Brothers need help…talk sense to me…

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

You will get through this. Very few that don’t cheat or wouldn’t given half a chance. Makes relationships in general a no go.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

I used to work with the guys who did EOD (Explosive Ordnance Disposal). The job was to destroy partially spent or time expired military munitions and ordnance.

Actually that’s what we told everybody anyways. Really we were just a bunch of guys who just got a kick out of going around and blowing s~~~ up…

That sounds fun…I enjoyed underground blasting especially with the delicate timing and patterns needed to blast those hard rocks away…Felt good to blow stuff into smithereens…Those were my memories…The setting up which took time is rewarded by the amazing upheaval of earth especiallywhen we have the open pit blasting…Breathtaking in every blast, like time stops and your senses are honed…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

You will get through this. Very few that don’t cheat or wouldn’t given half a chance. Makes relationships in general a no go.

Thank you DanceMyOwnWay brother…The pain is still there but its not as painful as yesterday..I am expecting to still have some roller coaster of emotions but basically, I have accepted the situation and just make the most of my uptime with rebuilding myself…Im just looking forward to my vacation and going fishing…Havent tried fishing since I was a kid and I want to do it again with my brother…I gave my best, and my all…And I got burned, never again…Once is enough…Still taking more red pill so in time I can look at women and NFG…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[AutoliteParticipant]

NerdTunneler wrote:

The setting up which took time is rewarded by the amazing upheaval of earth especiallywhen we have the open pit blasting…Breathtaking in every blast, like time stops and your senses are honed…

What always amazed me was that all it was was ‘rapidly expanding gases due to nearly instantaneous decomposition’. The massive amount of force unleashed by just that was absolutely mind boggling…

[AutoliteParticipant]

NerdTunneler wrote:

The pain is still there but its not as painful as yesterday..I am expecting to still have some roller coaster of emotions but basically, I have accepted the situation and just make the most of my uptime with rebuilding myself…

Does it help knowing that what happened to you has happened, and continues to happen, to countless millions of other guys all over the world? What you are dealing with is as common as dirt. Does knowing these ease your suffering at all???

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Nerd, I feel for ya man. I know this sounds trite, but she lost someone who cared for her. You are losing someone who didn’t give a s~~~ about you. You are losing a cancer on your life.

The steps of grieving are, denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Do some reading about grieving so you can find ways to cope and avoid succumbing to the pitfalls, i.e. drinking, whoring, taking the bitch back, etc.

My humble advice; make a list of all the s~~~ you liked to do that p~~~ed her off or she tried to make you stop doing. That buddy of yours she hated, go to a soccer match and have some beers with him. Your family she hated, have a barbecue and enjoy yourself. That hobby she forced you to give up, call up that buddy and have a guitar jam or play video games all weekend.

It’s like graduating high school. You shouldn’t lament that it’s over, but celebrate all the awesome things you are now free to do. I’ve gone fishing, played the hell out of Halo on Xbox, going to a crawfish boil soon, and am going hiking in the Smokey Mountains in a few weeks. These are all things that were tightly regulated or forbidden when I was married, but I am now able to do.

Maintaining your sanity and wellbeing is paramount, as it will allow you to focus on your separation, annulment, or divorce. I know laws vary by country, but hiring a lawyer and doing some online research should help clear things up. The emotional separation is done and now you have to protect yourself financially.

It sucks. Enjoy your new freedom. Don’t look back.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

What always amazed me was that all it was was ‘rapidly expanding gases due to nearly instantaneous decomposition’. The massive amount of force unleashed by just that was absolutely mind boggling…

I love seeing the power from the blast…Underground when the dust rises vertically before before the shockwave hits…And open pit, when I can literally see air being folded by the shockwave and then feeling that shockwave at a distance…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

Does it help knowing that what happened to you has happened, and continues to happen, to countless millions of other guys all over the world? What you are dealing with is as common as dirt. Does knowing these ease your suffering at all???

It helped a lot to know that I am not alone in this pain and in what I am going through…It allowed me to bounce back quicker especially with the support of brothers here…I gained strength from their struggles and ultimate triumph to know that there is hope from this misery I got placed into…That my brothers are looking out for me, teaching me o avoid the pitfalls and manipulation of women…It is an eye opener…The red pill works..It is bitter but it is the truth…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

NoMore wrote:

Nerd, I feel for ya man. I know this sounds trite, but she lost someone who cared for her. You are losing someone who didn’t give a s~~~ about you. You are losing a cancer on your life.

thank you for the support NoMore Brother…Yep, I am still on the roller coaster of emotions but I am breathing easier now…The help I got here, I cant thank you enough my brothers…It saved my life and allowed me to bounce back and continue fighting this emotion and not to be defeated…Its a struggle but I am not going down…
I will be taking a vacation soon..I will try my hand at fishing…No one to nag me this time on what I can do with my money or my time…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[ShenzhenBobParticipant 16]

What country are you from Nerd ? I see you mentioned that you can only get an annulment instead of a divorce. I only know of a few places like that in the world. My first guess would be the Philippines.

[AutoliteParticipant]

NerdTunneler wrote:

It was both an opinion of myself as dictated by society as a good man and the illusion of a wife who gave the impression of innocence

I figured out early in life that being “a good man” meant absolutely nothing. Being “Mr. DoEverythingRight” guarantees sweet f~~~ all!

It’s sad really that such (now) obvious bulls~~~ dupes so many guys even still…

[AutoliteParticipant]

NerdTunneler wrote:

thank you for the support NoMore Brother…Yep, I am still on the roller coaster of emotions but I am breathing easier now…The help I got here, I cant thank you enough my brothers…It saved my life and allowed me to bounce back and continue fighting this emotion and not to be defeated…Its a struggle but I am not going down…

Maybe it might help you more to know that just posting your story here might have saved someone else! You very likely may have caused someone else to just open their eyes… 🙂

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

NerdTunneler wrote:

My pain from my grandma dying mild compared to this c~~~ of a wife that kept plunging the knife deeper and deeper all the while knowing that I keep hurting even more…Why do they kick us more when they know we are down? I had been a good man, a good husband…

They kick you more when you are down for the same reason that they stab you in the back when your back is turned, or (traditionally) poison you to kill you.

If you want to understand this aspect of female nature, watch “I, Claudius” and how Livia poisons Augustus.

At its core, female nature is weak and cowardly.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

ShenzhenBob wrote:

What country are you from Nerd ? I see you mentioned that you can only get an annulment instead of a divorce. I only know of a few places like that in the world. My first guess would be the Philippines.

Sorry Brother, but I cant confirm or deny my location as the engineers in the mining industry are few and it might compromise my privacy and safety…I hope you can make an intro soon brother bob…Others can learn from your experience…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

It’s sad really that such (now) obvious bulls~~~ dupes so many guys even still…

Strong blue pill programming in todays society…Still, men are waking up…

Autolite wrote:

Maybe it might help you more to know that just posting your story here might have saved someone else! You very likely may have caused someone else to just open their eyes…

I hope someone can learn from the pain I went through as I have learned much from other brothers here and was able to lean on them when I needed support to keep me from spiraling down into oblivion…Just being able to stay grounded through the support of you brothers here…I am truly grateful…Thank you…You guys dont know how much it meant it me…I salute you guys..my Brothers…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Ranger One wrote:

They kick you more when you are down for the same reason that they stab you in the back when your back is turned, or (traditionally) poison you to kill you.

That I observed from my XW…It was not enough that she saw me crying and begging for her to stay and save our marriage..No..It was not enough, she has to twist it by declaring that I was at fault and blah..blah..I am inadequate..blah..blah..and really tear me down to shreds…I had been a good man…I am a good man, but still not enough, only to find out it was her who was cheating on me…Right…
Best revenge I can give her is to ignore her, go my own way and live a f~~~ing great life…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[AutoliteParticipant]

NerdTunneler wrote:

Strong blue pill programming in todays society…Still, men are waking up…

Several years ago a buddy of mine couldn’t understand why I had no interest in dating or meeting women. He even thought that I might be gay. He knew a couple of ladies who were interested in me and he kept telling me that “Women really like you!”

He didn’t seem to realized that ‘women liking you’ means nothing. It’s like saying “The check is in the mail” or “I promise I won’t cum in your mouth”.

A woman will on one day think that your the sweetest and most wonderful man in the world and then on the next day drop you like a wet paper bag full of warm dog s~~~.

That’s just how their minds work. Guys would do well to acknowledge and understand this…

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

Autolite wrote:

A woman will on one day think that your the sweetest and most wonderful man in the world and then on the next day drop you like a wet paper bag full of warm dog s~~~.

Yes, use them for sex only, beat them at their own game.

Get a vasectomy.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Oldschool wrote:

Yes, use them for sex only, beat them at their own game.

It’s a funny thing. Sex is the only thing that a woman can put on the table and yet she will typically withhold that indefinitely for all that she can possibly get for it.

Then when a man’s sex drive and need for sex diminishes the gals can’t seem to figure out why so many guys have now started to want nothing to do with them…

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

Ranger One wrote:

It hurts to find out the truth. Your wife’s “love” for you was an illusion and a lie from the beginning. They don’t love us; they love what we can do for us.

We aren’t husbands; we are husbanks.

It hurts now, but if you go deep enough with understanding, it does get better.

THIS!!! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

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