Can’t Believe What Just Happened

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

joey_fingaz wrote:

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

joey_fingaz wrote:

She just texts me saying “I get it. We can chill but we aren’t hooking up.. I know what I want so I don’t like that you don’t”.

What a f~~~ing bitch

Man, I can just see her saying this to you to do damage control. If ever someone asks her about her relationship with you, she would say that you only wanted to hook up with her, because her proof is that as soon as she just wanted to chill with you, you did not want anything to do with her anymore.

That wasn’t the case though. I really wasn’t trying to use her for anything. I actually liked her alot and she f~~~ing knows that. I don’t know where she gets off putting this nonsense on me. We talked about all this s~~~ already too, and like I said yesterday morning she sends me a text all happy like everything was completely fine. Then out of no where she comes out with this.

Yes, I believe you. Like I said, it is just damage control, it doesn’t matter what is true because it was just a damage control stunt. Whoever would believe her(guys) about what happened might actually suffer the same fate as you because she is the one that probably wants to hook up with someone, not the other way around. She is just creating a lot of confusion.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

joey_fingaz wrote:

Hey guys, I literally feel sick to my stomach right now and I have to vent over something that just happened. I haven’t been dating really but over the weekend I met up with this girl and ended up spending 3 days straight with her. We hooked up the first and second night and on the third night we had sex. I actually started really liking her. I thought I was completely done with dating and trying to meet new girls but this weekend I couldn’t believe I actually found a girl that I really really like because it’s not something I was looking for at all. I felt like we had this awesome connection. We were all over each other within the first 30 minutes of meeting.

…wtf? I thought I was on Mgtow.com not reddit/tumblr.

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

Sorry guys. I’m done feeling sorry for myself and being a pussy. I gotta get to the gym immediately. If anything else happens I’ll update u but I’m done whining. Thanks for the advice. I actually put it all in a document.

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

Big Boss wrote:

…wtf? I thought I was on Mgtow.com not reddit/tumblr.

Hey, the guy is actually helping a lot of people out in understanding about bat sh*t crazy women a lot more. No need to hate.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[narwhalParticipant]

I have not read all 4 pages of this, so I may be repeating what others have said. I don’t see it as a test or anything like that. Instead, I think the weekend you had with her was a temporary moment of sanity in her life. For whatever reason, she was able to throw off all the crap she usually lives in and be a fun loving sane woman…a unicorn. And you got to be there to enjoy it!

Then Monday came around and her ‘reality’ came crashing back. What you see now is who she really is. The woman you had over the weekend is gone. You can’t bring her back.

You had a great weekend though! Enjoy that! In case that ever happens again, be ready for it. Enjoy it and know that it’s going to end so you aren’t all p~~~ed when it does.

I had something similar happen years ago. She was smart, made great money, very sexy, and thought I was awesome. On the first date, we had dinner and drinks, the we went back to her place. She invited me in, then immediately started taking her clothes off with no prompting from me whatsoever. One of the greatest nights of my life.

But I knew it wasn’t going anywhere the whole time. Eventually, she’ll start thinking about her priorities, what kind of guy she wanted to be seen with, what her friends with think, and all the rest of that crap. In some ways I was her boy toy…and I knew it. So I let myself be played (not financially) and enjoyed the ride.

After 2 weeks, she broke contact with me completely. Not even a word of explanation, just stopped answering calls. I didn’t put any effort into getting an explanation from her. Sure, I had an emotional letdown, and wanted to see her again. It wasn’t too hard to deal with though because I reminded myself of what I knew from the start, and had no regrets.

Ok. Then do it.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

Big Boss wrote:

…wtf? I thought I was on Mgtow.com not reddit/tumblr.

Hey, the guy is actually helping a lot of people out in understanding about bat sh*t crazy women a lot more. No need to hate.

What’s bats~~~ crazy is he is on MGTOW, he knows what the deal is, he gets regular hits of reality and stories of women pulling this s~~~, he says he’s done with dating or whatever I quoted…

Then acts f~~~ing surprised. Really? And just recently? This isn’t an old war story? I mean… what did I miss here? He may be redpilled somewhat, but he isn’t MGTOW. Mgtow would get in his relationship, and have EXPECTED the outcome she gave. Then he would have just put another notch on his plane of a bitch nailed and shrugged it off as a easy break up.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

joey_fingaz wrote:

I f~~~ing paid for everything.

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

narwhal wrote:

I have not read all 4 pages of this, so I may be repeating what others have said. I don’t see it as a test or anything like that. Instead, I think the weekend you had with her was a temporary moment of sanity in her life. For whatever reason, she was able to throw off all the crap she usually lives in and be a fun loving sane woman…a unicorn. And you got to be there to enjoy it!

Then Monday came around and her ‘reality’ came crashing back. What you see now is who she really is. The woman you had over the weekend is gone. You can’t bring her back.

You had a great weekend though! Enjoy that! In case that ever happens again, be ready for it. Enjoy it and know that it’s going to end so you aren’t all p~~~ed when it does.

I had something similar happen years ago. She was smart, made great money, very sexy, and thought I was awesome. On the first date, we had dinner and drinks, the we went back to her place. She invited me in, then immediately started taking her clothes off with no prompting from me whatsoever. One of the greatest nights of my life.

But I knew it wasn’t going anywhere the whole time. Eventually, she’ll start thinking about her priorities, what kind of guy she wanted to be seen with, what her friends with think, and all the rest of that crap. In some ways I was her boy toy…and I knew it. So I let myself be played (not financially) and enjoyed the ride.

After 2 weeks, she broke contact with me completely. Not even a word of explanation, just stopped answering calls. I didn’t put any effort into getting an explanation from her. Sure, I had an emotional letdown, and wanted to see her again. It wasn’t too hard to deal with though because I reminded myself of what I knew from the start, and had no regrets.

Yeah maybe it wasn’t a test. I’ll never know. I wouldn’t be surprised if she does reach out to me again but I hope she doesn’t.

You’re right, it was a fun weekend, it was f~~~ing awesome hooking up with her but I know there is better out there. She blew me and it was decent, we f~~~ed and it was eh ok. She was def hot though.

The way I see it now is she killed what was left of the mangina in me.

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

joey_fingaz wrote:

The way I see it now is she killed what was left of the mangina in me.

That’s the spirit!

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

Big Boss wrote:

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

Big Boss wrote:

…wtf? I thought I was on Mgtow.com not reddit/tumblr.

Hey, the guy is actually helping a lot of people out in understanding about bat sh*t crazy women a lot more. No need to hate.

What’s bats~~~ crazy is he is on MGTOW, he knows what the deal is, he gets regular hits of reality and stories of women pulling this s~~~, he says he’s done with dating or whatever I quoted…

Then acts f~~~ing surprised. Really? And just recently? This isn’t an old war story? I mean… what did I miss here? He may be redpilled somewhat, but he isn’t MGTOW. Mgtow would get in his relationship, and have EXPECTED the outcome she gave. Then he would have just put another notch on his plane of a bitch nailed and shrugged it off as a easy break up.

I get what you’re saying. The thing is I never compared myself to anyone else that has experienced something like this. I thought I knew better but that wasn’t the case and I never EVER experienced first hand a girl doing something like this. Any time I read a story on here or heard something like that happening I always thought “that’s them not me”.

I know it’s not a pickup forum, I’m not asking how do I get her back.

[Anonymous 22]

joey_fingaz wrote:

The way I see it now is she killed what was left of the mangina in me.

She did you a favor. This calls for a celebration!

[kizellParticipant 368]

Joey, you are either going to have to accept this advice or deny it until you are finally forced to deal with it.

This kind of behavior post sex is not uncommon.

This is girl is a f~~~ing train wreck. Every girl I’ve ever been with that played this game is still a basket case years after the fact.

The best possible thing you could do is completely ignore her…..and I mean completely! Provide no explanation.

[NeutronParticipant 321]

I agree with Mr Spock here about the s~~~ testing, which is a distinct possibility, but what this REALLY sounds like is a perfect example of what Psychiatrists call ‘projection’. According to your story you both were enjoying each others company, however she sounds like she’s having guilt feelings over sleeping with you after only a few days and is making YOU out to be the bad guy for what’s happened. She doesn’t want to take responsibility for her own actions (and decisions) and instead of admitting that she is just as much responsible for what’s happened, is projecting her guilt onto YOU, making YOU the sole party responsible for the encounter.

A dangerous variation on this theme is when women have consensual sex with a guy, feels guilty over it, then convinces herself, the judge and jury – that it was rape. It would be interesting to see what would happen if, for arguments sake, you were a multi-millionaire, and she didn’t find out til after she breaks off the relations~~~. Got a distinct feeling she would cut off her right arm to re-establish contact.

None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

Neutron wrote:

I agree with Mr Spock here about the s~~~ testing, which is a distinct possibility, but what this REALLY sounds like is a perfect example of what Psychiatrists call ‘projection’. According to your story you both were enjoying each others company, however she sounds like she’s having guilt feelings over sleeping with you after only a few days and is making YOU out to be the bad guy for what’s happened. She doesn’t want to take responsibility for her own actions (and decisions) and instead of admitting that she is just as much responsible for what’s happened, is projecting her guilt onto YOU, making YOU the sole party responsible for the encounter.

A dangerous variation on this theme is when women have consensual sex with a guy, feels guilty over it, then convinces herself, the judge and jury – that it was rape. It would be interesting to see what would happen if, for arguments sake, you were a multi-millionaire, and she didn’t find out til after she breaks off the relations~~~. Got a distinct feeling she would cut off her right arm to re-establish contact.

That also makes sense. It’s probably a mixture of her playing games, feeling guilty about having sex, and being a crazy f~~~. You would think there would be some type of emotional intelligence and she could handle it. The biggest turn off about this is how intense this shift was. In a matter of a few hours she completely changed. The only way I would be able to forgive (by forgive I don’t mean start seeing her again) her is if there is some kind of childhood trauma that I somehow triggered but I doubt that’s the case. Either way I’m moving on to something else.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

BTW, how old are you Joey and this girl in question?

[joey_fingazParticipant 132]

DeepInThought wrote:

BTW, how old are you Joey and this girl in question?

Both 27

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

You have plenty of opportunities mate at 27 onwards, enjoy the experience and the ride coming as you are just coming into your peak.

One thing about women is 27-32 years old is the really hot period (baby rabies) for when they want to get pregnant and are searching for a Chad Thunderc~~~ and fat wallet. She would have a strict tick box system and seriously don’t take it personally if she rejects you, they are crazy and their expectations are unreal. It explains now why she said “we want different things…” that’s a get out of gaol free card right there my man! #winning

Start watching The Popp:

https://www.youtube.com/user/redonkulaspopp/videos

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

joey_fingaz wrote:

DeepInThought wrote:

BTW, how old are you Joey and this girl in question?

Both 27

Her peak time, is about to end, your peak time, is about to truly begin, when she hits the wall, you probably won’t even recognize her, until some time after, and laugh your ass off.

And in the end, most of us have tried it, and were in the exact same thought process like yourself, “it’s the others this crap happens to, not me”, well at least we all learn(ed) from it, hopefully, hah!

Now focus on yourself, and let time do the dirty work on her, and believe me, it will come, oh glorious time, wonderful it truly is, to be a man.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

FullMetalExo wrote:

Can. We. Save. This ? in some FAQ or Archive or on a front page ?
This is perfect. Aswell as OldBills response. Classic.

This thread quickly turned out to be excellent. It will go in the Top Gun Forum for sure. A new traditional “blog” style page is ready (not live yet) which will include anecdotes and best bits from the forums once in a while too – updated more frequently for weekly daily reads.

We will consolidate Old Bill’s response into it right at the top.
3 threads in particular this week are really good for that.

DeepInThought wrote:

You have plenty of opportunities mate at 27 onwards, enjoy the experience and the ride coming as you are just coming into your peak.

One thing about women is 27-32 years old is the really hot period (baby rabies) for when they want to get pregnant and are searching for a Chad Thunderc~~~ and fat wallet.

@joey man…. if you take anything away from this, for god sake let it be that ^^^^

27???

Study this and burn it into your brain:

•••

The next 5-8 years is when women will pull all kinds of stunts – especially to lock you down. Her SMV begins a rapid decline, and yours hasn’t even BEGUN to accelerate. In 5 years she won’t be able to play games like this anymore. In 8 years, you can stick a fork in her. She will be able to consider herself fortunate if a man is willing to give her the time of day…. let alone 3 consecutive days.

… while you’ll be having 3-day sex-capades with 22 year olds.

She wants you to “feel like s~~~” about this and question yourself.

“we’re both looking for different things”

Absolutely. But there’s a typo in there…
You’re both looking forward at different things.

She’s looking forward at fewer / narrow options.
And you’re looking forward to when your options will WIDEN.

Big changes coming for both you. You can’t see the future yet and that’s GOOD news.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[OldBillParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

We will consolidate Old Bill’s response into it right at the top.

Key, you do whatever you want or need to do to my posts. In fact, to all my brothers here, do whatever you want or need to do to my posts.

Quote ’em, snip ’em, make ’em shorter, whatever you want or need to do. If there’s information in them you like, use it. If there’s a quip or bon mot that makes you laugh, take it. If there’s advice that helps you with a problem, pass it along.

My posts do not belong to me. My posts belong to all of you. Like all of us here, I post to help my brothers go their own way.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

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