S~~~, I think I'm going to marry!

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Road warrior;

I have reposted below a post to another member I wrote a few months ago. I think you situation is more dire; she is using sex or lack thereof as a weapon. You are also forgetting the forbidden fruit aspect – if she is a virgin and has never had another c~~~, after marriage and kids, she is going to wonder what is on the other side of the fence. Think carefully.

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Firstly, I am not dispensing legal advice. I am not a lawyer. You need to pay for a consultation with legal counsel in your area – a few grand is well worth it when you are talking about hundred of thousands of dollars in assets.

1.) All the “safe-guards” you are describing I honestly don’t think will protect you in the event of a divorce. Being a citizen of a country usually does not preclude your wife from making a financial claim. There is usually no citizenship requirements. For example, if you have children she will still be eligible for child support. Also, general legal tenant is whatever is perceived to be in the best interest of the children. That could mean awarding her sole possession of the matermonial home. Consult with a lawyer.

2.) In general getting married is signing your own slave warrant. You are entering into a very formal contract to become one in the eyes of the law. It is a contract with the state to provide for your spouse. I think your maneuvers will be meaningless, especially when she hires a lawyer to drag you through the system. Consult with a lawyer.

3.) Women are fantastic mimics/actresses when it comes to snaring you – boardering on sociopathic. No offence, but the women your going to marry will not be the one that you divorce. I found that out the hard way – remember logic does not apply. Past attitude will not be an indicator of future performance on her part.

4.) I am a firm proponent of human nature. It’s unfortunate, but I believe anyone needs to be burned at least once before you heed the warnings. Everyone is under the fallacy that they will beat the odds and be special. Highly unlikely you will.

5.) MGTOW is response to a one sided, unbalanced, and unstable social fabric. I wish it were not so, but it is. Long term romantic relationships and MGTOW are mutually exclusive.

6.) In the relationship you describe, you seem to be taking all the risk. Why?. Love? – This is just a state of mind. When things go wrong you will loose. I would not want to live the rest of my life with a women having her foot on my neck.

7.) Women are empowered today. Your spouse will become indoctrinated with American culture. Social programs and laws have made you obsolete as the patriarch and head of your house. All she needs is your seed and your in financial jail for the next 18-25 years. What is the point of having kids, and paying for them, if you can’t have any say in how they are raised? They will be her children, not yours – only your obligation.

8.) Loose, loose proposition. Close friends, all well educated, are just now starting to enter the divorce crunch. Women today look for a good, stable provider to have <b>their </b>children. Second your locked in they drop you and start casual flings 5-7 years after marriage. Laws empower them to do this. This phenomenon has been aggravated by social media.

9.) 50 years ago, no fault divorce aside, if you had a stay at home wife, the only real concern you had was the milk or the mail man. Today, with social media, your wife can be arranging her next fling over her morning coffee. Do you really think you are going to make her social, sexually, or emotionally satisfied for the rest of your life with all these option? If you think that is the case I have some magic beans to sell you.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Fuck this planet.

[Anonymous 42]

[Anonymous 42]

 

 

 

[slardy mcbardfastParticipant 118]

You are bonkers mate. The advice and experience of a thousand blokes before you is available here. This time is different? I think not. She is using sex as a weapon now, she will use it later. Go screw a couple of whores. Try a few different ones. And don’t forget, eastern euro gals fall over the ugly cliff age 40

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

@The Road Warrior

“So that’s the way I see things. Now please beat me up.”

You have made a demand….who I am to disrespect you and not deliver???

You got it mate.

JUST HELL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO !!!!

You will say it in the end…whether it’s 5 yrs from now or 20 yrs (over worse)….ALL THE WAY THROUGH

Seriously consider these questions, please.

If the marriage is based on the golden vagina (virgin?) prize…then it’s not based on love/respect as the core of the relationship?

Let’s say that all you post is B~~~~ on accurate…best sex, and it’s all you hope for and even more….How devastated will you feel, if love and respect are not at the center and foundation?

To seal the deal, she has already shown her victim card!!! WARNING WARNING !! DANGER DANGER !! ….Shouldn’t her and or you, be getting her into therapy if she already has suicidal thoughts?

Does this not scream RED FLAG here?

You said,

“So, this girl is a pearl in an ocean, a girl who is pretty, that has rich cultural values, good education, good family, extremely loyal and passionate. 25 years old and virgin.”

And after the pretty fades due to age?
And if the (extremely) loyalty is ever betrayed?
And if your fantasy of passionate is not the same as her’s…or worse, you start feeling like she is a cold-hearted bitch, etc?
And after she is 30, 35, etc…. will you still see her with these eyes you view her with now?
And after the virginity is gone…is the golden vag to you still on this pedestal you have it on? Like it’s The Holy Grail?

You said,

“I feel like porn is slowly destroying myself, I don’t want the destruction to continue.”

So, this is the driving force to get married for the The Golden Vagina?

Let us not forget that she has already laid down all the rules of engagement in this “love story”

You said,

Here condition for sex is marriage so what would I win from this?

The key word here … CONDITION

More will follow, it’s the pattern by design… IT’S A TRAP

If you want sex more…then I want us to try for a baby.
If you want me happy…then I want a house.
If you want me to feel good about myself…then I want nicer clothes, etc.

After all, you said in regards to her,

“that has rich cultural values”

Are you sure your definition is the same as hers is on this?

If you want to show you care for my feelings…then take me on vacation’s to places I want to go.
Because afterall, I have RICH CULTURAL VALUES.

I know we all have our own vision of love, relationship, our ideal “perfect” woman….but I would like to add the things that I don’t see you saying in your post…

Intimacy…mutual respect…relating WITH each other…and either being single minded with each other on life long plans, or mutually compromising etc…

She has given you a condition to move forward with her…Have you given her a condition to test the waters on 50/50 relation(ship)?
Did you give her a condition to see if she would humble herself and agree, so she could move forward with you?

The hopeless romantic I used to be almost all my life completely gets it, and I understand…I can identify and relate to where you are coming from, but I am more concerned with where you are going.

Are you two really relating with each other here? Not only NOW, but for the long run???

If, you both have awesome unbelievable intimacy and all in bed with each other than that is great…afterall, a woman can show this many ways in bed. As both of us know regarding porn…there is a myriad of things two people can do, besides intercourse.

I did not see anything of the sort in your post…did I miss it??

Again, you asked to be beaten up….the flogging from me is done.

Did it help? Was it what you truly wanted? A kick in the ass to snap you out of it?

Sincerely

[TaoTheMgtowWandererParticipant 263]

im so sorry for you dude, its like watching the hindenburg right when it starts to burn but before it explodes, you know whats going to happen, and you feel like there is nothing you can do.

 

I had a chick pull this s~~~ on me as well, and i turned, looked at her with this disbelieving incredulous look, and told her ” My financial freedom, peace of mind, and my apartment is a far FAR too high a price to pay for a pussy that’s going to get stretched out, a body that is growing older, and good looks that are disappearing day by day, your house is filthy, your cats stink, your kitchen is a disaster and to top it off, you cant cook for s~~~e which automatically disqualifies you for marriage by itself.  So, here is how this is going to work, im not going to cause a scene, im not going to embarrass you, but i am going to leave now, and im not coming back.  I hope, that you find a man stupid enough to give you what you want, because soon enough, your going to need every scrap you can get.”

 

Don’t do it dude, don’t even THINK about doing something so hilariously stupid as to literally screw your life away like that.  don’t you dare go full retard on us!!

My peace of mind is worth more then your vagina...cunt.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

It’s a trap.

You think you know this woman. You do not. You won’t meet her for the first time until AFTER you’ve signed on the dotted line. By then it’s too late.

But the fact that she’s selling her sexuality in exchange for a wedding ring and financial commitment from you is the strongest evidence possible that the person she really is is not a person you want to be with. It’s clear that she doesn’t actually want you. She already has you. She doesn’t need to marry you to have you.

But she does need to marry you to get your stuff.

You say that Not All Women Are Like That. But that’s only up until the moment when, surprise, they ARE Like That. By then it’s Too Late.

Seriously, ask yourself what’s the worst that can happen. If that doesn’t scare you off, then you don’t know what the worst actually is. In five years you will remember this thread with relief… or regret. Don’t let it be regret.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

avillax wrote:

S~~~, I think I’m going to marry!

Marry? I think I’m going to s~~~.

[avillaxParticipant 280]

The thing is, she’s a country Czech girl, from a modest family, she even has like one pair of shoes and not many clothes which she interchanges, yet she always looks classy and charming Bohemian, she’s very joyful and naive on many things, she doesn’t even watch horror movies, the thought of that scares her, now that we made out with fingering included she’s acting very devoted and into me, she’s not lying, this is the real her, an innocent good girl.

But I’m not stupid, I did my homework and researched Czech laws before and it doesn’t matter if Czech Republic is inside the UE, every country has their laws and the laws on marriage and divorce are so light, researchers blame the 63% divorce rate on the light divorce laws, there’s absolutely nothing she could take from me in terms of alimony and s~~~, this is true, I’m a Mexican citizen and I haven’t paid taxes in 10 years! The Mexican government doesn’t give a s~~~ about me and wouldn’t give a s~~~ if other government would be looking for my ass, but the Czech Government will simply not. It doesn’t matter if she hits her head and becomes a harpie, its government can’t do anything to f~~~ me.

By the way we made out I can tell she’s very innocent and sex will not be so good but I don’t care, I’ve found out that really good steamy sex can only be provided by crazy women, and crazy women don’t last more than 10 sex sessions. Also if there’s a wedding, my rich parents would pay for it, they would also give me an apartment by the beach, etc. I’m also tired of being disrespected for not having a fixed partner.

F~~~ it, I’m old and I’ve spent most of my life alone, I have nothing to lose, like I said, even my brother got fixed from his alcoholism and partying and was even given a job and s~~~.

As I’m writing this, it is 3 am in the morning, here I haven’t finished my work because I was brewing beer and my girl was helping me, right now I’m drinking Roggenbier WRCLW which is f~~~ing amazing, especially since I paid 80 cents for this half litter beer, I’m gonna buy every single one they have left for this price!

[felixParticipant 406]

avillax wrote:

The thing is, she’s a country Czech girl

Well okay then…Naive Foreign Woman

 

more throttle ..... less brakes.....

[ChristovParticipant 85]

Everywhere in the world, there is a man like this getting married…

 

But this is one of the few guys here to talk to us about it.

This is inherently valuable. And I hope you keep posting on this site. Please showcase your success, or share your failure. We’re interested, and there’s support here.

 

I’ve long suspected that country girls are not nearly as f~~~ed up as city women. The further away they are from a city, the further they are from a culture of hypergamy.

 

Go your way, man. Share wisdom as you find it.

[GrotesqueRogueParticipant 116]

I might be wrong, but it seems that you’ve already made up your mind, which then makes me wonder why you ask us to “beat you up”, because you will unlikely change your mind. Pointless.

There’s no need to prove us that she’s a nawalt. We don’t know her personally and we’re not the ones going to marry her.

As I said, good luck. Maybe it will work out for you.

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

Just don’t tell her about your accumulating hidden assests..you gonna need them in future mate….if things gone wrong..

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

avillax wrote:

The thing is, she’s a country Czech girl, from a modest family, she even has like one pair of shoes and not many clothes which she interchanges, yet she always looks classy and charming Bohemian, she’s very joyful and naive on many things, she doesn’t even watch horror movies, the thought of that scares her, now that we made out with fingering included she’s acting very devoted and into me, she’s not lying, this is the real her, an innocent good girl.

Naiveté is temporary. She won’t remain a country Czech girl for ever (assuming that’s not an act right now). The very fact that she’s selling pussy for a wedding ring, and make no mistake that is EXACTLY what she is doing, shows she’s not as naive as you think. Marry her and she will become a wife, and sooner or later (likely sooner) she will realize how she has you under her thumb.

If a woman loves you, and not what she wants you to do for her, but actually loves you, for yourself, then she won’t need to marry you. She’ll just be happy being with you. This one obviously doesn’t, but I think you’re too involved in the situation to see what’s going on.

But I’m not stupid, I did my homework and researched Czech laws

Laws change just as people change. And even if they somehow don’t, do you want to remain stuck in the Czech Republic forever? From what I understand all she has to do to ruin you is hop a few borders, cry for refugee status claiming domestic violence, and she can divorce you under that country’s terms. And the divorce laws in some EU countries are f~~~ing draconian.

I think the worst thing about all this, though, is what you are putting your head on the chopping block for: pussy. You said it yourself that you’re considering marriage because she won’t f~~~ without a ring on her finger.

You claim everything is safe and you can come out of this unscathed (which I seriously doubt, but some men have to learn their lesson the hard way), but so what? It’s just for pussy, and pussy isn’t worth any amount of risk, no matter how small. Pussy is in plentiful supply and valueless. No pussy you have to pay for will ever be worth the price you pay, and yet here you are contemplating spending a horrifying price for this one particular pussy.

Why the f~~~ would you do that?

I strongly recommend getting out there and seeing what else is on offer before irrevocably tying yourself to this one overpriced, worthless pussy. Don’t be the kind of man who can only recognize a trap after he’s caught in it.

[Anonymous 0]

sidecar wrote:

Laws change just as people change.

Yessssss, they change the laws like underwear, especially in EU.

sidecar wrote:

And the divorce laws in some EU countries are f~~~ing draconian.

Also right, that’s what I wanted to say…..but if he wants to marry…never hold up travellers.

[Anonymous 0]

Total Lee wrote:

Marry? I think I’m going to s~~~.

Hi Total Lee, that’s good. Nice to hear from you, pal…worried that you were gone.

@mgtow Age

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[DakotaParticipant 341]

Yes.  There are many possible advantages to getting married, as you’ve mentioned.  BUT, like Bill Mayer said back when he was funny (and unmarried)…”It’s true, married men live longer.  Then again, so do indoor cats.”

Also, have you ever heard Meatloaf’s Paradise by the Dashboard light?

It’s a song about a girl who won’t give it up unless the dude marries her.   The rest is history…

Lyrics…
I swore that I would love you to the end of time
So now I’m praying for the end of time to hurry up and arrive
I’ll never break my promise or forget my vow
But God only knows what I can do right now
I’m praying for the end of time, It’s all that I can do
Praying for the end of time so I can end my time with you

Do what you gotta do.  Sex from a nice, “traditional girl” is not even worth the effort.  The sex will be awful.  Blow job?  Forget about it.  Doggy style?  Doubtful.  Anal?  She won’t talk to you for a month.  Good luck.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Anonymous wrote:

@MGTOW Age

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Thanks @Hollowmile for the shout out, replied in that thread

[J.D SilvernailParticipant 383]

Sorry dude, but this is going in the litterbox.

I'm married to the game,but she broke her vows.

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