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L. Euler 1 year, 4 months ago.
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Wow, the support here is UN-F~~~ING-BELIEVABLE. Thank you all for reading my lengthy post and offering feedback and comments. I’ll be responding to all of you shortly. Don’t mind the delayed responses… I had to figure out how to access and submit replies…all courtesy of the government network computers.
Yesterday I made some solid progress towards digging myself out of the hole I’m in. I spoke with my new lawyer for about an hour about my case and upcoming trial. The guy is competent, big plus there, and he actually gives me the impression he gives a s~~~. The retainer will cost me $500 but that ain’t s~~~ in comparison to the numbers I’m accustomed to. As s~~~ty as our legal injustice system is, people ARE trying to make an “honest” living and I know they want to get paid. Unfortunately, I wasn’t sure how I was going to pay the fella but hell, WHAT’S NEW. Yet another person to pay money to! Since the list of “People I Owe” was going to need a f~~~ing index soon, I caved in and decided that now, for the first time in my entire life, I was going to ask for help with money. It’s one of the most embarrassing things I’ve ever done by far. I have always paid it forward for as long as I can remember. It’s always been in my nature to do good deeds for people. Giving to someone in need is one of the warmest feelings you can have; brightening someone’s day and shedding light on a person’s life. I suppose I shouldn’t feel so bad about it, but it’s just so unfamiliar. I started a GoFundMe page. I didn’t know what to put for my goal because I didn’t want to make things to unrealistic and out of reach. The support thus far has been AMAZING. I’m not sure if it’s okay to post the link here, please advise. I don’t want to be the new guy, breaking the rules, and f~~~ing up the flow around here.
I reached out to my creditor about the $26000 of credit card debt I’ve accumulated and why I’m 5 months behind on payments. I filled out a bunch of paperwork outlining my expenses and bills so they can get an accurate picture of my financial standing. I’m keeping my fingers crossed in hopes they’ll settle with me, close my account, and allow me to not pay interest on the balance. More to follow on that.
Thanks again guys. I already regret not being here sooner. All the best to each of you. Keep punting c~~~s.
Regards,
AdamWell that’s it.
Welcome to divorce rapehood.
I doubt you get any changes in Cort, but keep trying.
Good luck.
I’m proud to be in the company of such a prestigious group of guys! I expect the court to give me nothing but bad news. There hasn’t been a single thing in my favor yet and I don’t foresee that changing any time soon. Thank you for the welcome!
Wow.
You got f~~~ed, long-dick style.
I mean like, years after the divorce, it will be like phantom dick syndrome from being divorce raped. Its like phantom limb syndrome except it will feel like the dick is still in there from the initial divorce rape.
It will eventually fade, though.
This made me laugh louder than I probably should’ve. Thank you.
Brutal. Just Brutal. Wait till she poisons the kids against you. The hardest part of my divorce was my son setting my bed on fire trying to immolate me….
Wow, WTF? That’s bizarre.
Oh and she has. My kids went from believing I walked on water, to being mad at me, not answering phonecalls, etc.. Parental alienation in its nastiest form. My ex would call me, say some outrageous s~~~ to trigger me and get me furious, then stand in close proximity to my kids on the phone. She’s always manipulated the kids and even moreso now since it benefits her. Growing up, they wouldn’t even try new sports, activities, foods, etc. MERELY because my ex-wife didn’t approve or like them. The amount of f~~~ed up things she’s done is endless.
I’ve been in the United States Navy for 17 years.
Thank you, ION, for serving. The court that tried your divorce is wrong. It’s decision is shameful. It’s error is on it’s head. I hope your new attorney can succeed in getting true justice and fairness for you. How appalling!
We’re a nation of hundreds of millions. Only a few risk their lives in defense of our country. The ones who do MUST have the best treatment. If I had the money (and I don’t), I’d organize a class action on behalf of too many veterans and service males who have been mistreated. The judge who ran your case needs to be debenched and disbarred. What a sham.
Is this what our rare and brave fight for? The Ford Class carrier runs almost $13 billion a copy and our Navy wants to buy ten of them. How about nine and use the extra $13 billion to pay back what we owe our rare and brave males? Like you!
Wow.
You got f~~~ed, long-dick style.
I mean like, years after the divorce, it will be like phantom dick syndrome from being divorce raped. Its like phantom limb syndrome except it will feel like the dick is still in there from the initial divorce rape.
It will eventually fade, though.
This made me laugh louder than I probably should’ve. Thank you.
Glad I made you laugh! The divorce s~~~ you need to laugh occasionally.
What was your rate? I was an STG. (sonar technician – surface)
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
I was condemned in my home, property, and tangible goods since I was 12 years old, I live in the standing ruins of an unrighteous and bogus court decree, I’ve also been placed in contempt of court automatically and retroactively with the standing treat of fines and imprisonment.
Damn bro, that’s wild. So you’re all too familiar with this horses~~~. From what I understand, they likely won’t take me to jail because I’ve been paying…plus it’s illogical as all hell. I’ve never understood how taking someone to jail, away from their employment, equates to MORE MONEY in the pockets of people reaching for it. I think they just want a way forward with me repaying the lawyer, paying the retroactive support, etc. These f~~~ing CLOWNS think I’m Daddy Warbucks over here.
Advice…
Were I that thoroughly f~~~ed, I would have made sure (like I do now) to have enough credit cards for available credit of about a hundred thousand dollars, then charged up all the cards to max on gold and a plane flight to Vietnam.
Melted the gold into coat hangers, and then taken the one-way flight out of the country. Then sent the ex and the judge a postcard telling them to go f~~~ themselves, they’re not getting a penny.
You’re a f~~~ing RIOT dude. LMFAO! The Sailors I work alongside are probably questioning my sanity. Nothing but laughs erupting from the Chief’s office. Keep it coming, it’s therapeutic.
Glad I made you laugh! The divorce s~~~ you need to laugh occasionally.
What was your rate? I was an STG. (sonar technician – surface)
INDEED brother! I’m an LS (came in as a Storekeeper and rate was converted). Colorblindness gave me a handful of options at MEPS. Thankfully, I chose the best one out of the long list of four. Looking ahead, I think I’ll be okay job wise after retirement.
Glad I made you laugh! The divorce s~~~ you need to laugh occasionally.
What was your rate? I was an STG. (sonar technician – surface)
INDEED brother! I’m an LS (came in as a Storekeeper and rate was converted). Colorblindness gave me a handful of options at MEPS. Thankfully, I chose the best one out of the long list of four. Looking ahead, I think I’ll be okay job wise after retirement.
Given the concept what someone earlier mentioned of you looking into VA disability, which the ex should not be able to touch…
Post-divorce, post-Navy, you should consider going DoD civilian, you could work for the Army, for instance. Go in for the retirement system they have, as well as get a Veterans preference on being hired vs other candidates.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
Thank you, ION, for serving. The court that tried your divorce is wrong. It’s decision is shameful. It’s error is on it’s head. I hope your new attorney can succeed in getting true justice and fairness for you. How appalling!
We’re a nation of hundreds of millions. Only a few risk their lives in defense of our country. The ones who do MUST have the best treatment. If I had the money (and I don’t), I’d organize a class action on behalf of too many veterans and service males who have been mistreated. The judge who ran your case needs to be debenched and disbarred. What a sham.
Is this what our rare and brave fight for? The Ford Class carrier runs almost $13 billion a copy and our Navy wants to buy ten of them. How about nine and use the extra $13 billion to pay back what we owe our rare and brave males? Like you!
Thank you bro, I appreciate the kind words. It means a lot! I’ve questioned some of the same concerns you mentioned. I don’t see how it’s acceptable to have such a one-sided and unfair ruling. It’s not realistic nor does it make any sense. The judges are at liberty to do as they please with little to no recourse for the lives they’re destroying. Knowing that I’ll repeatedly be taken to court to pay off more lawyers takes the wind out of the ol’ sails. Let her PAY HER OWN S~~~. I guarantee if she has to fund it on her own, she’s rethink even bringing the pending ‘issues’ to fruition.
Welcome to the club nobody wants to join. But the important thing is that you’re here now among friends. Went through a similar divorce 10 years ago and I’m a veteran as well. If you do set up a gofundme page please send me the link in a PM if you’re not comfortable posting it publicly. I’ll donate in a heartbeat, brother.
Thank you for the welcome. My warmest regards to you brother! Thank you for your service to our country.
The MGTOW community has made it feel like home here. This has to be the most concentrated group of people, all sharing similar frustrations and battles. The information here is pure gold. I did set up a GoFundMe, which was a tough choice for me to stomach but I’m running out of options. I wasn’t quite sure if it was okay to link in the thread.
Welcome home, Ion
Beer’s in the fridgeThank you and cheers brother. =)
Fellow war vet and divorce rape vet here as well, welcome home!
Your story is BRUTAL. Young Men absolutely must read your story and the countless others like it, before they realize exactly how slanted the “family court” system is.
Right now I’m getting another pump from the divorce raping…. Apparently my credit has also taken a beating due to contesting child support arrears when pumpkin demanded MOOOOAAARR money.
Yeah, f~~~ me, right? Apparently Child Support can ONLY negatively affect your credit. In NO WAY will paying child support on time, on a regular basis for 18 years actually help. You could do perfect, and not a blip in the “good credit” section. Go into arrears? Yeah, they F~~~ your credit score with it.
F~~~ MY LIFE. I seriously just want to go to the hills, far away from all this s~~~ and the system is doing everything to prevent my escape.
I’m quickly finding out, this forum has a plethora of useful information and experiences to learn from. After all, it’s better to learn from others mistakes than make them all on your own. The family court creates such a divide between fathers and children. How the f~~~ is this even healthy for the kids’ sake? The pain the kids have endured in all of this disgusts me. It’s all about the money with little to no concern how it actually impacts their life and not having a father around.
My wife f~~~ed me on a couple occasions while I was deployed. Running up credit cards, buying unnecessary s~~~, the usual.. Thankfully, I took my name of the ones I was listed as an authorized user on, paid off one with the tax return money, and cut ties from some of the debt she was attempting to slam me with. A truly evil c~~~.
It’s fun pondering the idea of getting the f~~~ outta dodge and moving off the grid. I’d give it actual consideration if my kids weren’t so young but GODDAMNIT, then I’d never see them. Life’s compass has been modified from North, South, East, and West. Now it just reads F~~~ED, F~~~ED, F~~~ED, F~~~ED. No mater which direction I go, the s~~~ is haunting me hahaha. Might roll some pennies tonight and buy a lotto ticket. They say you can’t win if you don’t play.
Best of luck with your impending divorce rape. Praying for the best for you brother.
Anonymous1Welcome brother. Your story is all too familiar. I was in the service came home to a pregnant wife and the child wasn’t mine. Judge told me I abandoned her to go off play soldier boy. I got off easy compared to many of the stories like yours.
If you ever need to vent. Some advice or just for someone to listen there is always someone here.
Thanks for sharing your story. The biased family court system treats men like s~~~ regardless of how much you have done to serve your country and risk your life.
Welcome to the forums. Best of luck in your Nov 21st court hearing.
Most definitely! Such a true statement… They were actually acting like it was some disservice because I wasn’t home a lot and couldn’t spend time with my kids! The judge actually had the audacity to question why I didn’t visit more WHILE I WAS DEPLOYED. It was everything within me to remain calm and collective and not lose my s~~~.
Thank you for the warm welcome.
ION-I went through some of that bulls~~~ with my ex c~~~ and being retired military. I know you’re still active but if you have any kind of disabilities from your service, start lining up the paperwork now. This statement ” Wife entitled to 50% of my gross retired pay at the rank of E-7″ was me but wait a second. I ended up with 40% disability which is paid by the VA, not DFAS. That 40%, the bitch can’t touch. She’ll still get the other half but that, my friend, is all yours.
Take the payments step by step and set yourself up for retirement. My f~~~ing alimony (spousal support my ass-she’s not my spouse) is dependent on my income now. If my pay goes up or down, so does the alimony. Food for thought.
Chin up friend. You’ll be better off in the long run.
Golden advice. One of the Navy vets that works in an adjacent building offered something very similar. He’s getting 100% disability and is making enough money now that the support is so marginal and he doesn’t even pay it any mind. I’ve started making more trips to document my issues. I’m doing it way ahead of time to ensure it sticks.
Thank you for the encouraging words and insight!
Holy f~~~ this makes me furious. Stay strong bro and welcome.
Thank you and will do!
This should be echo’ed to every man who gets involved with a woman and definitely if he starts dropping the marriage bomb talk.
Run for the hills!
Watch Terrence Popp’s and DR.T Administrative Violence. Stop playing fair, fight dirty. No c~~~ would screw me over like that and get away, heads will motherf~~~ing roll!!!
It’s definitely a battle keeping my composure. The issue with being in the military is, they can come after me for non-payment. They’re already pursuing an automatic deduction from the finance office. 3 more years…
Thanks for sharing. As painful as it is, sharing these stories serves as a warning to young men to avoid falling victim to women’s Vagina Monetization Scam (VMS). You serve your country, the family court serves the c~~~ys.
Certainly! This gave me a good chuckle BTW.
Listen up young men – if you sacrifice, work hard, dedicate yourself to family & principle, this too can be your future.
Ion that sucks. If you do the gofundme thing send me the link; i’ll send a few bucks your way.
So true. If I could reverse the hands of time, I’d never venture down the marriage road without a prenup. There’s simply too much at stake and it’s like gambling money without a possibility of winning a prize over what you invested. Nope, nope, nope!
Thank you bro, that would be wonderful.
Welcome Ion, the ex-wife’s lawyer is right, hope the next court hearing goes better.
I’ve heard it several times now. I don’t know if there’s a deadline of submission to submit my malpractice claim but I do want to pursue it. The fella never even showed for the final hearing with the judge because he had another case. He called in by phone…
Go to Russia
Never been, maybe I should give it some thought!
Not trying to give you ideas but some one I know of went through a similar situation recently> He had a great job in California earning six figures in lower management. After his divorce, all he was earning was $1200/month to look after himself.
A few months later he relocated to Saudi arabia, again great job, great pay and keeps it all to himself..
Anonymous0Welcome to the club nobody wants to join. But the important thing is that you’re here now among friends. Went through a similar divorce 10 years ago and I’m a veteran as well. If you do set up a gofundme page please send me the link in a PM if you’re not comfortable posting it publicly. I’ll donate in a heartbeat, brother.
Thank you for the welcome. My warmest regards to you brother! Thank you for your service to our country.
The MGTOW community has made it feel like home here. This has to be the most concentrated group of people, all sharing similar frustrations and battles. The information here is pure gold. I did set up a GoFundMe, which was a tough choice for me to stomach but I’m running out of options. I wasn’t quite sure if it was okay to link in the thread.
I’m not sure what the rules are either but you can PM it to me.
Hey brother, for the past couple days I’ve been scratching my head trying to find the PM area. I thought maybe it was my browser. Is this a special feature?
Not trying to give you ideas but some one I know of went through a similar situation recently> He had a great job in California earning six figures in lower management. After his divorce, all he was earning was $1200/month to look after himself.
A few months later he relocated to Saudi arabia, again great job, great pay and keeps it all to himself..
Wow, that’s absurd! That makes perfect sense though, I would’ve changed my name, appearance, and moved overseas too!
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