Breakup after 17 years not married

[Anonymous 0]

I feel like I am in solitary confinement…she was most of my life, I know I have to get past this, but its hard, losing her, losing house looking for place to live in area I don’t like…ugh

[RebelSharkParticipant 88]

Your story is heartbreaking, like the ones of all the brothers here betrayed by love and society. But here sands your lowest point and you can’t go any lower, you can’t suffer more than now. Your life will be better if you act now to make it as you want. You will feel better when you decide to react!
You will not take her back by living in her house. She will never understand how much she need you, or miss you, if you still live together. you will never understand how much you don’t need her if you don’t find relief by being away from her.

To go to work by feet was super, indeed, but what abut find a new place were you can go to work by bike? it should be ok to begin with.
Take all your belongings with you, sell all the things you own that have some value but are also memories of your life together. Leave to her everything she wants. Salute her the last time without showing emotions with: “I’m not leaving you, I’m doing what you want me to do, remember this when you will miss me, or in case you want me back”. Being sure TO NEVER COME BACK WITH HER!

She’s 44, and she thinks to find a better suited man by searching attention on Tinder? she will end with some pump-and-dump, if she is lucky!!!

Paradoxically, by being 50, still single and never married, you have higher chances to find a better woman than her, if you still want.

But what you really need now is a friend or even better a circle of friends. For us men find friends is easier because we don’t hate each other like women do.

Stay strong and cheers

[Anonymous 0]

Thank you Rebel Shark… She evens says herself I always looked out for her, but 2017 is about her and “new beginnings”…so now she is into yoga and has lost some weight, actually too much…I guess I need to get that crappy apartment, but at least I will be away from her.

[TicParticipant 4329]

Anonymous wrote:

…I guess I need to get that crappy apartment, but at least I will be away from her.

no contact…whatsoever. go live your life. 6 months from now, you’ll see. best decision you have ever made.

God bless peace and freedom.

[Anonymous 0]

Tic wrote:

Rexmundi wrote:

…I guess I need to get that crappy apartment, but at least I will be away from her.

no contact…whatsoever. go live your life. 6 months from now, you’ll see. best decision you have ever made.

I hope your right, its going to a big downgrade…

[AttonParticipant]

Consider yourself lucky.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 13]

Anonymous wrote:

tic wrote:

Rexmundi wrote:

…I guess I need to get that crappy apartment, but at least I will be away from her.

no contact…whatsoever. go live your life. 6 months from now, you’ll see. best decision you have ever made.

I hope your right, its going to a big downgrade…

This is no downgrade! You HAVE to reprogram here.

Living with some c~~~ who no longer wants you and rubs it in your face, is hell on earth and about the worse thing you can be doing. This is why you feel like s~~~.

VERSUS

In your own place, living your own life and planning your new future, without having to see that disloyal c~~~ everyday.

See, it’s no downgrade.

It’s one massive UPGRADE.

[Anonymous 13]

The sooner you fully understand, there’s no love, there’s no loyalty with them.

The sooner you will find peace.

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

17 years

I would not even be thinking about the house that was bought a year ago.

All women cheat. And 17 years is a long time to go without having caught her taking other c~~~.

And their is no way that yours was the only one tearing up her holes.

With that being said and with you out of the house, I’m sure she at least waited a few weeks before moving the new guy in.

[Anonymous 0]

All women cheat? I doubt that…

Yeah, I put down alot of cash for the house, so yeah I am bothered by it.

[Anonymous 0]

Yeah, I gotta get outta here,…she is going out on dates, I used to get in arguments about it, today she got all ready and told me she is going out to dinner, almost waiting for me to say you look nice…I wish I could meet a female to hangout with, seems like women can hookup way easier…I feel like a schmuck right now

[Anonymous 0]

Anonymous wrote:

The sooner you fully understand, there’s no love, there’s no loyalty with them.

The sooner you will find peace.

It does suck, I am still here, I put so much into finding and getting this house, plus splitting all the stuff up, it kills me she is going to make out like a bandit, while I go live in sqwualor

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I only managed to tough it out several weeks, that is, in cohabitation after the breakup. Getting out was the option I took and I had to be driven almost out of my mind to follow that path. I was leaving MY PLACE! It was tough moving into a shoebox-sized apt. along with a few suitcases of my stuff. I had to borrow here, borrow there, slip something to the super to get me into the place) but a few months later I joined MGTOW and that helped a lot. There’s no easy way to go about this process Rexmundi, we guys here wish there was, but unless you have too much money hidden away somewhere, it’s a very rough start to your new life. Consider it an initiation maybe, not sure.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Tic wrote:

Rexmundi wrote:

…I guess I need to get that crappy apartment, but at least I will be away from her.

no contact…whatsoever. go live your life. 6 months from now, you’ll see. best decision you have ever made.

Personally, I found The No Contact Rule method very very important to follow as best as you can. I only contacted if I felt forced to (kids involved etc). And yes, it has been 6 months for me now, and yes it’s tough all the time, but there are moments when I can see my sovereignty shaping up in the distance and… Well, I think it will be worth it. It takes time to re-establish oneself.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Anonymous 0]

Right Point of No Return: right now I have master bedroom downstairs, in a quiet upper class sub, she is upstairs, she really is into Tinder, she always complained about attention, ( which I gave her) I guess getting a bunch of guys to show interest on Tinder appeases the attention whore in her… we have a older dog that needs meds and attention, she told me to take him, Im like right I spent 3k on a fence for the dog so I can leave him in a apartment all day, she acts likes she loves the dog so much. All of a sudden she became so narcissistic, at least here I have the dog for company…

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

Burn the f~~~ing house to the ground on your way out the door seriously dude.. f~~~ her.

This isn’t even Red Pill rage. This is just regular no f~~~s given me!

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[Anonymous 1]

Walk out. Now. Don’t look back. Staying there is toxic and will eat away at your soul.

As said above – no f~~~s given. Learn what it means, turn it on, live it. Start here: https://markmanson.net/not-giving-a-f~~~

Do it.

You will thank us later.

[Anonymous 0]

Anonymous wrote:

Walk out. Now. Don’t look back. Staying there is toxic and will eat away at your soul.

As said above – no f~~~s given. Learn what it means, turn it on, live it. Start here: https://markmanson.net/not-giving-a-f~~~

Do it.

You will thank us later.

So its not as bad as Red Pill Rage?

[Anonymous 1]

Don’t rage — just get the hell away.

You will not find peace until you do.

[Anonymous 0]

you guys are right, she purposly leaves her journal out, I read some, she almost got married in vegas then stopped at last second

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