Breakup after 17 years not married

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

That c~~~ is no good.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 0]

hurt so bad on New Years Eve, she really messed my head up

[nonameParticipant 746]

It will pass my friend. It is truth that time heals.
Focus on something else, work on something occupy your time, memories will come it is your choice to dwell on them.
F~~~ that bitch!

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Anonymous wrote:

Sho look good though,she was standing on his harley

They say Ebola looks quite nice under the microscope lens…

[Anonymous 0]

I know, she sure changed, once she got our stuff out there, she wont talk to me about things i forgot, My parents gave us nice silverware and plates, I forgot that until I spoke to my mother…I am sure they have too much stuff, I have to buy all new s~~~ and buying all new s~~~…

[ghostParticipant]

foolsgold wrote:

She did you a favor by getting rid of you.

foolsgold wrote:

Your situation would have kept on getting worse.

My experience agrees with this assessment. It’s never easy to see this right away, but you have to be patient and let time do its thing. You have no choice right now but to move forward. I will assure you this much though – she will be worse off as a result of this. Believe me. Just give it a couple years.

[Anonymous 0]

ghost wrote:

My experience agrees with this assessment. It’s never easy to see this right away, but you have to be patient and let time do its thing. You have no choice right now but to move forward. I will assure you this much though – she will be worse off as a result of this. Believe me. Just give it a couple years.

How can you be so sure?

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Anonymous wrote:

Gambit wrote:

My experience agrees with this assessment. It’s never easy to see this right away, but you have to be patient and let time do its thing. You have no choice right now but to move forward. I will assure you this much though – she will be worse off as a result of this. Believe me. Just give it a couple years.

How can you be so sure?

I can look at my own failed relationships and answer this one.

Karma is a bitch, but the weird laws of nature guarantee that when you hurt someone, you feel much more pain in return. Your ex has got the old “lurve dopamine” fix…once that wears off and she has burned through her savings and chad starts f~~~ing around on her, reality will start to hit. Just like my ex, she’ll come knocking at your door when all other options have failed.

She’ll look in your eyes and tell you how she made a “big mistake”, how she wants to come back to you, how she wants to make things work.

Then, just like in my case, she’ll f~~~ you over again. So the best thing to do, as many others have already said, is wash your hands of this girl and move on. She has no conscience of you, and she will only return to you when things get f~~~ed up (which they will).

It hurts, it’s hard but it’s the only way forward. Speaking of my ex, she’s just texting me now asking me if I can send some money.
While I’ve moved forward in my life, and my job, this useless bitch of an ex (who keeps trying to get me back) has been kicked out of her house and lives in an area where you wouldn’t want to go out after dark. She’s seeing a chap who hasn’t worked in years, who’s in his 40s, claiming sickness benefits (he’s got depression issues and is wider than the average aeroplane)and who lives with his mum. My ex has now got a healthy debt of over £30k and has recently lost her driving licence. NFG whatsoever.

I’m just sat in my own home, looking out at the stars and the snow covered peaks in the distance. I’m nice and warm in front of my cosy open fire.
Who else doesn’t believe in karma?

[nonameParticipant 746]

Princekie wrote:

Just like my ex, she’ll come knocking at your door when all other options have failed.

She’ll look in your eyes and tell you how she made a “big mistake”, how she wants to come back to you, how she wants to make things work.

Then, just like in my case, she’ll f~~~ you over again. So the best thing to do, as many others have already said, is wash your hands of this girl and move on. She has no conscience of you, and she will only return to you when things get f~~~ed up (which they will).

Exactly the same experience, monkeybranching failed she came back and stupid me fell for it.
I discovered MGTOW at that time but disregarded the wisdom it offers and went info futile effort to fix things.
Moneybranching never ends.
NEVER AGAIN!

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[Anonymous 42]

The modern paradigm for a man sharing his life with a woman is like going swimming in deep water with an anvil chained to your back!

THANK THE SYSTEM THEY HELPED CREATE!

THANK THE MONSTER AKA FEMINISM!

Tie the anvil around her neck and throw her OVERBOARD!

Dry land is under 20 billion dollars of PUBLIC DEBT!

EVERYTHING IS UNDER WATER!

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