Can’t Believe What Just Happened

[Anonymous 2]

Man your experience is extremely common.Most women doing the same s~~~ all the time.If I am you, I will not have any more contact with her,because I do know from my past experiences that if I will it will cost me heaps of emotional suffering and money.Just feel good about the nice banging sessions,and move on and grab the next opportunity when its arrive. But man it is your choice for sure.

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

Thanks for all the advice on this guys. I was thinking alot about this today and I definitely feel like a vagina for getting so upset over this. I just felt like I had the rug pulled out from under me.

Moving on, I know that within the next few years there’s going to be massive improvements not only in my wallet but in my physical appearance. I already see a huge difference in the way I look compared to my high school/college days and alot of the girls that I went to high school with that I used to think were the hottest girls are definitely loosing it. Their skin is changing and gets all leathery from the tanning they do and all the other areas of their body most definitely have not improved. Most of the girls that are still hot are complete fitness freaks but even with all that work they still don’t look as good as their 17-22 year old days. Now it’s completely normal for girls to say i’m hot which is something that NEVER happened back in the day. So I know that graph is true.

Something else I was thinking about was how I was so against getting into another relationship but it was so easy for me to turn beta once a hot girl that I liked came into the picture. This is something that needs to die. All the girls that are going out to bars and clubs on the weekend are all like this chick. They are all exactly like that. None of them are special. It’s a tough pill to swallow cause I know as men we want to protect and take care of a woman but it’s the truth. All of them are like this girl. They want to pull a guy in and manipulate him into whatever they want him to be. If I have sex with a girl and then she never wants to talk to me again I don’t even know why I would be mad about that. No more emotional attachments to these girls. They are all like this and my guard is up.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

OldBill wrote:

joey_fingaz wrote:

But if that does happen and it is a s~~~ test what should I say to her?

I already answered that. You say nothing to her. Don’t respond to her texts, calls, or anything else. It’s over. You never need to hear from her, see her, or deal with her again.

What sucks is she really had a hold of me emotionally because I loved hooking up with her.

You’re thinking with your dick. Start thinking with your head.

It was different then all the other meaningless hook ups I had.

Bulls~~~. This is exactly like all the other meaningless hook-ups you’ve had.

So if she does come back to me with some bulls~~~ I don’t know what my reaction would be.

If you don’t read it, you’ll have no reaction. Cut her out of your life like the cancer she is.

I don’t want to come off with anger and I also dont want to be a mangina like I’m acting right now.

Jesus H. Titty F~~~ing Christ. Where’s that Godfather gif when I need it? You know, the one where Don Vito bitch slaps Johnny Fontane and tells him to act like a man?

Act like man. You’re done with this woman. It’s over.

Right on Bill.

Fuck this planet.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

OldBill wrote:

Jesus H. Titty F~~~ing Christ. Where’s that Godfather gif when I need it? You know, the one where Don Vito bitch slaps Johnny Fontane and tells him to act like a man?

Act like man. You’re done with this woman. It’s over.

Right on, Bill.

Fuck this planet.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Look at it as if you got a great escort girl for a weekend of fun and spent very little on her. And then she left!
It’s a f~~~ing bargain!!!
You should feel very lucky but you are complaining?

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

Don’t be too hard on yourself. If the trap didn’t work a lot, women wouldn’t use it ALL THE F~~~ING TIME.
You felt that something special was happening, but she did not. No matter what you might say to her, you won’t change that. Anything really “special” about it is something you imagined.
No reason to talk to her. You have nothing to gain. I very sincerely doubt that you’re the only guy she’s got on a string. You’re one on her list. That’s how women manage multiple men, pull them in close, give them a taste, then push them away to hold them at arms length until they can evaluate their choices. I would expect her to check in with you once in a while to make sure you’re still out there waiting.
Old Bill is a fountain of wisdom, and I am glad to see you are heeding his advice.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[OldBillParticipant]

Theronius wrote:

Don’t be too hard on yourself. If the trap didn’t work a lot, women wouldn’t use it ALL THE F~~~ING TIME.

Now that comment is one which should be saved.

You got more across in two sentences than I did in two posts.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

confirm her supposed suspicion.. Thank her for being easy, and tell her she is correct in that you both are looking for something different..Tell her deep down you just want a sex slave that has only three emotions happy, horny and contentment. Say she just has more emotional baggage than you are willing to deal with..If you can calmly relate this to her it will be a show worth watching…

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

joey_fingaz wrote:

I definitely feel like a vagina for getting so upset over this

Understandable, man.

Women are temporary pleasures.

Accept it. And you’ll be fine.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

3:40 on timeline

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

Russky wrote:

Look at it as if you got a great escort girl for a weekend of fun and spent very little on her. And then she left!
It’s a f~~~ing bargain!!!
You should feel very lucky but you are complaining?

LOL that’s kind of the way I’m seeing it.

OldBill wrote:

Theronius wrote:

Don’t be too hard on yourself. If the trap didn’t work a lot, women wouldn’t use it ALL THE F~~~ING TIME.

Now that comment is one which should be saved.

You got more across in two sentences than I did in two posts.

Yeah, since this was something that I never experienced firsthand I was not ready for it. At one point while I was hanging out with her though I was thinking about one of the stories from the book “Why I Cheat”. I don’t know if you read it but remember the story about the guy that met some girl he had this amazing connection with and she ended up trying to get him to pay off all her debt and had sex with his boss? This was actually something I was thinking about while I was spending time with her. Like this is too good, it can’t be real.

Also now this shows me that if I can do this with one girl and never talk to her again then having an experience like this is not a big deal. We’ve been taught that having an amazing experience with a girl means there’s some kind of connection but it’s actually bulls~~~. It doesn’t mean anything. Now if that’s what men were lead to believe then what the f~~~ were women taught? Get the man to believe he has this amazing connection with you so you can own him? YUP.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Keymaster wrote:

joey_fingaz wrote:

She just texts me saying “I get it. We can chill but we aren’t hooking up”

Don’t even REPLY to that s~~~. You make your own rules, and write your terms and conditions. Like I said, if she’s not 100% there with you, she’s history.

And be OK with it.

“We can chill but we’re not hooking up.”

She can get a girlfriend for that.

Starting right now, she gets no more of your time or attention. Save all of her texts which show that she broke it off and it was her idea. Save them. Email them to yourself or something.

MAKE SURE she won’t get away with a false accusation (after the fact) either.

Yup he should save them forever. Look at the Jian Ghomeshi trial where the suppose rape happen about a decade ago. When a woman goes ape s~~~ do not reply no matter what she says. Let her message, email or call all she wants.
Be upfront and tell women that you never want a girlfriend or wife right from the start then they can’t really blame you.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

joey_fingaz wrote:

I like hooking up and having sex but this really changed everything for me now. I know I’ll get past this but i’ll never forget this. The scar of seeing first hand how a girl can completely change her mind like a flip of a switch is scary and I don’t know if i’ll ever be the same again.

I know dude, this is why I won’t have sex with any woman. Although I am not into casual sex. I remember on POF this guy claimed to be MGTOW and he claimed to be asexual. It’s funny how women hated him because he only wanted to date the women but not have sex with them. Having sex with women gives them power, a dude who won’t have sex with a woman doesn’t get power over a man so he is hated so much it’s not even funny.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Here’s a random find for Joey which I just tripped on on youtube. Another guy having a “WTF” moment, when his fiancee does an about face and random s~~~ like “you’re not spiritual enough” …. “i don’t think I’m good enough for you”.

That’s a woman projecting her issues that take place in her own head, but the guy makes the mistake of trying to make sense out of it. She says 4 lazy words on facebook, and he will run miles an do back flips over it just to try and make her bulls~~~ make sense.

“you’re not spiritual enough”

Instead of trying to figure out the s~~~ in her brain, f~~~ with her mind instead:

“But you liked it when I took you ass to mouth tho.”

Just deflect her puck and let it bounce in the opposite direction.
First person I thought of when I saw this video was Joey_Fingaz.

“I don’t think I’m good enough for you”

“If you say so.”

That’s the only thing a woman will say to you that you can take at face value.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

Damn, the guy was engaged to a girl he was in an online relationship with? Did I hear the correctly? Despite all that it still gave me that sick feeling in my stomach I had on Tuesday.

I read in the archives the Schopenhauer On Women article this morning, says women live as children for their whole lives and it’s completely natural. It’s just the way nature as programmed them. Alot of really interesting stuff in that article.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

haha I guess he answered my question. I asked Vegan Gains if he ever met her in real life, it’s obvious he didn’t. Women online frequently do this they will use you emotionally and disappear.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

That dude isn’t on this forum is he?

[edward62Participant 34]

She was just using you for sex, a quicky, more then likely she has a boyfriend some where , and this is her evenge on him, carrying your sperm around in side her, so she can get back at him…..this is why you should always be weary….

[Dunn GoofdParticipant 119]

Hi Joey, let me nail the coffin. You are not the Chad she will be running to get f~~~ed. Because she would never s~~~ test you if you were. For her you are just a potential mangina to squeeze the life out of, nothing else. If she ever contacts you back it is never love or sex she will be looking for. It is only to satisfy her other needs that she is too lazy to take care of. You should not respond to her IN ANY CONDITION. Let me put it this way, imagine she is burning in flames next to you and you have a glass of water to put her off. You drink the water.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Russky wrote:

P.S.: When something doesn’t make sense about a woman’s behavior- I think most of the time is the Hive giving her advice – moms, sisters, friends, co-workers. Women rarely make decisions on their own, and they always consult their Hive about everything and then just blindly follow someone else’s advice

This is spot on…I had a relationship in the past and one of the big hang ups in the relationship for me was some of my family members were part of her hive. Towards the end I had a talk with her I told her if you want this relationship to go anywhere, stop involving my family in every little detail of us, its disrespectful, annoying, and makes too much drama for me for no reason, if you want to talk to someone about us do it with me, that’s what I’m here for, or at the very least if you want input from a third party do it with a friend from school or something that’s not related to me.

Literally that same day she ran back to the hive telling them what I had said. I had found out the next day from my uncle who wanted to give me the heads up because he realized what a s~~~ty position I was in…my aunt literally told this girl not to take any s~~~ from me and to play hardball with me. Basically she blew me off for a few days, apparently to try to make me miss her or something, but thankfully for my uncle I was one step ahead of her so she was already done in my mind after she literally went crying to my family the same day I asked her to not do that anymore.

It was classic a few days later when she called me up around midnight trying to get me to come over for a booty call. I said no thanks, I’m out with some friends…and she said what about after? I said…I’m going home and going to sleep. It was like a nuke in her face…going home alone and going to sleep was better than going over her place and f~~~ing her, when she lived like 5 minutes away from me lol. Its sad how bad the hive operates, she could have simply not gone complaining to my family after I asked her to stop doing that and I’d have been much happier, or when she did go whining to my family about me complaining how she whined to them constantly, they could have said wtf are you back here whining to us for then, listen to him if you want him in your life.

Nah…it was all about manipulation, control, and drama for them, and I ended up the asshole when I chose my sanity over her. My own female family members had hours to scheme with this girl behind my back how to manipulate me, but they couldn’t take literally 5 minutes to call their own blood and ask “How are things going on your end?” The hive mentality is so f~~~ed up its almost unbelievable…almost!

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