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When I got home she texts me thanking me for such a great night and tells me how much fun she had. Tells me how much she likes me the whole time we’re together and telling me how hot I am and how much she wants me, and now i’m being accused of basically being some scumbag just trying to use her for sex. Now this f~~~ing bulls~~~.
Sociopaths acts in the exact same fashion to which you have described here. They praise you in one moment, and they bring you down the next. This is the best way of gaining control over a person. Female behavior works quite often in the same way. The reason? Women do not love in the same manner as men do. Would you call this treatment she is giving you love or affection? Would this be normal behavior towards a person she a short while ago praised her affection towards? Of course not! This is manipulation of the highest degree!
What should you say? NOTHING.
Don’t text her, don’t respond to her texts. It is OVER. It was over as soon as she S~~~ TESTED you. She’s letting you “suffer” in order to cement her control over you. She wants you come crawling, she wants you to beg.
Perfectly stated! She has just shown herself to not be worthy of your affection. Why would you spend the time of day to a person that so early on treats you in such a manner? Just think of what she could do to you in 3 months?
But if that does happen and it is a s~~~ test what should I say to her?
There is only one thing that comes to mind: abandon her. Go in ghost mode. Remove yourself from her life completely. Remember the time you had together but acknowledge that it is over. Easier said than done of course.
What I have done in similar situations is to delete her phone-number, FB profile…every platform in which you can contact each other. Spend as much time as you can with friends and with good colleges. After some time, she will become a distant memory, and you can look back on this episode and smile:)
The worst form of inequality is to try to make unequal things equal - Aristotle (384 - 322 BC)
This is all exactly what I need to hear right now. I’m already feeling better and getting over it. Before I was on the verge of throwing up.
Just deleted everything off my phone. Done. F~~~ her.
Don’t text her, don’t respond to her texts. It is OVER. It was over as soon as she S~~~ TESTED you. She’s letting you “suffer” in order to cement her control over you. She wants you come crawling, she wants you to beg.
^^^This. Look at the bright side, you nailed her so you aren’t left wondering “what if?”
And when you start thinking about her, miss her or the sex you had, go rub one out and see how much clarity you’ll have after blowing your load. I bet your attitude towards her will be “meh.”
I just cut a lass off the other day, i deleted all her details and haven’t given it a second thought since.
Meanwhile women all around are asking “Where have all the good men gone? Why can’t I find a good man?” I can only conclude that only a good woman can find a good man. And a woman who s~~~ tests like that is not a good woman and it’s a form of abuse that should never be tolerated.
Don’t. Get.into.romantic bullcrap.with women’s they don’t care about.you.they care of what can.you.provided for them ,you already f~~~ her so.move on to that next and use them
Hey Joey. I gotta chime in on this. DAMN i know exactly what you’re talking about. I’ve been there, and this is a MGTOW emergency.
over the weekend I met up with this girl and ended up spending 3 days straight with her. We were all over each other within the first 30 minutes of meeting.
Never ever do that. No matter how much you like her – or how much you think it’s “mutual”. If she’s THAT into you right off the bat, just behave like it happens to you every day. “Oh well this was nice, but I have plans tomorrow” (or whatever).
You were too available. 3 days straight? In theory, you shouldn’t even be available to spend 3 days straight with ANYONE you just met “right now”.
And that’s how women operate: they live in the “right now”.
You should not. You’re busy. You have plans already. But you can make time for her again “next week”….. and then you give her the gift of missing you. Then, you need to do nothing else , and she spends the next week building up all of “her feelings for you” when you’re not even around.
But first …. remain calm(!).
Make it policy from now on, no matter HOW MUCH a girl is into you or wants to see you, it’s NEVER worth clearing a 3-day schedule for her. Ever.
Earlier today I sent her a text. She ends up texting me back hours later saying she thinks we are looking for different things and starts accusing me of only trying to hook up with her.
Classic. Bulls~~~. S~~~ test.
Where I would have once reacted exactly the same as you, today I would find that FUNNY. I would even text that back to her: “ur funny”….. then not replied to any of her texts or request for contact again – for at least 24 hours – no matter how much she blew up my phone.
If you don’t hear from her again, that’s THE END, because you’re not going to be someone even SLIGHTLY interested in any woman who isn’t 100% there with you. You can say that to her face and feel good about it.
If she machine-gun texts you over the next 24 hours, you can finally get back to her and say “WHOAH!!! what’s all this? Last message I saw said you were looking for something else, so I just took your word for it. Is that a problem now?”
Turn the tables on her, and flip the script.
HOLD HER TO HER OWN WORD.All I said was I wouldn’t have seen her three days in a row if that’s what the case was.
No offense please, but that’s a weak move.
Never explain yourself to a woman.If your time and attention is not enough of a clue for her, that’s THE END. You don’t ever need to “explain” more than that or justify it. Time and attention from a man is a monetary gift. A woman who doesn’t understand this doesn’t deserve you – or any man.
I never even invited her over to my place last night it was all her idea!! and now she starts giving me some bulls~~~ like that. It’s f~~~ed up because it makes me think someone was talking s~~~ about me and made her change her mind but I have no idea. I can’t believe how s~~~ty I feel over this.
Again. Remain clam. She wants you to question yourself and make you feel insecure. Classic female manipulation where she FIRST projected her issues on to you and expects you to feel responsible for it.
Don’t.
The sudden change all took place — >>> IN HER OWN HEAD.
It’s not based in reality and you never treated her badly.Don’t ever let a woman get away with behaving like you “treated her badly” when you didn’t. Even if she saw YOU with another woman, you ask her “why are you behaving like I treated you badly?”
You hold a mirror up to her and make her realize how f~~~ing insane she is. It all took place in her own head. That’s why it’s not even necessary to spend 3 days with her. She will build UP a “her feelings for you” in her own head…. and she will tear them down in her own head.
It’s got nothing to do with — you.
This is her own s~~~. Force HER to eat it instead.I know it was only a few days of hangin with her and i’m being a little bitch right now but I cannot believe this.
I can believe it. It’s a classic fickle female formula for trying to f~~~ something up – even when nothing is “wrong”. That’s what they DO. they RUIN AND DESTROY perfectly normal days and perfectly fine situations with their own drama. And that’s what you are right now: Her vehicle for drama.
Refuse to play that part for her.
Women just can’t be content. They don’t see the value in it. Even when something is GOOD, they will question and rationalize all kinds of “problems” into it – when there aren’t any. Learn to expect it.
She ended up texting me all happy super early this morning and now she’s acting like we will never see each other again.
It’s all a f~~~ing ploy happening 100% in her own head, and NONE of it has anything to do with you. It’s a goddam guarantee.
“We’re looking for different things”.
“You’re funny”.
Not the response she is expecting. Use it.
Let her drive herself crazy – instead of you.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Meanwhile women all around are asking “Where have all the good men gone?
Word for word what she said to me. Complaining that all guys just try to use girls. I told her girls are worse and she couldn’t even deny it. Now she proved it herself.
Joey-
I’m sorry this happened to you. You will see better days.
Women can play your emotions like a violin. If any women is not loving or kind, then it’s time to get out and pronto. The fact that she obviously upset you makes it a no brainer. You are not her doormat. Don’t let any bitch make you upset, hurt, or mad. Just walk away (or maybe run).This type of s~~~ test has happened to all of us. Just manipulation. When a woman goes psycho on me, I personally get busy enough so I don’t think about the situation for a few days.
OldBill offered some great advise. Good luck.
Hey Joey. I gotta chime in on this. DAMN i know exactly what you’re talking about. I’ve been there, and this is a MGTOW emergency.
over the weekend I met up with this girl and ended up spending 3 days straight with her. We were all over each other within the first 30 minutes of meeting.
Never ever do that. No matter how much you like her – or how much you think it’s “mutual”. If she’s THAT into you right of the bat, just behave like it happens to you every day. “oh well this was nice, but I have plans tomorrow” (or whatever).
You were too available. 3 days straight? In theory, you shouldn’t even be available to spend 3 days straight with ANYONE you just met “right now”.
And that’s how women operate: they live in the “right now”.
You should not. You’re busy. You have plans already. But you can make time for her again “next week”….. and then you give her the gift of missing you. Then, you need to do nothing else , and she spends the next week building up all of “her feelings for you” when you’re not even around.
But first …. remain calm(!).
Make it policy from now on, no matter HOW MUCH a girl is into you or wants to see you, it’s NEVER worth clearing a 3-day schedule for her. Ever.
Earlier today I sent her a text. She ends up texting me back hours later saying she thinks we are looking for different things and starts accusing me of only trying to hook up with her.
Classic. Bulls~~~. S~~~ test.
Where I would have once reacted exactly the same as you, today I would find that FUNNY. I would even text that back to her: “ur funny”….. then not replied to any of her texts or request for contact again – for at least 24 hours – no matter how much she blew up my phone.
If you don’t hear from her again, that’s THE END, because you’re not going to be someone even SLIGHTLY interested in any woman who isn’t 100% there with you. You can say that to her face and feel good about it.
If she machine-gun texts you over the next 24 hours, you can finally get back to her and say “WHOAH!!! what’s all this? Last message I saw said you were looking for something else, so I just took your word for it and respected what you said. Is that a problem now?”
Turn the tables on her, and flip the script.
HOLD HER TO HER OWN WORD.All I said was I wouldn’t have seen her three days in a row if that’s what the case was.
No offense please, but that’s a weak move.
Never explain yourself to a woman.If your time and attention is not enough of a clue for her, that’s THE END. You don’t ever need to “explain” more than that or justify it. Time and attention from a man is a monetary gift. A woman who doesn’t understand this doesn’t deserve you – or any man.
I never even invited her over to my place last night it was all her idea!! and now she starts giving me some bulls~~~ like that. It’s f~~~ed up because it makes me think someone was talking s~~~ about me and made her change her mind but I have no idea. I can’t believe how s~~~ty I feel over this.
Again. Remain clam. She wants you to question yourself and make you feel insecure. Classic female manipulation where she FIRST projected her issues on to you and expects you to feel responsible for it.
Don’t. Her changing all took place — >>> IN HER OWN HEAD.
It’s not based in reality and you never treated her badly.Don’t ever let a woman get away with behaving like you “treated her badly” when you didn’t. Even if she saw YOU with another woman, you ask her “why are you behaving like a treated you badly?”
I know it was only a few days of hangin with her and i’m being a little bitch right now but I cannot believe this.
I can believe it. It’s a classic fickle female formula for trying to f~~~ something up – even when nothing is “wrong”. That’s what they DO. they RUIN AND DESTROY perfectly normal days and perfectly fine situations with their own drama. And that’s what you are right now: Her vehicle for drama.
Refuse to play that part for her.
Women just can’t be content. They don’t see the value in it. Even when something is GOOD, they will question and rationalize all kinds of “problems” into it – when there aren’t any. Learn to expect it.
She ended up texting me all happy super early this morning and now she’s acting like we will never see each other again.
It’s all a f~~~ing ploy happening 100% in her own head, and NONE of it has anything to do with you. It’s a goddam guarantee.
“We’re looking for different things”.
“You’re funny”.
Not the response she is expecting. Use it.
Let her drive herself crazy – instead of you.Damn I just got some of the best advice I’ve ever gotten within this past hour. I’m gonna save this to a document. Keymaster, you are the s~~~, thanks man.
Complaining that all guys just try to use girls.
Every time a bitch tries that on you, you can destroy her on the spot. She wasn’t “used”, because no man *TOOK* anything from her that she didn’t willingly GIVE HIM.
That debate is now over. And she just lost.
Any woman who willingly spread her own legs over a 3-day weekend was never “used”.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.She just texts me saying “I get it. We can chill but we aren’t hooking up.. I know what I want so I don’t like that you don’t”.
What a f~~~ing bitch
She just texts me saying “I get it. We can chill but we aren’t hooking up”
Don’t even REPLY to that s~~~. You make your own rules, and write your terms and conditions. Like I said, if she’s not 100% there with you, she’s history.
And be OK with it.
“We can chill but we’re not hooking up.”
She can get a girlfriend for that.
Starting right now, she gets no more of your time or attention. Save all of her texts which show that she broke it off and it was her idea. Save them. Email them to yourself or something.
MAKE SURE she won’t get away with a false accusation (after the fact) either.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
Anonymous11Man, it has happened to all of us. We’re all susceptible to it which is one reason I spend so much time here. You’ve been given great advice.
As for reasons, you don’t really know her so only well educated guesses can be fathomed.
1) She has an ex in the picture or else in a relationship and was cheating.
2) She is a sociopath
3) 1 and 2Run away and never look back!
All I know is that any woman I’ve ever hooked up with right off the bat was a boatload of trouble.
I deleted the text immediately. It’s amazing how less then 24 hours ago I thought she was so hot and now I wouldn’t even be able to look at a picture of her without being completely disgusted. F~~~ing c~~~ ass bitch. And yeah she was hot but the sex was lame.
Just save her texts like I said above. She is insignificant now.
Man, it has happened to all of us.
Hitting it off right from the start that fast is a wonderful thing. BUT, never forget…. her reasons for letting herself go with it are as flakey and fickle as the bulls~~~ excuse she will come up with to end it.
I realized it ALL happens in their own heads.
It’s got NOTHING to do with me (or you).Women will treat you like an asshole no matter what you do.
On that day, you realize a woman’s “rejection” doesn’t matter anymore…..
just like her approval doesn’t matter.It’s f~~~ing fantastic.
Treating you like an asshole no matter what you do means: She. Has. No. Value. You can value nothing about her and she made it so.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.I read this here, so I take no credit.
One chance, per chick, per lifetime. She just blew her one chance. Next….
Order the good wine
joey, you got schooled by the BEST.
put a notch in the gun belt and walk away .( from her ! ) .
i’m glad you brought this here instead of sitting with it alone,
we are MGTOW. we leave no man left behind.we are MGTOW. we leave no man left behind.
That totally reminded me of this scene @hitman
One chance, per chick, per lifetime.
If she ever reaches out and “changes her mind” again… he should wait until the next day and say exactly that.
“One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. No exceptions.”
… and nothing else.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.- AuthorPosts
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