First conversations

[MadBikerParticipant 169]

As one of the more mature brotherhood (over 50) I have naturally had more than my fair share of conversations with women.

For any of you out there who are still dabbling in the dating game here is something to look out for during the “get to know each other” conversations that take place during those initially promising moments.

Once she has established who you are, what job you have, what car you drive, what family you have, etc. then listen closely.

If after this all you hear are the words “I” “Me” “My mother” beware.

If no further questions about you are asked it is obvious that she is not interested in finding out who you really are etc. Confirmation of her narcissism will then appear as she talks about herself and or her mother, her friends, her life, for the remainder of the date.

If you start to hear this or are in a relationship and this sounds familiar, time to exit stage left gents.

[Anonymous 13]

I hear you and good advice.

I won’t enter stage in the first place.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Very useful advice indeed. Check out how many red flags she is furloughing right from the get go.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Wise words
The ol’ open ended question.
This is a PUA’s trick to get a girl talking about herself and just listening. Forcing himself to hear just to stay in the conversation enough to make a reply that will keep her talking about herself. This narcissism is their weakness and it will reveal their true nature.

She will tell you about::
Wants a family – sperm jacking and false pregnancies.
Her financial woes – debt help
Values chivalry – wants you to pay for everything.
Her family – wants someone to support them
Her children – Needs a daddy

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 6]

Nothing but me myself and I while all you get out of it is a f~~~ing headache, an empty chair can listen to their s~~~ longer than I can and that stage has been evacuated long ago!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MadBiker wrote:

it is obvious that she is not interested in finding out who you really are etc.

This is actually a terrifying reality.
She will even shag you and think she’s in a “relationship” with you before caring to know anything.

Changing her Facebook status to “in a relationship” is more important than even asking how you spend your spare time. I once dated for MONTHS and colunteereed very little . Waited until she asked certain questions – at least out of curiosity – and she never did. You can be two years into a relationship and go on a trip and she’ll be like “OMG you speak another language? You play an instrument?”. Staggering.

One day, I saw this animation and was just floored.
It all suddenly made sense. She doesn’t give A F~~~ about your inherent personhood.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[narwhalParticipant]

Yes, I’ve seen this many times. Women will evaluate based on how well you get them to talk about themselves.

I believe @KM has said this before, but women are horrible conversationalist. It seems that’s partly because you can’t start a conversation by talking about yourself.

What I find amazingly sad, you can even make it amazingly easy for them and they still fail. You ask them simple questions that they could easily turn around and ask you the same…but they don’t.

What’s your favorite color?
blue.
<silence. looks bored…waiting for you to ask her another question>

How hard is it to say “What’s yours?”. You don’t even have to make it a complete sentence or go beyond one syllable. “You?”

I have had dates where I have literally asked her 20 questions about herself, she asked nothing of me, and then tells me what a wonderful time she had.

Ok. Then do it.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Out of all the girls I’ve known or had any type of relationship with, only one has been able to hold a conversation. The rest just sit there and wait for you to ask questions. Many many dates lasted for one drink, after I realized they only think or care about themselves.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Lol. I went on a date yesterday. Typical pump and dump chick. I always think a good game to play is 21 question on a first date. This really creates some create conversation. The first question I asked her was, “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?”. Her first reply was, “Wow, what a great question!”. The first thing I thought was, wow then you must really suck at conversing…

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

MadBiker wrote:

Once she has established who you are, what job you have, what car you drive, what family you have, etc.

Make sure whatever she establishes is wrong. Say nothing and let her jump to the wrong conclusions.

You can bet most of what she says about herself will be a lie anyways.

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