I have lost any ability to love a woman

[Anonymous 9]

Same here.

I’m so tired of their bulls~~~.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

To this day I cannot understand how easy it is for a woman to dump a man like garbage, a man she knows that is faithful and loves her. I have seen it with my own eyes. Bitter you might call me, nah!
Now I am free, and I am thankful for the betrayal and the cruelty, it was the only way for me to get rid of my marital chains.

In my own life, whenever I “loved” a woman I got my heart ripped out.
The women I loved were never faithful or in the least appreciative. I long ago lost interest in “romance”, and began to see it as a trap. Women view men as resources to be acquired and once acquired to be used up and then discarded. It’s just their nature. How could you love something that wanted to use you up and then discard you?
I too am thankful for the betrayal and the cruelty as they got me on a better path.

[Anonymous 9]

Like now I’m talking with this girl over the phone on her lunch break, and she’s mad at the most trivial matter.

Who wants to spend their time arguing on the phone?

Not me.

Mentioning that I never buy her anything, but she did include me offering to buy her something as a reminder in a message this morning.

She’s nuts. Every f~~~ing day she finds some s~~~ to complain about.

I mean every day.

She can never chill out. I don’t understand this bitch at all. There’s some emotional instability going on and she needs some form of therapy.

[Anonymous 5]

Wow man I feel yeah… same here.

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

Once I realized that what we think of as love between a couple, (as opposed to for your grandma, kid, etc.) is just an evolutionary development, a form of insanity reinforced by the resultant procreation, I was no longer interested in it, or at least not under its control.
The “soul mate” that’s out there for me somewhere is no more real than the chick that was giving me a lap dance in my dream this morning. (No s~~~, in a barber shop! ) She had nipples the color of ripe cranberries. Now, if she showed up I might be in trouble.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[Red pill, I’m awakeParticipant 31]

I feel the same way, women don’t want love they want money,validation, someone to look after them
and above all control over men. There is no value in a woman other then sex and their bodies,however
pussy is expensive these days, men are getting divorced and the women are getting half if not
all of the guys stuff leaving him desolated and destroyed. I’m 40 and for some time now even before
I became MGTOW I was noticing that I could really give a f~~~ about women and why would I put
myself in a position to be with a female who thinks she in entitled to get married or to have some
kind of a relationship, I/we are not women’s protectors,providers or sperm donor baby makers.
Other then sex and even that I really don’t care about, I don’t want or need them I can cook,clean,
sow,iron,wash clothes,fix things inside and out. I own my own house,car which I payed off last year,
job in law enforcement type work, everything in my house is payed off and there is no out standing dept. So why in f~~~s name would I have a woman move in or marry me just to they can take everything that I have ever worked so hard for?
And I’m sure that you and many other guys are doing the same thing, some are having a
harder time because of some bitch leech that they had took them to the cleaners and now
they have to start over again. The way women act is a reason why men lose the ability to
love them. And if there are women who see these comments and it makes them upset
because they think that were losers or just being the big bad men that they think we are,
their just scared they know we’re on to them and we know their nature and we’re not going
to take it any more. Men be free, women be alone.

[RennieParticipant]

Once you know how they are it’s pretty much impossible to ever be deluded into believing they could be your equal, ever again.

[experiencedParticipant]

Women, by design, take take take take take take take take take take take take = to produce a man’s offspring.
In pure form, an equitable transaction.
However, today’s LAYDEEZ have abandoned the right side of the equation.
Thus, we abandon them.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Jack123Participant 324]

Evening brothers,

Last month I ended a 2 year relationship with a toxic c~~~. I am bitter but I am free. Can I love again and what does my future hold with women?

I am back on tinder and I am trying to f~~~ as many girls as possible whilst my sex drive is still high. I am not particularly good at pick up and it has been a frustrating experience. I can see why the pick up community is huge.

As for now, I will follow my instincts/drive and continue bashing my head against a wall in trying to f~~~ them but thanks to my experiences and MGTOW, I will never live with or marry one.

Jack123

[Anonymous 0]

Keymaster wrote:

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

it’s just the complete inability to see a woman as ANYTHING but an object of sex.

It’s not a problem. Or as complex as you may think.

“Sex”………. is the entire biological POINT between men and women.

It’s not your JOB to “see her” as anything else. If a woman wants to be seen as anything other than a sex object, it’s not even up to you! It’s up to HER. That’s her job — just like it’s a man’s job to be perceived as something other than a wallet or a good f~~~.

• You want someone to like you? It’s up to you to be likable.
• You want someone to think you’re awesome? It’s up to you to be awesome.
• You want someone to respect you? It’s up to you to earn it.

We know this. So why should she be any different?

Your concerning yourself with the way women are perceived by you…. and making it YOUR PROBLEM. This is actually the female argument, where they concern themselves with how men perceived them – as opposed to the way they actually ARE. They say “teach men to respect women!!”. Bulls~~~. Teach women to EARN it in the same way they expect men to.

You’re not supposed to “love” her until she has made an effort to be lovable.
It’s not that you don’t have the ability… the woman has lost the ability to be lovable.

Not your problem. Congratulations. You’re cured.

Seeing women as a sex object (at first) is actually a good thing, and it’s perfectly natural! Nature designed it that way. No man can be expected to apologize for it. Nor should he feel bad about it. Beyond that, how is it possible to love a woman who has made no effort to be lovable – or even likable? That is definitely going to be up to her.

If she behaves like a bitch, that’s how she will be perceived.
If she behaves like an angel, that’s how she will be perceived.
None of it has anything to do with you.

The problem is when a “bitch” still expected to be treated like a “lady”. Doesn’t work like that. And that’s HER problem. That book was written by women – for other women. And they are off-their-rockers nutso crazy if they think men will “love” them for that.

The “men who love bitches”…….. well….. that’s THEIR problem.
Don’t feel bad (or question why) you can’t be counted among them.

Exactly this. Spot on.

[Anonymous 0]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Men love women. Women love shoes.

I don’t hate women. I don’t hate snakes.

I love womens bodies. I love the F4 Phantom in full afterburn.

I can love women …. and I do … my daughter …. but the same would apply for a son.

A lion will show you what he does. Will not hide it. As will any other beast of the wild. You will be given clues and probably fair warning.

Nature warns us with colours, roars, spines and fangs. Hell even a black widow will give her victim a quick death.

Women are the only creatures that will deliberately hide their nature.

You are right to see them …. as they truly are.

They won’t/can’t change now.

They are no longer women or ladies …. they are females. Never forget that.

In my experiences this is very true. I camp a lot out in the woods and nature shows signs. Women do not. They are masters of deception. Most of them try to deny their true nature. I see right through it now.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

I feel.you.i.feel.that same.their body turn.me.on.and.i.masturbated.to.it.but after that i see no.meaning.on wasting time with them since i know they.only.look at.me as a utility.and.nothing.elses they so called love depend.on.what.you do.or offer them and.i dont.play.their stupid.game

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I would like to know if any of you could relate to this.

I have absolutely zero ability to not only have any love for a woman……..but any kind of like for a woman. What I am trying to say here is that I still adore women’s bodies and have desires to do naughty things with them. But that is where it ends.

I was not always this way. I have been this way since age 27 and I am now going on 42 next month. And the older I get the more and more I feel this way.

It’s not so much hate, it’s just the complete inability to see a woman as ANYTHING but an object of sex.

I perfectly understand you, I always have been so, more or less.
But I think you just missed a very important point: IT’S NOT MEN WHO SEE WOMEN AS “SEX OBJECTS” – IT’S WOMEN WHO ACT AS “SEX OBJECTS” AND WE ARE JUST ACTING ACCORDING IT.
I’m going 43, and I have been so since I was…well…since I had my first sexual experience, at 16 (she was 28). I had been married, two children, I had an “important” relationship, I had sex with more than 100 women, I kissed and touched at least twice, maybe even 300, and never called them again after the first date, and I bet I was rejected by at least 500 or 600 or even 1,000 women, I have not even an hint: in my 20s when I was in the mood – errr, okay, always – I hitted on them in a serial way as long as I didn’t got one, like a drone, like a velociraptor in a flock of sheeps, or something. At least, I liked to think I was so. Then, during my marriage, I just understand I was the one doing all the work, and that all that system was meant exactly to make me thinking I was a predator and they were the preys, when instead truth is almost all them were waiting for me, like a spider in her web, to enslave me through an institutionalized theft.
The system is meant EXACTLY to encourage women as acting as sex objects, always, through all their lifes, and ALSO, WORSE, THE SYSTEM IS MEANT TO ENCOURAGE MEN AS ACTING AS BEING WALKING WALLETS, WALKING ATMS.
Feminists are not totally wrong, they’re just missing the part regarding men, and the fact that women are WILLINGLY acting as sex objects to get their way. Feminists just missed 75% of the issue 🙂 focusing on the less relevant 25%.
“She doesn’t need to use the full potential of her brain” – holy words, by Esther Vilar – and that’s EXACTLY why women are acting as sex objects and we are – rightly – seeing them as sex objects.
I don’t think women are evil, I even still have a partner. In an abstract way I even “love” her. But it lacks a deep level of respect, and it’s not me, it’s just that she lacks something, as all the women I had the pleasure and the pain to intimately know.
I don’t think they’re purposely lying when they say they just want a man who loves them, and they don’t care about money and muscles.
But the matter is that all the women I know and I knew just failed at defeating their instincts, and I have realised that makes them not worthy of my efforts.
I agree with the thought that women are never genuine people, I don’t know if that applies to all women, likely not, likely there are some women that are different. But I just don’t care anymore: I discovered I’m more happy, much more happy, living alone and having sex with a woman no more than 7-8 times per month. She think it’s a “relationship” but it’s not, at least not for me. I’m not even really interested in having sex with her: let’s talk straight, masturbating while watching porn is not so different. The worthy things are, at least for me, are the nights when I sleep hugged with her, smelling her skin. But I know it’s just a lie: I would start living with her she would turn in an harpy, entitled to all my stuff, she would try controlling me withholding sex and giving sex as a price for the “right behavior”, and all the bulls~~~ I already experimented.
It’s not her fault, it’s just her nature. Matter is that none is going to taught her that she could be a better human being if she would try to step forward. Our gynocentrical society, in fact, even encourage women being assholes without accountability, without responsability: it just encourages them being selfish.
I COULDN’T CARE LESS: SHE SHOULD BE FOCUSED JUST ONLY ON ME, AND NOT ON HERSELF, IF SHE WISH THAT I’M FOCUSED JUST ONLY ON HER.
And that will never going to happen.
I’ll never give her the keys of my home.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Eric Lauder wrote:

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I would like to know if any of you could relate to this.

I have absolutely zero ability to not only have any love for a woman……..but any kind of like for a woman. What I am trying to say here is that I still adore women’s bodies and have desires to do naughty things with them. But that is where it ends.

I was not always this way. I have been this way since age 27 and I am now going on 42 next month. And the older I get the more and more I feel this way.

It’s not so much hate, it’s just the complete inability to see a woman as ANYTHING but an object of sex.

I perfectly understand you, I always have been so, more or less.
But I think you just missed a very important point: IT’S NOT MEN WHO SEE WOMEN AS “SEX OBJECTS” – IT’S WOMEN WHO ACT AS “SEX OBJECTS” AND WE ARE JUST ACTING ACCORDING IT.
I’m going 43, and I have been so since I was…well…since I had my first sexual experience, at 16 (she was 28). I had been married, two children, I had an “important” relationship, I had sex with more than 100 women, I kissed and touched at least twice, maybe even 300, and never called them again after the first date, and I bet I was rejected by at least 500 or 600 or even 1,000 women, I have not even an hint: in my 20s when I was in the mood – errr, okay, always – I hitted on them in a serial way as long as I didn’t got one, like a drone, like a velociraptor in a flock of sheeps, or something. At least, I liked to think I was so. Then, during my marriage, I just understand I was the one doing all the work, and that all that system was meant exactly to make me thinking I was a predator and they were the preys, when instead truth is almost all them were waiting for me, like a spider in her web, to enslave me through an institutionalized theft.
The system is meant EXACTLY to encourage women as acting as sex objects, always, through all their lifes, and ALSO, WORSE, THE SYSTEM IS MEANT TO ENCOURAGE MEN AS ACTING AS BEING WALKING WALLETS, WALKING ATMS.
Feminists are not totally wrong, they’re just missing the part regarding men, and the fact that women are WILLINGLY acting as sex objects to get their way. Feminists just missed 75% of the issue focusing on the less relevant 25%.
“She doesn’t need to use the full potential of her brain” – holy words, by Esther Vilar – and that’s EXACTLY why women are acting as sex objects and we are – rightly – seeing them as sex objects.
I don’t think women are evil, I even still have a partner. In an abstract way I even “love” her. But it lacks a deep level of respect, and it’s not me, it’s just that she lacks something, as all the women I had the pleasure and the pain to intimately know.
I don’t think they’re purposely lying when they say they just want a man who loves them, and they don’t care about money and muscles.
But the matter is that all the women I know and I knew just failed at defeating their instincts, and I have realised that makes them not worthy of my efforts.
I agree with the thought that women are never genuine people, I don’t know if that applies to all women, likely not, likely there are some women that are different. But I just don’t care anymore: I discovered I’m more happy, much more happy, living alone and having sex with a woman no more than 7-8 times per month. She think it’s a “relationship” but it’s not, at least not for me. I’m not even really interested in having sex with her: let’s talk straight, masturbating while watching porn is not so different. The worthy things are, at least for me, are the nights when I sleep hugged with her, smelling her skin. But I know it’s just a lie: I would start living with her she would turn in an harpy, entitled to all my stuff, she would try controlling me withholding sex and giving sex as a price for the “right behavior”, and all the bulls~~~ I already experimented.
It’s not her fault, it’s just her nature. Matter is that none is going to taught her that she could be a better human being if she would try to step forward. Our gynocentrical society, in fact, even encourage women being assholes without accountability, without responsability: it just encourages them being selfish.
I COULDN’T CARE LESS: SHE SHOULD BE FOCUSED JUST ONLY ON ME, AND NOT ON HERSELF, IF SHE WISH THAT I’M FOCUSED JUST ONLY ON HER.
And that will never going to happen.
I’ll never give her the keys of my home.

Great post that is a very detailed summary of how Ive been going about my life for over 10 years now(pre-mgtow awakening). Man thats a good post!!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

You (and, we) have no reason to love them. It wasn’t, “lost,” they did it to themselves.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

I don’t know what it is you heard? love is nothing but a four letter word

[John DoeParticipant 743]

mr blood and ink wrote:

its abnormal to love something so abusive and manipulative. when i see women walking around in spray on clothes ,all clarted up in make up, it just makes me realize they are socially accepted prostitutes. everything they do is ultimately to trick men into falling for them so they can take their time stripping you of your money, possessions, dignity, children and ultimately your mental health, all for your desire to f~~~ them. read the bible and you will soon discover, after judgement that heaven will be a men only club.

Rennie wrote:

I did have a theory about that. Since most women are amoral, there will be many more of them in hell.

I remember reading a story about a near death experience about a person going to hell. Now I am fundamentally agnostic in regards to these NDE stories, because they are subjective But with that being said, the person went straight to hell. The person with them in the vision, I don’t know if it was a relative/angel/Jesus/etc., pointed out that more women are in hell than in heaven. More men are in heaven than hell.

Now I thought that was interesting, regardless of whether the NDE experience was true or not.

[edward62Participant 34]

I’ve walked away from relationship with women a long time ago, I’m a single dad,I’ve raised my son on my own for the last eighteen years, no family help, and looking back on reflection, it was best the thing ever for me and my son, we have a very strong bond, if i was in a relationship with a women, I don’t think that would have happened. I don’t hate women, I’m still quite fond of them, but I just wouldn’t have a relationship with them.And there is nothing wrong with that. I do come across a lot of upset men, dealing with the trumour of family courts and break ups, that is totally understandable, its OK to be angry, just don’t let it be in a permanent state.

[Anonymous 3]

After decades of being told we are all misogynists for the simple act of existing as men, I have decided that I am, in fact, a misogynist.

Misogynists are not born, they are made.

That word carries power, because men seek to deny it, and therefore always seek to give women more privilege no matter what their behavior.

All women have taken advantage of this. If feminists are really that minority of women that the majority of women try to claim they are, why is it that all women will screech this stuff out and nary a female voice will be raised in opposition? The answer is that all women are feminists.

What is wrong with hating women? We can hate lots of things. Many people still hate by race. Why not gender?

If someone asks why you aren’t married or in a relationship, just reply that you are a misogynist. You can’t change what you are.

I have not only lost any ability to love a woman, I’ve crossed over into sheer hatred. I absolutely can not stand them. I’m not the one that will post up the stories or the videos, I don’t need that stuff. Even without it, even with all the laws rolled back and if the next generation of women expressed interest, I still can’t change that I hate them.

This hatred of women has completely overpowered my sex drive, which was very strong for me back through my teens and twenties, and still existed for awhile into my 30s. But now I feel disgust at the very idea of having sex with a woman. And not just disgust at all the post wall old hags, I don’t even want to have sex with the young nubile women, that’s how far gone I am.

There is no “saving” me. But I would suggest the oligarchs that run society and women in general, if they really think we still need people to reproduce and such, they better look long and hard at things and figure out why someone like me exists, and they should be worried that more men will eventually see things the same way I do. Because when that does happen, it will be too late to do a thing about it. And no, no amount of trying to shame me is going to work, and I strongly doubt it will continue to work on other men either. Once you reach the point that I’m at, absolutely nothing anyone says or does can change a thing. So come up with some new tactics Rockefellers and ladeez.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Anonymous wrote:

After decades of being told we are all misogynists for the simple act of existing as men, I have decided that I am, in fact, a misogynist.

Misogynists are not born, they are made.

That word carries power, because men seek to deny it, and therefore always seek to give women more privilege no matter what their behavior.

All women have taken advantage of this. If feminists are really that minority of women that the majority of women try to claim they are, why is it that all women will screech this stuff out and nary a female voice will be raised in opposition? The answer is that all women are feminists.

What is wrong with hating women? We can hate lots of things. Many people still hate by race. Why not gender?

If someone asks why you aren’t married or in a relationship, just reply that you are a misogynist. You can’t change what you are.

I have not only lost any ability to love a woman, I’ve crossed over into sheer hatred. I absolutely can not stand them. I’m not the one that will post up the stories or the videos, I don’t need that stuff. Even without it, even with all the laws rolled back and if the next generation of women expressed interest, I still can’t change that I hate them.

This hatred of women has completely overpowered my sex drive, which was very strong for me back through my teens and twenties, and still existed for awhile into my 30s. But now I feel disgust at the very idea of having sex with a woman. And not just disgust at all the post wall old hags, I don’t even want to have sex with the young nubile women, that’s how far gone I am.

There is no “saving” me. But I would suggest the oligarchs that run society and women in general, if they really think we still need people to reproduce and such, they better look long and hard at things and figure out why someone like me exists, and they should be worried that more men will eventually see things the same way I do. Because when that does happen, it will be too late to do a thing about it. And no, no amount of trying to shame me is going to work, and I strongly doubt it will continue to work on other men either. Once you reach the point that I’m at, absolutely nothing anyone says or does can change a thing. So come up with some new tactics Rockefellers and ladeez.

Pheonix your post really resonated with me,I think im headed down that same road man. I am not coming from a bitter place either, never married,never lived with a women,and havent really had any nightmarish experiences with them,with that said I see how they operate, I hate mosquitos and rats and that same hatred I have is flourishing towards women for some reason. I dont want to be near them,im very cold towards them as nice as they try to be to me,I just dont like them!Same black yoga pants,face paint,fake lashes,fake titts,bratty,stupid,no witt,they all sound alike,dress alike,same damn desires,just truly worthless without a vagina. I just wonder if this is something I should embrace or try and deflect? I swear im one epiphany away from going monk!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

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