Can’t Believe What Just Happened

[Anonymous 7]

You can get through it man get busy with something productive force yourself to start a project.

Love is the allusion that one woman is different from another.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Personally, I will agree with the others. She was up to something or crazy.

Now, you “stuck your dick in crazy” and didn’t have to get rid of her ? Sounds like you are ahead.

As someone else said, “You don’t pay hookers for sex, you pay them to leave.”

You just got her to leave on her own.

Generally, if she acts this crazy or manipulative, don’t waste your time and move on. Been there, done it.

Frank V.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Thank you for sharing this man, many great responses in this thread.

joey_fingaz wrote:

I was even starting to think that this whole MGTOW thing might be a little over the top with their theories

Whatever. call it MGTOW, call it me being a dick, I don’t care. For me it’s just facts of life, that I accepted. No shadows or doubts here, no believes or theories left about this. Maybe, I listened to TomLeykis a bit too much at this point.

joey_fingaz wrote:

I f~~~ing paid for everything

Isn’t that nice ! …did she offer to split at least ? Or she just plain used you for attention and money ?

joey_fingaz wrote:

i’m being accused of basically being some scumbag just trying to use her for sex.

Ah, so you were a scumbag in that situation … riiight.

joey_fingaz wrote:

She’s full of s~~~. Something else had to of made her change her mind cause it makes no sense.

Of course. She can’t be blamed, it must be some other reason ! 😀 As always.
I understand your pain man, but there is no need to go in-depth theory, accept the situation for what it is.

OldBill wrote:

Jesus H. Titty F~~~ing Christ. Where’s that Godfather gif when I need it? You know, the one where Don Vito bitch slaps Johnny Fontane and tells him to act like a man?

Act like man. You’re done with this woman. It’s over.

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[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

This bitch has no originality. She’s got the female playbook in her hands and is reading from it without bothering to memorize her lines.

“We both want different things” give me a break. I would nail her for that. “Don’t tell me what I want. When I want your opinion, I’ll rattle my zipper”.

[WhackerGuy2030Participant 999]

Don’t say anything, just walk away, and block her number. By doing that you dictate the terms of the game, and that is, you’re not playing it.

Here are some thoughts…

*Don’t ever have an important conversation via text. Women are notorious for that. You cannot control how your message is perceived, and she gets time to think through her next bulls~~~ response. It’s the furthest thing from a real functional conversation. It’s immature and a sign of a poor communicator.

*Her sudden 180 should be enough to run from that s~~~. Whether she’s manipulating or just bat s~~~ crazy doesn’t matter. You don’t want it.

*When you walk away from it silently, she’ll be left agonizing over why she lost you, control of you, or however her brain processes it. Her loneliness will stack up over time and she’ll either learn her lesson or be doomed to cat ladydom.

Unless she was 23, smoking hot, dynamite in bed, making $100,000/yr you’re not losing anything. Hot chicks that put out are a dime a dozen. Finding one that isn’t simply looking for someone to hitch their plow to is the trick.

Your mistake was letting her inside your head. You gotta keep them at arms length and dictate the pace and direction.

[Grim-Participant 454]

This was a complete s~~~ test. She let you sample the goods then took’em away in order to get you to buy the whole package.

It’s like a cars salesmen letting you test drive a nice sports car for a while and then taking away the keys and saying “sorry, we only have a few of these left in stock, if you want one, you gotta buy it now”

For me, I’d rather just test drive the car and say “meh, I’ll think about buying it” And let’em sweat it out.

(This was a Tom Leykis teaching, so it’s not my idea, but, I do think exactly like him now since I did become a MGHOW as far as relations~~~s are concerned)

If you know the car dealer is trying to scam you with an over priced car, you know it’s time to leave.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

WhackerGuy2030 wrote:

*Don’t ever have an important conversation via text. Women are notorious for that. You cannot control how your message is perceived, and she gets time to think through her next bulls~~~ response. It’s the furthest thing from a real functional conversation. It’s immature and a sign of a poor communicator.

Agreed. I dumped a friend of 4 years who would try and have full conversations in a text and I told him to cut the s~~~. Texting someone “running late b there in 5” is what texting is for. Not “guys always try to use women for sex”. She’s an idiot who is trying to control the conversation. She can talk to you in person or not at all, and women know they suck at that. She’s a coward.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Can. We. Save. This ? in some FAQ or Archive or on a front page ?
This is perfect. Aswell as OldBills response. Classic.

Keymaster wrote:

Hey Joey. I gotta chime in on this. DAMN i know exactly what you’re talking about. I’ve been there, and this is a MGTOW emergency.

…This

…Whole

…Response

“We’re looking for different things”.

“You’re funny”.

Not the response she is expecting. Use it.
Let her drive herself crazy – instead of you.

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[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

joey_fingaz wrote:

It sucks man. I’m so p~~~ed. On Sunday we watched the game together. I f~~~ing paid for everything.

That’s your mistake I would never pay for them ever. Once you do they think they have you and then when they don’t get it later on they get upset. I’m not blaming you but this how women are. You should never ever treat them that nice.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

]Hey Joey. I gotta chime in on this. DAMN i know exactly what you’re talking about. I’ve been there, and this is a MGTOW emergency.

over the weekend I met up with this girl and ended up spending 3 days straight with her. We were all over each other within the first 30 minutes of meeting.

Not a good thing to spend an entire day let alone 3 days. What a waste of time.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

Thanks for all the responses guys. I woke up this morning still feeling like s~~~ about this. I really did like her alot. I still feel like it’s something that I did because I don’t understand how someone can change their mind that fast. Everything was all good, when we were together it was like it was perfect and all she did was tell me how great I am. Only a few hours go by and it’s over. She hasn’t texted me since last night and I didn’t text her back. I completely deleted her out of my phone. I know that nothing I say to her will help or make it better. Hopefully I get over this faster then it started. I like hooking up and having sex but this really changed everything for me now. I know I’ll get past this but i’ll never forget this. The scar of seeing first hand how a girl can completely change her mind like a flip of a switch is scary and I don’t know if i’ll ever be the same again.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

You won’t be the same again, you’ll understand how,they operate, the games they play and how they truly view men. Get your head around this and you’ll get so much poon it will blow your mind carefree or you’ll just say “meh” and get on with your life with what’s most important. Either way you’ll win. Best of luck and welcome.

I will never forget what an old World War 1 digger told me 25 years ago before he past away. He said “Deep, if women didn’t have that furry and soft thing between their legs, you’d throw rocks at them.”

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

DeepInThought wrote:

You won’t be the same again, you’ll understand how,they operate, the games they play and how they truly view men. Get your head around this and you’ll get so much poon it will blow your mind carefree or you’ll just say “meh” and get on with your life with what’s most important. Either way you’ll win. Best of luck and welcome.

I will never forget what an old World War 1 digger told me 25 years ago before he past away. He said “Deep, if women didn’t have that furry and soft thing between their legs, you’d throw rocks at them.”

The thing is I really don’t understand how they operate. It doesn’t make sense to me. I don’t get what the point of this was for her. For her to want me so bad and then completely change her mind, what is she getting out of that?

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

There is plenty to read, watch and laugh about on this site. I suggest you get busy in the “Archive” section of this website. You’ll find stacks of great information, also listen to Tom Leykis here or on YouTube.

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

joey_fingaz wrote:

DeepInThought wrote:

You won’t be the same again, you’ll understand how,they operate, the games they play and how they truly view men. Get your head around this and you’ll get so much poon it will blow your mind carefree or you’ll just say “meh” and get on with your life with what’s most important. Either way you’ll win. Best of luck and welcome.

I will never forget what an old World War 1 digger told me 25 years ago before he past away. He said “Deep, if women didn’t have that furry and soft thing between their legs, you’d throw rocks at them.”

The thing is I really don’t understand how they operate. It doesn’t make sense to me. I don’t get what the point of this was for her. For her to want me so bad and then completely change her mind, what is she getting out of that?

NO one understands how they operate, least of all women themselves. You blew it after the first night. You have to give her the gift of missing you. You were too easy. Women equate hard-to-get as being valuable. Your value is low because you dropped your whole life for her for 3 days. Too easy.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

IMHO . Any Trick, manipulation, idea, at it’s core is simple.
Putting aside the NAWALT argument and seeing that 99% of guys are either dumb, think with their DNA program/Dick instead of a Brain, It’s very simple to execute. Walking Emotional/Money Wallets/Victims, RIPE FOR THE TAKING and FUN.

Quietlyquietly wrote:

NO one understands how they operate

It’s so simple, there is NOTHING to understand. I just see it as is, at this point.

Every time a bitch makes a scene, nags, gets angry over nothing, etc. – In reality its a Big Red Baloon of Bulls~~~ blowing up. It’s Empty Air and It Smells of Bulls~~~.

joey_fingaz wrote:

The thing is I really don’t understand how they operate. It doesn’t make sense to me. I don’t get what the point of this was for her. For her to want me so bad and then completely change her mind, what is she getting out of that?

The word you are looking for is: Control.
It can be conscious or not, she can be crazy or not, nice or a bitch.
She may go for Control for sadistic pleasure, or man’s resources.

1. The end result is still the same, no matter the trick used.
2. Control over man, via Manipulation. Everything works. Anything goes.
3. The end result for a Man can be an emotional breakdown at best (from what he hopefully recovers, learns and grows stronger, but most importantly – smarter) and everything else at worst.

Ever seen how a cat plays with a half-alive/scared mouse…before eating ? So playful.

Anyway, just sharing my idea, my POV on it. I’v seen my friends go true bulls~~~, wasting MONEY, time and the girls looked different, acted different…but the end result was the same. And at it’s core – execution was the same.

Source: I know personally 2 girls what did it CONSCIOUSLY to my friends – made them suffer and took Attention, Time and Money, Money, Money out of them.
And 1 that did it even without thinking. Came out naturally out of her.

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[RusskyParticipant 13503]

It could be a number of things
1) someone told her she was too easy and now needs to play hard to get
2) she wasn’t impressed with what she saw at your place
3) she just wanted a quick fling on the side with no follow ups
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in either case it doesn’t matter. once she tries to get an upper hand – it’s over.

P.S.: When something doesn’t make sense about a woman’s behavior- I think most of the time is the Hive giving her advice – moms, sisters, friends, co-workers. Women rarely make decisions on their own, and they always consult their Hive about everything and then just blindly follow someone else’s advice

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

joey_fingaz wrote:

She just texts me saying “I get it. We can chill but we aren’t hooking up.. I know what I want so I don’t like that you don’t”.

What a f~~~ing bitch

Man, I can just see her saying this to you to do damage control. If ever someone asks her about her relationship with you, she would say that you only wanted to hook up with her, because her proof is that as soon as she just wanted to chill with you, you did not want anything to do with her anymore. Sociopaths tend to do sh*t like this. You shouldn’t even worry that she is going to frame you as a monster to get other people to sympathize with her because you yourself know the truth and the people who do believe her story are idiots anyways for even believing her story with no question.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

joey_fingaz wrote:

She just texts me saying “I get it. We can chill but we aren’t hooking up.. I know what I want so I don’t like that you don’t”.

What a f~~~ing bitch

Man, I can just see her saying this to you to do damage control. If ever someone asks her about her relationship with you, she would say that you only wanted to hook up with her, because her proof is that as soon as she just wanted to chill with you, you did not want anything to do with her anymore.

That wasn’t the case though. I really wasn’t trying to use her for anything. I actually liked her alot and she f~~~ing knows that. I don’t know where she gets off putting this nonsense on me. We talked about all this s~~~ already too, and like I said yesterday morning she sends me a text all happy like everything was completely fine. Then out of no where she comes out with this.

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

RUN! to the Hills! RUN for your life! ( someone knows the group who wrote this song , mini trivia here ).

Iron Maiden. Duh. That was an easy one.

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