Marriage, Mortgage, Kids…f~~~ that s~~~

[MalfunctionNeedInputParticipant 257]

I’m glad I married at the courthouse. Wedding costs are outlandish and pointless…

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

[neverAgainParticipant 1662]

Marriage, Mortgage, Kids…f~~~ that s~~~

so f~~~ing true.
lovin life

All good things come to an end.

[Anonymous 2]

Your biggest problem is understanding solipsism. You think she is your friend. You think because you had good times she knows you. Insects would feel more than she. This is the hardest issue men cope with in love. There is no brotherly love. That is between men. A promise, we won’t hurt you, if you don’t hurt us. The same rules don’t apply to a woman.

This is why we quarantine! Sure, your situation is slightly different, because it’s your turf. Get militant. Get speedy. Be precise.
She may already know your next move, with you being standoffish.

Call a storage company.
Get her s~~~ out.
Take half your cash (or all like the guy said.)(it can be used as a bartering chip to make sure she is reasonable with you.)(in the event you f~~~ up somewhere.)
Tell your parents after its all done.
Be ready to start a new life somewhere else, far, far away.
get a new sim.
Ask work for relocation, if not just get a new job. F~~~ references, just get a mate to lie about that s~~~.

Ever heard of the term sleeping with the enemy? You’ve only just scratched the surface. Be lucky she was in china. Rape, battery, pedophilia. They are all just aces in a woman’s arsenal. Those cards were in her sleeve before your cards were even dealt. Your cards are all jokers anyway.

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

They say the biggest problems in a man’s life stem from not being able to sit in a room all by himself.

True words have never been written.

I’m chilling as such, for the last four hours, visiting family in South America, and my millenial cousins think I’m unhappy.

I remind them I’m a married dude with kids and if I were home with my family right now, I would have to wait until about 10pm to have 30 minutes of unmolested chilling.

Any man who discovers the red-pill before marriage, should exit stage right as quickly and quietly as possible. Just imagine you just discovered a scorpion on your pant leg.

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[MichaelSpectator 544]

I can’t offer any detailed advice because I don’t know the details of the situation.

However, marriage is only bad for men and society, and only benefits women because of modern pro-feminist anti-male laws and society. You need to look at that and do a cost/benefit analysis.

That aside. It sounds like you know where this is going. She’s not going to change. But it doesn’t matter because I don’t think you have the b~~~~ to do anything.

The first thing you “want”, when she gets back from China, is “pussy”. That’s the first and foremost thing on your mind, of primary importance to you. “The talk” is secondary. Your actions will prove this.

And since “pussy” is your first priority, my guess is she capitulates during the talk, things improve short term, then she slowly reverts back to the median.

Also, I’m really curious: are you a white guy, and your girlfriend Asian (Chinese)? If so maybe you are just boring and have no game.

If you don’t like to go out, want to sit at home, and have no game, you’re not getting any Yoga pants pussy unless you make an effort or pay for it.

That being said. Don’t use that as an excuse to stay with a women you’re not in love with who sees you as her fail safe.

P.S. You’re white aren’t you? And you’re GF is Asian. Fess up.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Any update Vector ? Hoe you are ok, you made the right call the sneaky bitch staying at your Mums..

[ELIParticipant 6]

You can replace her like a new pair of shoes! DtB – no guilt, no shame, no blame – roll on young man!

[Daryll55Participant 2956]

ok, I will approach your situation from the other side. (I am 55 now and was married 14yrs, now free the last 20 years.)

Take a truth pill,…………. YOU ARE MARRIED right now!

She said (drunkenly) what she meant and has intent to implement!
She thinks she owns you now, she was just saying,…. “What’ll we’re married with a house and kids Buster; I’ll REALLY own you then.”

If she thinks that now , and the sex has gotten dry,…. you are already married !

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Vector wrote:

It got to the point where she threatened to have her father come over and pack her s~~~, and take her car (which I’ve been using, b/c I sold my car last year) and her mattress that we sleep in. Her mother even called me.

Notice how the women will USE EVERY TOOL IN THE TOOL BOX AT EVERY TIME.

At that moment, her only tools were mommy and daddy.

Post-Marriage? Her tool box will become a f~~~ing AR-15

[NotHavinIt75Participant 39]

I applaud you, Vector. You have made a realization that very few men make. No, let me rephrase that. You have made a realization that almost every man makes but very few have the b~~~~ to act on.

Most men know that they shouldn’t be in the marriage they are in, but they do what’s easy at the time. They settle. They go along and get along because that’s what society dictates is the appropriate thing to do.

When anyone goes against what society expects them to do, they are labeled as weird, different, not quite right, etc.

The fact is that this is a total lie. People who don’t do things simply because that’s what everyone else is doing are actually brave, creative beings with a keen sense of individuality.

You are now among that group of people.

If you don't want to do something, then DON'T!

[PhDParticipant 6]

Dude, this was a good read. Thanks for sharing.

[PhDParticipant 6]

My first day as part of MGTOW. Thanks for sharing your experience. It was a brilliant read Bro. I probably repeated myself elsewhere… still figuring things out… Sorry, I’m new ?

[BR01097Participant 8]

A girlfriend I had met and dated in high school 38 years ago dropped in from the skies at Tucson unbidden. She decided to visit here almost 3 full weeks. Not much to do here in Tucson if you’re not working; far less if you have no car. But she supposed I’d take her around and show her a good time.

Though we’d stayed connected on Facebook, a bitch from Hell showed up at the airport and began making demands to take her out for a steak–no, out to the mall–no, at a Denny’s. We’d driven in circles a bit; I’d attributed it to jet lag. But then on the phone she’d lent me (registered in Japan) so we could keep in touch stateside, an incoming message came over on a different app.

Turns out she’s been scheming with another female friend to hook in another man after dumping her husband, who has stage 3 cancer, and her family whose responsibility she’s saddled upon her brothers. The female friend asked, “He’s dying? So sad. Insurance policy?” This is a very similar line of questioning my estranged older sister asked of me over our dying father.

No, all women are conniving c~~~s, at least for this month. I may never, ever date again!

[ledangereuxParticipant 2]

[The AirmanParticipant 74]

Vector wrote:

So this is my current plan, let me know what you guys think:

You are f~~~ed. Stop your plans. Your plans are not her plans and she will win every time. They are experts at it.

Protect your assets and get the f~~~ out.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

He already updated us I think on page 8 or 9 he is a free man now.

[ResParticipant 542]

Holy s~~~ this thread, jesus christ. Amazing content here… great read.

Mr. Boats: "'Avoid the reeking herd! Shun the polluted flock! Live like that stoic bird, the eagle of the rock!' You know what that means, son?" -American Splendor

[ShimEnkiParticipant 27]

Cheers brother.

There is only one true marriage—the one that brings union between the physical and nonphysical self.

ANY other marriage is an immortal sin.

Get the popcorn out and watch the subc programs go into total distress mode via facial expressions and adverse body language etc next time you are having a drink with fem that’s just a friend when you sweetly weave into a conversation …”Marriage to another is an immortal sin” She will act like her soul is being fragmented into tiny pieces.

Fun stuff

[Anonymous 12]

Top of the pops XD

[WarmoviesrcoolParticipant 11]

Don’t do it buddy. They don’t call it a ball and chain for nothing.

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