Hello gents! (Long read)

[M’aiq the LiarParticipant 19]

I’ve been lurking on this forum too long and I thought I would only be polite to formally introduce myself. That said here goes…

I am mid 20s and from the UK. Never married or had a long term relationship, and my problems have been trivial compared to some of the things I have read on here and other places, so I guess my red-pill was gentler than most.

As with most red-pills it starts with a girl and a massive blue pill idiot (me). I was the classic orbiter who would do anything and everything for attention, buying her drinks, covering for her at work (we worked together), and being an all out simpy t~~~ without getting any action. This continued for several years during college until I left for university, and looking back I wish could travel back in time and slap some sense into myself. This girl ended up following me to university oddly enough.

When at university I was exposed to the vile boorish drinking culture prevalent at many of the higher education establishments in the UK, and at first joined in and thought I was having fun until I realized I was just deluding myself. Watching my friends and peers getting constantly shot down by women and leaving the bar/club frustrated with a semi-boner and empty wallets made me question the status quo, I thought ‘this cant be right? can it?’. University also stripped away the facade of perfection girls and women always presented. I had always been taught girls were delicate pristine little angels that could do no wrong, and it was my place in the world to marry one and start a family. Now I think I would rather marry my dog. She smells a bit, but shes always happy to see me.

I stumbled upon an old Barbarossa video in my search for meaning (Gods bless that Youtube algorithm!) which led my to more and more MGTOW content and I drank it up like man dying of thirst. For the first time here were men presenting credible answers and explanations to my experiences that made sense! I could be free! I could live for myself and no-one else! I find this freedom equally terrifying and invigorating, does anyone else feel like this?

At first I was at a loss and I didn’t know what to do with myself. This led to depression and a sense of hopelessness, I guess you could call it a red-pill despair. But then I discovered this site and I slowly I began to pull myself together. Reading and absorbing the help, advice and stories from men who are more learned and experienced than I am really helped me through. For that I cannot thank you enough.

I no longer chase women, getting my dick wet just isn’t high on my list of priorities. Instead I focus on work, on working out and eating well, and on just enjoying life. My peers note that I am more confident and calm an oddly enough I get more attention from women now than I ever did before. Funny how that works.
Many of my graduate friends lament at being bored after university, which is something I cannot understand. There is so much to do, to learn and to see I wish there were more than 24 hours in a day!

This site is a fantastic resource, like a beacon in a storm. Without it I would be wandering around thinking ‘what the f~~~ is going on?’, and I hope I can be helpful to this community in my own small way.

Peace.

[Anonymous 25]

Welcome to the mgtow lighthouse

sending out a beacon of light to men everywhere and saving them from the rocky shores of gynocentrism

good story. thanks for the share

[Anonymous 18]

Glad to have you here.

M’aiq the Liar wrote:

I find this freedom equally terrifying and invigorating, does anyone else feel like this?

The terrifying bit doesn’t bother me as much as the constant efforts of others to breed insecurity as if ‘something is wrong with you’.

I am getting over it slowly.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome
Barbarossa and all those guy who make the videos are the best kept secret for the single man.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

M’aiq the Liar wrote:

My peers note that I am more confident and calm an oddly enough I get more attention from women now than I ever did before. Funny how that works.

Welcome M’aiq……

Yip……ain’t it funny, that when a BLUE PILL MANGINA is continually rejected……the intended women will look down at Mr. Orbiter with those “You ain’t gotta chance with me Buddy” eyes.

Then later, once the RED PILL has been swallowed and digested…….the same whore WILL SHAME him, for not being interested, perhaps with the USUAL MAN SHAMING tactics……he must be Gay, he still lives at home with Mum and Dad, he plays video games, he doesn’t earn enough money, he isn’t hung like a donkey etc etc etc……

When they go through the same old shaming routine……Just say, yes you’re right, i’m Gay as far as YOU’RE concerned cupcake……and then just laugh as you turn your back and walk away……

M’aiq the Liar wrote:

This site is a fantastic resource, like a beacon in a storm. Without it I would be wandering around thinking ‘what the f~~~ is going on?’

You are fortunate, to have this wonderful website, at your young age……make use of the ‘head’s up’ that mgtow.com gives you……I wish I had the internet, when I was your age, might have saved a whole lot of time/hassle and MONEY……oh yeah.

Welcome, once again.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome M’aiq the Liar, Very nice intro! Pull yourself a chair and enjoy sanity for a change.

M’aiq the Liar wrote:

I’ve been lurking on this forum too long and I thought I would only be polite to formally introduce myself. That said here goes…
I am mid 20s and from the UK. Never married or had a long term relationship, and my problems have been trivial compared to some of the things I have read on here and other places,

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[joetechParticipant]

Welcome to the forum. Yes college shows women for what they really are…drunken sluts. I lived near SDSU in the 80’s and I’ll never forget a party I was at. Some girl was getting laid in one of the nearby apartments, and boy was she loud. I think she graduated Magna Cum Loudest. In their youth women are at their worst. As they get older they mellow unless they are ruined in childhood by neglectful or absent parents. Going your own way will not only protect you, but will insure a happy future. Glad to have you here.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 8]

Welcome to MGTOW brother.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Welcome brother,

I see everything you write like a movie playing before my eyes…

Yes, you saw and experienced the “default princess” live in action.

And I guess you constantly asked yourself what will become of these women when they age.

Here you find all the answers and MGTOW wisdom will save your life.

You will live happy “UNC~~~ED” and 20 years longer than a married mule.

Reading your story made me think of this hilarious thread brother Solid started a while ago:

This is your modern day university student with brain damage from drugs and alcohol… Your “pool of partners” to choose from.

You better “marry” your future enterprise and put all efforts in there…

[!!!NSFW EXTREME ALERT!!!] Your default princess

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[GregB0Participant]

M’aiq the Liar wrote:

Many of my graduate friends lament at being bored after university, which is something I cannot understand. There is so much to do, to learn and to see I wish there were more than 24 hours in a day!

Anonymous wrote:

sending out a beacon of light to men everywhere and saving them from the rocky shores of gynocentrism

Welcome and glad that you followed the MGTOW light. You will never be bored on the forum as you already know, all you need to do is pose the question or post an answer.

Great introductory post.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Hello M’aiq, we’ve met on my travels through Vvardenfell 😀

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[MonkParticipant 16988]

M’aiq the Liar wrote:

My peers note that I am more confident and calm an oddly enough I get more attention from women now than I ever did before. Funny how that works.

Completely predictable.

Without a c~~~ in your life, you enjoy success and have money, with the prospect of more of both to follow.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Welcome Brother. Thanks for your story. It resonated a lot with me as I had similar experience at Uni (also UK) but didn’t have the good fortune to stumble across MGTOW until it was far too late (about 25 years too late). Married, divorce-raped, then red pills (daily) and now getting towards the life a brother deserves.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[Anonymous 12]

He did NOT take an arrow to the knee.
Welcome again! I saw you soon after my travels began, we met one night and traded some loot.

Glad to see you made it through unscathed!

[Anonymous 3]

M’aiq the Liar wrote:

I find this freedom equally terrifying and invigorating, does anyone else feel like this?

i find that to be a pretty good definition of freedom. an existentialist would say Man is ultimately free but at the same time must take responsibility for the choices he makes. freedom & responsibility go hand in hand for the existentialist. i would say terror in the face of this is an appropriate response. however, If you stare into the abyss long enough you will see your self looking back ( somebody said that ) welcome. your among your own here

[BryantParticipant 229]

welcome brother

"He who lives with honor dies with honor."

[ConfuciusParticipant 183]

M’aiq the Liar wrote:

At first I was at a loss and I didn’t know what to do with myself. This led to depression and a sense of hopelessness

Having had recurring periods of serious depression myself, I realized after my last one that these periods always start about a year after each breakup. After reading up on the biochemistry involved in “love” I now identify them as just hangovers. Falling in love is like getting high on your own hormones.

During the periods of depression (hormonal hangover), I was like a junkie, wondering anxiously if I would ever again have another high like the last one. Fearing that I might never again “fall in love”.

Nowadays, I like to think of myself as a sober alcoholic with regards to love. I just stay away from it.

"Life is really simple, but men insist on making it complicated."

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