S~~~, I think I'm going to marry!

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  • #94180
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    TheBeast
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    Who are we to stop a man’s researched decision? These past 3 pages of posts are more than was necessary.

    Forgive me for my rough opinion, but I think you just never got over the addiction to a pussy (seeing your other posts and this thread). You are still addicted to it like all the blue pill men and manginas. You have the knowledge, but not the willpower to force a change.

    You clearly wrote that you marry her to have sex with her and in case she doesn’t put out, you’ll make a fling sideways. Is that what marriage’s worth is to you? Is that it’s goal?

     

    I find it simply stupid.

    #94379
    Sidecar
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    Who are we to stop a man’s researched decision?

    Why do you think we can somehow stop him?

    We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick.

    All we can do is warn his ahead of time and be there later when he learns his decision was not nearly as well researched as he thought it was. We also reserve the right to say: “We told you so.”

    #94462
    Dakota
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    Who are we to stop a man’s researched decision?

    Uh, because he asked…”So that’s the way I see things. Now please beat me up.”  He asked for feedback and I/we respect the man who has the b~~~~ to start a topic like that and discuss things before they go head-long into the abyss.

    Forgive me for my rough opinion, but I think you just never got over the addiction to a pussy (seeing your other posts and this thread). You are still addicted to it like all the blue pill men and manginas.

    I never did get over my “addiction” to pussy and hopefully never will.  [Is breathing an addiction too?]   A bitch can walk for all I give s~~~.  Makes no difference whatsoever.  A blue-piller would never say those two things.  You’re just wrong.

    You clearly wrote that you marry her to have sex with her and in case she doesn’t put out, you’ll make a fling sideways. Is that what marriage’s worth is to you? Is that it’s goal?

    Oh brother.  A sexless marriage is a dead marriage.  Living with a wife who has decided that she no longer “feels” like she needs to have sex anymore to be happy is quite convenient for her…not so for him.  Of course you could “just” divorce her, right?  As far as EU laws go…what if they ever decide to move to the US for work, etc.?  His ass is had.  Marriage isn’t a goal for a real man.

    Beast…if you’re standing in the middle of the street and a car is about to run you over, I would push you out of the way, regardless of your well “researched decision” to stand there.

    #94915
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    TheBeast
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    It seems I have to clarify what I meant when I wrote those words. You seem to misunderstand my standing, or I worded it badly.
    Who are we to stop a man’s researched decision? These past 3 pages of posts are more than was necessary. – This basically was saying that there are already 3 pages of great advice, great posts with lots of wisdom, but this guy stuck with his decision through the topic. Seems to me like this thread wasn’t a man saying that he wants advice, but that he wants some sort of approval, or simply to say “goodbye”. As if he already made the definite decision and just wanted to inform everyone. Thus I feel there is no need to drag this on, anything that could be influenced already would be in the posts before.
    Forgive me for my rough opinion, but I think you just never got over the addiction to a pussy (seeing your other posts and this thread). You are still addicted to it like all the blue pill men and manginas. You have the knowledge, but not the willpower to force a change. – What I meant by addiction is like an addiction to heroin, not stuff like “breathing”. My opinion here may seem irrelevant, as I was never addicted to it in the first place, nor did I really want to exploit my advantages in this area (I used to be a blue pill mangina who thought that sex should only be shared with a bond and that if I find a girlfriend for me, I’ll aim to spend the rest of my life with her). However, I do believe that when you are willing to hurt yourself big time, put your life on the line, for such a thing, like a pussy threatening with suicide, the addiction (similar to drugs) is the only explanation to me. You can not compare it to breathing, he can get pussy anywhere else to fullfill his goal. And he clearly stated numerous times that it’s for the pussy.
    You clearly wrote that you marry her to have sex with her and in case she doesn’t put out, you’ll make a fling sideways. Is that what marriage’s worth is to you? Is that it’s goal? – Sure there are sexless marriages which are the depths of despair, sure such marriages are s~~~. But, why marry then? I mean, this guy stated that he wants to marry a suicidal just to bang her. Is her pussy made of gold and diamonds? No, it doesn’t differ much from all the others. I could understand him if he wanted someone close through the years, then his justification of NAWALT would kinda make sense (even though we know it’s AWALT), but he doesn’t aim for that, neither for kids. He clearly states he just wants to bang.
    I find it simply stupid. – Summing up all of the above, putting your life and safety on the line for the sake of banging a pussy, despite having knowledge and support of all great guys here is by my standards considered stupid. Having wisdom and refusing to use it is the definition of stupid to me.
    Lastly, my opinion (yes, it is just an opinion) isn’t worth much here anyways. I have not achieved any sort of status nor reputation here and I probably won’t. I don’t participate in most threads, even though I read through most of them. I’m just a random guy blurting out my point of view.
    It also seems like I shouldn’t have bothered with the explanation here (seeing the new thread).
    #94999
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    Dakota
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    These past 3 pages of posts are more than was necessary.

    Beast, I understand you.  I hear your irritation.  But you are wrong.  In a couple of years, there will be 10’s of thousands of men here to learn, vent, and discuss issues.  It may be 3 pages today…30 tomorrow.  There is no limit, all men are welcome to say what they please, unlike many other places on the web.  HOPEFULLY, men from all over the world will adopt MGTOW and overwhelm this site with words of encouragement and wisdom.  If a man does not like what he sees, he is free to look away, unsubscribe, start his own topic, cancel his membership, delete his profile, etc.  But a man may not censor another man.  That is called Facebook.  It was your opinion that this topic was exhausted or misunderstood.  New members may have other opinions.  Besides, this topic is moot.  He started another thread where she freaked out on him.  The wedding is off (at the moment).

    Also, the very nature of MGTOW is AGAINST marriage because it is against the best interests of men.  Men who find offense at that should check the sign on the door.  You can’t be married and MGTOW [How can a husband go his own way when his wife is telling him what to do?].  You can join the MGTOW forum and join in on the wisdom and submit your own.

    I might add that Sidecar read your post and “misunderstood” you like I must have.  MGTOW IS AGAINST MARRIAGE.  Let’s be clear.  If you want to advocate FOR marriage, you may have a tough time here, but you are free to do so.

    As far as pussy addiction goes, that would be a topic that you might consider starting.  It’s not good practice to high-jack a forum topic away from another man (like we did).  Let us get past any animosity toward one another for any misunderstanding and move forward, like men.  See you around, mate!

    #98217
    Sessna12
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    Who are we to stop a man’s researched decision?

    We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick.

    LOL!

     

    "We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
    -Sidecar

    #98220
    Sessna12
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     putting your life and safety on the line for the sake of banging a pussy, despite having knowledge and support of all great guys here is by my standards considered stupid. Having wisdom and refusing to use it is the definition of stupid to me.

    agree 100%

    Sebastian

    "We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
    -Sidecar

    #98438
    Deus Ex Machina
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    What I don’t understand is that, why the f~~~ are you hung up on the chic that badly?. I mean I know what it’s like to be in love and all that type of s~~~. But you gotta remember Bud, this s~~~ don’t last that long once reality comes into play.

     

    Bills, responsibility, rent, more bills, kids, s~~~ ton of bills and “reward sex”……REWARD SEX!!!. Good God Man. you wanna be rewarded with Sex just because you cleaned the entire goddamn house and used the right type of bleach She likes?.

     

    Rockatansky,

    Believe Me, I know this. I was married once, to Satan, and past relationships before that to Women who tried to play that stupid game with me. But I swear to god, if you marry this chic and play her game?. you’ll fall into a TRAP!!. Don’t do it Bud!. DON’T F~~~ING DO IT!. Go to amsterdam find a job there, and bang bitches left and right. Trust me on this, I’ve been there and they have a plethora of c~~~s that will do amazing s~~~ for you at the drop of a hat, and better yet!, IT AIN’T REWARD SEX!.

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    "If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

    #98842

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    The only thing I’m going to say is that my Mother told me to never marry anyone you’ve not dated for at least 2 years.

    The one time I almost got married the crazy finally came out at 1.75 years into the relations~~~. I know her today very well, and she still continues with the exact same patterns as she did 20 years prior.

    #99020

    Anonymous
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    Good luck with that bro – a girl like that might not be a very “sexual” woman, or she has virtues, patience, iron mental fortitude, foresight and wherewithal.

     

    And there is the possibility of some hurt in her past – real abuse or something – could damper the sex life.

     

    She could be one in a million – raise your kids if you have em with her bro – Be careful!

    #123441
    Huevon
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    a girl like that might not be a very “sexual” woman

    I wouldn’t want to be married to a woman who can spare sex until she gets what she wants.

    Edit:

    Seems to me like this thread wasn’t a man saying that he wants advice, but that he wants some sort of approval, or simply to say “goodbye”.

    He has this feeling in his stomach that he’s missed something and thinks if none of us find it, his idea to marry is good. But at the end he needs to find the answer for himself.

    #126027
    Soldano
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    Hey man,
    first i don’t believe marriage is evil. People have been marrying forver and good things can come out of it.
    I believe that mariage is a trap in the US and many western country, because feminism disruped the fine balance that existed between willing to work for your family and being forced to.

    Now let me be honest.
    I do not believe that a girl from tchecoslovaquia who is 25 years old and non religious can be a virgin. I Might be wrong but it sounds like bulls~~~.

    One thing that women all over the world have in common, is that they’ll tell you whatever you want to hear at first, and then reveal their true colors. Actually we do it too to some extent, but women have this incredible ability to completely be able to mimic your lifestyle, and when they change guys completely adopt a different one.

    Now it seems that marrying in this country has a low risk.
    So why not.

    #129983
    Dethklok
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    There are so many red flags in this story that I can’t just ignore it.

    You immediately dive into sex. You want it, and are letting it control you. You are giving her the upper hand. Never once in the history of the world has that ever been a good idea for a man.

    She says she wants a relationship that she would kill herself if ended. I have NEVER heard such a thing. Maybe if a bond was that strong, someone could feel that way. But to force it on a “hypothetical relationship?” Stay away. She’s either nuts or lying, but probably both knowing her background as a woman.

    You wanted to try other pussy when you left your other one. What makes you think that urge will go away? Because you “think so?” because you are “old?” What happens when you drive this car off the lot expecting it to drive like a ferrari, and it’s really an ahmish buggy? Will you really be satisfied your whole life? What if she lied about the virginity. How many girls have you lost interest in because the sex as bad? Who do you know who has married a virgin?

    You come from a culture where the divorce rate is very low and want to marry into one that is extremely high. I don’t trust those Czech girls. They are extremely beautiful, but con-artists at heart. That’s how all beautiful women are. They all have learned how to get their way. Don’t let anyone BS you on why a divorce rate is high because of “light laws”.

    #130337
    Big Viking Chef BVC
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    Risky, my friend, very risky. But if you decide to do this, then I wish you luck.

    BVC

    Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

    #130474
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    NioZen
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    “she couldn’t have sex with me. When I asked why, she said that she was a virgin and would only have sex with the one man who would be the one and only and if she would break up after that she thinks she would die or commit suicide.”

    Ok. And what are your terms for her going in to this marriage?

    We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

    #130477
    DrAK74
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    Well, Good luck with that! However I agree with the group of men who think that exchanging freedom for regular pussy is a false choice that you will eventually regret…..just my 2 cents…but good luck anyway

    #133435
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    Tripvan
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    #133457
    NioZen
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    Just found the new thread.
    /forums/topic/i-think-im-not-marrying-after-all/
    unicorn

    LMAO! Poor dead Unicorn. That’s brilliant!

    We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

    #137931
    DJKevgeez
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    Yes, this will be very strange coming from me but I think I will have to marry in the near future.

    Why you ask?

    Well, I currently have a girlfriend who is an exceptionally educated, traditional and culturally rich Czech girl. Yesterday we were making out and she said she couldn’t have sex with me. When I asked why, she said that she was a virgin and would only have sex with the one man who would be the one and only and if she would break up after that she thinks she would die or commit suicide. She’s not religious but sees marriage as a strong compromise that would be needed for her to do that decision.

    I’m 32 years old, I once had a girlfriend whom with I had a long term relationship and was good to me in every sense but we broke up since she was my first gf, I was young and wanted to try other pussy, and I did, but found out the price of sexual freedom is that most women are flaky, crazy, narcissistic, evil, etc. that’s why I joined the MGTOW.

    But I know women very well, and I also know that not all women are like that, in fact, in Mexico the divorce rate is .5% and so many women are actually exceptionally loyal with very traditional customs. The problem in Mexico was that married women absolutely never worked unless in cases of extreme necessity, that being said, most Mexican women work because 70% of the country lives in poverty but of course, the only Mexican women I normally dated/f~~~ed were part of the Average – Rich 30% that were prettier, educated, but didn’t work. Marrying in Mexico thus required for me to work as a donkey to support a family and so it was not convenient for me.

    I see women from English-speaking countries as the worst s~~~ in the world and I can understand your MGTOW, in Europe, I would say 50% of women are similar to English-speaking women, the other 50% have much more culture and values.

    Anyways, here in Czech Republic divorce rates are 63% but not because women are crap, but rather because people are absolutely non-religious and f~~~ing around is very easy and divorce is actual divorce, with no alimony and no bulls~~~.

    So, this girl is a pearl in an ocean, a girl who is pretty, that has rich cultural values, good education, good family, extremely loyal and passionate. 25 years old and virgin.

    Here condition for sex is marriage so what would I win from this? I’m not a stupid, I’ve made a list:

    1) Even though I eventually f~~~ or date bitches, I’m f~~~ing on average 2 women per year, normally night stands, so for the rest of the year I watch porn and masturbate. I’m tired of being addicted to porn, I see it as no other choice since wherever I go women are too flaky, too one-night standly to be a dependable source for sex. Marrying this woman would give me a steady supply of sex, even though it might not always be too much, even though married couples end up having sex once per year, that’s better than nothing. I feel like porn is slowly destroying myself, I don’t want the destruction to continue.

    2) I could get a European working permit/passport. Having a Mexican passport does not grant me any advantages to me or any future children, except evading taxes.

    3) I don’t believe the tale of happy ever after, and divorce could be probable after many years, however this girl is not evil so she wouldn’t ask for alimony, if she does, Czech alimony is rarely granted, the amount is ridiculously low, such as $50 per month so that’s why women here don’t even ask for it, Czech women are not self entitled and alimony is for like max 2 years and over here people rarely need to hire a lawyer for divorce cases. If anything goes wrong I just leave the country.

    My plan is to be her boyfriend for 1 year, then evaluate if she’s not crazy and all of that, and if the answer is no, then I will propose.

    Marriage could actually be good for some people: I had a friend who was alcoholic and marring helped him stop his addiction, also my brother was a party animal with no job and no future and after marrying a smart Jewish English girl from a rich family, he got work permit in London, she got him a very well paid job, and now they’re setting up a company in Mexico, even though she’s from a Mangina country, if they divorce my brother could simply ignore any alimony claim and live in Mexico.

    So that’s the way I see things. Now please beat me up.

    You beileve that s~~~ about being a virgin?
    Come on man.
    And things are a bit different in Mexico. I saw a video of a guy decapitating his gf for cheating.
    Women in Mexico are afraid to leave their husbands. lol
    Mexican men keep their bitches in CHECK.
    They are pussies like us in AMerica. They refuse to let women get in positions of power. Let one in and she’ll change everything.

    #137933
    DJKevgeez
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    Oh you are FROM the CR?
    I thought you were in America…

    Go ahead then mang, do your thing

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