Sex. Is it worth it?

[VladParticipant 110]

Hi Guys,

Been awhile since I last posted. Have been busy with military training and taking care of my father who got cancer. I apologize in advance if this post gets too “personal.”

I’ve posted some threads before about myself but I’ll quickly recount a few things. I’m almost 23 and a virgin. I lived with an emotionally abusive bi-polar mother half the time when I was growing up. I learned at a young age how to put on a fake face around her to keep her happy. She never knew the true me and I never gave her the opportunity, having cut her out of my life completely when I turned 18.

I carried this insecurity and lack of confidence being around women as I got older. I never dated anybody in school but I would try occasionally as I got older to date girls I found attractive. I would go through all the motions I thought constituted being chivalrous (yes I know, chivalry has long been dead) and would always end up with things never going past the first date. I would buy them stuff and bend over backwards to do what I thought would make them happy. Honestly, I did not really know why I was doing it other than that’s what I thought the norm was. I did not realize it at the time but the problem was: I was a nice guy. I was taught growing up to charm the woman and seek her approval and this mentality followed me well into my 20’s.

Up until mid-2016, I was going crazy trying to figure out how to get women to like me. In fact, the older I got, the more attractive women started to initiate conversations with me. They would quickly lose interest when I did not turn out to be a Chad they were hoping for, and it was frustrating the hell out of me. I came across MGTOW and it was like a light bulb going off in my head. I had been playing an un-winnable game simply by being myself.

Cut to the present and my interest in women has diminished significantly.I’m not in any social circles with any females, and my military occupation has no females in it, so all the women I meet are strangers. Often I will be talking to a woman I find attractive and we could be having a good conversation, but all I can see are the red flags and side effects of having a sexual relationship. It does not seem worth all the hassle just for a warm meat hole attached to an emotional roller coaster, and then the logistics afterwards.

BUT

I Can’t help but to feel like I might be missing out on something great by not seeking sex at this stage in my life. Its so unnatural for me to put on a Macho Alpha persona just to get sex, and if that’s what it takes, then I can’t justify “squeezing the juice.” A fleshlight and porn works wonders for me as it is. I would really like to hear the insight of you more experienced guys. I’m not an indecisive person but my logical brain is clashing with the instinctual brain over this matter.

Thanks in advance.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Back when I was still plugged in, I thought sex was the best thing you could possibly do… the end-all and be-all of existence. It gave me a real feeling of power to bed a girl, give her a screaming orgasm and have her keep coming back for more.

That was my instinct talking.

Now that I’ve been unplugged and have chosen the red pill and can see the world for what it is… meh, not so much. I’d say one out of maybe 20 women I’ve been with was even worth the effort… and all that did was give me the desire to try to hang on to her, which is where all the real disastrous s~~~ begins.

For a red-pilled man, sex is a trap. A very dangerous trap. I still indulge in it occasionally, but I desire it less and less. It doesn’t hurt that I’ve had a LOT of women and am also at the age where libido slows down so it’s not that big of a deal anyway… but even when I want it physically, I see the code in my mind and I lose interest quickly.

But you’re young… desiring sex is natural and I’m not going to blame you if you don’t want to fight your nature… just take precaution.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

I am in same boat as Doc – I had a lot of sex, and now at 53 I am ghost celibate. I fap, watch porn for release.

You don’t want to repress yourself sexually. I think that can lead to real mental problems.

You are in the military, if you get a chance to deploy overseas, bang a few whores. Just make sure you use protection.
If some of the other guys go to a brothel, go with them etc.

Maybe f~~~ a EM club skank if you need to… but always wrap it up (condom).
Fap if you need to. I spent months at sea, so you know there was a lot of fapping going on, just do it privately.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

When you’re horny, sex will seem like the most important thing in life and any laydee (average looking & above) you set your eyes on will look like the most beautiful thing you’ve seen.

But as soon as you cum, you’re back to your senses and the laydee you just f~~~ed might look worse than s~~~ in your eyes.

Having said that, if you want sex, be careful and make sure it’s on your own terms.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[AttonParticipant]

It’s like putting a v8 into a Mazda 6 an utter waste of f~~~ing time.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 54]

Looking back the sex Ive had was just a big waste of time.
Sure there is a curiousity to see what all the fuss is about.

Much to do about nothing.

[Anonymous 42]

Shorter answer; NO.

[Anonymous 25]

only worth it with a fleshlight

why take all the risks when there’s a risk free option available

[Anonymous 43]

I wasn’t into sex to begin with, like she had to have it or I was gone. Afterwards I really didn’t want to be near her for a while. I felt disgusted, and used, and I couldn’t take a shower fast enough. Gross. One time she jumped on me while she was bleeding. I can’t begin to tell you how horrible that was. I thought I was damaged and bleeding…nope, it was her dribbling all over me. she wanted to see what that felt like, a new experience.

nasty

This is supposed to be some great intimate thing that brings you and her closer together. I found it to be horrible and yucky and part of the manipulation and coercion that was our relationship.

you aren’t missing much, I think there is a power component in sex, first one to orgasm loses, or maybe clubbing the partner into having sex to begin with.

[UntamedParticipant]

Sex isn’t worth it, especially when that ‘it’ is your freedom of movement, your Masculinity, your way of life, your kids or your human rights.
It’s only worth it for it but I’m not gonna deny my nature or my urges not am I going to diminish my masculinity to suit anyone, least of all a bunch of deluded bluepilled sheep.
I get laid more now than when I was married. Either it’s visiting my favorite Lady or pump’n’dump it’s all the same. Important thing is to service that want in the simplest and safest way, no strings attached and no bulls~~~.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

Just remember that it only takes one mistake to end up with a nasty STD that may or may not be easy to get rid of.

I lost my virginity to my (ex) wife. No joke. And to this day she is the only woman I’ve ever had sex with. Yes, sex is nice and fun, but it’s really sickening when your partner turns on you and that trust is shattered. I would not have married her if I had a crystal ball to see the divorce coming. The sex wasn’t worth it.

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[Anonymous 54]

Akanbi wrote:

But as soon as you cum, you’re back to your senses and the laydee you just f~~~ed might look worse than s~~~ in your eyes.

Soon as you cum, youll bum.

[globemasterParticipant 443]

Getting sex by spending lots of money,time/effort or getting married/relationship is not worth.

Sex without above things is good. I wish i had a memory erasing device like the one in the movie MIB. Sex is all about satisfying a urge, once you cum and the urge goes away ,there comes an emptiness.

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

Vlad wrote:

I would go through all the motions I thought constituted being chivalrous (yes I know, chivalry has long been dead) and would always end up with things never going past the first date. I would buy them stuff and bend over backwards to do what I thought would make them happy. Honestly, I did not really know why I was doing it other than that’s what I thought the norm was.

Feminism killed chivalry – they all strong, independent don’t need no man.
Don’t blame yourself for this.

We have all been brainwashed to believe flowers, gifts, trinkets, aphrodisiacs will woo the woman into spreading her legs.
How wrong we were.

Girls give sex during last call at a bar simply by licking your lips and winking at them. They always run to a Chad because he knows how to give the drama they crave (attention seekers, emotional vampires women are) and enforce the ‘all men are scum’ doctrine they love to boost themselves up with.

In short – if you want pussy become a c~~~y, arrogant asswipe and really pile on the narcissism. They will be begging for you to pay off their debts and offer their bodies as a reward.

Not worth it as you said.
Sex is pounding a skin hole, it’s pathetic how many hours I’ve wasted dreaming of such an activity. After your marathon f~~~-fest it’s nothing but shopping, gossip, paying for s~~~, watching the stupidest TV shows and all the while an invisible, subtle message ‘men are scum’.
Not worth it man.
Let them be lesbians and destroy each other.

Women are like cats – give them attention they claw you. Ignore them and they jump in your lap.

23 is young, don’t let the simps and sluts shame you for being a pure virgin. Believe me, EVERY slut wishes she was still a virgin at heart.

You have tons of life ahead of you, at 23 all I had was dead-end relations~~~s that made me depressed and feel worthless because I couldn’t compete with Chads flashy game and bulls~~~ stories weemen love.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

If you pay for sex it’s never worth the price.

And I’m not talking about money.

[Chris1234Participant 353]

Overrated however you’ve got to experience it. I had an decent amount in my 20s. This goes against the advice of others on here however Ive come to the conclusion that Id sooner pay for it. I spent so much time and money in my 20s going on dates etc and when I got into my 30s I realised it wasnt worth the effort. Now I focus on work and use my hand when required. Once a year I go on holidays and just pay for it when Im away. I always wear a condom. I dont do it when Im not on holidays as Im fearful of becoming addicted and it would become an expensive addiction. Ive found the sex is usually better as they are eager to please plus they are heaps better looking. Ive gone through similar s~~~ with my family so I know it knocks you about. It might be worth trying to save some money and take a holiday when the time is right. Even if you dont pay a pro it does good to get away from everyone. My 2 cents

[JVBParticipant]

Sex is like a bank account. Once you withdraw you loose interest.

Before yip it seems worth it, after it never is.

Peace is > piece.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Sex. Is it worth it?

@vlad

PM me and I’ll hook you up with my last ex-GF AKA “UberBitch”. I can guarantee you that you’ll have your answer soon enough…

[AutoliteParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Shorter answer; NO.

Permit me to expand and elaborate on that answer.

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Ask yourself what is the cost of getting your extremity rubbed while taking a p~~~.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

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