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Topic: Man On His Own
Hello folks, and thank you for having me.
Long story short: I’ve generally been hated by females since I was young, and they had no problem showing it. Everything from exclusion from sex (and being told about sex they’ve had with other guys) to outright lying and spreading rumours and gossip. I was definitely more of a simp back then, trying to sympathise and relate to females so they would like me. It made them hate me more, funnily enough.
Surviving university, where I’d experienced both racism and feminism, was my first real shot of the red pill. It took building myself up, while seeing the effects of feminism in the workplace and everyday life, to realise that something was wrong in general.
It wasn’t until I’d seen a video by barbarossaaa (as he was known at the time) that I discovered what feminism actually is, as well as what’s called MGTOW. It was great to be able to put names to what I’d experienced and what I was thinking.
I’m fortunate never to have been married (or even in a relationship), and I don’t have kids.
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/women-better-leaders-men-study-a7658781.html
Barbarossa has commented on the bottom, his comments are still there. This is a study out of Scandinavia. It actually says women aren’t emotionally stable and then asks why more women don’t get promoted. Hmmmm….
Topic: Hello gents! (Long read)
I’ve been lurking on this forum too long and I thought I would only be polite to formally introduce myself. That said here goes…
I am mid 20s and from the UK. Never married or had a long term relationship, and my problems have been trivial compared to some of the things I have read on here and other places, so I guess my red-pill was gentler than most.
As with most red-pills it starts with a girl and a massive blue pill idiot (me). I was the classic orbiter who would do anything and everything for attention, buying her drinks, covering for her at work (we worked together), and being an all out simpy t~~~ without getting any action. This continued for several years during college until I left for university, and looking back I wish could travel back in time and slap some sense into myself. This girl ended up following me to university oddly enough.
When at university I was exposed to the vile boorish drinking culture prevalent at many of the higher education establishments in the UK, and at first joined in and thought I was having fun until I realized I was just deluding myself. Watching my friends and peers getting constantly shot down by women and leaving the bar/club frustrated with a semi-boner and empty wallets made me question the status quo, I thought ‘this cant be right? can it?’. University also stripped away the facade of perfection girls and women always presented. I had always been taught girls were delicate pristine little angels that could do no wrong, and it was my place in the world to marry one and start a family. Now I think I would rather marry my dog. She smells a bit, but shes always happy to see me.
I stumbled upon an old Barbarossa video in my search for meaning (Gods bless that Youtube algorithm!) which led my to more and more MGTOW content and I drank it up like man dying of thirst. For the first time here were men presenting credible answers and explanations to my experiences that made sense! I could be free! I could live for myself and no-one else! I find this freedom equally terrifying and invigorating, does anyone else feel like this?
At first I was at a loss and I didn’t know what to do with myself. This led to depression and a sense of hopelessness, I guess you could call it a red-pill despair. But then I discovered this site and I slowly I began to pull myself together. Reading and absorbing the help, advice and stories from men who are more learned and experienced than I am really helped me through. For that I cannot thank you enough.
I no longer chase women, getting my dick wet just isn’t high on my list of priorities. Instead I focus on work, on working out and eating well, and on just enjoying life. My peers note that I am more confident and calm an oddly enough I get more attention from women now than I ever did before. Funny how that works.
Many of my graduate friends lament at being bored after university, which is something I cannot understand. There is so much to do, to learn and to see I wish there were more than 24 hours in a day!This site is a fantastic resource, like a beacon in a storm. Without it I would be wandering around thinking ‘what the f~~~ is going on?’, and I hope I can be helpful to this community in my own small way.
Peace.
Topic: Introduction
I would like to tell you a long story about how I went my own way a few years ago,but it’s pretty much the same as everyone else here.I’m at the stage of rebuilding my life house,cars,motorcycles,you name it.I decided to post because recently I asked a woman for her phone number and luckily was shot down.I have 3 sons that live with there mom(at the moment)and told them once that I live in a woman free zone,and so far it’s been great and we have a good thing going on.Im not sure why I was thinking of getting a woman(that’s crazy).My boys asked me once why I don’t and then I asked them how they would feel if I gave there rooms to someone else’s kids and I saw some gears turning.I will say this Barbarossa saved me those few years ago and if you read this I thank you very much.Nice meeting everyone.semper fi