I'm just a meal ticket, sperm donor and dad

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

I’m in the midst of my exit plan.

I’m HD (high sex drive) and despite being in a s~~~ty marriage, I’ve been getting laid every other day for a decade. Sex is without kissing, caressing, etc. It’s like loading the dishwasher. But, she knows that I’m an SOB if I don’t get it and she also uses it for power over me.

Within the last couple weeks I’ve stopped making passes and after about 4 days (which is a long time for us) she said – OK, lets have sex b/c you’er going out of town. I nonchalantly said, “ok”.

I’ve always made it priority one to make her get her O before I do and when we 69 I’m like a champ and she piddles. I never cum.

SO – when she initiated I didn’t do my usual 100%, but half assed it like she does.

4 more days went by and she initiated again. I again half assed it.

I’m tired of being the pleaser and once she gets her’s, then it’s OK for me to get mine. She isn’t concerned with making me feel good. She doesn’t apply herself, so why should I?

I’m trying to ween myself off of being under the power of the mighty Poontang. In addition, I’ve barely been speaking to her.

To be quite honest. She doesn’t give a s~~~. As long as I’m providing, paying for 70% of everything and being a great dad. She just doesn’t give a damn.

Proves what I’ve always thought. She doesn’t give two s~~~s about me or my happiness.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Brother, I am glad you are here and that you have woken up.

I am sorry.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Order to feel lonely, I HAD TO GET A GIRLFRIEND. How ironic was that. Now, im just Alone.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

My heart goes out to you OP. I’ve been exactly where you are right now. And no matter how many of her hoops you jump through, for no matter how many years, it NEVER gets better. This is it. This is as good as it gets.

Hang in there, man. There is life on the other side of this.

[Better without YOUParticipant 234]

I bet it feels good to finally confirm everything you knew all along about her.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

CombatRoll wrote:

I’m trying to ween myself off of being under the power of the mighty Poontang

You should have said no to her advances—and watch the fun afterward. When you openly deny the tyranny of the t~~~ they go nuts!

[FaxmodemParticipant 1415]

That’s how women see us as.

Us men didn't start the battle of the sexes, but we're clearly going to win it via the simple tactic of just leaving the battlefield in contempt."

[Chuck WowParticipant 141]

PistolPete wrote:

CombatRoll wrote:

I’m trying to ween myself off of being under the power of the mighty Poontang

You should have said no to her advances—and watch the fun afterward. When you openly deny the tyranny of the t~~~ they go nuts!

Yes I was tired of always being the one that initiated sex and finally stopped caring/trying. It really mind-f~~~ed her when I consistently turned down sex and blowjobs. Can’t remember the last time we had sex and give zero f~~~s anymore. Our kid will be 18 in a few years and I am already executing the early stages of my escape plan. I look forward to the day when I can live alone and only worry about myself. So tired of being a slave to my wife and kid

[Anonymous 0]

It took about 3 days after the wedding for my ex to reveal herself as a gate-keeping refuser.

Get up and go to the gym at 5:30? No problem. Same for working late, reading to the kid until 10:30, finishing laundry, dishes, perusing Facebook, etc.

Sex? Always too tired. Don’t feel good. The kid will hear us.

She is well past hitting the wall and now sits at home hating the male of the species. Her highest function has become serving as the swamp donkey of her hive, making the rest of them look better in comparison.

I’d explain more, but I’m packing for a long weekend at the deer lease.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Mr. Man wrote:

it NEVER gets better. This is it.

Funny. Well not really, but it sure is kinda sick that that audience watching this clip thinks it’s hilarious. It’s always women who you hear laughing at how MISERABLE married men are.

CombatRoll wrote:

She doesn’t give two s~~~s about me or my happiness.

Ugh.

I once dumped a girlfriend on the spot because she wouldn’t shut up for 5 minutes when I told her to. Of all the things she expected of me to make her “happy”…. shutting the f~~~ would have really pleased me right then. Shutting the f~~~ up takes less effort than applying lipstick and it was asking NOTHING of her.

I decided if she wasn’t prepared to DO NOTHING to please me when I wanted, she would never be marriageable and immediately be ejected. The stunned look of shock and silence was priceless.

It was so effective, I made it personal policy.

Sex was another story. Instead of thinking sex was my reward, I very quickly learned that it’s the other way around. I’m not taking her out, wining and dining her — AND — giving a s~~~ about her orgasm. That’s what you have to start doing, my friend. If she wants an orgasm, she can bake me a lasagna or at the very least, throw some f~~~ing noodles in a pot of boiling water and pour some store bought sauce over it.

No? Too lazy? Too bad. She can get her orgasms someplace else and I will care about her satisfaction as much as she cared about mine on the first date. That’s when women start learning. When you put it in it’s proper perspective for them.

You’re paying 70% of the bills?
The toilet seat stays UP.
ALL THE TIME. NOT NEGOTIABLE.

Use your imagination here.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Not surprising the women always want you to please them first before you get off and if you don’t go with that plan they cut you off and find someone else to do that for them. Even prostitutes and escorts want this kind of treatment and if you don’t give them the O they will refuse to service you in the future. Glad to see you finally realized you are in a trap and can escape it.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

CombatRoll wrote:

I’m in the midst of my exit plan.

I’m HD (high sex drive) and despite being in a s~~~ty marriage, I’ve been getting laid every other day for a decade. Sex is without kissing, caressing, etc. It’s like loading the dishwasher. But, she knows that I’m an SOB if I don’t get it and she also uses it for power over me.

Within the last couple weeks I’ve stopped making passes and after about 4 days (which is a long time for us) she said – OK, lets have sex b/c you’er going out of town. I nonchalantly said, “ok”.

I’ve always made it priority one to make her get her O before I do and when we 69 I’m like a champ and she piddles. I never cum.

SO – when she initiated I didn’t do my usual 100%, but half assed it like she does.

4 more days went by and she initiated again. I again half assed it.

I’m tired of being the pleaser and once she gets her’s, then it’s OK for me to get mine. She isn’t concerned with making me feel good. She doesn’t apply herself, so why should I?

I’m trying to ween myself off of being under the power of the mighty Poontang. In addition, I’ve barely been speaking to her.

To be quite honest. She doesn’t give a s~~~. As long as I’m providing, paying for 70% of everything and being a great dad. She just doesn’t give a damn.

Proves what I’ve always thought. She doesn’t give two s~~~s about me or my happiness.

S~~~ you pay for 70% and hardly get any gratification from her?!?!?, if you are feeling like this now its time for your exit strategy. You did not say if you had kids or anything which may make things easier for you. I would finish asap and as soon as you have your strategy in place cut her off instantly and watch the tears flow from her that now her meal ticket is going. I do not put up with weak bitches that think they can suck me for money.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Welcome. Imagine if 70 percent of your wages went to taxes, and you never got to see nice roads or enjoy any social services provided by taxes. Your ladymaster sounds like a poor return on investment.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Anonymous wrote:

I’d explain more, but I’m packing for a long weekend at the deer lease.

Go get em’. Like you, sitting in the woods is much more fun than being home with her. I spend a lot of time doing my outdoor hobbies. Why would I want to hang around here?

SolidusX wrote:

CombatRoll wrote:

I’m in the midst of my exit plan.

I’m HD (high sex drive) and despite being in a s~~~ty marriage, I’ve been getting laid every other day for a decade. Sex is without kissing, caressing, etc. It’s like loading the dishwasher. But, she knows that I’m an SOB if I don’t get it and she also uses it for power over me.

Within the last couple weeks I’ve stopped making passes and after about 4 days (which is a long time for us) she said – OK, lets have sex b/c you’er going out of town. I nonchalantly said, “ok”.

I’ve always made it priority one to make her get her O before I do and when we 69 I’m like a champ and she piddles. I never cum.

SO – when she initiated I didn’t do my usual 100%, but half assed it like she does.

4 more days went by and she initiated again. I again half assed it.

I’m tired of being the pleaser and once she gets her’s, then it’s OK for me to get mine. She isn’t concerned with making me feel good. She doesn’t apply herself, so why should I?

I’m trying to ween myself off of being under the power of the mighty Poontang. In addition, I’ve barely been speaking to her.

To be quite honest. She doesn’t give a s~~~. As long as I’m providing, paying for 70% of everything and being a great dad. She just doesn’t give a damn.

Proves what I’ve always thought. She doesn’t give two s~~~s about me or my happiness.

S~~~ you pay for 70% and hardly get any gratification from her?!?!?, if you are feeling like this now its time for your exit strategy. You did not say if you had kids or anything which may make things easier for you. I would finish asap and as soon as you have your strategy in place cut her off instantly and watch the tears flow from her that now her meal ticket is going. I do not put up with weak bitches that think they can suck me for money.

I have an 19 year old in college and an 11 yr old. She brow beat me into having a 2nd child.

I can’t make it til this one is 18. I’m working on my plan.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

CombatRoll wrote:

She brow beat me into having a 2nd child.

Was she watching the Wendy Williams show by chance?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3At_6thwPg

It’s a goddam epidemic. And they think they are justified in doing it.

CombatRoll wrote:

I can’t make it til this one is 18. I’m working on my plan.

Be strong.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Anonymous wrote:

It took about 3 days after the wedding for my ex to reveal herself as a gate-keeping refuser.

I hear that s~~~! Like clock work.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Update: I’ve barely made eye contact in the last week. Haven’t really spoken to her more than necessary. Typically I act interested in her stupid ramblings just to be polite, but not anymore.

Typically we would have a drink on the patio together, but why should I act like things are copacetic?
She hasn’t asked why or acted like anything is different. I guess as long as the mortgage, car payments and college tuition are paid she doesn’t care.

I’m heading to the mountains with buddies today to hike, camping and drinking, etc. Hell with her…..

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