Brothers need help…talk sense to me…

[Anonymous 13]

Do NOT go back or allow her back under ANY circumstances.

NO desperate shag in a Godless Universe.

NOT now, or in ANY future scenario with her.

You can break free of this C~~~ forever. And you should.

Do whatever it takes to break all ties and do it NOW.

[Anonymous 0]

Brother Tunneler,
This might well sound like s~~~ advice (it did to me in the moment) but bare with me.

After catching an ex cheating 3 weeks before our wedding day (better 3 before than 3 after, bullet dodged right there) a bloke I knew who had also been there, passed on some advice he had received,
“Just remember, YOU have nothing to be embarrassed about” he said

At the time I dismissed it because I was riding the angry with no room for embarrassment. But over the months that followed there was many a quiet moment when I had to kick my own arse a little and remind myself that I had nothing to be embarrassed about. I embraced his advice and vented a whole lot of s~~~ to anyone who was silly enough to ask.

To sum up the ramble, if you start to ask yourself ‘why me?’ ‘what did he have that I didn’t?’ ‘what could I have done better?’ or if it comes up in conversation and somebody asks you ‘what happened?’. If you decide you want to answer (your call GYOW) drop the stiff upper lip and resist the urge to ‘man up’ (again if you want) but remember “YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE EMBARRASSED ABOUT”

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Thank you guys for your support…I dont know how to thank you enough…Im truly thankful for the strength you brothers have shared…Thank you…Your support grounded me so that I wont fly off the handle, or call my ex wife, or tell her I know, or to seek closure or other bulls~~~ that would make me contact her…Thank you Brothers…It means so much to me especially when I have been suffering from depression a few months back leading up to this separation…Thank you for grounding me…
I shed the last remnants of my being a white knight which I thought I had shed already…Thank you Brothers…I am glad ad proud to call you my Brothers…My journey ahead is a difficult one, but I will prevail as my Brothers have prevailed and triumphed in much more worse situation…Thank you…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Do NOT go back or allow her back under ANY circumstances.

NO desperate shag in a Godless Universe.

NOT now, or in ANY future scenario with her.

You can break free of this C~~~ forever. And you should.

Do whatever it takes to break all ties and do it NOW.

Thank you SPiritRR…One of the reasons why I vented here so that I can make a memento of the s~~~ I went through in this relations~~~ and that it was my Brothers who talked sense into me when my emotions got the better of me when the illusion was utterly destroyed…I will remember this day…My days with longing for that vagina is over..She never gave anything but pussy and even that she with held when she didnt get her way…An ex wife who was sweet and innocent looking but looking back, a master manipulator…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

“Just remember, YOU have nothing to be embarrassed about

Anonymous wrote:

To sum up the ramble, if you start to ask yourself ‘why me?’ ‘what did he have that I didn’t?’ ‘what could I have done better?’ or if it comes up in conversation and somebody asks you ‘what happened?’. If you decide you want to answer (your call GYOW) drop the stiff upper lip and resist the urge to ‘man up’ (again if you want) but remember “YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE EMBARRASSED ABOUT”

Thank you Nosvic brother for that advice…Thank you for sharing your story..Yes, I am asking myself why me…what have I done wrong, where did I make a mistake…Thank you brother for pointing it out to me…
The stigma from being separated here in my place….One of the things, of fear and ridicule…But thank you…I greatly appreciate that advice…
Its why I turned to you my Brothers for advice because I know that you will give it to me straight without the sugar coating despite how painful it is…Thank you…

I can breathe easier now…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

AWALT, doesn’t matter if they are the good mom that makes cookies on Sunday mornings, People still try to find out why we are such assholes, why we don’t care anymore, why we don’t want relationships anymore, well it’s because of this ^^^^.

It only takes one bitch, one good and stupid bitch to turn a good man into an asshole, once the transformation is done that man will never comeback to being good.

Then people wonder why we hate society? or why we aren’t a movement? we are MEN not just your average citizenry that gets cow in any direction society wants us to go.

I feel sorry for you man, but i hope reality and God gives you a new pair of lenses ( red in color ) and a new life in which you can start enjoying it for once…

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

We’re all here for ya Nerd……..you know not to act ‘rashly’, at this moment in time……the BETRAYAL hurts like hell, don’t it!?

Seriously, you will probably thank your lucky stars, in a year or two, particularly when she knocks on your door, and asks you to take her back, (and she will), make sure you get all your legal s~~~ sorted, and change the f~~~ing locks on your home doors…..I know it doesn’t seem so at the moment, but OH boy…..YOU’VE HAD A ‘LUCKY’ ESCAPE, JUST WISH MY BITCH HAD’D LEFT ME EARLIER

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

No Time like the Present to START letting Go !!

YOU have Learned that Women are LIARS, and the Red Pill provides the TRUTH !!

I suggest that YOU go out and do WHATEVER the F~~~ that YOU WANT to do !!

Take YOURSELF out to dinner, BUY a NEW TOY, Hire a HO for the evening, or WHATEVER YOU WANT !!

She’s GONE, START TAKING CARE of/TREATING YOURSELF for a CHANGE !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Thank you Man of the Mountain brother…Yes, I was a good man…A catch to a lot of females as they say and I have played the white knight…Now I turn my back on them…I have been burned twice…an LTR and this marriage which I though I found a unicorn…No more…Soon this rage is going to turn into indifference and I hope to find the peace that most of the brothers have here…It is your advice and your stories that give me hope while I am here in the darkness…
AWALT…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

“I wanted to go through this hardship so I can rebuild my life and establish a business on my own effort”

Well said Nerd…….in your future, all this pain you are suffering now, will be welcomed with open arms…you will laugh at the pain and eat it all up, cause as MEN, that’s what we do….we laugh in the face of adversity and suffering……..

Go to youtube and find Rudyard Kipling’s poem “IF”, learn it word by word.

Good luck brother

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Thank you Bigvern…It hurts like hell…My grandma just died a few weeks ago…I was very fond of her, old culture and strong morals…I was devastated and this c~~~ of a wife could not even send a message of condolence to my grandpa after all they did for her…My pain from my grandma dying mild compared to this c~~~ of a wife that kept plunging the knife deeper and deeper all the while knowing that I keep hurting even more…Why do they kick us more when they know we are down? I had been a good man, a good husband…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Thank you Awakened…The freedom is frightening…I was tempted to drink it all away and screw hos but because of your support, logic prevailed…Drinking wont solve my problem or take away the pain…I decided to embrace this pain and get it over with so I can forget her quickly and start on with my life unencumbered by these needy females…The hos, I havent tried them yet and giving my inexperience with them, I am holding back because I might get some disease especially if my judgement is clouded by anger…Perhaps I am going to visit my brother and his family in NZ…I could unwind a bit there a have a new scenery…Never been out of my country before and change of scenery may take me away from painful memories here and heal faster…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Time and distance brother.

Unc~~~ means unc~~~.

Any major life event involving loss is a highly emotional tidal wave of tragedy.

The key is nothing. Do nothing, say nothing.

It is like the death of a parent. Don’t make any life decisions for 6 months to a year. That is why people use to wear black for a year. It was called the time of mourning.

You must mourn. Wear mgtow black until inner peace comes.

Or, as Stealthy would say, f~~~ her sister.

Peace brothers

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

NerdTunneler wrote:

No more…Soon this rage is going to turn into indifference and I hope to find the peace that most of the brothers have here…It is your advice and your stories that give me hope while I am here in the darkness…

I beg to differ, YOU were in the darkness when you played the role of a White Knight, YOU were Blinded by the LIES.

Now that YOU have been AWAKENED, YOU are in the LIGHT and can SEE the Truth from the LIES.

Neo: Why do my eyes hurt?
Morpheus: You’ve never used them before.
—–The Matrix

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 0]

NerdTunneler wrote:

I had been a good man, a good husband…

Being a good husband (as judged by them) is not always the same as being a good man. Just be your own man good or bad.
Imagine if you will being one of those nutjobs who marry themselves, then think of all the thing you might do to make your new husband happy. Go YOUR own way brother

Keep ranting at your leisure, its what we are here for. Zero judgement.

[StealthParticipant 5330]

Let it absorb and maybe it will give you closure. You’re not stuck gaping at nothing, with no reason she left, still trying to resolve it with nothing having happened. You wouldn’t want to live with this further, so you can be glad she has gone. Still, my condolances.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 43]

turn that frown upside down, my man!

divorce that bitch and set her freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee to ride all the c~~~ she wants free and clear.

oh, and she becomes someone else’s problem.

you can now escape her s~~~ vortex

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

DorkShit wrote:

It is like the death of a parent. Don’t make any life decisions for 6 months to a year. That is why people use to wear black for a year. It was called the time of mourning.

Thank you Darksith…I read a lot and that advice holds true in the things I have read…It is also why I am afraid to make a major decision with a clouded judgement…The inner me, in rage may be brash and arrogant now to face the deadliest storms, but without proper preparation, I would lose that battle…Thank you for the advice brother…I remembered that i should be prepared and unc~~~ because my enemy is a master manipulator…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

I beg to differ, YOU were in the darkness when you played the role of a White Knight, YOU were Blinded by the LIES.

Now that YOU have been AWAKENED, YOU are in the LIGHT and can SEE the Truth from the LIES.

Neo: Why do my eyes hurt?
Morpheus: You’ve never used them before.
—–The Matrix

Thank you Brother on that perspective…Thank you for giving me a paradigm shift…You are right, I had been in darkness before and this is me squinting and adjusting to the light…Thank you brother…Im back to tears, but joyful because of that paradigm shift…thank you guys…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Thank you Nosvic, thank you Stealth…I dont want to live in this period of uncertain anymore. She left, it is her decision…No closure or reasons needed…She will have to face the consequences of that as I turn my back on her and shed the last remnants of being a White knight..No tears will corrode this resolve..Never again…Thank you guys…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

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