Living with a female (roommate) (text message pics)

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Oh one other thing @blackpill, do NOT delete any of the messages in case she tries any of that stuff @FFS suggested. Keep evidence!

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

DeepInThought wrote:

Oh one other thing @blackpill, do NOT delete any of the messages in case she tries any of that stuff @FFS suggested. Keep evidence!

I second, DeepInThough suggestion.

Blackpill, I highly suggest you also make a copies of the messages, including the time codes, just in case the originals are lost.

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

You mentioned that you’re black and that she’s jewish and white.

Out of curiosity, when she falsely accuses you of rape and/or ‘domestic’ abuse, what colors and religions do you think the prosecuting attorney, judge, and jury will be?

Stay the Hell away from this one, my friend. The group does not seem to agree on who was flirting with who, but I read her texts as definitely flirty. This is not good, as buyer’s remorse could have her deciding that she didn’t cheat on her boyfriend during consensual sex, but that what “really” happened was that she was raped.

Run far, run fast. Nothing good can possibly come of any interactions with this woman.

As for the soon-to-be-ex-roommate . . . worst comes to worst, try and stay for another month. Then cut ties with the twit once you’ve landed.

Rooming with women, in general, is a train wreck, just like marrying, dating, or working with them. Except with the former, you can’t escape by going home.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[Anonymous 29]

It don’t matter how you slice or dice this situation, but my young friend, you have s~~~ load of troubles coming your way.
Watch your back, your money and prepare to travel light and fast if need be.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

Blackpill, I would advise against any shared housing situation with men, much less with women.

These leases are joint and severable, meaning that the landlord can go after either one of you he pleases in order to recoup damages made by anyone on the lease. In other words, one is playing with fire.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Stargazer wrote:

Obviously we can’t know what your intentions were but, to me, it sounded more than a bit flirtatious and pick-uppy. Of course, I go into bulls~~~ detector mode anytime someone is overly friendly with me because I’m expecting it’s a pitch and they’re trying to lead me down the chute to the sucker slaughterhouse. While this obviously isn’t always the case, it usually is.

It’s been my experience that genuinely friendly people are positive and open but reserved and aware of other people’s perception of their approach whereas people who are immediately jocular and glib and show little empathy for the other person’s responses are usually trying to push you into a corner you don’t want to be in so they can sell you something (a used car, religion, some dick, etc).

Of course, your mileage may vary. If you’re a genuine guy and you’re simply disarmingly charming and it’s getting you the results you want in life, by all means don’t change it. A lot of people would kill for that ability.

well it may have sounded that way because you don’t know me. I’m not the type of mgtow that is standoffish towards all women. I judge people on an individual basis, but am just extra cautious and aware around women. If women knew what a mgtow was, they’d have no idea I was one.

I’m kind of curious why you seemed so tight at the fact that I was friendly towards her. some people in here seemed genuinely miserable and annoyed at the fact that I was actually casually friendly (but not white knight) to a female and got p~~~ed off at me for it. What the actual f~~~.

Elric Greenstone wrote:

You mentioned that you’re black and that she’s jewish and white.

Out of curiosity, when she falsely accuses you of rape and/or ‘domestic’ abuse, what colors and religions do you think the prosecuting attorney, judge, and jury will be?

Stay the Hell away from this one, my friend. The group does not seem to agree on who was flirting with who, but I read her texts as definitely flirty. This is not good, as buyer’s remorse could have her deciding that she didn’t cheat on her boyfriend during consensual sex, but that what “really” happened was that she was raped.

Run far, run fast. Nothing good can possibly come of any interactions with this woman.

As for the soon-to-be-ex-roommate . . . worst comes to worst, try and stay for another month. Then cut ties with the twit once you’ve landed.

Rooming with women, in general, is a train wreck, just like marrying, dating, or working with them. Except with the former, you can’t escape by going home.

trust me, I know about the whole race thing and that was arguably my first concern rather than sex.

DeepInThought wrote:

Oh one other thing @blackpill, do NOT delete any of the messages in case she tries any of that stuff @FFS suggested. Keep evidence!

can nvm ever be too paranoid these days.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

BlackPill wrote:

I’m kind of curious why you seemed so tight at the fact that I was friendly towards her. some people in here seemed genuinely miserable and annoyed at the fact that I was actually casually friendly (but not white knight) to a female and got p~~~ed off at me for it. What the actual f~~~.

I’m beating a dead horse here: a lease is a contract and IMHO should be treated as business, regardless of the gender of the owner.
Being friendly is OK but too much can be misinterpreted by the other person.

As for your tone, would you have sent those texts exactly as they were to a guy? They sound a bit flirty to me. Even if it’s true that this wasn’t your intention, how would a stranger who doesn’t know you make the difference?

Just my 2 cents, you are free to do as you wish 🙂

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

xlrsnbrg wrote:

BlackPill wrote:

I’m kind of curious why you seemed so tight at the fact that I was friendly towards her. some people in here seemed genuinely miserable and annoyed at the fact that I was actually casually friendly (but not white knight) to a female and got p~~~ed off at me for it. What the actual f~~~.

I’m beating a dead horse here: a lease is a contract and IMHO should be treated as business, regardless of the gender of the owner.
Being friendly is OK but too much can be misinterpreted by the other person.

As for your tone, would you have sent those texts exactly as they were to a guy? They sound a bit flirty to me. Even if it’s true that this wasn’t your intention, how would a stranger who doesn’t know you make the difference?

Just my 2 cents, you are free to do as you wish

i understand that. There is also the fact that I am a tall, black, muscular male and she is a short white thin little Jewish girl. One of the main reasons why I’ve survived this long and am progressing in life is because I had to make people feel comfortable around me when their instinct is to get scared. If I was 100% serious ESPECIALLY with a female stranger, they’d get intimidated easily. I know this because I’ve been there and I had to learn due to experience. At this point, it is second nature to me to be relaxed and charming. I have a job where if I’m not smiling all day, I get complaints from coworkers and guests and am told that I may not be able to keep my job if I don’t “lighten up”.

But that’s my reality.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

BlackPill wrote:

There is also the fact that I am a tall, black, muscular male and she is a short white thin little Jewish girl. One of the main reasons why I’ve survived this long and am progressing in life is because I had to make people feel comfortable around me when their instinct is to get scared. If I was 100% serious ESPECIALLY with a female stranger, they’d get intimidated easily. I know this

Sorry, I missed that. I understand you now.

Hope you find a nice place.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

xlrsnbrg wrote:

BlackPill wrote:

There is also the fact that I am a tall, black, muscular male and she is a short white thin little Jewish girl. One of the main reasons why I’ve survived this long and am progressing in life is because I had to make people feel comfortable around me when their instinct is to get scared. If I was 100% serious ESPECIALLY with a female stranger, they’d get intimidated easily. I know this

Sorry, I missed that. I understand you now.

Hope you find a nice place.

as a fitness freak, I love your avatar

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

UPDATE:

so i found a place to live. I’ll be living with 3 other guys in a condo and they’re 21-22 year old college students (a bit young since i’m turning 27 and that is a lot of people in 1 house), but the place is bigger, and so is my room. I connect well with all of them, and one of them even has a dog! I have a lot of similar interests with the roommates, but I am worried kind of worried about the age difference. There is also diversity. There is another black person, one biracial person, and one white person. I find that to be a positive.

I am taking the spot of a female who is living there and is seeing one of the guys there. She is supposed to leave on the 27th, so I hope that goes smooth and timely. I only have to live with a female for 4 days and i just have to keep my dick in my pants in order not to be on bad terms with my roommate who is seeing her. I also get to keep her furniture and her queen size bed.

I am concerned about the noise level since there will be 3 people, but I am glad that I will have people to be around unlike before where it was always quiet and no one around and me just sitting stewing in my thoughts. I’m surprised I’ve lasted this long and haven’t relapsed given the circumstances.

I do have a fear of getting too close and making new friends now though due to my last experience and knowing that the majority of men are blue pill. I don’t want to get too close and make a friend who is going to do me dirty. I’m exhausted and would prefer to keep my distance, but I don’t know how long that will last.

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