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Hey guys, I literally feel sick to my stomach right now and I have to vent over something that just happened. I haven’t been dating really but over the weekend I met up with this girl and ended up spending 3 days straight with her. We hooked up the first and second night and on the third night we had sex. I actually started really liking her. I thought I was completely done with dating and trying to meet new girls but this weekend I couldn’t believe I actually found a girl that I really really like because it’s not something I was looking for at all. I felt like we had this awesome connection. We were all over each other within the first 30 minutes of meeting.
Earlier today I sent her a text. She ends up texting me back hours later saying she thinks we are looking for different things and starts accusing me of only trying to hook up with her. All I said was I wouldn’t have seen her three days in a row if that’s what the case was. She hasn’t texted me back and I haven’t said anything else. I literally feel f~~~ing sick right now. I wish I never even met her. F~~~ing bulls~~~. I never even invited her over to my place last night it was all her idea!! and now she starts giving me some bulls~~~ like that. It’s f~~~ed up because it makes me think someone was talking s~~~ about me and made her change her mind but I have no idea. I can’t believe how s~~~ty I feel over this. I know it was only a few days of hangin with her and i’m being a little bitch right now but I cannot believe this. She ended up texting me all happy super early this morning and now she’s acting like we will never see each other again. I can’t believe I allowed this to happen. I also can’t believe how bad this is making me feel. I’m trying to meditate and release this s~~~ty feeling but I keep thinking about hooking up with her and how awesome it was. I get hook ups from time to time but not like this. I was blow away at how much I liked her. And now it’s like a flip of the switch and she’s over it. F~~~ this s~~~ man.
I was even starting to think that this whole MGTOW thing might be a little over the top with their theories on women but I have never experienced something like this before. I cannot believe this and I just feel so sick right now.
I’ve had experiences similar to yours far too many times. I understand terrible it feels and how unfair women really are to us. Women never seem to cease to remind us why we are MGTOW.
It’s s~~~ test. She wants to see how easy it is to get inside your head. Whether someone talked about you or not, you deserve better than this. Try to find something to keep your mind off of her.
Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.
It sucks man. I’m so p~~~ed. On Sunday we watched the game together. I f~~~ing paid for everything. When I got home she texts me thanking me for such a great night and tells me how much fun she had. Tells me how much she likes me the whole time we’re together and telling me how hot I am and how much she wants me, and now i’m being accused of basically being some scumbag just trying to use her for sex. Now this f~~~ing bulls~~~. Constantly t I can’t believe this. I really can’t. She’s full of s~~~. Something else had to of made her change her mind cause it makes no sense.
If she reaches out to me what should I say? I haven’t texted her since because I know I would have been extremely emotional and would have regretted whatever I said.
Anonymous0Sorry to hear it. I think we have all experienced a woman flipping over like that. There’s a chnce that as Spock says it is a s~~~ teast and in a few days she will be all smiles. DON’T FALL FOR IT. When it happened to me I always went to a gym and took it out on the heavy bag.
If she reaches out to me what should I say?
What should you say? NOTHING.
Don’t text her, don’t respond to her texts. It is OVER. It was over as soon as she S~~~ TESTED you. She’s letting you “suffer” in order to cement her control over you. She wants you come crawling, she wants you to beg.
She played you like a fool. Three day whirlwind “romance” and only gave up the pussy after spending two days using foreplay to set her “hook”. Absolutely classic female manipulation, almost as if she was following a procedure and checking off the steps as she accomplished them.
You knew better and she still completely conned you. You’re like an alcoholic who knows booze is bad for him, who swears to never touch another drop, and who takes one sip of beer Friday night only to wake up Monday morning face down in his on vomit with a load of s~~~ in his pants.
You f~~~ed up. You failed. You should have known better. You need to admit all of that to yourself. It’s only when we acknowledge our mistakes that we can learn.
I haven’t texted her since because I know I would have been extremely emotional and would have regretted whatever I said.
Congratulations. That’s the first smart thing you’ve done since you fell off the wagon. You’re taking control of your life again.
Now, you can whip yourself, you beat yourself up, you can continue fret and obsess over your failure, or…
… YOU CAN GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE.
You f~~~ed up. So what? We all f~~~ up. Nothing has happened here which hasn’t happened to any us of here.
The question now is whether you’re going to learn from all this.
Are you ready to learn this time? Are you ready to remember the lessons this failure can teach you? You can if you want to, but you need to want to.
So, what’s it going to be, brother?
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
But if that does happen and it is a s~~~ test what should I say to her? What sucks is she really had a hold of me emotionally because I loved hooking up with her. It was different then all the other meaningless hook ups I had. So if she does come back to me with some bulls~~~ I don’t know what my reaction would be. I don’t want to come off with anger and I also dont want to be a mangina like I’m acting right now.
What should you say? NOTHING.
Don’t text her, don’t respond to her texts. It is OVER. It was over as soon as she S~~~ TESTED you. She’s letting you “suffer” in order to cement her control over you. She wants you come crawling, she wants you to beg.
She played you like a fool. Three day whirlwind “romance” and only gave up the pussy after spending two days using foreplay to set her “hook”. Absolutely classic female manipulation, almost as if she was following a procedure and checking off the steps as she accomplished them.
You knew better and she still completely conned you. You’re like an alcoholic who knows booze is bad for him, who swears to never touch another drop, and who takes one sip of beer Friday night only to wake up Monday morning face down in his on vomit with a load of s~~~ in his pants.
You f~~~ed up. You failed. You should have known better. You need to admit all of that to yourself. It’s only when we acknowledge our mistakes that we can learn.
I haven’t texted her since because I know I would have been extremely emotional and would have regretted whatever I said.
Congratulations. That’s the first smart thing you’ve done since you fell off the wagon. You’re taking control of your life again.Now, you can whip yourself, you beat yourself up, you can continue fret and obsess over your failure, or…
… YOU CAN GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE.
You f~~~ed up. So what? We all f~~~ up. Nothing has happened here which hasn’t happened to any us of here.
The question now is whether you’re going to learn from all this.
Are you ready to learn this time? Are you ready to remember the lessons this failure can teach you? You can if you want to, but you need to want to.
So, what’s it going to be, brother?
Damn, I cannot believe I fell so hard. I really thought I knew better. I actually thought I was the one playing her. This really sucks. I thought I was better. I can’t believe it but I think you’re right, it’s like she had the whole thing planned out. F~~~!!!! I’m beyond p~~~ed over this. I don’t know what i’m going to do if she messages me back. I don’t want to confront her with anger cause I know its weak. I just don’t know what I would say. I’m taking this really personally. In the back of my mind I feel like someone was talking s~~~ about me or something but i don’t know if that’s really the case.
But if that does happen and it is a s~~~ test what should I say to her?
I already answered that. You say nothing to her. Don’t respond to her texts, calls, or anything else. It’s over. You never need to hear from her, see her, or deal with her again.
What sucks is she really had a hold of me emotionally because I loved hooking up with her.
You’re thinking with your dick. Start thinking with your head.
It was different then all the other meaningless hook ups I had.
Bulls~~~. This is exactly like all the other meaningless hook-ups you’ve had.
So if she does come back to me with some bulls~~~ I don’t know what my reaction would be.
If you don’t read it, you’ll have no reaction. Cut her out of your life like the cancer she is.
I don’t want to come off with anger and I also dont want to be a mangina like I’m acting right now.
Jesus H. Titty F~~~ing Christ. Where’s that Godfather gif when I need it? You know, the one where Don Vito bitch slaps Johnny Fontane and tells him to act like a man?
Act like man. You’re done with this woman. It’s over.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
I imagine she probably thinks the hook is set, so she doesn’t have to pretend be nice anymore.
Don’t even beat yourself up about this, chances are she’s loving the drama and as other have suggested, she’s pushing to see how much s~~~ you’re willing to accept.
Only you can decide if the sex is worth the accompanying bulls~~~. If it were me, I’d text something short like “Ok then” and continue about my life like she was nothing more than a bump in the road.
That sucks, man. I’m sorry that happened to you. But you need to realize that it most likely had nothing to do with you. I’ve had numerous women blow me off like that and I’m sure most men have. I know you feel hurt and you have every right to feel that way. But you need to try to move on. Like I said, it had nothing to do with you. If it wasn’t you, then it would have been some other guy she f~~~ed over. DO NOT respond to her if she texts you back. DO NOT give her the satisfaction she seeks. Just consider this whole ordeal a hard lesson and move on.
But if that does happen and it is a s~~~ test what should I say to her?
I already answered that. You say nothing to her. Don’t respond to her texts, calls, or anything else. It’s over. You never need to hear from her, see her, or deal with her again.
What sucks is she really had a hold of me emotionally because I loved hooking up with her.
You’re thinking with your dick. Start thinking with your head.
It was different then all the other meaningless hook ups I had.
Bulls~~~. This is exactly like all the other meaningless hook-ups you’ve had.
So if she does come back to me with some bulls~~~ I don’t know what my reaction would be.
If you don’t read it, you’ll have no reaction. Cut her out of your life like the cancer she is.
I don’t want to come off with anger and I also dont want to be a mangina like I’m acting right now.
Jesus H. Titty F~~~ing Christ. Where’s that Godfather gif when I need it? You know, the one where Don Vito bitch slaps Johnny Fontane and tells him to act like a man?
Act like man. You’re done with this woman. It’s over.
Got it. Thanks Bill. If anything else happens i’ll let you know. Radio silence. It’s over, let it go and move forward.
NEVER AGAIN.
But if that does happen and it is a s~~~ test what should I say to her? What sucks is she really had a hold of me emotionally because I loved hooking up with her. It was different then all the other meaningless hook ups I had. So if she does come back to me with some bulls~~~ I don’t know what my reaction would be. I don’t want to come off with anger and I also dont want to be a mangina like I’m acting right now.
Don’t say anything. Whatever the reason is for her doing this, it is wrong. She either is playing you, has mental issues (most likely), or maybe someone did salt your game. In other words, there is zero good reason for you to continue with her after she ruined it like this. If she was an intelligent adult, she would have had a discussion with you about her “issues” but instead she slammed you out of nowhere, that’s psycho s~~~.
If you’re like me, you probably want to give her a big lethal dose of reality with some choice words. It won’t make you feel better though, it will just make you stressed out and more angry. Doesn’t matter if you are 100% correct in whatever you say to her you’ll just be creating a toxic stew.
My advice is to delete her number and all texts so that you can’t quickly contact her. You got sprung on a chick and used, it has happened to us all. Just move on brother.
#MANOUT
Anonymous3Hookup culture exists because women want it to exist. Every young man I’ve ever met, including myself, had always wanted companionship. But while we were young, women always made it clear they were completely uninterested in any form of commitment, and were far more interested in jumping around from man to man.
Sure in their mid-30s, women are jealous of other women with babies, hate work, and men’s interest starts to decline. But even then they’re still not interested in actual commitment—they will not compromise, they insist on still going out and seeing other men, and then initiate the lion’s share of divorces. The only commitment is the man’s financial resources, which continue even after the rest of the relationship is dissolved.
There are really only 2 ways to go. Either you bury that desire for companionship and go around having sex mindlessly the way women want it to happen, or you cut yourself off from women and retain your original noble nature. No woman will be worthy of you, especially anyone near your own age as they’d all already be ruined, but you’d at least be calling the shots completely on your terms.
I think most men though just become pussy beggars. Some do it under the guise of MGTOW, others do it as PUA or just straight BP men. We know how bad the effects of promiscuous sex are on women, but I am not so sure the effects aren’t also terrible for men as well. We have a culture in complete collapse, and all it really took was to drag morality down so far into the mud that it is ridiculed, which then destroyed family bonds which opened the door for rampant consumerism and unchecked greed, with nobody willing to step up to the greediest, most power hungry sociopaths of all.
A society that refuses to control its women will find itself an empty carcass within a few generations. And that control has to be imposed by older men and women, as young men and women are unable to understand the importance of it themselves. I’m not sure which group failed first, but I think it was a combination. Of course the feminists like Greer and the others shouted out, but they were backed by the Rockefellers and the like, and many older men in government and media that kept promoting it. And now we’re several generations deep, so I don’t even know how we could even begin to change things now.
F~~~!!!! I’m beyond p~~~ed over this
Breath…
Sit back, relax, don’t over think this s~~~. Getting sucked into women’s games like this is like stepping in dog s~~~.
It stinks, but you clean off your shoes and keep on moving ahead. Now you know what to expect, next time you will see it coming and can move around it instead of stepping right into it.There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it
I imagine she probably thinks the hook is set, so she doesn’t have to pretend be nice anymore.
I truly cannot f~~~ing believe I fell for this. I never experienced something like this happening so I never really knew it was possible. I thought I was so above this.
Got it. Thanks Bill. If anything else happens i’ll let you know. Radio silence. It’s over, let it go and move forward.
NEVER AGAIN.
That’s the spirit, brother!
Remember, this is a learning opportunity and not an exercise in self-recrimination.
What’s that Chumbawamba tune? “I get knocked down, but I get up again ’cause they’re never going to keep me down.”
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
It sucks man. I’m so p~~~ed. On Sunday we watched the game together. I f~~~ing paid for everything.
The only commitment is the man’s financial resources
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