Brothers need help…talk sense to me…

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

So I just found out that my wife who left me was sleeping with “a friend”…Im just floored me right now..My guts are like lead…The pain..ohhh…so unbearable…just trying to hold back the tears…I dont know why I am crying…perhaps its the finality that the marriage is over…I just need to vent and seek strength…Im just alone in my house and the loneliness is unbearable…I had been a white knight to females before and I dont know..I feel lost at the moment…F~~~, its hard to breath…my heart..so painful…f~~~…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

The f~~~ I slaved away to give her the marriage she wants, to provide for vacations which she enjoyed with her sisters while I was left to pick up the bill…F~~~..Every time I work, there is the possibility that I am not going out alive…I work in the mining industry..F~~~..The years I slaved away in that dark and dangerous profession just so she can have her bags, her shoes, her vacations and showering her relatives with excess while I have none…I kept saving for the future and she kept spending like I was a millionaire.Putting these into words, showed how pathetic I lived my life…I saved so much that I didnt even have a new pair of pants during our 6 years marriage while she kept ordering the latest fashion…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

I expected that she was monkey branching when she left me…Coming from a conservative community, I did not expect it to be so soon…Still expecting it and confirming the truth are two different things that rammed more red pills into my gut…Glad I didnt have a child with her to complicate the situation even more…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 13]

I’m sorry for your pain, man.

It sucks.

Rest assured, it was never about anything you did or didn’t do.
She was gonna do this anyway, but they always need an excuse, and if non then a lie will suffice to justify her actions.

It’s nothing you did man, it’s HER, it was her all along.

Now, the only one who matters here is YOU. Do nothing for that bitch and do everything you can to get that bitch out of your life forever.

UNC~~~ so hard that she’s not even a bad f~~~ing memory.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ is what brought You here. This is the TRUTH, and this TRUTH will also provide YOU with Freedom from THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ever happening to YOU again !!

ASSIMILATION of the RED PILL can be painful at first, but once YOU get past this,and YOU SHALL, then YOUR LIFE BEGINS !!!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[xenonParticipant 2007]

Dude I am there with you. My ex that I adored has f~~~ed her way through so many of my best friends I don’t have anything to do with the whole crowd any more. You are better than her is all I can say. Men have integrity and morals and understand respect is earned and not an entitlement. You will get through this. I did.

You are better than her bulls~~~. You are better then the friend f~~~ing her, and btw, he is no friend and neither is she.

No reference to how it makes you feel is lost on me. I felt and feel them all.

[Anonymous 13]

No child means you dodged more than a bullet.

You just escaped from a life of SHEER HELL with her.

You would have been cheated on and left paying for a child you rarely, if ever, get to see.

There’s a lot to be THANKFUL for here.

[bladeParticipant]

Not having kids is a big bonus

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Thank you SpiritRR…thank you Awakened..Thank you Argon. thank you Blade..I dont know how many guys she had but I only confirmed one…The nights out, the excuses, the manipulations, its all rearranging right now and giving me a new perspective…The truth that my sweet unicorn was always AWALT…The sudden realization of the manipulation and lying she fed me, I dont know if I am mad or hurt or relieved…The emotions, are truly devastating like a roller coaster…I thought I was finished with this pain when she left, now I am back in more pain and with a deeper wound…Even separated, she was still able to inflict this much damage to my self, my whole being…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

If she left you, why are you still married?

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

It hurts to find out the truth. Your wife’s “love” for you was an illusion and a lie from the beginning. They don’t love us; they love what we can do for us.

We aren’t husbands; we are husbanks.

It hurts now, but if you go deep enough with understanding, it does get better.

My ex cheated with 4 different people; past a certain point, I started planning for the future, rather than acting rashly.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 13]

NerdTunneler wrote:

I dont know how many guys she had but I only confirmed one

Even one is ONE too many, man.

No loyalty, is NO LOYALTY.

One. Too. F~~~ing. Many.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

If she left you, why are you still married?

No divorce here in our place Jan…She left and I think my in laws encouraged her because I found out that all my money were going into their business instead of building our family…No wonder my wife wanted me to earn more…

Ranger One wrote:

It hurts to find out the truth. Your wife’s “love” for you was an illusion and a lie from the beginning. They don’t love us; they love what we can do for us.

That shattering of the illusion made it final…Its plunging me into an abyss that I dont know yet where the bottom lies..All her excuses of seminars, low battery, just with friends, all the while giving me reasons why I cant go with her…Now everything is clicking into place and that realization is shaking my world..Shaking me to the foundation of my core as to how I could have been so blind to trust her…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Even one is ONE too many, man.

No loyalty, is NO LOYALTY.

One. Too. F~~~ing. Many.

F~~~…I will rise from this treachery. I will live my life for myself…No tears, no begging is going to sway my resolve ever again…I hate my hormones for tricking me into putting that vagina into a pedestal…Soon she will hit the wall and I will not care where her life takes her…Enough of me always apologizing for her s~~~ty behavior..Her not being accountable to her actions..Her alienating me from friends and hobbies…I lost a good portion of my productive years…But I promise to rise above this…I will not be defeated by this emotion…
Im trying to be strong, but the tears keep flowing…f~~~…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[EstebanParticipant 79]

I have been in the very exact space you are in now… Oh have I been there. If I’m not mistaken, your mind is racing between some sort of revenge and what can I do to make things right between us. By experience, and you know this, neither are the path to follow. The revenge will just p~~~ her off even more and provide ammo against you. The other will just make you look like a useless simp to her that she can use and take advantage of.

The first prescription is to find things to keep you occupied. Get with friends or fam.

Awakened said it plain and simple.

Awakened wrote:

ASSIMILATION of the RED PILL can be painful at first, but once YOU get past this,and YOU SHALL, then YOUR LIFE BEGINS !!!!

There is no easy way around this… At this moment you are getting the tattoo on your heart that says “That F~~~ing Bitch” and it will sting for a bit.

Just think how many times you had thought about all the things you wanted to do but couldn’t because of her when you were married. Now you have the gift of your freedom right in front of you!

A feminist asked me how I view lesbian relationships... Apparently "in HD" was not the right answer.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I believe you should be able to file for an immediate divorce (no one-year waiting period) on grounds of adultery.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 1]

We are here for you and other men day and night. Never forget that. Your emotions be all over the place for a while. You need to protect yourself right now. Seek legal advice. You dodged a bullet with having no children.

If divorce is not possible in what ever country you are in, is there a way to legally cut financial ties with her. Or move to where you can divorce? Never heard of where you cannot get divorced.

Your loneliness will turn into peace. It takes time.

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Never communicate with her or anyone involved with this BS ever again.

Cut all ties, emotional and financial, immediately.

Prepare for the worst and hide all your money and assets YESTERDAY.

Wishing you the best and that tramp you married the worst.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Another way to look at this, is that it is like you are being reborn. Being born is an unpleasant experience; that is one reason why babies cry.

It probably should go without saying, never let her come back, never have sex with her. (I know I violated that rule last year, but it was mostly curiosity to investigate reverse-monkey-branching — I had gotten laid a few days earlier a single mom — I know, ALSO a bad idea)

The funny thing is, my ex got all emotional and said she still loved me (despite moving away out of state with a Chad) and for a few years she said she didn’t love me. It turned out to be very educational in terms of red-pill knowledge of monkey branching and reverse monkey branching.

She probably assumes at this point I’d take her back if her Chad tires of her and she needs to reverse-monkey-branch back to me (which is what I want her to think). I don’t want her to realize that I would NEVER take her back. (Reason: we split custody and my son lives with me and my daughter lives with her out of state, and visitation would be easier with her living IN-state)

I’d say all-in-all, with no kids, you probably have no good reason to experiment with screwing the ex in the future.

Don’t feel TOO bad about being misled, betrayed etc. You might feel foolish, stupid, or ashamed at having been conned. DON’T. Society spent years brainwashing us with blue pills. Natural selection favors women who are able to con men into supporting them.

Consider yourself a survivor in a battle against societal brainwashing and natural selection. The old saying “Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me” applies here.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Thank you Esteban, Thank you RangerOne, Thank you Kowalski, thank you Duke..Im feeling a bit better now…
Thank you for the strength brothers…There is no divorce law here yet in my country…Just an annulment of marriage and it too costs an arm and a leg…Considering that my finances dried up because I trusted that c~~~ on my money, I am struggling right now…My parents are supportive though and have enough money to support me but I have decided to accept very little…I wanted to go through this hardship so I can rebuild my life and establish a business on my own effort…So that when the time comes, I would have enough money to file for annulment to protect my assets…
SO true that my emotions are running wild…Its like driving a car without a steering wheel or a brake…Im just along for the ride and I am not liking the situation I am in…Im trying to regain control, but losing big time…The tears have stopped, loneliness and rage are still within me…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

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