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Topic: Sex. Is it worth it?
Hi Guys,
Been awhile since I last posted. Have been busy with military training and taking care of my father who got cancer. I apologize in advance if this post gets too “personal.”
I’ve posted some threads before about myself but I’ll quickly recount a few things. I’m almost 23 and a virgin. I lived with an emotionally abusive bi-polar mother half the time when I was growing up. I learned at a young age how to put on a fake face around her to keep her happy. She never knew the true me and I never gave her the opportunity, having cut her out of my life completely when I turned 18.
I carried this insecurity and lack of confidence being around women as I got older. I never dated anybody in school but I would try occasionally as I got older to date girls I found attractive. I would go through all the motions I thought constituted being chivalrous (yes I know, chivalry has long been dead) and would always end up with things never going past the first date. I would buy them stuff and bend over backwards to do what I thought would make them happy. Honestly, I did not really know why I was doing it other than that’s what I thought the norm was. I did not realize it at the time but the problem was: I was a nice guy. I was taught growing up to charm the woman and seek her approval and this mentality followed me well into my 20’s.
Up until mid-2016, I was going crazy trying to figure out how to get women to like me. In fact, the older I got, the more attractive women started to initiate conversations with me. They would quickly lose interest when I did not turn out to be a Chad they were hoping for, and it was frustrating the hell out of me. I came across MGTOW and it was like a light bulb going off in my head. I had been playing an un-winnable game simply by being myself.
Cut to the present and my interest in women has diminished significantly.I’m not in any social circles with any females, and my military occupation has no females in it, so all the women I meet are strangers. Often I will be talking to a woman I find attractive and we could be having a good conversation, but all I can see are the red flags and side effects of having a sexual relationship. It does not seem worth all the hassle just for a warm meat hole attached to an emotional roller coaster, and then the logistics afterwards.
BUT
I Can’t help but to feel like I might be missing out on something great by not seeking sex at this stage in my life. Its so unnatural for me to put on a Macho Alpha persona just to get sex, and if that’s what it takes, then I can’t justify “squeezing the juice.” A fleshlight and porn works wonders for me as it is. I would really like to hear the insight of you more experienced guys. I’m not an indecisive person but my logical brain is clashing with the instinctual brain over this matter.
Thanks in advance.
A quick Google search would turn up countless articles of the sexodus of men. Hundreds if not thousands of articles where everyone is scratching their heads to figure us out.
They blame video games, underachievement, the economy, education, the job market, and Bigfoot for our leaving of the game. They will place blame on anything and everything without even thinking that it could possibly be women and the pussy pandering society they have created.
They cannot fathom that the age of chivalry is dying. (And also, they don’t realize that historically, chivalry had nothing to do with women. Chivalry was how soldiers conducted themselves in battle.To have proper battle technique, that’s why the Europeans called Indians barbaric because they fought erratically and not properly, but i digress.) They do not see that women have stolen the world that men worked so hard to create and maintain. They still believe that women should be lifted high upon our shoulders and carried like a protected treasure.
The world refuses to see the damage women have done, and the preferential treatment they receive. Women receive minor punishment for grievous crimes, 2 years for the molestation of a child, and only 10 for the calculated murder of a man. Blame is to be shifted to everything but the cause of our grief. As it couldn’t possibly be the princess who is the problem.
Since time eternal men have been expected to lay down their lives immediately to save the thankless creatures from harm. We are expected to prostrate ourselves in the family court, with a smile, as all broken servants are demanded to do.
With the mockery that is the family courts and the vile nature of women which they no longer care to hide. Is it not as clear as day to why men are walking, no, running away from a society that demands so much yet gives so little.
I wait for the day when MGTOW is actually asked by the public as to why we have turned our backs. Let them hear the truth, let them cry and complain, and let them burn with the rest of our world. We are witnessing what happens when the creators no longer care about their work. Men have walked away, and they have nothing to blame but themselves.


