Breakup after 17 years not married

[Anonymous 0]

I know I didnt want to start taking them, believe me, but I have been a wreck for months.

[Anonymous 0]

this guy it awesome

[MagpulParticipant 59]

Don’t resort to medication. That s~~~ will mess you up even worse in the long run. A big problem with our society is people thinking they need all this medication to feel better when times get tough. It’s life and it isn’t always pretty what happens to us. Get in the gym, get on a healthy diet and get your blood levels taken and see if you’re a candidate for TRT. At your age you probably are. Nothing like a little bit of testosterone to lift your spirits.

[markParticipant 451]

You need to get a lawyer like yesterday.

In most if not all states if you can prove you have been living together for 17 years the house gets split regardless of whose name is on it. SPECIALLY when you can explain the reasons for having the house under her name.

1. Lawyer UP.
2. Do NOT talk to her, specially about your plan with your lawyer.
3. Happy ending for you.

[Anonymous 0]

I made several mistakes, you guys have been right about most things, I never been through this before, I can’t believe how callous she is, all those years she was all about me, lesson learned the hard way. I guess I will follow your advice on NOT taking Celextra, my family is really pushing me to take it, I took for a few days and didn’t like side effects, plus I had one beer and had adverse reaction.

[markParticipant 451]

Anonymous wrote:

I made several mistakes, you guys have been right about most things, I never been through this before, I can’t believe how callous she is, all those years she was all about me, lesson learned the hard way. I guess I will follow your advice on NOT taking Celextra, my family is really pushing me to take it, I took for a few days and didn’t like side effects, plus I had one beer and had adverse reaction.

LAWYER UP PLEASE.

[Anonymous 0]

I have, my name isnt on house, pretty cut and dry…I more worried about what to do next.

[markParticipant 451]

Anonymous wrote:

I have, my name isnt on house, pretty cut and dry…I more worried about what to do next.

So, let me get this straight. Let me know if you followed all these points exactly as I write them:
1. You went to a lawyer that you paid. (very important. If you didn´t pay, you are already doing it wrong).

2. You presented him with clear evidence showing that:
– You are her live together for a number of years.
– You paid for part, or all, of the house.
– You have evidence that explains why your name was not on the deed.

3. You paid the lawyer´s fees.

Did you follow the 3 points above to the “t”?

[Anonymous 0]

I will look into, we have a agreement she is going to give me what I put into it. Thanks for the advice, I don’t have evidence why I wasn’t on deed. I don’t have proof of what I paid, I trusted her my friend.

It’s only been 2 years of ownership.

[markParticipant 451]

Anonymous wrote:

I will look into, we have a agreement she is going to give me what I put into it. Thanks for the advice, I don’t have evidence why I wasn’t on deed. I don’t have proof of what I paid, I trusted her my friend.

It’s only been 2 years of ownership.

Did you make bank transfers to pay for the house? That’s PROOF.
Did you have your payslips, proving that you just got that job and that is the reason why you would not quality for mortgage? That’s PROOF.

For the last time: LAWYER UP ALREADY.

[Anonymous 0]

Anonymous wrote:

I will remind you,

Her NEW relationship WILL FAIL.

It was built on a foundation of lies, deceit and cheating.

It may happen quickly or take a while, but she’s going down.

I like reading this.

[Anonymous 0]

Anonymous wrote:

MANhatten wrote:

I will remind you,

Her NEW relationship WILL FAIL.

It was built on a foundation of lies, deceit and cheating.

It may happen quickly or take a while, but she’s going down.

I like reading this.

I will, thing is she has a lawyer brother at her disposal.

[Anonymous 0]

Man I just wanna get past this and be happy again

[nick123Participant 137]

Yeah, it hurts my ego she found another c~~~, what really hurts is all the work to find and get stuff for the house and now just selling it after 2 years, I am ashamed that I have to live with parents at 50, I am supposed to go to my nieces engagement party, I know she will break my b~~~~…I really miss my dog who is gonna be 16. Leaving my job, although it was stressing me out…

Hey rex, ive been reading your story. Keep your head up mate, the guys here are right. Please heed their advice. 99% of them are mrally bankrupt c~~~s. Go get your dog man, dont leave him with that c~~~. Dog has unconditional love. Look after yourself and your dog. Do only things in consideration to you not her.

[nick123Participant 137]

Step 1.. sell everything you can, even the damn dog!
Step 2.. get in your car and drive
. Head West haven’t you heard? California is full of wiskey women and gold. I like the West side of the country, I’m sure you would too! It’s time to actually BE free… 50? From what I’ve read you’re not crippled y

No mate.. you dont sell the dog. Dog is for life. As a man we do the RIGHT thing. We are responsible and we have ethics and morals. We should not lower our standards and do what a woman would do.

[Anonymous 0]

The dog is with her, she took it across country, he is 16 years old and cant control his bowel moments, I could not take him where I am at, I am sure he crapped all over her car on the ride

[Anonymous 0]

Anonymous wrote:

The dog is with her, she took it across country, he is 16 years old and cant control his bowel moments, I could not take him where I am at, I am sure he crapped all over her car on the ride

How do I do that with no connections or job lined up?

[Anonymous 0]

I was thinking Las Vegas, I am sick of FL

[Anonymous 13]

Anonymous wrote:

SpiritRR how did you learn all this stuff? If you’re right about her new thing failing, I guess I would feel better.

Are you a Miami Vice fan or it here more to it?

I lived in the s~~~ vortex for FAR too long.

I saw friends and family fall.

Same old story over and over and over.

I’m out of it and now I’m a MACHINE.

I can literally guarantee no good is coming to your ex. The new relationship is built on lies, deception and cheating.

Bad foundations always fail, no matter what is built on top.

Plus at the end of the day she’s a cheater. She cheated on you and she’ll do it to him too.

It’s always just a matter of time. Look after yourself and TIME will take care of her bitch ass.

Miami Vice – Hell yeah, iconic 80’s feel good show.

The imagery, the cars, the boats, the mood, the music, the neon reflections in water.

And 30 years younger 😂

I’d show you pics of me in the Testarossa but then I’d have to kill you man 😂😜

[Anonymous 0]

Yeah man, she must have been lining this guy up for a while, I had to separate our phone bill,so I looked at the calls, she started talking to this guy 2 days before she wanted to break up, then everyday for hours, I was a sucker, I can only pray I can recover…I doubt she will cheat on him, she moved in his house and he lives closer to her family, plus it looks like he has money…I can’t believe how cold blooded she became, really f~~~ed me up.

Good to see you back SpiritRR and thank you for encouraging words.

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