My Ex is Getting Married Tomorrow

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

So a little about the situation, link below. Anyway, One of my mates is a bar tender at the beach club where the reception is taking place tomorrow. I don’t know how to feel atm? Relieved or a little jealous.. TBH a big part of me is saying, he wont see the c&*t til the 3rd year together!

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[pharmerParticipant 407]

DeepInThought wrote:

… I don’t know how to feel atm? Relieved or a little jealous.. TBH a big part of me is saying, he wont see the c&*t til the 3rd year together!
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I can only speak from my own experience but for me there have been moments where I had to take some careful introspection. Just take time to think. I don’t know the details of your history with X but being MGTOW it seems you were smart enough to know it was a no win situation. My take is you haven’t lost anything, because you didn’t want that situation anyway. It doesn’t make him any kind of better man than you that’s for sure. Dosen’t mean she’ll be happier with him either, as we know women are masters at making them selves miserable.

For me the only thing I felt when my X told me she was engaged about 18mths after our split was ‘that poor bastard has no idea what he’s in for’ I’d warn him except he must be some kinda chronic mangina to go around picking up the still warm scraps of a relationship. Fuk them both and the rest of the blue pill world.

Never fuck a crazy chick.

[Anonymous 3]

Ending my last actual relationship was kind of difficult for me. It hit me pretty hard. I have always been relatively red pill versed, but it didn’t matter, when your emotions are invested into the female, you just don’t really know what to feel and think. One second you are relieved, the other you are angry, then jealous, and so forth. Your mind goes bonkers.

What did cure me was, understanding this: Briffault’s Law. “The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”

Women are the gatekeepers of sex. They wouldn’t even associate with you at all, if no benefit is derived from such interaction. Men are nothing but servants. I was and am nothing to women, nothing but a slave. But here’s the thing, in realizing this, the truth becomes apparent: Slaves are the prize. They are sold, traded, bought, because they have VALUE and WORTH. Slave masters on the other hand are completely worthless. The most devastating blow to a slave master, is when she has to go out to the field and pick the cotton herself, doing the work of her would-be slave.

We all are expendable, disposable, interchangeable, akin to a piece of gear. You pull out the old gear, insert a new one in, and the machine keeps running. What’s so bad about being released of one’s servitude? Nothing, so do not miss your slave master. No matter how much she dresses things up, the decorated house, the morning coffee, the fragrant candles, it’s all smokes and mirrors, a facade to trick you into thinking she’s the prize and you have to keep her. But we know better, a slave can’t keep a slave master. It’s an illusion. All along, SHE was the one who chose to keep you.

And so she found another slave. There’s nothing to be jealous of. All it means is, in some ways, he’s probably a better slave than you are. It reminds me of one of the last short “relationships” that I had. The conversation came up and she said I wasn’t the best she’s ever had. Before, I would have been probably hurt by such statement, when my entire identity revolved around my woman’s validations, but it was different this time. I said:
“Sucks to be you.”
“What?”
“Yeah, sucks to be you. I’m not the one f~~~ing me. You are.”

Remember, men do not do any choosing. Women choose men. They are the gatekeepers. They are the slave masters. Do you define yourself, and determine your value by how useful you are to women? Are you a slave? If not, then does it even make sense to feel jealous toward the real slaves? No, slaves are the ones who should feel that way toward freemen.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

pharmer wrote:

It doesn’t make him any kind of better man than you that’s for sure.

Anonymous wrote:

We all are expendable, disposable, interchangeable, akin to a piece of gear. You pull out the old gear, insert a new one in, and the machine keeps running. What’s so bad about being released of one’s servitude? Nothing, so do not miss your slave master. No matter how much she dresses things up, the decorated house, the morning coffee, the fragrant candles, it’s all smokes and mirrors, a facade to trick you into thinking she’s the prize and you have to keep her. But we know better, a slave can’t keep a slave master. It’s an illusion. All along, SHE was the one who chose to keep you.

And so she found another slave. There’s nothing to be jealous of. All it means is, in some ways, he’s probably a better slave than you are. It reminds me of one of the last short “relationships” that I had. The conversation came up and she said I wasn’t the best she’s ever had. Before, I would have been probably hurt by such statement, when my entire identity revolved around my woman’s validations, but it was different this time. I said:
“Sucks to be you.”
“What?”
“Yeah, sucks to be you. I’m not the one f~~~ing me. You are.”

Remember, men do not do any choosing. Women choose men. They are the gatekeepers. They are the slave masters. Do you define yourself, and determine your value by how useful you are to women? Are you a slave? If not, then does it even make sense to feel jealous toward the real slaves? No, slaves are the ones who should feel that way toward freemen.

Thanks guys, i needed to read this. Much appreciated, Deep!

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

All you should see in this is the guy (groom) being sentenced to 3 years of s~~~ tests and a slow march the the financial gallows.

You will thank him eventually.

Remember that poster of the sexy chick that reads ‘someone somewhere is sick of her s~~~”

That someone is you ?

You’re free …. sit back and observe what could have happened.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

My Ex Wife ended marrying Her Lover, (the guy she was f~~~ing behind my back). Their marriage is well into 5 years and according to a friend of mine, they both absolutely can’t stand each other, and Her husband takes long “business vacations”.

Good riddance!, He can have the bitch for all i care. I’ve been asked a number of times if i ever was mad, or wanted to beat the guy up. In recent years I’ve looked into that question and just straight up told them, “hell no!, that guy did me a huge favor!, Her bulls~~~, is now His bulls~~~”.

No matter how hot she may be, someone, somewhere is tired of her s~~~….

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Thanks guys… I am realizing this and understanding tomorrow is all about her, not him! Attention seeking.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

will this reduce your spousal support obligation? You should be ecstatic if it does.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I had one ex that married the next guy she dated after me. When I found out she was getting married I honestly just thought “Poor guy.” I’m pretty sure they didn’t see their third anniversary before getting divorced. So glad that wasn’t me!

[BigDParticipant 3024]

Just remember, when you were with her and she would bitch about her exes, she is now saying all those same, nasty things about you to her now hubby. And when she dumps his ass, she will say the same things about him as well.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

BigD wrote:

Just remember, when you were with her and she would bitch about her exes, she is now saying all those same, nasty things about you to her now hubby. And when she dumps his ass, she will say the same things about him as well.

F~~~ me, that is so true!!!

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Feeling sad about a previous relationship is kinda like fear, it’s normal to feel it, but it’s what you do with those feelings that counts the most. She’s essentially a liability, so think of her as removing the debt out of your life. Where one chapter ends another begins.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

In a couple of years, you’ll show the divorced guy MGTOW and explain what happened. Maybe he’ll get a clue as to why this happened.

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

I’m surprised she didn’t send you an invitation trying to get a wedding gift out of you.
I had an ex-girlfriend do that to me, I’m sure it was a shame/guilt tactic.
She had given the “marry me or else” ultimatum, I chose “else”.
I had an old blu-ray player that she had gotten me for Christmas, I put it back in the box and wrapped it up.
I didn’t get a thank you note.

[UntamedParticipant]

Congratulations, D! That calls for drinks. Seriously, I love marriages! As long as it’s NOT me.
Now your X has even more reasons to leave you be!
Cheersl

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Just get it out of your system, I just put up a new posts myself, everyone is pretty much why are we talking about this? To get it out of my system, plus having mgtow you recover and move on a lot quicker.
Don’t worry, after those 6 months she’ll shut down her pussy, and in return her new boy toy will be begging for sex.
While you have no slave master to answer to. Just like me, YOUR THE WINNER

Cheers, brother!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[DethklokParticipant 153]

Two exes ago, she broke up with me. I was distraught for a good two months. I had never been that infatuated with someone before. Although, towards the end, it became monotonous like I’d learn that all relations~~~s become. Still, it made me sad for some reason. She came crying back after the dude she tried getting with ended up being a loser. Like an idiot, I took her back, and she promised everything would be different.

A few months later, we broke up again. I’m fairly certain she was cheating with the new dude. Within the year they had a baby, and got married. I wasn’t sad for even a minute once we brokeup. Breakups happen for a reason. That reason is because it’s not going to work. There’s no reason to get sad about something that failed. She had always wanted marriage and kids. You want to complain about being sad from losing a girl that didn’t work out? Try being sad from being stuck with said girl in a marriage with children. Many sad men will tell you that you lucked out.

[Anonymous 42]

I wish you’d use the term “somebody’s getting enslaved” instead of “somebody’s getting married”.

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

I understand you are hurting a bit. You are focusing on the good memories of her, i do the same. Get a paper and write down all the s~~~ she did that made you angry.
Read it over and over again.

It will help.

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[RoyDalParticipant]

ILiveAgain wrote:

All you should see in this is the guy (groom) being sentenced to 3 years of s~~~ tests and a slow march the the financial gallows.

You will thank him eventually.

Remember that poster of the sexy chick that reads ‘someone somewhere is sick of her s~~~”

That someone is you ?

You’re free …. sit back and observe what could have happened.

As usual, I agree with ILiveAgain. He says it for me.

uchibenkei wrote:

will this reduce your spousal support obligation? You should be ecstatic if it does.

My lawyer pals inform me this is true. In some jurisdictions, your spousal support stops the day she remarries. This is something to explore.

All the above said, I agree with the most of the posts on this thread.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

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