Breakup after 17 years not married

[Anonymous 0]

Talked to her today, she mentioned she looked at apts, maybe it wasn’t everything she thought? but she is living in the dudes house, just paying for groceries.

[Anonymous 0]

Looks like they are getting married, kinda bums me out.

[Anonymous 13]

Anonymous wrote:

Looks like they are getting married, kinda bums me out.

Man, don’t let this get to you.

Seriously Bro, this marriage ain’t gonna fly.

It’s going to FAIL.

PERIOD.

No marriage works out under the best of conditions and this one is all TOO MUCH TOO SOON.

It was built on a foundation of lies and deception. No matter what’s built on top the foundations are rotten. It’s coming down.

It may not be next year, it could be 5 or 10 years. Likely to be much sooner though.

This bitch is going down.

She just doesn’t know it yet.

When she tries to monkey branch back at some future point I hope you’re gonna tell her to f~~~ off and die.

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

Rex, her relationship will fail marriage or not. Your goal should be to get as “well” as you can so you are prepared to tell her to f~~~ off when she DOES come crawling back to you.

Get a vasectomy.

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

You should be happy.

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Anonymous wrote:

Looks like they are getting married, kinda bums me out.

Hopefully you’ll get to the point where I am now, where I don’t give a f~~~ who the ex marries or gets smashed by.

Its some kind of evolutionary biology programming thing: another guy’s smashing your (former) woman’s vagina and you can’t do anything about it (i.e. pop a nut in her so you have a chance at making sure your DNA reaches her egg and not the other dude’s).

Take it for what it is. Understanding is half the fight. Dealing with the emotions is most of the rest.

Except in my case, I was married to her. Well still am, until a little less than 5 days from now.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 0]

Thanks guys, you are the best, I am trying to hang in there, I learned a lot about life, from you fellas.I hate the embarrassment of telling my friends what happened.

[Anonymous 0]

update for those who care: she ended up giving me half of what I asked for, which is better than nothing, didn’t use a lawyer but that would have cost more, with uncertain results. So, I am putting that behind me, still kinda bummed, we had a sweet life, well she still does.

[Anonymous 0]

bump?

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

Congrats. Move on. She will end up unhappy. If you GYOW you won’t.

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[Anonymous 4]

There’s nothing to be ashamed of when it all goes south. It just is not your problem. Hang in there!

[Anonymous 13]

Anonymous wrote:

still kinda bummed, we had a sweet life, well she still does.

THAT sweet life she has is purely temporary.

Your life will end up sweeter than hers.

The sweet life you thought you had with her was an illusion, it wasn’t real.

It felt ‘real’ for a time.

She wasn’t who you thought she was.

You are grieving over a ‘dream’ that wasn’t real.

Trust in this ABSOLUTELY.

Hang in there Bro.

[Anonymous 0]

PuniShredder wrote:

Congrats. Move on. She will end up unhappy. If you GYOW you won’t.
If I GYOW I wont?

[Anonymous 0]

Yeah, In the letter she said, I want nothing for the best for me. Take Care…
really? I wish she wouldn’t have wrote anything. Tried to call her about amount, refuses my calls.

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

PuniShredder wrote:

Congrats. Move on. She will end up unhappy. If you GYOW you won’t.

Yes you will not end up unhappy if you go your own way…You’ll be happy.

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[BestlifeornothingParticipant 24]

Ok, I read this entire thread.

My advice: Cut your losses and move on. Treat your ex as if she died and is no longer living. As for what to do and what your next move is, just get up and DO SOMETHING.

It really sounds like you are unable to let go. Life hands you lemons. That’s the unfortunate reality. Move on and do something.

And once again, treat her as if she is no longer on Earth. If you have to do a mock funeral in your mind and formally do the grieving process, do that and move on.

Move on, move on, move on. There is no turning back.

You know better, now do better.

[Anonymous 0]

I have no choice, she moved to Arizona I am in Florida.

[BestlifeornothingParticipant 24]

Also, on social media, unfriend and block her. It does you no good to look at her. The no contact process also means that you cannot have current visual images of her in your mind as well. Eventually it will all fade and you’ll be fine. Sometimes the process takes years, but you have to remove all images and possible fragments of any sort of dealings or potential contact with her. Delete her number and everything.

[Anonymous 0]

Bestlifeornothing wrote:

Also, on social media, unfriend and block her. It does you no good to look at her. The no contact process also means that you cannot have current visual images of her in your mind as well. Eventually it will all fade and you’ll be fine. Sometimes the process takes years, but you have to remove all images and possible fragments of any sort of dealings or potential contact with her. Delete her number and everything

I know, I wanted to move out of area completely, thing is I am surrounded by shot we bought. She bought me a lot of clothes, I can’t throw them all away i found…she was good to me for a long time, that’s why i am so f~~~ed up about this.

[Anonymous 0]

Thanks man, I am stuck, I really want to move on.

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