girlfriend. For me it was truly a turning in my life, pushing away all my teenages issues like a drug addict mother and a not caring workaholic father. My parents broke up when I was 8.
At that time I was living with my drug addict mother and my father-in-law at that time who was probably the one who dragged my mother into this after she left my father. Very shortly after meeting my girlfriend, my mother lost her appartment and went to psychotherapy. So I went living with my grand-mother. As you would probably guess there was no way I could invite my girlfriend to sleep. So then I was thinking what I could do to improve my life-style from then on. My father is an owner of a taxi cab company, but it’s special I’ll relate soon about this.
I left high school at the age of 16 because of family issue. Not because I didn’t liked it, or because I wasn’t good at school. I had a big problem to focus when at school. I usually ended up having great scores without really studying a lot. I’m an intellectual, computer geek and gamer but this is only to put you a little in perspective of who I am. I was not really a sport guy but I was going outside doing skateboardings and seeing friends as well as keeping doing my interests at home.
So when I turned 18 I went to pass my taxi cab license, since I could now work for my father. I thought that was perfect and I could see my girlfriend more often. I could buy a car, take her to a date and you know the deal. This is what happened but in a special way. My father’s taxi company is not like the ones you could experience in other cities like Montreal where the drivers always have to be to a certain given place, either waiting for a call of going on duty. My father’s business is more people-related: They call at the phone, then my father calls me back. When I had no calls I could go where I wanted but when he calls me it’s business time. While I had the brilliant idea to bring my girlfriend with me and knowing nothing about girls nature, I began to spend a lot of this money on ourselves. Everyday, we ate on the fly at fast foods for 2, smoking cigarettes for 2, I even rented for about 7000$ of motel rooms. Since my father wanted me to work 7 days a week, 12 hours in night time, I couldn’t do other things but this to keep my girl loving me. Because yes I thought that was the perfect idea to have her with me in front of the mini-van, while clients sitted on the back. This generated a lot of issues but I rolled that way for about 1 year. Despite all what my father was telling me about not bringing my girlfriend, that this is a job and I can’t do this.
I was doing it anyway, I was in love.
That until a day my father had enough and fired me (and I can’t blame him of it), this is where the things became to crush down for me.
It was in 2008-2009 I had spared a very little amount of money so I took an appartment why my girlfriend. It was in her childhood, another suburban but farther from where everyone I knew lived. It was quite bizarre but hey, I was in company of the girl I loved so what could stop me ? After a couple of months on social help, and barely surviving, I found a s~~~ty job as dishes cleaner in a really busy restaurant.
The thing is that at a certain point I had been contacted by people in that city on facebook and they were telling me that my girlfriend was cheating on me. At first I couldn’t believe it but deep inside me I knew she was a lier. When her sister told me the truth I couldn’t even sleep beside her, my girlfriend that I had spent 2 years with her, giving her all of my attention and money. Then one night I was driking and kinda loosed patience. I grabbed my girlfriend to the shoulders and because I was drunk she yelled and was supposely scared. That made noises and the neighboor where the walls were zero isolated heard it and called the police. Here don’t get me wrong, I never hit her, I never hitted a women and will never do.
I went to the police station, signed a drunk bail where I pledged not to go back to my appartment. I called a friend and I got there as a complete idiot willing to negociate and ask her why she wrote paper against me. I went back where all my life, my stuff and my hopes were. But then again the police came back because of routine to check up and it was done I was going to the jail.
I was 19 years old, completely ignorant of the system I stepped into. I was afraid of my situation, will people think I hit her while I just grabbed her, why is she doing this to me ? All those questions for about 5 days spent in jail. Then when I met a lawyer I tryed to call my father to ask him what to do and he told me to deal with the lawyer.
So I took the deal, plead guilty and I was out.
This was my first biggest mistake in life.
When I got out of jail I talked to my girlfriend on the phone, and SHE WAS CRYING ON THE PHONE TO MAKE ME COME BACK. Why after signing a paper against me I would go back there ?
I went to my father, and asking him to take me back. I was destroyed. At that moment I didn’t even had a room in his appartment, I was living on the couch. My heart was broken, I had lost my girlfriend and had a false guilt on my law folder.
Then my father asked me to come back to his taxi business but only 5 nights a week. I said yes, even with all my flash-backs of me and her rolling in the night streets. I was sad, but I was making money. This money however was spent on some kinds of reliefs, smoking marijuanna, going drunk when I wasn’t working. Then after a couple of months I met another girl. She was my friend at the begining but I started to feel some kinds of love into her because she was rolling with me sometimes in my taxi cab, reminding me of my ex.
As she was a speed drug addict, I became to step into that world. I don’t know what I was doing, my sadness became to lift a little and I thought maybe I had a chance with this girl. Wrong. All she wanted is use me, even when she got kicked out of her family house I invited her to sleep on my couch while I was laying on the ground.
All of this in about 2 months after meeting her, without trying anything creep on her, being a nice guy, giving her food, giving her what she wanted because I had money and giving her a place to sleep. I had bought a car so we could venture on anywhere while on my days off. As she had her temporary license I could show her how to drive a car. At that time I was 20 years old and she was 18.
This was my second biggest mistake in life.
So one day while we were driving on a high-way, she did a crazy maneuver and I remember yelling at her “What are you doing ?!” then she pulled on the edge of the road and she started to be hysterical and punched me like 10 times in the face while I didn’t responded. This was turn-off for me and I don’t wanted to have anything to do with this girl no more. I gently drove her back to her family house where she was kicked out.
The next day I received a visit of 2 police women telling me I had to face multiple accusations. Accusations of what ? sequestration, bashing her, etc….
I was telling myself it’s impossible I’m not gonna let her falsely accuse me like that. It turned out that the court wasn’t scheduled for about 2 years after that moment. From that moment I really began to crumble on myself, waiting on that day and not knowing what’s gonna be the verdict because I previously had a guilt in my law folder. I think from that very moment I began to experience a depression. I stopped working for my father, I drunk all my left money. I even lost my car because I left it in a school parking and the battery went off and I had no money to move it out.
1 year and a half later, I reached 22 years old. Still no court in sight, I began to feel a little better with time but still these memories of betrayal were still in me and I couldn’t really work as a normal citizen. What I mean by that is I had no really goals, I didn’t wanted to work, I was down the bottom.
But then again, I met another girl. My second girlfriend. At first we were just friends but came a time where I made the step and kissed her. She, I think, was the love of my life. I still think so, but I lost her and I’ll tell you why. As I previously said I had 3 falses accusations and she wasn’t one of the people who did it.
Then I started back to see good in life, I was a new man. I really was, I had so much for me. This girl was wonderful. So I started back to work for my father.
I was even so confident that she was the one that I took an appartment with her because I still lived on the couch at my father’s appartment and you know, motel rooms are expensive. So I worked hard, while providing for everything she needed. Despite she had some problems in where she was in life I told her I was to help her. I did all the necessary for that new appartment. New paint, cleaning everything, I even bought her a cat so she don’t feel alone while I was doing taxi duty. I brought her with me in my taxi sometimes but not all the time.
At some point my father was in vacation, I was doing the boss job. Answering the calls and doing all the administrations, giving job to the other drivers while doing the main job even.
But one night, I answered a call. Some drunk ladie wanted me to go pick her up with her car at a bar so I needed someone with a normal license driver to come with me as my other taxi drivers were busy elsewhere on taxi duty. So I went there with a friend. He picked up the car and the lady got with him in her car while I was following them. We had a direction to take but when I was following them I saw my friend take up the wrong road so then I flashed up my lights and he got to the edge of the road then we talked…..
I said to the drunk lady that if she were going to go elsewhere from where we were supposed to go, it’ll cost an extra more. Then she started to act hysterical, telling us names and giving me half of what the price was showing on the taxi meter. I acted gently and I was telling her that she can’t take her car drunk as she was. She took her car anyway and my friend came back to my taxi cab so I told her that I was obligated to call the police because she was drunk-driving.
This was my third biggest mistake in my life.
I followed her with the cops on the phone. the cops got her drunk-driving and I went back to my normal taxi duty even if I was a little stressed. I wouldn’t let that take off my happiness of being with my new girlfriend and moving into that new appartment.
About 1 month later police went to me and they said me that this drunk women was putting charges on me. They took me to jail, they took me away from my new girlfriend, from my new appartment. I spent about 7 days in jail. I knew that I did nothing wrong but the cour told me that I had previous accusations and I couldn’t do my job anymore.
But when I came out of jail my girlfriend jumped in my arms and kissed me like she was really in love and knew I had nothing to do with this. So I started to say to myself that I will defend myself in court and I was confident. I still had the support of my love, I still COULD do something.
A month passed, I started some new random jobs that I didn’t liked. My liberations conditions were to not drive any vehicle and be at home at 9pm. Slowly my relationship with my girlfriend started to scale down dramatically. As I couldn’t provide money and I started to be weakened by all those accusations. I needed emotionnal support more than ever but my girlfriend preferred to go out after 9pm, and meet some new friends and eventually meet another boy.
Then I really started to feel depression and I even tryed to suicide myself.
Even tho I knew I had nothing to do with these falses accusations I had the feeling that the entire world was against me. Why in the world could that happen to me ? I always been the nice, caring guy…..
Months passed, I eventually dropped my relationship because anyway she wasn’t there for me. She still lived with me for a short time. We still were intimate, it is if as she never really wanted that to happen. But she’s a girl, she wants to be taken out for dates and receive gifts. And I knew she was seeing another guy EVEN if she were still f~~~ing with me…
Then I was there, alone, waiting for my court to arrive. I began to feel like a mental torture. This was really hard to endure. I enventually lost my appartment because I wasn’t paying my bills anymore. I came back to my father’s appartment but this time I had a room since my sister finally left the place. But my father wasn’t helpful at all, he never tryed at any point to suggest me a real lawyer. I had to rely on a cheap lawyer paid by the government “officially assigned”.
I was down the barrel, and the edges were high. My court passed on febuary 2014, when I was 24 years old. My officially assigned lawyer told me that I had nearly no chances of getting out of this because my credibility was zero in face of the judge because of my previous accusations. All my cases were in front of me at the same time. Then my lawyer asked me a deal I could take. No taxi for the next 5 years, 200 hours of community work and a monthly meeting with a probation officer for the next year and a half. That drunk lady could get back her driving license as she was “fleeing” from me.
I couldn’t endure more stress, it was far beyond my capacity. I was literally going to fall under my own weight. I felt heavy and depressed. I felt tortured.
So I agreed to the deal, letting my courage aside. Even tho, I never mistreated a women a single time in my life.
And here I am, a year later after my court passed. I still have struggle living with this. Should I go back to that with money and a real lawyer ? What I can do now ? I’m lost in this life, I lost everything. I didn’t even started a quarter of a century yet that I feel I could die tomorrow and that would make no difference to this world.
I was betrayed, abused and womens took advantages of me at every single point in my life.
I’m joining this movement and telling you today my story to maybe…. maybe prevent these kinds of things to happen to anyone else in the future. But I’m trying my best right now just to survive this. Maybe if I hadn’t spent all that money on these girls I could defend myself in court. Maybe if I took my courage in my hands I could have been acquitted in court.
I don’t deserve this and I know it. I saw back my first girlfriend for the first time 4 years later we broke up and we banged on new year’s eve 2014. I saw back the girl that did my 2nd false accusations and she asked me pardon. And I had rumours lately that the drunk women who did my 3rd false accusation that she is a crack dealer.
I think womens are overly protected by the laws and automatically the man is to blame.
Thanks for reading………… It was a pain remembering me this but maybe also a relief in some kind, of sharing this to you.
[Some edits for spelling mistakes]
Topic: FINALY i OWN MY LIFE
Hey brothers I am 52 come feb 14 yes all my life instead of celebrating my birthday was buying useless trinkets and flowers for UN-appreciative women. 12 years of marriage 15 years of the state of Oklahoma and the department of human services looking over my shoulder. in 2012 I received a subpena to show up in court and show cause why I should not be charged with indirect contempt of court for non-payment of child support. At the time I was working in Texas and the support was being taken from my checks. I started my study of law then to find out if they could give me a criminal record if I just failed to show up.Turns out the answer was no. Oklahoma statutes on indirect contempt says no action may be taken by the courts until the accused is before the court. What? No action? Was totally shocked at finding this out. I could just toss every threatening letter in the trash and they could do nothing and maybe i should have handled it that way. But I was ANGRY! I came across a youtube video of Carl Miller called “kick ass constitution man.” more law studies. conveniently lost my drivers license and when getting my new one they asked for my signature I signed my name and under my name very small I wrote in caps UD UCC1-207 WITHOUT PREJUDICE” from then on I became a traveler, not a driver or motor-vehicle operator. The right to travel is a constitutionally protected right. What has this got to do with child support? you may ask. the subpena said to bring all my paperwork showing everything I owned: property deeds, bank accounts, car and truck titles for vehicle registered in Oklahoma.I wanted to show up in court having nothing for them to take away from me. I only had a 90 model ford pu and a camper that I had been living in, so I just let the Oklahoma registration on both expire.I bought a dodge registered it in Texas and headed to OK to face the music in court.Now I could say with all honesty I had nothing registered in Oklahoma, and if they make the threat of suspending my driving privileges it would be an empty threat as I never again planed to drive or operate a motor-vehicle again for the rest of my life only travel, which I still have every right to do.
I set up at a friends house found some stonework and waited for my court date.I had watched Carl Millers videos enough to have memorized what to say in court. I recommend you guys in the US watch them, memorize everything don’t read from a paper if you decide to do what I did because although I was willing to fight tooth and nail all the way to the supreme court I didn’t really want that.It was a big bluff on my part and it worked partly because I did my homework and partly because I was lucky to be up against a women attorney for the state of Oklahoma. She tried nine ways from Sunday to get me to take a public defender,but I stood my ground. Vicky Hammel attorney for the state of Oklahoma leflore co had a large caseload and I knew it. I would use this to my advantage.I had only my case to work on.Through the years I had made bank transfers to pay child support directly to my ex. I avoided paying through the state. The only money that went through the department of human services was the money they took from my check without my consent while at the same time bringing up this charge against me.If you send one check or money order through the state they have proof you consented to do so.I never signed any waivers they put in front of me and insisted on a jury trial.”I told her I would stand in court and claim the right to directly support my child pursuant to her needs and if one juror agreed I should have that right I would win. Not only would she have a loss on her record but a loss to a non-attorney.” This worked, She asked the case be dismissed.There is more as I talked to her several times acting as my own lawyer.She put things off a few weeks several times acting as though a trial was gonna happen but by this time I knew she was bluffing.I just called her every bet with a raise of my own.In my book A dismissal is a win. But I will never get back the years I set my dreams and ambitions on hold knowing they would take from me anything and everything they could, so really guys even when you beat them you still lose.A good thing now my birthday will not fall on valentines day this year thanks for that, Happy MGTOW day! Roses are red and pass the beer-nuts.My daughter is in college now so my life is mine.I learned a lot about the laws in this country and a lot about myself. learn and gain knowledge from your mistakes but gain wisdom from the mistakes of others. All you young men go your own way and own your own life, those years are your best. I didn’t marry until 27 years old.I recently found a pic of me at 25 on my bike,I looked ready to take on the world.
I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.
Hello everyone,
I have been, without knowing what it was, living a MGTOW life now for about 13 years. A little background on myself and the reason I titled this thread “I feel like a new man today… Thanks” is as follows
I was raised in a military family and then became a military member myself (USMC). Both my parents stayed together until death took my father away in 1993. I feel I must also add that my mother was and continues to be one of those NAWALT’s you hear about. Even today she is disgusted by the way I have been treated and supports me in the way I have decided to live my life even though she has a hard time understanding it. But as long as I am happy, she is.
As for my past relationships, all but one of them has been really bad. Cheating girlfriends became the new normal for me. I’ve had girls try and trap me with a baby that wasn’t mine (twice). I’ve had everything taken from me by a woman, all my money, and even lost my job. The worst was when I was younger I had an ex that almost killed me. She picked a cast iron skillet off the stove top and slipped me across the head with it. There was blood everywhere, and when I tried to call for help she told me I better not or she would tell the police I had tried to rape her and it was self defense. I still have a scare and a deformity in my skull just past my hair line as a reminder. I won’t go into any more details about that now as I’m sure this is getting old to listen too (read). I simply wanted to give a background on where I’m coming from, and know I do not hate all women because of it. I find hate to be a useless emotion that take up too much of my time and energy.
Shortly after my last long term relationship and started reflecting on the past few years of my life and realized what was wrong. Enter the “red pill”, the problem was me. She made between two to three times what I made yet I was still paying for everything, doing all the cleaning, shopping, you name it. When things would get bad between us I would think to myself “I need to try harder” and that’s what I did. I worked harder at making her happy. In the end it was all for nothing, she left me anyway and left me with nothing to show for it. I was a sucker, and I realized it for the first time in my life. This was one hell of a wake up for me. I had never heard of a guy that had been beaten before, or that had all his money taken, where I’m from men don’t have that happen or so I thought.
I continued through the next few years of my life with a “white knight” mind set, but there was something different now. I didn’t want to be the sucker I was before. I knew I needed to work on my career and education so that’s what I did. I kept telling myself I would make myself better for “her”. I was under the impression that if I could make myself happy than I would be able to make someone else happy. As I was working to better myself I realized still that more was wrong then I had even dared to imagine in the past. Why was I working so hard for someone else? Why not finish my education and kick off my career and just do it for me? Why should I have to basically pay someone else to like me? So I started living for me and making me happy. I decided to cut women out of my life and just stay single…forever. This plan, at least in my mind, worked for me. The only problem I had at the time was all my friends, everyone around me kept saying something was wrong with me. I believed them for years. I looked online, every now and again, and never heard anything about MGTOW, or the MRA (this was a long time ago). I was on an island by myself, left to wonder if I was the only one in the world that had this “problem”. Everyone was telling me I was doing something wrong, and that I was the problem. I just needed to man up and do what was expected of me, get over it and start dating again. I even thought about it several times, but couldn’t bring myself to do it. I just couldn’t justify spending that much time doing things I didn’t want to do, and all that money to do it. I kept thinking to myself “I am not here to make someone else’s hopes and dreams come true at the expense of my own”. So I stayed the course, and watched all my guy friends spend $500 to $1000 a month dating. I just couldn’t do it.
The other day I saw a video on you tube about the sexodus, and it really made me happy, happier than I have been in over ten years. I was not alone in this, I was not the only one that saw things the way that they really were! There was something on that page about this thing called “MGTOW” I had know idea what this was, and I wanted to know everything there was to know about this video and it’s content. I did a quick search and guess what I found???? There is a whole community of people, men, just like me. I have been living as a MGTOW for over a decade and didn’t even know it. I had just stopped looking for anyone else and instead been listening to those around me telling me there was something wrong with me. I quickly went back on you tube and found sandman’s page and have been marathoning his videos for the past three days. I finally decided to go out and search the rest of the internet instead of just listening to one guy. That’s when I found this site!
I know this is a long post, but I really feel like I’ve been trapped on an island and finally found a way back to shore. Not only have I found the rest of you, but I have quickly started making changes for myself and for my own fulfillment and happiness. The day after I found Sandman’s video’s I got back into the gym to work on my health, I have new plans now to work on starting my own business (I’m a programmer). I know this my sound silly to many of you, everyone had me believing I was the only one like this, single, and that something was wrong with me. So I never bothered to look for other like me, stupid I know. So that’s a nut shell version of me and why I titled this thread as I have. Thank you all for coming together, I look forward to going my own way as I have been but now with new confidence.
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