V-Day – if I play my cards right…

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

This will be the last fking V Day I spend with this b!tch!!

My goal: this time next year to be in my own pad, by myself grilling a big fat steak and drinking good bourbon. Raising a glass to my independence, void of a money sucking, self-centered, entitled brat.

V-Day Goals, anyone??

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Pardon the tough love if you please, but ……

CombatRoll wrote:

This will be the last fking V Day I spend with this b!tch!!

If that’s the way you feel about it, what the f~~~ are you doing there?

You can suddenly develop a case of dry heaves, or a “headache”. She would. Think of every excuse for not having sex she ever came up with, and just pick one.

Has she ever said “Why does it always have to be about sex? Can’t you just HOLD me for a while?”

Here’s what I would do…. take her on a “surprise” shopping trip. Let her pick out something. An outfit. A ring(!). Use your imagination. Let her try it on. If she wants the matching shoes, “SURE! WHY NOT!!” She DESERVES it.

Then when you get to the cash, tell her you were just kidding.

When she goes ballistic, ask her “Why does it always have to be about you having more stuff? Can’t you just HOLD it for a while?”

Think of every excuse for not having sex she ever came up with – and pick one.

If you play your cards right, you can win.
You just have to be more creative.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

Your best bet is to fold. The game is rigged.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[TaxGuyParticipant]

CombatRoll wrote:

V-Day Goals, anyone??

So, here’s the great thing about divorce. I no longer have V-Day goals. Don’t need ’em, don’t want ’em. But I will tell you this, that steak and bourbon will taste better than you currently think they will. The sweet seasoning of freedom makes everything taste and smell better.

Order the good wine

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I think you should play your cards RIGHT NOW.

Pack your valuable s~~~ and get out.

If you’re remting the house you live in with this woman, keep paying the rent until the lease expires but you don’t have to pay the utilities. Give her 30 days notice that you’re going to have everything shut off.

If you own the house, put it on the market and sell it out from under her. Check with a lawyer about how to make sure she leaves without destroying it.

Rent a tiny room, get a cabin somewhere, hit the road. Just put as much time and space between you and the woman as you can. You can do it right now.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

You walk out today, Valentine’s Day will forever be the best holiday for you. My divorce was finalized on my birthday! When my kids ask what I want, I just hug them and tell them I got everything a man could ask for.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

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