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Think about it, if they didn’t have a pussy, asshole, mouth that we want to f~~~ 24/7 whats left? Take those 3 things away and ask yourself how much time would you spend on females?
Get a vasectomy.
OP –
(1.) It will hurt for a while. It will come and go for years, but each time the pain will gradually get less. Eventually it will just fade away….I found that writing out my thoughts and emotions and writing down the events and analyzing past behaviors helped…I would periodically forget, then would re-read my notes which would remind me of why and how this entire thing transpired.
(2.) Be nice to yourself. Do not blame yourself for crap she did. Write down the crap she did that she was responsible for.
(3.) Assess the damage….try to avoid court if you can and do an out of court settlement.
(4.) Once the divorce happens sever all ties from her and her friends and family. As far as you are concerned they are all dead.
(5.) Throw out or sell anything that reminds you of her. This will make the healing go faster. Put the photos into a shredder…
(6.) Diet and start working out. Grow a beard. Buy and learn how to play an instrument. Get a motorcycle, take up fly fishing, target shooting, reloading, gardening. Take a class, learn a new language, etc.
(7.) Read some books starting with: “The Manipulated Man” by Esther Vilar. Yes..it’s written by a woman, and yes…(oddly enough, unlike most women she is brutally honest on how women think)…Those emotions…those tears? All bulls~~~…all an acting job. Internalize this book. Read some other books like Rollo Tommassi’s books.
Stay away from dating. You will be emotionally vulnerable for about at least 2 years on the average.
(8.) Make a plan and stick to it (Exercise goals, weight goals, bucket list goals, financial goals: focus on building your wealth for retirement)
(9.) Save a little…spend a little…you decide how much.
(10.) No matter how you feel…yes ALL WOMEN Are Like that (AWALT). Including your relatives. If their are exceptions they are so rare it would be like finding a real live unicorn….when you meet any women from know on…think of it in terms of statistics….even if there is a unicorn out there (and there isn’t)…it is so rare you have a better chance at winning the Lotto. Women are Chameleons and master actors…everything they do is an Act. Everything they say: is a LIE. There is no truth to women…truth and honesty is something stupid in a woman’s eyes. The entire purpose is to lie through their teeth to get what they want. IN short the end justifies the means.Cupcake is a cold blooded Machiavellian who doesn’t give a RATS ass about you or me as a person. ONLY what she can squeeze out of a man for her benefit. That is it.
God damn it. I was there during Christmas when my wife had an ongoing affair. GOD how I HATE Christmas! I didn’t know of your situation and because I have seen many of your posts, I thought you were out of the s~~~. I know how hard it is but believe it or not, you have something I couldn’t imagine at the time. You have MGTOW. I sat in a home alone staring at a Christmas tree my wife and I put up and tried to drink myself to death for three days. It took me four weeks before everything I touched, tasted or smelled wasn’t brandy, even after washing, even if I went out for days. It’s like I can still taste it talking to you. I screamed: “GOD, WHY HAVE YOU FORSAKEN ME!” I put my Glock 19 to my head but remembered a promise to never end it that way. So I made plans to drive over a cliff in the mountains. I got my keys for my final trip but the f~~~ing dog… You have us, all I had was my dachshund to make me think. So don’t f~~~ing TELL me you cannot survive this! I f~~~ing KNOW the pain, I am crying like a baby right now! YOU are a man! YOU will find a way out of the s~~~, somehow, someway. YOU have our Love because WE are MGTOW! It is your time to think and pray. You have God and you have us. If you have family, that is good because I have none.
(1.) It will hurt for a while. It will come and go for years, but each time the pain will gradually get less. Eventually it will just fade away….I found that writing out my thoughts and emotions and writing down the events and analyzing past behaviors helped…I would periodically forget, then would re-read my notes which would remind me of why and how this entire thing transpired.
(2.) Be nice to yourself. Do not blame yourself for crap she did. Write down the crap she did that she was responsible for.
(3.) Assess the damage….try to avoid court if you can and do an out of court settlement.
(4.) Once the divorce happens sever all ties from her and her friends and family. As far as you are concerned they are all dead.
(5.) Throw out or sell anything that reminds you of her. This will make the healing go faster. Put the photos into a shredder…
(6.) Diet and start working out. Grow a beard. Buy and learn how to play an instrument. Get a motorcycle, take up fly fishing, target shooting, reloading, gardening. Take a class, learn a new language, etc.
(7.) Read some books starting with: “The Manipulated Man” by Esther Vilar. Yes..it’s written by a woman, and yes…(oddly enough, unlike most women she is brutally honest on how women think)…Those emotions…those tears? All bulls~~~…all an acting job. Internalize this book. Read some other books like Rollo Tommassi’s books.Thank you for the advice brother…Im back to square one on the process but getting through it much faster..Red pills definitely helped but I have to go through the grieving process…No shortcut on this one…Posting about the pain helps as well as a reminder at the time in my life when the illusion of marriage was broken…Its sad right now but i know its the best for me in the long run…I just have to keep moving on and live each day one day at a time…
I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...
God damn it. I was there during Christmas when my wife had an ongoing affair. GOD how I HATE Christmas! I didn’t know of your situation and because I have seen many of your posts, I thought you were out of the s~~~. I know how hard it is but believe it or not, you have something I couldn’t imagine at the time. You have MGTOW. I sat in a home alone staring at a Christmas tree my wife and I put up and tried to drink myself to death for three days. It took me four weeks before everything I touched, tasted or smelled wasn’t brandy, even after washing, even if I went out for days. It’s like I can still taste it talking to you. I screamed: “GOD, WHY HAVE YOU FORSAKEN ME!” I put my Glock 19 to my head but remembered a promise to never end it that way. So I made plans to drive over a cliff in the mountains. I got my keys for my final trip but the f~~~ing dog… You have us, all I had was my dachshund to make me think. So don’t f~~~ing TELL me you cannot survive this! I f~~~ing KNOW the pain, I am crying like a baby right now! YOU are a man! YOU will find a way out of the s~~~, somehow, someway. YOU have our Love because WE are MGTOW! It is your time to think and pray. You have God and you have us. If you have family, that is good because I have none.
Thank you Brother for the tough love…Man, you really had it worse and during f~~~ing Christmas…I cant imagine the pain you had but I know its crippling…Just how heartless can the partner we cherished and loved suddenly do this to us…Because AWALT…Im glad you are alive Brother and made here to help others survive…I am glad that I found MGTOW in time and it helped me to grow roots before this coming s~~~ storm…I owe it to you guys that I can bounce back much quicker..Thank you…
I too had an experience with an LTR…drove me nuts almost to suicide but I was too Christian to commit that sin..I did the “best” thing at the time and walked every night into a dangerous neighborhood hoping to get stabbed or shot and killed…Its a good thing nothing happened to me…We are surviving brother, the claws of those c~~~s are out of us…Now I have to mend these wounds that run deep and then I can really run unencumbered by craziness…WE ARE MGTOW…I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...
Welcome to the beautiful bastards. Love IS tough here, you didn’t thread for a gentle kiss! It turned my dad into a monk for 35 years till he died. I remained blue pill till I was 53, Dad was right again. The sex of feelings has no heart, never f~~~ing forget that! I owe MGTOW my life, with some prayers for my survival.
My spiritual outlook may differ but I am also Christian and know what you are saying. Yet death is not required to face hell, is it? Your wounds will heal in time but the scars will always be there. You need those scars to remind you of a painful lesson. If you forget that lesson, you deserve another scar. Your situation is unique because of where you live, get the hell out if you can. If you cannot, “Sorry” doesn’t mean s~~~ but you must survive.You are my brother but I am not tech savvy. So, I grant Keymastor to give my phone number to my brother, NerdTunneler. Call him with this post to talk to me. I have two apps to make the conversation free.
Are you still there? Please reply. I don’t want you to go. Call me! F~~~ it, my number is: (865) 566-2276.
You better call me, you f~~~ing asshole!Just read NerdTunneler’s last post on here and from his writing I sense that he’s alright! He seems to need time to reflect. I could be wrong but that’s what I got from reading this ⬇ anyways I’m sure he knows that we’re all here for him should he needs to talk. (That includes myself NerdTunneler, feel free to reach out!)
Thank you Brother for the tough love…Man, you really had it worse and during f~~~ing Christmas…I cant imagine the pain you had but I know its crippling…Just how heartless can the partner we cherished and loved suddenly do this to us…Because AWALT…Im glad you are alive Brother and made here to help others survive…I am glad that I found MGTOW in time and it helped me to grow roots before this coming s~~~ storm…I owe it to you guys that I can bounce back much quicker..Thank you…
I too had an experience with an LTR…drove me nuts almost to suicide but I was too Christian to commit that sin..I did the “best” thing at the time and walked every night into a dangerous neighborhood hoping to get stabbed or shot and killed…Its a good thing nothing happened to me…We are surviving brother, the claws of those c~~~s are out of us…Now I have to mend these wounds that run deep and then I can really run unencumbered by craziness…WE ARE MGTOWYou must own a better Crystal ball than IMy fellow MGTOW brothers have spoken at length on your situation, so I won’t repeat the same good advice. Other than to say, please reach out to any one of us if you really feel the need to, don’t hesitate. I have few posts here as of right now, and I’m not in the same boat per se, but I’m always here to lend an ear or have a talk via PM’s. It’s an awful feeling to think you are all alone in such times, I truly know it myself. So please don’t think you are.
That goes for anyone reading this. Lurkers and all. This has proved to be a fantastic support network of sorts for me, and that’s just from reading posts!
'You can achieve more and be happy avoiding the wrong women than you ever could searching for the right woman.' - KM
Really sorry to hear about it all NerdTunneler – I haven’t been through marriage and divorce so I can’t directly relate , have been through some horrible other s~~~ though. One thing is for sure it will take time to see brighter days .. but there WILL be brighter days. Just focus on one step at a time, and as others say start to build a plan for the future and how you will create strength for yourself. It’s all about you now, looking after yourself and getting better. It won’t be easy, and that is where friends are so important. Feel free to private message me on here any time bro! Even if it just to talk or vent some emotions. Peace be with you bro – you have the rest of your life to live now , look after yourself and stay in touch with the commnity. One step at a time.. to getting better! You will have a future to live happy and healthy, and we will help you get there.
Remember that you have value! doesn’t matter if you’re rich , poor, homeless or live in a mansion. Your mind body and soul has VALUE. you can create happiness and you can create any future you want. After any storm comes the sunshine. If you’re going through hell.. keep going! Brighter days brother. Brighter days.
~ Were you listening to me, Neo? Or were you looking at the woman in the red dress? ~
Just read NerdTunneler’s last post on here and from his writing I sense that he’s alright! He seems to need time to reflect.
Jesus, I hope you are right. We need him to start a thread and not leave us hanging. Since I am on a temporary layoff, I have been working overtime looking at this website. I have learned so much in a few short days. You f~~~ers are my family and I give a s~~~ about every member. I just sent a prayer for him to be comforted. Prayers kept me alive when my life was falling apart, I could sense them and don’t ask me to explain that but I knew. Perhaps NerdTunneler also has that gift and if he does, there is hope in living hell. I suppose the rest is up to him.
Sorry guys if I worried you…Im alright and I had been a bit busy. Thank you for your concern Brothers..Your strength gave me the boost needed to move despite the pain. It became easier to recover when I have shared my situation and how I felt. It was therapeautic. Sharing here and getting the support of you brothers beats several sessions with a shrink. Helping out other brothers who are in tough spot also gave me a sense of purpose and accomplishment. Just to know that I/we are not trash after having us believed so by our c~~~ made me stand up straighter.
Knowing that we are not bad. That it is NOT A SIN TO BE A MAN. That we are not a failure…this group is priceless.
Its good to be busy, to create something is enriching to the soul…I was in another thread started by KM and I started another thread yesterday that made me feel YEAH!!!
For the lurkers in pain, share your pain brothers so that you may be unburdened by that responsibility. I did and you my Brothers reached out to drag me out of that pit. Thank you guys..I can smile again. I had a blast yesterday with an incident which I started another topic…I still have to learn how to attach a forum to this…Still learning..Thank you Brothers…I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...
Its good to be busy, to create something is enriching to the soul…I was in another thread started by KM and I started another thread yesterday that made me feel YEAH!!!
Well NT,
I have more for you to read that might help you in your situation.
About female nature, and some of my stories on page 2.
“Why my girlfriends always tried to ruin ME”
/forums/topic/a-good-article-on-female-nature-and-why-women-always-ruin-their-men/
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All I can say is I’d do evil s~~~ to all of them. Their lives would be ruined. Yes. I’m obviously a bad person as vengeance would be mine!!!!!!
Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.
Hey Nerd, welcome back from the pits of hell. I know the trip really sucked. We have been standing on the shore waiting for you to return. You will always be welcome here because you are our brother. We do not throw our own to the she-wolves, we fight for them. Our Love is tough but that is how it should be. It beats the “touchy-feelie” love every time. Now get your s~~~ together and find your way out of the s~~~ sack you are in! I don’t give two f~~~s what it is worth because peace of mind has a far higher value. Money can be replaced much faster than sanity. You have my advice, for what it’s worth. Do what you wish but know you will never be alone as long as you are MGTOW.
How you doin’?
"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.
Im doing better stealth…Thanks for asking. I made a thread chronicling my progress, just a reminder for me on how far I have come since being in this state where I feel lost and really helpless…You guys helped me recover fast and I am now starting to enjoy my life for myself. I dont find myself obsessing over my wife and I am starting to pick up pieces from my life. Slow process though as years of indoctrination is hard to cast off and refocus that void into something for myself which is a very novel idea. It sometimes feel unnatural to be focusing on myself instead of slaving for someone but I know its just the plantation talking. Then I remember the psycho bulls~~~ that I went through and then I smile at the peace that I am slowly starting to enjoy…
I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...
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