My day started at 3:30am with this stupidity

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  • #555361
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    Monk
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    I have to say that I always have grave doubts whenever I hear someone say that they are going to ‘force her to move out’.

    Frankly, the only scenario with any prospect of success is a surprise attack.

    Firstly, say nothing to no-one. Then, as machiavelli says, change the locks whilst she’s out.

    Have all the necessary legal papers ready to serve on her. Ideally, have your lawyer on hand to do it.

    Film all the while, because it is certain that she will then make THAT phone call.

    #555452
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    Anonymous
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    I am sorry to say, but from me, all you get is a Facepalm.
    Other Men
    From Your own Country
    Tell the Tale
    A dozen Times a day
    IN YOUR FACE

    You are literally SITTING in a lake full of good advice.

    Yet you refuse to take it.
    You have been here a Year.

    Remember
    “wife won´t leave” /forums/topic/update-wife-wont-leave/

    “Stuck” /forums/topic/s-t-u-c-k/

    “V-Day” /forums/topic/v-day-if-i-play-my-cards-right/

    “my Truck makes me happy” /forums/topic/my-truck-makes-me-happier-than-my-wife/

    “i am a meal ticket, am building an exit plan” /forums/topic/im-just-a-meal-ticket-sperm-donor-and-dad/

    i could go on…

    You, Sir, will go down in MGTOW history as the Man who talked the Talk, did not walk the walk, except walk off a Cliff to end his own life.

    RIP Combatroll , Died 2017.

    #555936
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    Bigboy83
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    Women worry about the their reputation.

    Its their insurance for them to play, “I’m innocent,” or victim card.

    Women like to use many men as possible without being notice. Time to tell all.

    Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

    #556174

    Anonymous
    12

    so after a Good nights sleep, maybe it is time to push you a bit.

    What have you done today to reach your “V-Day” goal?

    This will be the last fking V Day I spend with this b!tch!!
    My goal: this time next year to be in my own pad, by myself grilling a big fat steak and drinking good bourbon. Raising a glass to my independence, void of a money sucking, self-centered, entitled brat.
    V-Day Goals, anyone??

    Come on, there must be something, anything, no matter how small that you contribute to this goal, instead of just being Passive and being flushed out of your own home/Life/existence!

    #556239
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    CombatRoll
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    so after a Good nights sleep, maybe it is time to push you a bit.

    What have you done today to reach your “V-Day” goal?

    This will be the last fking V Day I spend with this b!tch!!
    My goal: this time next year to be in my own pad, by myself grilling a big fat steak and drinking good bourbon. Raising a glass to my independence, void of a money sucking, self-centered, entitled brat.
    V-Day Goals, anyone??

    Come on, there must be something, anything, no matter how small that you contribute to this goal, instead of just being Passive and being flushed out of your own home/Life/existence!

    So much for a good nights sleep. 3am was once again the bitching hour.

    I woke to a barrage of how I’m a selfish bastard and how I ‘m going to move out and start dating etc. And GET THIS. She said AWALT! I almost cracked up had I not been so f~~~ing worn out. “Just remember who you end up with with be all nice and giving you lots of sex initially but they will change and you will be stuck with someone just like me”. Holy F~~~ – she doesn’t know how much she is right. Not my plan.

    She went on and on about how I was moving to divorce central and I’d be screwing someone in no time. Then she played the “poor me” game about how she was washed up and she’d probably find some old guy b/c she’d be lonely. Blah Blah. Said she had psychological issues b/c of her upbringing and that it was “her fault”.

    I barely said a word through all of this and went and slept on the couch. Then I got up at 5:30 feeling sleep deprived and went for a 6 mile run.

    So yesterday I scheduled a viewing of some really f~~~ing cool apartments. I can’t describe too much b/c of anonymity – but really cool area with lots to do. I’m not living in a s~~~ hole when she is living in the house I pay for. I want it to be a cool place that my kids want to be in.

    So I am dropping off my deposit and application this morning. and then going to get mattresses and a coffee maker.

    #556246
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    Anonymous
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    About f~~~ing Time you get your Head into “War” mode.
    Good.
    now have one beer and think of the next step.
    PO box, new mobile, setting up the new life from A to Z, before the old one goes down the drain.
    Money.
    Money again and
    MONEY.
    And stealth. Ninja style. Deception, become a pseudo alcoholic gambler. withdraw cash on a regular basis near a casino. All that “GTFO” stuff.

    You only got one shot at this, one shot at not being f~~~ed by the law.
    Sitting idle, hoping for Nawalt and sticking your dick in crazy as you did is not the way to win this race.

    You are a DOer, so DO.

    You got this.

    #556249
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    CombatRoll
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    About f~~~ing Time you get your Head into “War” mode.
    Good.
    now have one beer and think of the next step.
    PO box, new mobile, setting up the new life from A to Z, before the old one goes down the drain.
    Money.
    Money again and
    MONEY.

    You only got one shot at this, one shot at not being f~~~ed by the law.
    Sitting idle, hoping for Nawalt and sticking your dick in crazy as you did is not the way to win this race.

    I’ve taken some steps on the money side. The next few days will be PO Box, getting all mail changed over to it, furnishing place, and getting ready for the ensuing s~~~ storm.

    #556254
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    Oldschool
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    I’ve taken some steps on the money side. The next few days will be PO Box, getting all mail changed over to it, furnishing place, and getting ready for the ensuing s~~~ storm.

    Keep us updated, best of luck.

    Get a vasectomy.

    #556275
    OldBill
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    I’ll wait and see.

    After all, we’ve seen and read a year of threads full of plans, to-do lists, and other promises of action.

    Let’s see what actually happens.

    Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

    #556522

    Anonymous
    12

    Sat on the train home and thought to myself..

    “pix or it did not happen”

    but that is a spicy one to pull off.

    Plus…
    …why would need to prove anything to a bunch of Pixels on his screen.
    He will either start improving, and do it in a smart manner…
    or keep complaining.

    in which case he will serve the world as an example.
    At which point it would be fun to assemble his topics, make a makeshift booklet from it and distribute it in your local College…

    mwaaahahahah

    #556852
    DarkRyu
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    Her:”Well, I guess you are going to move to an apartment that will be expensive and all nice and shiny – while I stay in this old house”.

    Only a STUPID bitch would think that a “shiny” apartment is better than an “old” house. How “old” is it? 1994? Just goes to show how STUPID women are with money. I would MUCH rather live in a PAID OFF HOUSE than pay perpetual rent to some asshole and share 4 walls with other strangers. Even if you still have a house payment, you’re building equity. STUPID BITCH!

    #557338
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    CombatRoll
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    I appreciate the Tough Love here. Everyone’s path to freedom is different. We all have different situations with kids, assets/finances, etc.

    So I tried to move in today and the building is new construction and they have to do a “walk through” with the builder.

    I’ve made an appointment to sign everything and get my keys Monday morning.

    Last night was the first full nights rest I’ve had in a few days. I stayed away from home all day and didn’t return until 9:30pm and then just showered and crashed. The night was uneventful, thanks God. I just have to get through the weekend.

    2 days and a wakeup call.

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    Anonymous
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    Combatroll, how are you doing mate?

    have you completely moved out? does she have your new address or did you manage to keep that s~~~ for yourself?
    your pay goes into y<our own bank account now, not into a shared one?

    Am curious and would love to hear you are doing fine and be dodging bullets like a running Army Soldier.
    If not, say so.

    One of your Fans

    #565264
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    CombatRoll
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    Combatroll, how are you doing mate?

    have you completely moved out? does she have your new address or did you manage to keep that s~~~ for yourself?
    your pay goes into y<our own bank account now, not into a shared one?

    Am curious and would love to hear you are doing fine and be dodging bullets like a running Army Soldier.
    If not, say so.

    One of your Fans

    Thanks G-Mow

    Yes – I moved out Monday – bought mattresses and a coffee maker and thats all I had for night #1. Slept under my wool blanket – but lemme tell you – My apartment is friggin’ nice. (Frankly – if it was a cardboard box under a bridge it would be better than where I was).

    I never have had joint bank accounts with her b/c after the first few years of marriage she proved she could not be trusted to have access to my bank accounts. She knows where I live – but not the address and it is key entry into the building. She hasn’t expressed a want to come see my place.

    I took my daughter Tuesday and we bought a couple sticks of inexpensive, but “contemporary” furniture. I left it up to my daughter to pick it out, as I believed it would make her view this as a happy place and it really has. She picked out her bedding and has big plans for her room.

    While my STBX (Fk – it feels good to write that) can be selfish and a liar, she has not used the kids against me. She just isn’t the type to drag kids into this – thank God.

    I had to go back to the plantation to pick up some things / cookery, etc this evening. We fell right back into bicker mode. As I drove off I could feel the weight and gloom falling off me like water off a duck’s back. The weight lessened with every mile I put between me and the Ole Plantation.

    Once I was back at the fire base I grilled a steak and now I’m sipping a bourbon.

    Week one down.

    Thanks for asking.

    Cheers!

    #565280
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    Anonymous
    12

    03.30AM here, and some good Rock Music in my ears – Linkin Park – Pushing me away

    Not only your daughters´s… but also your Happy place, your starting Base for the transition period.
    A peaceful retreat where you can sleep, rest, and have a think regarding your next moves. T
    he ones for yourself, the moves for the Daughter, and the moves regarding STBX.
    Steak and Bourbon sounds like a good choice.
    Your choice.

    Thanks for checking in.
    Cheers!

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