S~~~, I think I'm going to marry!

[avillaxParticipant 280]

Yes, this will be very strange coming from me but I think I will have to marry in the near future.

Why you ask?

Well, I currently have a girlfriend who is an exceptionally educated, traditional and culturally rich Czech girl. Yesterday we were making out and she said she couldn’t have sex with me. When I asked why, she said that she was a virgin and would only have sex with the one man who would be the one and only and if she would break up after that she thinks she would die or commit suicide. She’s not religious but sees marriage as a strong compromise that would be needed for her to do that decision.

I’m 32 years old, I once had a girlfriend whom with I had a long term relationship and was good to me in every sense but we broke up since she was my first gf, I was young and wanted to try other pussy, and I did, but found out the price of sexual freedom is that most women are flaky, crazy, narcissistic, evil, etc. that’s why I joined the MGTOW.

But I know women very well, and I also know that not all women are like that, in fact, in Mexico the divorce rate is .5% and so many women are actually exceptionally loyal with very traditional customs. The problem in Mexico was that married women absolutely never worked unless in cases of extreme necessity, that being said, most Mexican women work because 70% of the country lives in poverty but of course, the only Mexican women I normally dated/f~~~ed were part of the Average – Rich 30%  that were prettier, educated, but didn’t work. Marrying in Mexico thus required for me to work as a donkey to support a family and so it was not convenient for me.

I see women from English-speaking countries as the worst s~~~ in the world and I can understand your MGTOW, in Europe, I would say 50% of women are similar to English-speaking women, the other 50% have much more culture and values.

Anyways, here in Czech Republic divorce rates are 63% but not because women are crap, but rather because people are absolutely non-religious and f~~~ing around is very easy and divorce is actual divorce, with no alimony and no bulls~~~.

So, this girl is a pearl in an ocean, a girl who is pretty, that has rich cultural values, good education, good family, extremely loyal and passionate. 25 years old and virgin.

Here condition for sex is marriage so what would I win from this? I’m not a stupid, I’ve made a list:

1) Even though I eventually f~~~ or date bitches, I’m f~~~ing on average 2 women per year, normally night stands, so for the rest of the year I watch porn and masturbate. I’m tired of being addicted to porn, I see it as no other choice since wherever I go women are too flaky, too one-night standly to be a dependable source for sex. Marrying this woman would give me a steady supply of sex, even though it might not always be too much, even though married couples end up having sex once per year, that’s better than nothing. I feel like porn is slowly destroying myself, I don’t want the destruction to continue.

2) I could get a European working permit/passport. Having a Mexican passport does not grant me any advantages to  me or any future children, except evading taxes.

3) I don’t believe the tale of happy ever after, and divorce could be probable after many years, however this girl is not evil so she wouldn’t ask for alimony, if she does, Czech alimony is rarely granted, the amount is ridiculously low, such as $50 per month so that’s why women here don’t even ask for it, Czech women are not self entitled and alimony is for like max 2 years and over here people rarely need to hire a lawyer for divorce cases. If anything goes wrong I just leave the country.

My plan is to be her boyfriend for 1 year, then evaluate if she’s not crazy and all of that, and if the answer is no, then I will propose.

Marriage could actually be good for some people: I had a friend who was alcoholic and marring helped him stop his addiction, also my brother was a party animal with no job and no future and after marrying a smart Jewish English girl from a rich family, he got work permit in London, she got him a very well paid job, and now they’re setting up a company in Mexico, even though she’s from a Mangina country, if they divorce my brother could simply ignore any alimony claim and live in Mexico.

So that’s the way I see things. Now please beat me up.

 

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

avillax wrote:

My plan is to be her boyfriend for 1 year

why only 1 year..? Atleast 2-3….

I know a couple that was together for 9 years, lived like a family and only then married, when they were sure about it. And nothing changed, it’s good. They are still together, got kids etc. A great example.

Why rush?

 

But overall….

Nah, Im fooling around. What, you were expecting me saying “f~~~ that, you are crazy” ? I already expected you doing something like that in a near future, seeing as your Czech (and our Latvian ) laws are not F~~~ED yet, we are relatively good to go, marriage is not killing us yet.

You got your reasons.

 

avillax wrote:

divorce is actual divorce, with no alimony and no bulls~~~.

Good thing, still I wish you would not rush the marriage. That’s the only thing I would advise.

I myself don’t need a marriage at all, or kids at this point in my life

 

Good luck !

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[avillaxParticipant 280]

Why 1 year? Because I can’t be her boyfriend for 9 years without having sex with her!, her condition is marriage and I’ve decided that 1 year is the longest I could wait. Meanwhile I could be dating/f~~~ing other bitches in secret but my experience is that they’re always very flaky, cancel dates, want 1 night stands, etc. yielding an average of a few sex sessions per year which is almost the same as having nothing. My best bet for a normal sexual life with a human is with this girl I would be marrying.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

May every god or fate or whatever being out there be with you and see you in 15 years or so.Just remember, when s~~~ gets bad, don’t kill yourself.

[MonkeyKingEnma21Participant 156]

It’ll be sad to see you go man. If s~~~ goes south remember we are always here and you can always come back to us.

[avillaxParticipant 280]

Thanks guys, I thought you were going to beat me up and p~~~ on me but I see you’re men and so I can always trust you.

But I want you to know that this is a well-thought decision and I wouldn’t do this in a mangina country, that would be bat s~~~ crazy and I’m sorry for you.

For a time when I was young I wanted to have a US passport but now I see that would be a horrible idea due to the government constantly keeping an eye on you and your mangina laws designed to enslave men, really, it is true slavery!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Marry her with my blessing. A percentage of married couples are happy and stay that way all their lives. May you be among that happy few.

Um … that’s no reason to stop posting on this site, not in my book.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Good luck.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[MGTOW4LIFE1990Participant 18]

She’s probably that 1% of unicorns…plus it sounds like the laws are more chill over there. I say give it a try but don’t bring her to America. She’ll probably get an American citizenship and its all over. I say keep your eyes open and watch for all the red flags. So far, everything sounds good. Good luck!!!

[ByronParticipant 465]

All relationships go south, mate. I really feel you need to re-read the basics once again. There are NO exceptions, it doesn’t matter how different it may seem at first.

Your relationship will start to go south as soon as you marry, it’s all a matter of when not if. Don’t be mislead by her purity now. Once it’s gone she will reveal the bitchy side of her. Hell, I’ve read some of the worst stories about sexually repressed women that start f~~~ing late.

I’d strongly advise against marriage. Remember the basics at all times, mate, they are universal:

[felixParticipant 406]

avillax wrote:

Because I can’t be her boyfriend for 9 years without having sex with her!

Yeah, I would call that the definition of masochism.  Good Luck with it.  I am not going to say a happy marriage is impossible, it is kinda sweet to see an old couple walking down a path holding hands.  There are people that are capable of making it work.

 

Also, I would like to add that be aware there are a lot of outside forces that will try to interfere with your marriage.  I have met people that when they see somebody happy, they start doing things to see if they can’t send some misery that direction.

more throttle ..... less brakes.....

[felixParticipant 406]

P.S.  Please don’t show up here after your wedding and start asking us to marry her Bridesmaids.  

more throttle ..... less brakes.....

[ApplejackSpectator 235]

Unfortunately the odds are NOT in your favor.  You’re gambling and the odds are against you.  No matter how perfect she seems, chances are it will all go to hell.  So long as the laws aren’t as f~~~ed up there as they are here in the US you should be okay.  But if they are, why risk it?  All women are whores that sell their bodies in exchange for security.  It sounds to me like she made up the BS about her committing suicide if you guys break up because she knows how reluctant you are to commit to her.  Remember, a bitch will say literally ANYTHING to get what she wants.  She wants your wallet, not you or your penis.

If I was ever looking for “true love,” I’d disguise myself as a poor ass motherf~~~er but otherwise be myself and see if any woman would be interested in me.  Answer:  She wouldn’t.  It’s not because I’m a terrible person, but rather because all women really care about is whether or not you can TAKE CARE OF THEM.  It’s the natural order of things.  But in this modern world, women need to work and contribute to keeping the family running.  Even if they do this, they can’t escape their natural gold-digging nature.  They may not even be aware of this themselves.  But they WILL leave you if they have the chance to attract a guy that’s significantly more wealthy than you.  And when they dump you, they’ll steal everything you have and even make you pay them forever.

If you ever see a husband and wife that have a good marriage and have no history of the woman cheating, it’s usually because the woman is f~~~ing ugly and couldn’t have attracted a better man anyways.  Then she actually TRIES to keep her husband because she feels lucky that she was even able to attract him.

My grandmother is one of the ugliest people I’ve ever seen.  She was born ugly.  But my grandfather married her because he was in the Coast Guard and needed someone to take care of his three kids from another marriage while he was away at sea.  She’s had more than 30 cosmetic surgeries throughout her life.  Do you know WHY?  Because she was trying to attract a wealthier man.  He never came along and they had the perfect marriage.  My grandfather died 10 years ago and she still hasn’t been able to find a man that wants her.  But I’ll tell you this.  If she had been good looking, she would have dumped my grandfather before I was even born and moved on to someone that had more money.

Just think about what I’ve said.

[Anonymous 0]

Hi Road Warrior,

did I get you right, you are mexican but you are living in Czech right now ?

Czech alimony is rarely granted, the amount is ridiculously low, such as $50 per month

Czech is a member of the european Union since 2004, and I guess the laws will be adapted according to the laws of other european countries and in the EU Government there are a lot of Femis. May you moving on thin ice here.

I could get a European working permit/passport

That’s a good Point. If you got a european passport you can go to all the other 28 member states in the european Union and live and work there. From Czech it is easy to go to Germany or Austria. Also for vacation it is easy to go to other countries in a relatively short time finding yourself in other traditions and cultural Events.  I don’t know something about Tradition and culture in Mexico but in Europe you can enjoy a huge culture life if you are interested in. You should try winter sports in Austria, always funny . And the Czech kitchen….Jesus Christ… it is influenced by the Mähren and Böhmen kitchen. These are always real good and solid meals, you will also find this in Germany.

Marriage could actually be good for some people: I had a friend who was alcoholic and marring helped him stop his addiction

Same here. A long time ago I had a friend who did overcome his addiction after marriage. But sometimes I attended to some not so nice situations between him an her.

Anyway, marrige is nothing for me but if you want to try it…Your choice. The one year “trail period” should be enough to make the right decision. May you stay in contact and tell us the News if you are in the mood. Needless to say that you are always welcome… and all the best wishes for the future.

[BritGHOWParticipant 2566]

avillax wrote:

Thanks guys, I thought you were going to beat me up and p~~~ on me but I see you’re men and so I can always trust you.

Of course we’re not going to beat you up, that’s what people without a logical argument resort to.

What we will do is offer counsel, advice and opinions, you then as a man will take that along with your own research and knowledge and make the decision you feel best for yourself acknowledging that you will be responsible for the consequences of that decision.

My counsel is this:

You have been (and contributed) here long enough to know the score, you have access to information here that many of our fellow MGTOW say they wish they’d had access to before they chose to get married. You know that virgin or otherwise this woman’s pussy is no sweeter than any other, you know many of the tricks that women can and do use to sucker men into marriage, you know the legal ramifications of marriage and you know the statistics on divorce and the financial implications thereof.

If with all that knowledge you honestly believe that you have found a unicorn and that within the legal system of your country that you can make a marriage with her work then all I can say is go with whatever God you look up to and the best of British to you, I truly hope that if you decide to go down this route that your first night together is the worst sex you will ever have, and that after that you can make the marriage work for you, because if not I don’t want to imagine the consequences.

[DakotaParticipant 341]

RW.  It’s a trap.  Being a 32 year-old it is hard to see the larger picture.  This pussy-for-marriage scam is as old as dirt.  Lemme guess, she’s soo f~~~ing hot?  Tight little ass?  No blemishes?  Doe eyes?  Smells so sweet and wonderful?  ALL of that goes away, SOON…hence the pussy-for-marriage scam.  The hot pussy is the bait on the hook, and you circling that bait, KNOWING there’s a sharp hook waiting for your ass…just saying, you’ve been warned.

Here is a big problem.  That pussy is so hot, but that LAY may be ice cold.  As in missionary position ONLY.  Under the covers with the lights out ONLY.  I’d rather f~~~ a 7 who knows her way around a dick than marry a 9 who thinks that SHE doesn’t need sexual gratification so YOU DON’T EITHER.  Living hell mate.  If that becomes the case, you could be doing more porn that you ever did before.

Marriage is a CONTRACT between HER and the STATE that YOU sign.  We all know what’s in it for her.  What’s in it for you?  Questionable sex?

Good luck, mate.  Whatever happens, no need to leave the site.  Not that you’ll have much time though, with all the yard work, house repair, baby sitting, visits to the in-laws, shopping, shopping, shopping…

 

[GrotesqueRogueParticipant 116]

Interesting situation. Suppose, you made your cost/benefit analysis. It’s a huge risk anyway.

I’m with Stealthy on this one, tbh.

If s~~~ hits the fan, I wish you all the luck and hope that you would get what you were looking for, be it sex or permit or smth else.

[Just a ManParticipant 934]

MonkeyKingEnma21 wrote:

It’ll be sad to see you go man. If s~~~ goes south remember we are always here and you can always come back to us.

 

Guys, you can still be MGHOW and be married, its not like he has to leave or anything, lol. In fact I would love to hear from him time to time on how things are going. This is what being a MGTOW is, which is why I am always perplexed at folks trying to define it. To me if they need a definition then they are not MGTOW to begin with or they have nefarious designs.

Anyway, congratulations Road Warrior, I hope you are the exception to the rule and wish you the best.

Philosophy, the female repellent

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Didn’t you just think you had a good czech girl only to have her go crazy on you?  that was recent too.  Is this the same girl?  Are you still that confident in your judgement despite that mistake?

getting married to have sex with a girl is about as stupid and desperate as you can get.  I don’t care how good the divorce laws are, they can change.  Divorce isn’t even the worst thing about being married.  The marriage is.  If you want regular sex, get a girlfriend or escorts.  don’t get married.  after a few years of marriage, regular sex stops.  That’s why people cheat.  It’s your choice, obviously but know that you’re not thinking straight.  How do you know she’s really a virgin?  Lots of women say that because they think (know) it’s what men want to hear. The fact that she thinks suicide is a reasonable option should she break up with the man who popped her cherry is a huge red flag for me.  The sex stops, you’ll divorce her, then she’ll kill herself.  great plan.  next she’ll tell you sex is only for reproduction and will want to try for kids.  then you will be telling us how good the divorce laws are when kids are involved.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Just a Man wrote:

Guys, you can still be MGHOW and be married

Actually this is the only thing you do that excludes you from MGTOW.Maybe if he where married and he realized it during the midst of it all we could have a debate, but in this scenario absolutely no.

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