Breakup after 17 years not married

[Anonymous 13]

She’s hoping you’ll just go as soon as possible. Hence by hurting you and making it obvious on Tinder being as blatant as possible. So you can’t stand it and leave.

When she really wants you out the house she’ll just make a phone call.
Then you’re in JAIL.
Job done.

One more thing. Empty the house of EVERYTHING now. Then vanish.

Good luck!

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Thank God you were not married, had no child with her, and no common law exists in Florida. Leave the home asap, or you will likely be arrested at some point for domestic violence (DV) based on a false allegation. Dealt with this in my late 30’s and never again. MGTOW for life. By the way, have tripled my assets since we split up. No regrets, flee, smile, and never repeat this mistake again.

[Anonymous 0]

I am soul searching, not sure i wanna stay in Fl, me living in a crappy apartment driving by the house since its by my work…I really would like her back byt she seems to have changed. she is upstairs im downstairs,financially its my best deal for now, she wont call cops

[JVBParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Just bought a house in her name

Welcome brother and sorry for your financial loss. At least you are now free of her and future blood sucking. Did your gut not tell you that was a very bad idea?

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 13]

Anonymous wrote:

…I really would like her back byt she seems to have changed. she is upstairs im downstairs,financially its my best deal for now, she wont call cops

She didn’t change, she’s simply dropped the mask.

Me and every other man who ended up in jail could not conceive we’d have the cops called on us for something we didn’t do.

You’re at risk.

[Anonymous 0]

I just dont get, she loved me all these years, wrote me love letters, pictures of us all over house…I guess I took her for granted, I really do lover her and want her back. We went thru alot together…I think she was corrupted by her girlfriend who has a super rich husband…I know everyone says move on, but I want to fix this.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I just dont get, she loved me all these years, wrote me love letters, pictures of us all over house…I guess I took her for granted, I really do lover her and want her back. We went thru alot together…I think she was corrupted by her girlfriend who has a super rich husband…I know everyone says move on, but I want to fix this.

That is a fiction that you have created in your head. She stuck with you because you were her best option at the time, or you suited her need in some way.
She left because of the inverse. Simple as that.

[Anonymous 1]

She can and will call the cops. I dodged a bullet in the past and you can to. Listen to spiritRR. It is not worth it. The juice is not worth the squeeze.

Do not get back with her and focus on yourself. Do and risk reward assessment. If she does call the cops things will get a whole lot more difficult for you. Read spirtrr posts.

[Anonymous 0]

so all women are the same? this was all a act?

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Anonymous wrote:

so all women are the same? this was all a act?

They mean it until they don’t mean it anymore. And, that could be at any moment. So, yes, it was all an act.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Nero wrote:

They mean it until they don’t mean it anymore. And, that could be at any moment. So, yes, it was all an act.

I tell people all the time I’ll never marry because its too much of a financial risk, and a lot of them generally reply with something like all women aren’t gold diggers. The thing is…even if I find one that isn’t in it for the money, if we end up getting divorced and she realizes what she’s entitled to, she’s going to go for it. So yeah maybe in the beginning she wasn’t thinking “I’m going to divorce him in 5-10 years and walk away with a fat pile of cash” but if that is the end result, why does it matter what she was thinking at the start?

[Anonymous 0]

I just feel terrible, this is hard.

[Anonymous 5]

RexMundi if it’s any consolation your in the arms of good men here you will find your answers . I sorry you have to go through this but in time I hope you have a better life . If you need anything drop a line.

[Anonymous 0]

I made the mistake of having her be my whole world. We moved to a new city and I dont have any friends here, Everywhere I go reminds me of going there with her. I am a mess right now, and I am sure she doesn’t care

[TicParticipant 4329]

Anonymous wrote:

I just dont get, she loved me all these years, wrote me love letters, pictures of us all over house…I guess I took her for granted, I really do lover her and want her back. We went thru alot together…I think she was corrupted by her girlfriend who has a super rich husband…I know everyone says move on, but I want to fix this.

absolute nonsense. every man who this happens to thinks the same way. “I should have done this…I should have done that.” Does true love disappear? Does a mother and father suddenly after years and years, suddenly stop loving their child for no good reason.

This is the red pill.

Swallow it hard, let it burn like a fire, then, you’re awoken. The anger will fade. I’m sorry this happened to you. It’s absolutely wrong, it should be illegal, she should pay for her disloyalty and fraud, but, karma will take care of that.

You do not want a person like this back. She will continue to betray you. You have been warned.

God bless peace and freedom.

[TicParticipant 4329]

Anonymous wrote:

I made the mistake of having her be my whole world. We moved to a new city and I dont have any friends here, Everywhere I go reminds me of going there with her. I am a mess right now, and I am sure she doesn’t care

You acted like a man and took care of her. That was the way it was for thousands of years. Society has changed and allowed women to take advantage of rules now. They show their true colors.

Every man here has had the “love letters” and admonishment. Where are those women now? In the arms of another sucker.

You will be fine. I promise.

God bless peace and freedom.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Once they hit breaking point, they don’t care. She’s couldn’t care less at this point. There’s no going back. It’s a hard reality but it’s like that. She’s looking for something new. And she will just become more and more brazen about it. I was in cohabitation after my couple failed and it is a very humiliating experience. She will go into shaming you if not guilt tripping you. I was very resistant, she put more pressure on me by spending carelessly as she had access to credit via my name. It pushed me to the very limit of what I could stand to take. That’s when things can become explosive. That’s when you become a sitting duck, only a phone call away from being face to face with a police officer. You don’t want to go there.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[,Participant 1301]

would have been worse if you were married.

find every receipt you can that you paid for and get it out of there and run, pedal, uber away. Get any and everything you can that won’t get you arrested then get the f~~~ out.

She’ll perhaps ask you back when her new sex world goes to s~~~ but don’t count on it. Then be ready and strong and hurt enough to say NO.

Concentrate on your job and on Your accomplishments. She is poo-poo paper now. Treat her kindly but cool.
You are over 50, then its bigboy upper lip time.

not being mean but matter of fact. redpill is bitter. healing comes after the hurt/rage.

with joy/without hate

[Anonymous 0]

, wrote:

would have been worse if you were married.

find every receipt you can that you paid for and get it out of there and run, pedal, uber away. Get any and everything you can that won’t get you arrested then get the f~~~ out.

She’ll perhaps ask you back when her new sex world goes to s~~~ but don’t count on it. Then be ready and strong and hurt enough to say NO.

Concentrate on your job and on Your accomplishments. She is poo-poo paper now. Treat her kindly but cool.
You are over 50, then its bigboy upper lip time.

not being mean but matter of fact. redpill is bitter. healing comes after the hurt/rage.

i am over 50, what is bigboy upper lip time?

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Welcome brother, you are not alone.

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