Hesitant MGTOW

[ViyzedParticipant 24]

I’ve grown up in a hyper feminised country. I was never really taught what it meant to be a man, other than it was a terrible thing to be (thankfully I had a great dad). I think, in a way, I’ve been neutered. I’ve constantly got my head down, constantly ashamed of something (no idea what) and I’ve got no confidence at all. I don’t like blaming any of this on “society”, I think that’s just a way of me avoiding personal responsibility and hindering me from bettering myself.

I’m young. Early twenties in fact. I haven’t been through the trails of divorce, discrimination in the workplace, or the courts. I’ve never experienced female nature for myself; I’ve never even had a girlfriend: this is the crux of the issue. I’m tempted by MGTOW, but it just seems like the easy way out. I can’t really say I’m making a logical decision because I’ve never experienced female nature, not really. If I choose MGTOW, it will just be me choosing out of spite; an excuse for my own timid nature and weakness. I never had the courage to even ask a girl out. Sure I’ve been shouted around a bit by feminist teachers, but if I choose aside from that, I really haven’t had much contact with the opposite sex (at least not my own age).

If I choose MGTOW, is that not just a sign of poor character: to give up on the opposite sex after almost no experience and so little resistance?

What does MGTOW think?

[AutoliteParticipant]

MGTOW means survival. Read more of the stories on this and other forums if you still need convincing…

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

It’s good that you have the courage to post your story. Welcome to the family the Manson family.

Seriously dude I’m guessing Sweden but it could be really anywhere in the western world you’re still welcome and if you read what you see you’ll understand why a lot of men might give you s~~~ not natural way of growing up but that’s how it goes.

Mgtow is a choice every single day. It only adds up after a lifetime and that’s only if you feel comfortable otherwise you’ll come back here with bruises and some missing teeth many youths are going their own way

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[ViyzedParticipant 24]

Thanks man. Just watched your Divorce Part 1 video.

If I’d go this way for anything, I’d do it to avoid a situation like that, horrible.

[Anonymous 54]

A Man makes his own decisions.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

A man who is convinced against his will is of the same opinion still

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Viyzed wrote:

I’ve constantly got my head down, constantly ashamed of something (no idea what) and I’ve got no confidence at all. I don’t like blaming any of this on “society”, I think that’s just a way of me avoiding personal responsibility and hindering me from bettering myself.

Did 20 years of that.

I think you are too young to give up on sex. I am assuming you have not had any, forgive me if I am wrong. I am in monk mode now, but I will tag an easy piece if the little head is bitching. The point is to protect yourself and remember that it is men first. That means you! MGTOW is to me a journey and a reminder to not do stupid s~~~ when it comes to women. SOVEREIGENTY.

Welcome sir.

[Anonymous 54]

Viyzed wrote:

If I choose MGTOW, is that not just a sign of poor character:

And how would I respond to this?

[ViyzedParticipant 24]

TattooDave wrote:

A man who is convinced against his will is of the same opinion still

True. The only thing that’s really going to make me make my mind up is a slap of reality. I’ve got to get the life experience first.

[ViyzedParticipant 24]

For one who’s never suffered the consequences of a feminised society I mean. I can’t say that if I gave up before even trying, that it would wouldn’t be a blight on my character.

[ViyzedParticipant 24]

Anonymous wrote:

And how would I respond to this?

For one who’s never suffered the consequences of a feminised society I mean. I can’t say that if I gave up before even trying, that it would wouldn’t be a blight on my character.

[Anonymous 42]

The world is FULL of the WORST WOMEN TO EVER HAVE WALKED THE FACE OF THE EARTH. Think about that. THE WORST IN THE HISTORY OF MANKIND!

Why not go fishing until it all blows over in a hundred and fifty years?

It’s like jumping in the fire while the flames are the highest ever seen!

If you need to fry to find out, don’t forget to bring plenty BBQ sauce!!!

[AutoliteParticipant]

Viyzed wrote:

True. The only thing that’s really going to make me make my mind up is a slap of reality. I’ve got to get the life experience first.

That sounds fair enough. How about taking it in small steps then?

Most would not recommend punching a wild grizzly bear in the face but I’m saying you should go give it a try just for the experience. Or how about going swimming naked with poisonous jellyfish? You know, those ones that can kill you with one sting.

Direct personal experience really is the best teacher you know…

[Anonymous 54]

Viyzed wrote:

Old Sage wrote:

And how would I respond to this?

For one who’s never suffered the consequences of a feminised society I mean. I can’t say that if I gave up before even trying, that it would wouldn’t be a blight on my character.

Understood.

We debate very heatedly on here about weather to go monk or not.
I have my own thoughts on it.

But I think everyone here is going to say dont ever get married.

If you want lots of Male influence, you have come to the right place.
You handle yourself well Young Man.

[HitmanParticipant]

if you need to test your metal,
and see what your made of,
by all means do it.
be forewarned,
you are risking your freedom.
.
no man’s metal is harder than prison bars.
avoid that trap.
..
what country are you in ?

[ViyzedParticipant 24]

Hitman wrote:

if you need to test your metal,
and see what your made of,
by all means do it.
be forewarned,
you are risking your freedom.
.
no man’s metal is harder than prison bars.
avoid that trap.
..
what country are you in ?

The UK. Scotland to be exact. It’s worse hear than the rest of Britain put together. Probably because our parliament is entirely run by women.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Women are the most expensive commitments you’ll make in life.

I dated chicks. Lived with a couple. I married one woman and divorced her 2 years later. If i didn’t do any of that i’d be retired. I’m in my late 30s.

Women are expensive as f~~~:

/forums/topic/what-is-the-going-price-you-will-pay-for-a-wife-today/

[AutoliteParticipant]

Hitman wrote:

if you need to test your metal,
and see what your made of,
by all means do it.

Maybe he could save himself a whole lot of time and bother and just opt for the ‘full meal deal’. He could just go and find some miserable c~~~ who hates his guts and buy her a house…

[ViyzedParticipant 24]

Autolite wrote:

He could just go and find some miserable c~~~ who hates his guts and buy her a house…

Well it is male nature to want to provide for women. I feel the desire for it. Always do. That risk that she could just cry foul and sweep the floor from under me whenever she feels “dissatisfied” though, is certainly a blocker. It’s destroyed sex relations in the west, that’s for sure.

[Anonymous 54]

Viyzed wrote:

Autolite wrote:

He could just go and find some miserable c~~~ who hates his guts and buy her a house…

Well it is male nature to want to provide for women. I feel the desire for it. Always do. That risk that she could just cry foul and sweep the floor from under me whenever she feels “dissatisfied” though, is certainly a blocker. It’s destroyed sex relations in the west, that’s for sure.

Its a shame that we live in a World where, if a Man wants to take a more taditional path in life the odds are so stacked against him.
Your young. Take your time.
Observe life for a while.

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