Behavior vs. Words

[Anonymous 7]

I have a question for you guys that has baffled me.

During the last year of things going downhill in my last relationship I found that the ex was going through her Bible more and writing passages in a notebook. These passages included such things as “how a woman should conduct herself in the marriage”, “what is expected of the woman”, “what is expected of the man”, etc. Almost all of the passages were about the interactions, and conduct in a marriage.

Now, this was during her really ramping up her wardrobe and looks (underwear, clothes, shoes, makeup, hair style, etc.) All the signs of cheating were present (guarding phone, constant going out, non-communication, no sex, etc.)

Whiskey. Tango. Foxtrot?

Was this some kind of “mask”, her feeling guilty, her trying to justify her actions, or something other? Is this another red flag that should be noted for us men?

Has anyone else experienced this? I have no clue what it meant, but I was curious of her reasoning on doing this because of her behavior towards me for quite some time. We had pretty much almost become silent roommates by now.

The reason I ask is because to me, and logically thinking, referencing the Bible more in my life was to set myself straight. She was diverging more towards her “Chad” it seemed. I know “she devils” are not logical, but the reason still makes me wonder.

Freaking ridiculous, the f~~~ing mind flips these women cause me by their behavior compared to words.

I’m really glad I don’t deal in the stupid anymore, but damn, if there aren’t so many questions still. I keep going my own way, but continue pondering the ridiculousness of it all.

Anybody got any ideas on the meaning of her behavior in this regard? Hell, do any of you have a mixed signal message from some “she devil”? Too me, they are flipping crazy!

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

I hate to say it but what part of this Behavior are you not understanding? Look my X used every excuse under the sun to try and subvert My independence. This should be your concern

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Anonymous 25]

[Mr. GoodbarParticipant 35]

I can’t explain it either, but I have seen/experienced it. Back in another life, when I was a young, lovestruck idiot mangina, I had a horrible case of infatuation with a chick at my work. She would talk about going to church, and had a “Jesus is Lord” bumper sticker on her car. I eventually figured out she was a HUGE carousel chick.

[JVBParticipant]

It seems like you were long gone before you were long gone bro. Be happy to be rid of her. Mental issues indeed.

Peace is > piece.

[Mr. GoodbarParticipant 35]

She had no interest in me, which I am now glad for. I saw some of the “ponies” she rode, when they would come in to have lunch or make plans for later with her. All Chad/Alpha type dudes. I’m always reminded of those days when I see a woman dressed for church now.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Anybody got any ideas on the meaning of her behavior in this regard? Hell, do any of you have a mixed signal message from some “she devil”? Too me, they are flipping crazy!

Do you really want an honest answer? Will you be offended or p~~~ed off with me if I were to tell you the truth???

[Anonymous 3]

The hamster wheel thinking is that you can cancel what you do wrong by pretending to do “good” things.

They beleive people will only see the “good” part they display, and ignore their “secrets”.

Because women have to have “secrets”, its their way of creating drama and a personal soap-opera.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

Is this another red flag that should be noted for us men?

Woman are hypergamous. That’s what we are learning and teaching here. So is she looking? They all are. Accept it and work on being a sovereign man WHO DOESN’T MEASURE HIS WORTH BY A WOMAN.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

My sweet cupcake became a bible thumpin Jesus freak AFTER we were married, but she definitely didn’t get into the sexy wardrobe etc. She grew into a sexless menopausal hag. At least one would think all that religion would make her into a “nicer” person, but she just continues to get BITCHIER by the day.

Anonymous wrote:

I’m really glad I don’t deal in the stupid anymore, but damn, if there aren’t so many questions still. I keep going my own way, but continue pondering the ridiculousness of it all.

Be VERY GRATEFUL that you don’t have to LIVE with it as it CONTINUES to get CRAZIER. Don’t bother trying to figure out CRAZY, but for future reference MANY get crazier as they get older !!

GOOD RIDDANCE !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 0]

Don’t overlook the possibility that she might have started going to church (given the bible references). She could have bought new clothes for her church attendances. Just my 2 cents.

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

Anonymous wrote:

Don’t overlook the possibility that she might have started going to church (given the bible references). She could have bought new clothes for her church attendances. Just my 2 cents.

My lil cupcake changed her wardrobe over the years as well, but old church lady clothes are F~~~in Ugly !!

Anonymous wrote:

Now, this was during her really ramping up her wardrobe and looks (underwear, clothes, shoes, makeup, hair style, etc.)

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 0]

Awakened wrote:

YZF-R1 wrote:

Don’t overlook the possibility that she might have started going to church (given the bible references). She could have bought new clothes for her church attendances. Just my 2 cents.

My lil cupcake changed her wardrobe over the years as well, but old church lady clothes are F~~~in Ugly !!

LoneStar wrote:

Now, this was during her really ramping up her wardrobe and looks (underwear, clothes, shoes, makeup, hair style, etc.)

You probably haven’t been to church lately. I have seen some s~~~. Haha

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

She could have bought new clothes for her church attendances.

Please be kind enough to direct me to the church where the women are well dressed. I seem to be having difficulty finding it.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Anonymous 13]

She was f~~~ing the vicar, maybe?

[Anonymous 3]

The biggest difference between a Chad and a good man is when a woman says “I have a boyfriend/I’m married” a good man stops immediately (if he ever asks in the first place). Chad just keeps going. The women justify it as they tried, and it’s not their fault.

Of course all women have a boyfriend. There is never a time until they hit the wall that a woman is actually single for more than 2-3 days, usually 15 minutes or less as a beta orbiter immediately moves in.

I think this might slowly be beginning to change, as more and more men are fed up with women’s bulls~~~ and refuse the relationship game.

Whatever though, not our problem. Western women will always slut around, that’s just what they do.

[joetechParticipant]

Maybe she left the notebook where you WOULD find it so she could mislead you as to her true intentions. The old bait and switch tactic. Don’t trust her. I’ve known many bible thumpers that are evil as hell underneath. Remember, Satan knows every verse of the bible, too. Maybe she’s planning on having an affair with a preacher.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 7]

Autolite wrote:

LoneStar wrote:

Anybody got any ideas on the meaning of her behavior in this regard? Hell, do any of you have a mixed signal message from some “she devil”? Too me, they are flipping crazy!

Do you really want an honest answer? Will you be offended or p~~~ed off with me if I were to tell you the truth???

I would not have posted otherwise. Give it to me straight, for that is why I’m here.

No, she was not going to church, or dressing up for it. The cheating had been ongoing before this.

She was either keeping these notebooks in her purse, or hiding them. She believed I had no clue of them.

It is the contradiction going on in their head that confuses me, and will now cause me to go monk.

I’m still trying to shake the remnants of her spell over me, so I’m working on constructing a better frame of mind. To understand how to evaluate situations more precisely.

[Anonymous 7]

joetech wrote:

Maybe she left the notebook where you WOULD find it so she could mislead you as to her true intentions. The old bait and switch tactic. Don’t trust her.

This was actually my conclusion as well. She could have safeguarded her writings a bit better than she did.

It has now come to the point that I will never be able to trust any “she devil” for the rest of my life.

Not having a female I feel intimate with in my life feels very wrong, but also, so very right in some respects. I do not believe a happy balance can be obtained, so… f~~~ off, crazy whores!

[Anonymous 0]

Can’t Stump Trump wrote:

YZF-R1 wrote:

She could have bought new clothes for her church attendances.

Please be kind enough to direct me to the church where the women are well dressed. I seem to be having difficulty finding it.

Champions Forest Baptist Church
Community of Faith
Woodlands Church
That’s without really thinking about it very hard.

Doesn’t matter now. Lonestar said the new wardrobe wasn’t for church. Also, I missed where he mentioned “underwear”. That would not have fit in with my scenario. Obviously, you don’t need new underwear to go to church.

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