I have lost any ability to love a woman

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

Great wisdom and advice from everyone. And a great topic. I can certainly relate to this. We as men have been conditioned to think that we are incapable of loving others as well as women, but the opposite is really the truth. I have seen many men love their wives and children without conditions. The same cannot be said for women. Usually when a man gets to the point that you are it’s not because he got burned once but several times. Such is the case with myself so I can completly relate to what you are feeling. Never apologize for how you feel just keep going your own way.

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@doc you ^^ nailed it.

To be clear, quoting you on “women like the benefits of romance” was not implying I thought you encourage or endorse it. I know you better than that. Romance is probably the only word in the English language that “triggers” me. And hearing a woman monologue about it…… well….. there’s the vomit.

I dabbled in it from time to time, but what finally cemented my opinion on it was when I sent a bitch from Seattle flowers once because her father had a sudden heart attack on Thanksgiving weekend. She was a total wreck. He was fine but I looked up the address and sent a VERY nice bunch. First words out of her mouth we’re not “thank you”…… but “I thought that was kind of stalker-ish.”.

That toxic bitch can go straight to hell. On that day, I was permanently done with “romantic” gestures of any kind. Finished. Punto Finito. I couldn’t be more passionate about how dumb it really is.

There have been many women within earshot since then who threw the word around like a frisbee, and I just “OK stop. Don’t even go there, sweetheart. Don’t worry, I know how romance works”.

“Oh you’re just bitter”.

“You mean smarter than you think. You can blow me. That’s the most amount of “romance” you’re ever gonna see from me. My hand print on your ass. You’re welcome.”

There are millions of women who would give their eye teeth to have someone think of them that way.
It won’t be me.

Stargazer wrote:

She said: “The guys I want to date are usually very different from the guys I want to f~~~.”

I would personally thank her for making my point.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

After some reflection on being post Red Pill, i’ve come to realise that i no longer let women get inside my headspace. I interact with them but they’re no longer able to influnce my thinking in the way that they used to when i was Blue Pill.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Someone said “you can either love women or understand them”

Hits it dead center!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 6]

I don’t believe in love anymore, most of us know if we go back to chasing women it will be a never ending search for the holy unicorn. Why bother, Its a bittersweet sort of thing knowing we can never truly be loved by someone else, it liberates you accepting it and seeing things for what they are. But all is not lost, We can just love ourselves 🙂

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Keymaster wrote:

To be clear, quoting you on “women like the benefits of romance” was not implying I thought you encourage or endorse it.

Nah, I didn’t think so… it’s just that you made a good point about being able to love people and I wanted to be clear that I wasn’t trying to say that kind of love doesn’t exist or isn’t important.

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

Love is like smoking, women are like cigarettes and sex is like nicotine.

The only difference is that we men are all born to be smokers thanks to biology and most of us fail to stop even when the facts are there to show us its dark side. That’s why there are so many bluepills out there, who still have this “but not all smokers get cancer” mentality.

So it’s not so much that you lost the ability to smoke/love, rather you gained the ability to extract nicotine/sex from cigarettes/women without getting any of the harmful substances/female s~~~ that come with it. So congratulations brother.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

When I was arrested and put in chains, the convicts showed me more caring and compassion than the woman I married and pampered like a princess for years.

How ironic would it be if prisons became the last bastion of manhood… the only place left in the world where men could truly be free?

Already I have a plan to commit a series of strong arm robberies when I get to the point that I am physically or mentally unable to provide for myself any more. Of course I have no desire to hurt anyone or take someone’s personal treasure… I’ll just hit a couple of banks and if I get away, so be it… but eventually I’ll be caught and they’ll put me in prison where, as a 75 year old man, I probably won’t have to worry about getting assf~~~ed or having to toss someone’s salad and I’ll get free room and board, access to a library, medical care and everything I could want for the remainder of my days… no responsibilities, no bills and pretty much forgotten by society,

By that point I expect men will have fled the productive world in droves and women will be stuck working for themselves and paying the majority of taxes… and they’ll be happy to keep dangerous men like me safely locked away.

Sounds like bliss!

[guiParticipant 825]

We didn’t lost anything. We only discovered the truth society’s been hiding from us for far too long. That you can live an awesome life if you stop loving people that doesn’t deserve it. We don’t need romance but society needs us to believe we need it.

Pity and contempt are siblings. You only feel pity for those you consider weak.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Bub wrote:

“Hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is.”

Someone hear at mgtow.com said this -I didn’t mark down who so apologies to the author.

And the quote sums up my feelings on the matter. At this point in my life I am amazed when I watch the behavior of women, I just smile and think to myself, ” yep, spot on form from her”.

I believe a number of MGTOW have said it, and I keep thinking it has Buddhist origins to it, because it is related to detachment. What I see around MGTOWsphere is hatred still with women and so on, and men not moving on, but upset women aren’t different, and the nature of women isn’t different. So, there is still a fixation there. I believe women and feminists see that and will still linger on. I find, from my experience, if I do go my own way, and ignore women, I don’t get women around me in ways that I would get bothered.

As for the other point, Keymaster had a good point there. I don’t believe it is my job as a guy, to just generically “love women” or some unknown woman I know nothing about. I can’t say if I know if I lost the ability to love a woman or not. What I do know is I don’t care. I have my own stuff to focus on, and if things aren’t there, I am not going to worry about it at all.

Anyhow, just my take. Put it this way, I ended up doing a day of game stuff, and played one game that went well. I decided, for giggles to stop into a strip club on the way home, and some sort of adult book store thing, just to see what was up. I had a stripper in her 40s on me (nice cleavage and so on), and some chat, but she was clearly trying to hit me up for money. My body reacted one way, but any chat was just blah. Another stripper, younger, was nice and so on, to look at, and get attention. Honestly though? If I had to pick the two, I would do the game stuff over and over, over the strip club or anything else like that. It doesn’t hit up my wallet, and I don’t have to risk utter boredom just to be where I am (what put up with, when dealing with trying to date I find). Sorry, it just isn’t worth it to me. And I won’t drive out to that club again, or stop by it again when I am out. It was just on the road on the way home. I also have better things to do, that take out some money with overcharged ATM fees.

There is more to life than the sex drive acting up. I say a MGTOW needs to find that.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Keymaster wrote:

They say “teach men to respect women!!”. Bulls~~~. Teach women to EARN it in the same way they expect men to.

You’re not supposed to “love” her until she has made an effort to be lovable.
It’s not that you don’t have the ability… the woman has lost the ability to be lovable.

Well said sir. This is the conclusion I have come to as well…how am I supposed to respect a woman after she has just got done riding the carousel for 10-15 years? They don’t seem to understand they can’t just go from being a slut to a respectable woman just because they say so.

[Anonymous 29]

Hitman wrote:

love is an illusion, a lie we tell ourselves.

Yes, a theory invented more than a millennia ago, by money lenders to keep a man in perpetual debt.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

What does it matter if you love them? Just so long as you leave them.

[VenomParticipant 310]

You know women are f~~~ed up in a society when men can get presents no matter how expensive and be thankful for it;; while on the other hand when women get presents and call it “stalker-ish”.

Women are such entitled c~~~s. SJWs (feminists, and the like) are just in denial about how slutty they can be. Tradcon women are just more honest about them being sluts/whores.

A good example of this is I have a younger cousin who’s a feminist. She’s a hardcore liberal and a supporter of Hillary Clinton who thinks women are “oppressed”.

While my sister just says “I have friends with benefits.”

F~~~, I can’t stand being around most women for that long. They only cause drama.

[RennieParticipant]

Once I understood and accepted that they were all bad. I could no longer delude myself into believing that they could be on the same level as men. Once that happens it’s pretty hard to feel anything towards them, knowing that they are just an empty shell that looks good on the outside – for a time.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Men love women. Women love shoes.

I don’t hate women. I don’t hate snakes.

I love womens bodies. I love the F4 Phantom in full afterburn.

I can love women …. and I do … my daughter …. but the same would apply for a son.

A lion will show you what he does. Will not hide it. As will any other beast of the wild. You will be given clues and probably fair warning.

Nature warns us with colours, roars, spines and fangs. Hell even a black widow will give her victim a quick death.

Women are the only creatures that will deliberately hide their nature.

You are right to see them …. as they truly are.

They won’t/can’t change now.

They are no longer women or ladies …. they are females. Never forget that.

I just added your post to my cloud drive (best mgtow quotes) Thanks man!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Anonymous 6]

ILiveAgain wrote:

They are no longer women or ladies …. they are females. Never forget that.

Powerful words, should be on billboards everywhere.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Good!
One less way for them to exploit you.

[mr blood and inkParticipant 22]

its abnormal to love something so abusive and manipulative. when i see women walking around in spray on clothes ,all clarted up in make up, it just makes me realize they are socially accepted prostitutes. everything they do is ultimately to trick men into falling for them so they can take their time stripping you of your money, possessions, dignity, children and ultimately your mental health, all for your desire to f~~~ them. read the bible and you will soon discover, after judgement that heaven will be a men only club.

[RennieParticipant]

mr blood and ink wrote:

its abnormal to love something so abusive and manipulative. when i see women walking around in spray on clothes ,all clarted up in make up, it just makes me realize they are socially accepted prostitutes. everything they do is ultimately to trick men into falling for them so they can take their time stripping you of your money, possessions, dignity, children and ultimately your mental health, all for your desire to f~~~ them. read the bible and you will soon discover, after judgement that heaven will be a men only club.

I did have a theory about that. Since most women are amoral, there will be many more of them in hell.

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