Brothers need help…talk sense to me…

[StealthParticipant 5330]

I am still angry at my wife. She just turned into Hitler and ran a project of villianizing me, and projecting blame onto me for everything she ever did. There was no reason for any of it.

But I had a dream recently in which she confessed having had an affair. Of course, “What did you think!?” is what she said to me. And in my case, the anger just evaporated. I was like, of course…it all makes sense now…why didn’t you tell me, I could have helped you through it. I am still angry at her like you said, for working years of my life which she stole the rewards of. This is just my situation and not necessarily yours, but If I found out she had an affair…I would suddenly see why she spent so much energy trying to absolve her guilty conscience. I would treat it discreetly, give her up to the universe and cut my ties. It would help me to let go.

I am saying your newfound knowledge is not such a bad thing.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Thank you Brother May 7…I have been following your story and it has given me inspiration. Your suffering, your determination and your tenacity to never back down or surrender your life to that bitch of a wife of yours…I had set my calendar to may 7 2020 to cheer you on your freedom brother…Thank you for taking the time to help out a brother when you are in a worse situation than me…I can relate to the s~~~ vortex you went through…Thank you for sharing that story…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 43]

oh, no drinking, no drugs, no f~~~ing 3 whores at a time. you need your mind and your money to work for you to get out of the s~~~ vortex.

step 1 go visit every lawyer in the surrounding counties. they consult for free, if she visits them there is a conflict of interest. file first, be the plaintiff, not the defendant. plaintiff = victim / defendant = criminal.

step 2 got firearms, nice car, stamp collection, gold coins…sell them to a friend for $1.

step 3 do not hide money. do not hide money. do not hide money.

step 4 no communication. communication with her is evidence against you.

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

NerdTunneler wrote:

Thank you for the strength brothers…There is no divorce law here yet in my country…Just an annulment of marriage and it too costs an arm and a leg…Considering that my finances dried up because I trusted that c~~~ on my money, I am struggling right now…My parents are supportive though and have enough money to support me but I have decided to accept very little…I wanted to go through this hardship so I can rebuild my life and establish a business on my own effort…So that when the time comes, I would have enough money to file for annulment to protect my assets

Don’t know which country you are in, but won’t it be better to file for divorce when you are broke so the c~~~ don’t have anything to take from you?

If you file after you rebuild and establish a business will she be entitled to part of your wealth you rebuild?

I understand you do not want to owe your parents more, but won’t you borrow some money from them and pay them back later? So you can prevent the c~~~ from taking away more money from you.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[AutoliteParticipant]

NerdTunneler wrote:

The pain..ohhh…so unbearable…just trying to hold back the tears…I dont know why I am crying…perhaps its the finality that the marriage is over…I just need to vent and seek strength…Im just alone in my house and the loneliness is unbearable…I had been a white knight to females before and I dont know..I feel lost at the moment…F~~~, its hard to breath…my heart..so painful…f~~~…

You’re just learning the truth and it hurts. Just remember “AWALT”. You not the first nor the only guy to ever deal with this.

And if you can GET A DOG! I’m very f~~~ing serious about this! The worst dog will give you 10 times more loyalty and companionship than the best woman…

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

NerdTunneler wrote:

You are right, I had been in darkness before and this is me squinting and adjusting to the light

With TIME and RED PILLS, YOU will be AMAZED at HOW DIFFERENTLY YOU SEE so MANY things, and how TRULY FORTUNATE YOU are to be FREE !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[StealthParticipant 5330]

Gnostic wrote:

Don’t know which country you are in, but won’t it be better to file for divorce when you are broke so the c~~~ don’t have anything to take from you?

This.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Stealth wrote:

I am still angry at my wife. She just turned into Hitler and ran a project of villianizing me, and projecting blame onto me for everything she ever did. There was no reason for any of it.

Her immediate family unfriended me on FB when I did nothing to annoy them. I had helped them several times and they just made me a villain without talking to me…Oh well, I am glad they burned that bridge down. I am never going to rebuild that bridge or acknowledge that they ever existed…
I know in my mind that her cheating on me is going to somehow be my fault…Women were throwing themselves at me one time and I did not budge out of respect for my marriage…And she…well…now I know better…AWALT…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

NerdTunneler wrote:

I work in the mining industry

Hang in there brother. NUMEROUS men have gone through what you are going through right this very moment. I can relate to the feeling you are having. The heavy feeling in your gut. I remember feeling that way once, it was so bad that it cased me to feel nauseous and even have diarrhoea. That constant churning feeling and the low-deep pain in my chest.

I also use to work in the mining industry brother…..I use to work in a hard rock underground mine doing my time as an engineer. I use to do 2 weeks on and 1 week off, 12 hrs per day. It was bloody hard. I was on the jumbo and long-hole drill rigs as a nipper. What machines were you on?

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[Anonymous 43]

now, you have just suffered a loss, crying and grief is natural. let it out. but do not shut down. chin up, eyes open. you are now at war with your best friend. you lost time, money and effort into this c~~~, and you will have a negative rate of return on investment. accept this, and further bulls~~~ wont feel so bad. the mentality of a soldier in a battle is im already dead, so what if I get hurt.

please make sure you have someone close in the real world you can talk to about what is happening. this forum is not the best support system but if its all ya got….

do not let this bitch kill you! survive this s~~~, and I promise you will come out stronger, smarter and braver than you thought you could be.

[HitmanParticipant]

When my ex split and the marriage failed, I THOUGHT I FAILED.
It took a f~~~ing year for me to realize that I DIDN’T FAIL. the marriage did. And it was HER that sabotaged it.
.
You didn’t fail.
.
Btw, no phone calls from now on. .only text with a backup app to save all the texts. .
SMS backup is an app for your phone.
Use it.
Avoid false accusations from her.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Gnostic wrote:

Don’t know which country you are in, but won’t it be better to file for divorce when you are broke so the c~~~ don’t have anything to take from you?

If you file after you rebuild and establish a business will she be entitled to part of your wealth you rebuild?

Thank you Gnostic Brother for the advice…I will be ghosting her removing her from my life…I will try to consult a lawyer on what my options are…Without a divorce law here in my country, the court system is muddled up with annulment…akin to divorce…Still, I have nothing now and she believes me weak that I wont be able to recover…Too bad I am recovering quickly aided by you my Brothers and the knowledge of the red pill…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

And if you can GET A DOG! I’m very f~~~ing serious about this! The worst dog will give you 10 times more loyalty and companionship than the best woman…

Thanks Autolite for the advice…I will get a dog when I get back from my vacation…I remember I had a dog as a kid and that rascal loved me unconditionally…I loved that dog..Thank you for reminding me…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

NerdTunneler wrote:

Too bad I am recovering quickly aided by you my Brothers and the knowledge of the red pill…

Taking the RED Pill is fare more valuable than winning any amount in the lottery!

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

MGTOW_Mike wrote:

Hang in there brother. NUMEROUS men have gone through what you are going through right this very moment. I can relate to the feeling you are having. The heavy feeling in your gut. I remember feeling that way once, it was so bad that it cased me to feel nauseous and even have diarrhoea. That constant churning feeling and the low-deep pain in my chest.

Thank you MGTOW Mike..You summed up the feeling perfectly…That is the feeling I am on a rollercoaster right now…The heaviness of physical pain, plus the mental anguish, then the emotional breakdown…The ride is dizzying but I am slowly regaining my feet with thanks to venting and your support, my brothers…You dont know guys how much your support helped to calm and stabilize me in this crazy ride I am in now…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[narwhalParticipant]

I would think an annulment would go smoother than divorce, particularly with no kids involved. Get this process started fast.

Those that said it feels like someone close you died are 100% correct. That’s probably the way you should treat your ex. Seriously, to me, my wife no longer exists, my ex is not the same person to me. It’s the only way I could forget and move on. And since she’s just another person, she get’s nothing special from me. I don’t direct any emotion towards her.

That does not it doesn’t hurt or that I don’t remember some moments fondly, just that my ex doesn’t get to see any of that.

One of the things that really helped me was becoming reacquainted with who I was before her. I hadn’t realized how much I missed…me. It was the little things. Making meals I used to make. No longer looking at furniture and decorations I didn’t like. Watching tv, reading a book. Spending money where I wanted to spend it. It brought me much joy, to just be me again.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 1]

Get off facef~~~ and social media.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

now, you have just suffered a loss, crying and grief is natural. let it out. but do not shut down. chin up, eyes open. you are now at war with your best friend. you lost time, money and effort into this c~~~, and you will have a negative rate of return on investment. accept this, and further bulls~~~ wont feel so bad. the mentality of a soldier in a battle is im already dead, so what if I get hurt.

please make sure you have someone close in the real world you can talk to about what is happening. this forum is not the best support system but if its all ya got….

do not let this bitch kill you! survive this s~~~, and I promise you will come out stronger, smarter and braver than you thought you could be.

Thank you May 7…I think I have hit rock bottom…I hope this is the bottom…I feel dead inside but I am not a quitter…I may be mauled and very weak but I dont quit…I will get over this, and I will triumph over this…I will learn from this pain and shoot for the stars…I wont look back…never again…Thank you for the support…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

NerdTunneler wrote:

That is the feeling I am on a rollercoaster right now

Oh…yeah bro….the dreaded roller coaster feeling…it gets a grip on you and doesn’t seem to let go. I remember I could not even eat. My heart rate kept fluctuating. My mind kept obsessing over this lady and it felt as though a part of me would never recover ever again.

The way I overcame my dilemma was:

1.) Seeing reality for what it truly is (admitting to myself that I was believing in an illusion that women are angels (a lie fed to me by society/media))
2.) Focusing on my passion in Electronics Engineering (as you can tell by my avatar)

Realising that women are not so angel like, enabled me to let go of holding onto false dreams/hopes. I use to believe in the illusion that being nice/loyal/hard working, will get me somewhere in terms of relationships…..this is NOT HOW REALITY WORKS…..reality is dark and the truth hurts….only when we can see this truth, we can heal and become very strong minded.

I myself do not care about being in a relationship/getting laid…I don’t care how dark this world is……I care about learning about the nature of this reality, just like a scientist doing research and conducting investigations…..a true scientist appreciates what they discover and accept it for what it is….I am not angry with women/society, it is what it is….I am at peace now…I find this whole learning experience very intriguing and refreshing…It makes things A LOT MORE CLEARER with no more confusion…..I AM NOW THE OBSERVER….

You are light years ahead of MOST men, since MOST men are still dazed and confused. Many men die with the blue pill still in their system.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Hitman wrote:

When my ex split and the marriage failed, I THOUGHT I FAILED.
It took a f~~~ing year for me to realize that I DIDN’T FAIL. the marriage did. And it was HER that sabotaged it.
.
You didn’t fail.

Thank you Hitman…So very true to think that I failed in the marriage when it was she who decided to leave..She decided to cheat…She decided to sabotage it by manipulation and blaming and tantrums…
I have been in no contact with her for a few weeks now…And I am not planning to immerse myself in more pain by her manipulation especially when I am this weak right now…No way…I resolve to get better and I decide to cut her out of my life…Thank you for the support brother…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

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