Living with a female (roommate) (text message pics)

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Your tone is far too flirty for someone you say is not your type. Is this what you mean by charm? Maybe you should dial back the charm and treat your potential room mate like a business partner, not someone you’re suggesting you’re going to give a good dicking to.

Just a suggestion.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

uchibenkei wrote:

she asked your salary. she’s looking to score more rent and will throw sex into the deal. then if you f~~~ up, she’ll claim big black dude raped white jew girl and you’re f~~~ed. or she wants your halloween candy.

100% totally agree with this. Oh and she has totally been thinking of f~~~ing you whilst “overthinking” things. Translation: she’s been flicking her bean in bed fantasising about you and the grand plan. Same circus different tent.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Stargazer wrote:

Your tone is far too flirty for someone you say is not your type. Is this what you mean by charm? Maybe you should dial back the charm and treat your potential room mate like a business partner, not someone you’re suggesting you’re going to give a good dicking to.

Just a suggestion.

100% agree with this. Black Pill, youve had a pretty idiosyncratic view of everything thats happened.

The two things she asked you were how much money do you make (which any landlord/room mate would want to know) and if you have a criminal record (also not unusual to run background checks on tenants).

You made a flirty tone and she dropped “we cant meet on X night because thats date night”…typical female defense mechanism. If she wanted to f~~~ you women have endless ways to indirecrly hint at it. Nothing she did say reflects that. What she did do though is bring up the fact that this wont be a “romantic” meeting, by telling you “x night is date night…cant do it then”.

– She says she has a lot on her mind/over thinking things. You interpret “she wants to f~~~ me”.

-So you press her about what shes thinking even though she said she didnt want to talk about it. Then you escalate the issue by asking to meet in person to “talk about it”.

All the while youre worried she wants to f~~~ you, and you moved out of your last pad because you were tired of being around a female.

All of this is so counter intuitive it makes no sense.

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Let this thread remind us that Chad Thunderc~~~ is also a MGTOW.

This is hillarious. “Chad Thunderc~~~”. Did you and OP attend the same “alpha” PUA convention this weekend? Ironic its only individuals who could be defined as “beta” who use said terminology because they need someone else to tell them how to act and behave.

OP is leaving his living situation because he cant handle his friends gf.

OP didnt even find a place on his own but trusted the judgement of his friend whom he claims is acting like a pussy whipped fool.

OP was rejected by potential new female roommate.

He over extends himself. By “charming” her. His words.

She obliges but then expresses discomfort.

OP takes this to mean she wants to f~~~ him. But she asks questions to the contrary – can you afford rent? Do you have a criminal record?

OP requests they meet up face to face so he can dig deeper about something she said was bothering her but never even mentioned him. Sounds rather self absorbed on OPs part IMO.

She declines a certain day because thats “date night”…Not exactly flirtatious overture.

OP comes on here “worried” she wants his man meat.

Doesnt sound like hes too serious about avoiding females when hes moving in with one who has shown zero sexual interest in him and he had pushed and pushed on every front he has shown to us well beyond just being roommates. Now hes “worried” she wants him sexually.

Lol…this is too much.

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

As you well know, some mgtows still have relationships with women, which are typically more on their terms

So stating you want nothing from a female but sex, then attempting an arrangement that doesnt involve sex and pushing yourself on her for that non sexual relationship after she has denied you is on his “terms”?

and more short lived.

So living with a female 24/7 as a roommate is a short lived sexual encounter?

sometimes mgtows just plain fall of the wagon

Given the above, this isnt falling off the wagon. Its becoming the horse and carriage.

Resident cynic.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I lived with a woman once. I was her feminist punching bag. She had the hots for me but she was an ugly land whale. I was never allowed to have a female friend over. She was critical of all of them which meant forced no getting laid for me.

Do you really want to live like that. It’s like getting married without the sex (not that getting married today involves sex).

Run don’t walk, don’t even consider it. You’ll end up in jail the first time you disagree with her over dv. Of this I am sure.

If you do move in, keep us posted, disasters are always entertaining.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

I hope you are flirting with her on purpose, because she thinks you are, and her messages confirms that.

So yes, you dun goofed. abort mission, while you still can.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I said MORE short lived, meaning in a relative rather than an absolute sense

Right, because living with someone is short relative to…what?

That theory is dope.

Succintly explains why this line of logic is a travesty at best. Subscribing to what “feels good”.

Oh ya “chad thunderc~~~” because ever y attractive female I have ever met, known, or seen is with this one simplistic protocall. This is why I brought in the “alpha/beta” bs. Any dude who thinks in this mindset is a drone and needs someone else – a prototype – to tell him who he needs to be.

Its hillarious.

Resident cynic.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22557]

uchibenkei wrote:

she asked your salary. she’s looking to score more rent and will throw sex into the deal. then if you f~~~ up, she’ll claim big black dude raped white jew girl and you’re f~~~ed. or she wants your halloween candy.

That is what I was thinking about. But, I did not want to offend you, Blackpill. But, that is the card she might pull on you.

This is gonna be the first chapter of this hose erotic novel.

That is what she is hoping for. That we are trying to talk you out of being a part of her fantasy.

She already is open to a male roommate, while dating someone else. In this day and age, that is already the set up for cheating in her mind. If she is will to do that to her boyfriend, whom is suppose to trust her. Ask yourself, what could she do to you, while you are asleep. Such as ambushing you, or calling the cops if you say no.

Blackpill, this is a no win situation for you. It will only end in tears for you. While everyone around her will hail her as the heroine of her own twisted fantasy, based on her false accusations against you.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Survivor,

First it was you assuming OP wants to f~~~ her and she wants to f~~~ him. Thats a lot of assumptions. OP expressly said hes not attracted to her and doesnt want to f~~~ her. You now know what shes thinking and you know his intentions better than he does?

Living with someone is not an amount of time, hence, impervious to length based quantization.

First it was “hes doing it on HIS TERMS”.

Which is BS because what MGTOW guy wants to live with a female…especially without sex(?)…

Then it was “MGTOW men can have a more short lived relationship”

Which is nonsense because moving in with someone living together 24/7 is a big deal. Noone moves around every month, and I doubt he has any intention to do so.

Now its “living with someone is not an amount of time, hence impervious to length based quantization”.

LOL! Now your going to fine tune the definition of “living” to circumvent any notion of “time”?!?!?

Your classic!

How much more minutiae can you get into now? Cant wait to hear! No “quantization” lmao. Pocket protector handy for your next lecture?

Hillarious! Your really cute!

The point of MGTOW is not caring about how others measure you

Ya, thats why you measure yourself by a protocal based on others acceptance and think the idea is “dope”

Its possible chad thunderc~~~s are mgtows relapsing. That theory is dope.

and will continue to blather my truth in your face until you get sick of being defeated

Typical online tool and keyboard cowboy…”until you get sick of being defeated”.

God, if I can smell you a mile away, then vagina can smell you 10 miles away. No wonder you need the “chadthunderc~~~” prototype and the idea is “dope” to you.

Whats next? Want to redefine “dope”?

Resident cynic.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I’m thinking OP just wants some confirmation from us that the little white girl wants his dick. A guy needs to ask a bunch of other guys if a girl wants to f~~~ him… smells like pussy begging simp to me.

Here is my advice:

1) Get your own apartment
2) If 1) is not possible, get an apartment with a socio-economically similar male
3) Stop hanging out with little white girls and pussy begging simps
4) Get your s~~~ together
5) Separate your living / working situations from your sex life
6) Learn how to identify when someone wants you and when they don’t

This isn’t MGTOW, this is just standard life skills stuff. Unless you fancy yourself a gigolo or expect to go through life swinging from tree to tree by your prehensile c~~~, maybe you should leave that s~~~ in your pants long enough to find a place to stay and a solid base of rational friends… cause what you’re talking about right now sounds a lot more like wanna-be gold digging whore than any kind of man,

[jt_tooParticipant 14]

Listen to everyone here, and listen to your own red flag alerts. You already know you should not live with this red flag. You already know this by your posting those texts. It’s your dick that wants into that situation…don’t listen to your dick.

[The ShrikeParticipant 147]

In addition to what everyone here is saying, if she thinks you love the dog she will use that against you also.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Holy f~~~ bro – either f~~~ her, or live with her, but for f~~~s’ sake don’t do both. This scenario has disaster written all over it, and you haven’t even moved in yet! I wouldn’t do either, but your life & your call. MattNYC’s simple To Do list if he were in this situation:

Priority 1: Find another place to live. If you need one or more roommates, make sure they’re men.
Priority 2: Find another place to live. If you need one or more roommates, make sure they’re men.
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Priority 847,233: Find another place to live. If you need one or more roommates, make sure they’re men.
Priority 847,234: If you’re still interested, f~~~ this girl.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

I haven’t been able to log in in DAYS due to my computer being messed up, password errors from this website, and not being able to log in on mobile (which has always been a problem with this site), so i’ve just been idly reading your responses and not even able to reply.

Anyway, You guys are right. I would be walking into a f~~~ed up situation and I do not want to do that. She called me a few days ago and said that her friends (lol figures) kind of made her cautious about the idea of a man moving in with her. She spoke as if she is worried about her safety. I genuinely feel like her friends implanted the thought that I was going to rape her or something. Whatever. I do understand that from a female perspective, she may have to worry about these things though. I told her that I’m not attracted to her like that and do not have that kind of history and she can see from clearing my background check. She said that she wants to meet up and talk about it.

At this point, I have already made up my mind that i won’t be moving in with her. It really seems more trouble than it’s worth already, not to mention to endless other things that can happen. She just texted me saying with hearts and s~~~ apologizing for blowing off one of the days we were supposed to meet and telling me to let her know when i’m available. I am going to call her and let her know that I agree with what she previously said that she doesn’t know me and i understand her fear and will be finding somewhere else to live.

I have 1 1/2 weeks to move out with nowhere to go yet, but I’m putting in the footwork to find other places.

current pussy whipped blue pilled/ex-best friend/roommate just had a talk with me last night all sad after i told him that he feels more like an estranged acquaintance rather than a friend of mine after he kicked me out for not saying hi to his girlfriend. He says he doesn’t see how I could have the right to lose respect for him, but lets not get into that and open that f~~~ing box of worms again. The guys is f~~~ing dumb. Unaware and inexperienced. Everything i tell him, all he can say is “I don’t understand” and that’s when i know it is time to stop even trying to explain and move on. You can’t pour a gallon of knowledge in a skull that can barely hold a cup.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

by the way, to the people saying that it sounded like i was dating her or flirting with her through texts…….that’s just me being friendly and talking. Maybe I just have a charming personality which I’ve been told and I can click with people easily and make them feel comfortable regardless of my stature, but I definitely was not hitting on her. Not only did i work my charm to get her to disregard the other person who was going to move in, but i figured if we were going to be roommates, we could establish a friendly relationship. That’s just how I am….a really likeable guy. Are you guys not like that as well?

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

BlackPill wrote:

I genuinely feel like her friends implanted the thought that I was going to rape her or something.

No, her friends were insecure she was gonna get good consistent sex with you and they were missing out, that’s what they were thinking. I bet if you did move in those exact friends would be all over you!

BlackPill wrote:

Are you guys not like that as well?

Not with business. I don’t use emoticons and “lol’s” when I am doing business.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Obviously we can’t know what your intentions were but, to me, it sounded more than a bit flirtatious and pick-uppy. Of course, I go into bulls~~~ detector mode anytime someone is overly friendly with me because I’m expecting it’s a pitch and they’re trying to lead me down the chute to the sucker slaughterhouse. While this obviously isn’t always the case, it usually is.

It’s been my experience that genuinely friendly people are positive and open but reserved and aware of other people’s perception of their approach whereas people who are immediately jocular and glib and show little empathy for the other person’s responses are usually trying to push you into a corner you don’t want to be in so they can sell you something (a used car, religion, some dick, etc).

Of course, your mileage may vary. If you’re a genuine guy and you’re simply disarmingly charming and it’s getting you the results you want in life, by all means don’t change it. A lot of people would kill for that ability.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Stargazer wrote:

Of course, I go into bulls~~~ detector mode anytime someone is overly friendly with me because I’m expecting it’s a pitch and they’re trying to lead me down the chute to the sucker slaughterhouse. While this obviously isn’t always the case, it usually is.

It’s been my experience that genuinely friendly people are positive and open but reserved and aware of other people’s perception of their approach whereas people who are immediately jocular and glib and show little empathy for the other person’s responses are usually trying to push you into a corner you don’t want to be in so they can sell you something (a used car, religion, some dick, etc).

Another winner from the @doc that @keymaster should pin somewhere. Simple Layman’s advice!

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22557]

BlackPill wrote:

Anyway, You guys are right. I would be walking into a f~~~ed up situation and I do not want to do that. She called me a few days ago and said that her friends (lol figures) kind of made her cautious about the idea of a man moving in with her. She spoke as if she is worried about her safety. I genuinely feel like her friends implanted the thought that I was going to rape her or something. Whatever. I do understand that from a female perspective, she may have to worry about these things though. I told her that I’m not attracted to her like that and do not have that kind of history and she can see from clearing my background check. She said that she wants to meet up and talk about it.

I am glad you are listening to reason and not moving in with her. But, she is clearly acting passive-aggressive towards you. She does not want you in her home, but, she wants you. That is why is asking to meeting you somewhere else. This is a sign of mental instability on her part.

Don’t meet her. Don’t contact her, nor reply to her. She might claim she changed her mind, and it was her idea for you not moving in, and now you are stalking her. Never underestimate the lies lunatic.

Leave her alone, and have nothing to do with her.

Anyway, good luck finding a place.

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