Greetings. Looking for Advice

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Remember always that females are losing this game they play by the hour,they will send stealth surveillance to crack the code on how this growing group of men are thinking and report back. They have done this before our time to master what they have now,so remember before we jump so quick to aide our fellow brother keep in mind we dont know the other side of the keyboard. We only identify them from naive irrational c~~~ post and press eject,we have been slow on t~~~ attacks so we are due for one.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

Remember always that females are losing this game they play by the hour,they will send stealth surveillance to crack the code on how this growing group of men are thinking and report back. They have done this before our time to master what they have now,so remember before we jump so quick to aide our fellow brother keep in mind we don’t know the other side of the keyboard. We only identify them from naive irrational c~~~ post and press eject,we have been slow on t~~~ attacks so we are due for one.

Agree, still a hypothetical/real situation is interesting and the responses will be helpful and may save someone, if not the OP. So it’s a Win anyway.

I could care less about feminazi surveillance drones here.

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[revistaParticipant 232]

Mgtowmonkey i was thinking the same thing but was giving a brother the benefit of the doubt.if you are genuine my advice is run for the hills while you got a chance.you dont owe her anything.no kids involved so make a clean break.so many red flags.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Just by living with her depending on long you been living together you will probably have to pay alimony. If you can tell me your province I can look it up. In Ontario it is 3 years with no breaks living apart. Do not have children women can still screw with child support also. If you still have time meaning if she doesn’t qualify for alimony it’s best to kick her the f~~~ out.
This may be harsh however you could yourself be end up the same way with alimony. Do not have sex with her, period and if you are making sure you’re using condoms and have it hidden somewhere preferably in a lock box or something. Plan on getting a vasectomy, you can get a no scalpel no needle vasectomy which usually the provincial health pays for. Continue to use condoms all time even after getting the procedure.
<p>http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/4-myths-about-common-law-relationships-1.1315129

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

How is a woman posing as a man and asking this question compromising anything?

If a woman decides that the only way forward in the relationship is through having a child… that’s a huge red flag. Deal breaker.

Dump her and move on. She can’t possibly be your “best friend” if she’s pressuring you into that sort of scenario. Her rampant, unabashed, unashamed manipulative ways have risen to the surface. Time to abandon ship.

NOTE if you are a Tuna, this still works with genders swapped and the conclusion is the same.

 

[BeeParticipant 700]

Nearly all relationships run their course. Yours has. You have reached an impasse where you and her want different things. End it. You don’t need to feel guilty. You are setting her free to find what she seeks to make her happy, which is not you.

If you stay it won’t get better. She’ll have a child, quit her job, you’ll be working like a dog supporting both of them, and end up a laborer/ATM machine/corporate drone and that’s even if you stay together.

I’ve read the divorce rate for first marriages is 41%. Not everybody who is miserable ends up divorced. Many stay together for children, convenience, religious or social stigma. Plenty more stay in relationships that aren’t miserable but are just dead inside.  Most relationships run their course. Your odds of finding lasting happiness in marriage are pretty low.

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

This post seems kinda shady to me,not to knock the poster but it seems like tuna bait to wake the sleeping mgtow cats! The post has too many obvious juvenile strikes mixed with some other stuff to get the protons striking! I’ll sit on the porch with the shotgun just in case you guys need reinforcements….

 

Well ya got me, you saw through my elaborate scheme: *pulls off mask, horrible feminist troll underneath*

All true I’m afraid.  I’ve been mulling over our relationship for a while and delaying marriage for reasons I wasnt fully able to articulate but they’re becoming clear now.  Debating if I wanted kids at all, but she’s already made up her mind.  Found the site after googling “should men get married” and reading the hilarious 9 articles by married guys.

Wanted to post here because when I  posted for marital advice on any forum with women, they circle the wagons and rational argument goes out the window.  Snarky comments and sweeping generalisations ensue.  Then white knights upvote all their bulls~~~ comments.  I can PM you the other thread if you really want to read their stupidity, but I suppose I could just be trolling that site as well (even though the profile is 10 years old with 10K posts…)

 

 

 

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@CanadianSportsFan

Almost to a flaw, MGTOW will first take your take your testimony at face value. And we really LIKE that about ourselves giving the benefit of the doubt. Most members will respond based on what you wrote directly. Self included. .. but there will be an element of “is this genuine?”. It’s to be expected.

Occasionally we get the posers and those that didn’t really want an answer – they just wanted to stir some s~~~ – so where it comes from is sometimes questionable. As long as you understand no harm is meant, it’s just a group combined effort to keep the place “for men only”. You don’t deserve to be questioned the moment you walk in the door and there was nothing in your post that suggested you were a trolling t~~~.

Make yourself at home please. And welcome to the forums.

We’re in the male best interest more than anything, and I couldn’t be more sincere.
If we can save a guy from making A VERY tragic mistake, it’s really, really worth it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Unless Tuna has a beard and a usersign I doubt it…

Sorry for the s~~~ pic, need to shower and get to work.

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Exsliventxs wrote:

How is a woman posing as a man and asking this question compromising anything? If a woman decides that the only way forward in the relationship is through having a child… that’s a huge red flag. Deal breaker. Dump her and move on. She can’t possibly be your “best friend” if she’s pressuring you into that sort of scenario. Her rampant, unabashed, unashamed manipulative ways have risen to the surface. Time to abandon ship. NOTE if you are a Tuna, this still works with genders swapped and the conclusion is the same.

 

Usersign posted above.

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Keymaster wrote:

@CanadianSportsFan Almost to a flaw, MGTOW will first take your take your testimony at face value. And we really LIKE that about ourselves giving the benefit of the doubt. Most members will respond based on what you wrote directly. Self included. .. but there will be an element of “is this genuine?”. It’s to be expected. Occasionally we get the posers and those that didn’t really want an answer – they just wanted to stir some s~~~ – so where it comes from is sometimes questionable. As long as you understand no harm is meant, it’s just a group combined effort to keep the place “for men only”. You don’t deserve to be questioned the moment you walk in the door and there was nothing in your post that suggested you were a trolling t~~~. Make yourself at home please. And welcome to the forums. We’re in the male best interest more than anything, and I couldn’t be more sincere. If we can save a guy from making A VERY tragic mistake, it’s really, really worth it.

Usersign should put people at ease somewhat…though I guess I could still be a mangina troll working for the fembots.

[Anonymous 42]

I say, “cut loose”, loose the tuna!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Wasn’t necessary. But appreciate the gesture. More important is that you get something out of what the guys left you and we hope the advice you were looking for was helpful!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Beard ! F~~~ yeh, OP ! Enjoy your stay, check the info around the website and welcome. Good luck at work !

Also dat look:

Anonymous wrote:

I say, “cut loose”, loose the tuna!

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[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

herbicidal wrote:

I just got out of the same sort of situation (no mis-carriage) but she wanted kids soonish, she wanted to get married, wanted the ring. She was constantly emotional almost bi-polar happy one minute and depressed the next. Gaining weight, naggy, irritating. I’m doing all of the work around the house, doing all the shopping, paying all the bills and she just surf’s facebook. Lots of other things I could discuss. Bottom line she had lists of demands and needs and things that I should do for her… I didn’t even have a list. I just wanted some peace and sanity. I got out and could not be happier. Took a couple of months to work through all of the emotional stress but it was worth it. I guess the question really is… do you want kids… if not run. Do you think she will pull her own weight if you have kids? There might be something in this book for you starting around page 145 on relationships/marriage, I’m currently reading it. https://docs.google.com/file/d/0B25bqEJSyCeZVU81ZXJPYzJUS0E/edit

 

My Girlfriend’s poison is Netflix.  She’ll binge that s~~~ for hours.  Meanwhile I play video games, I’m not paying attention to her, go figure!  She will cook but I BBQ so that’s a wash.  Housework only gets done when people are coming over because she doesn’t want people to see how messy the house is.  Vacuming is my full time job at home with 3 pets apparently.

I think she will not carry her own weight if we have kids if I’m to be 100% honest.  I’m sure I would end up sacrificing way more than her.  She doesn’t have the ambition to better her job and put money away NOW before kids are here, how much is she going to have with kids and we’re both tired as f~~~?  This is probably the #1 reason we’re not married yet, lack of ambition on her part is giving me pause.

Problem is I don’t think she’s a bad person, I think she’s a person with less professional motivation/ambition than what I have who is placing a lot of self-worth value on her ability to have kids.

Everyone saying dump her now, it’s not as easy as all that to extract your feelings from a 3 year relationship and say “get the f~~~ outta here.”  I’ll be demonized by her family, and mine will wonder WTF you let her go for.  (I was a single bachelor for a long ass time).

 

[Anonymous 42]

Loose the tuna!

or tie the knot!

[EntropyParticipant 902]

I hear the things you are saying man, I understand.

Mark Twain once said “It’s easier to fool people than to convince them they have been fooled”.

I was fooled by all of societies (women’s) lies, and it took going through hell for me to realize it.

The guilt that you are afraid of feeling exists only to trap you… but you won’t die from feeling it, and will feel unfathomable free once you face it.

Herein lies the fact that we can only show you the door, you have to walk through it.

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[YAZParticipant 140]

One thing that stands out to me is that our Canuck brother keeps stating:  “She’s generally a nice person.”  And, “She’s not a bad person.”

 

She’s using you for the financial & emotional security that you bring to the table.  It also sounds to me that she doesn’t want to live alone; that she’s not happy with her own self.  A child will just reinforce that attitude, and you will be responsible for that child the rest of your life.  Not to mention that you will be forever intertwined with your girlfriend…..whether you want to or not.

The judge will make sure of that.

Look, your girlfriend needs to live alone….BY HERSELF…..so she can learn to be happy by HERSELF.

 

Whore Magnet

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Entropy wrote:

I hear the things you are saying man, I understand. Mark Twain once said “It’s easier to fool people than to convince them they have been fooled”. I was fooled by all of societies (women’s) lies, and it took going through hell for me to realize it. The guilt that you are afraid of feeling exists only to trap you… but you won’t die from feeling it, and will feel unfathomable free once you face it. Herein lies the fact that we can only show you the door, you have to walk through it.

Thing is I like the relationship.  I like going out to eat with a partner and talking about stuff.  I like going on vacations and having vacation sex.  I like coming home to a house I own with pets and my girlfriend when she’s not doing something that p~~~es me off.  Her getting pregnant was the worst thing that happened to our relationship.  Up until then it was actually really good.  F~~~ we’d drink wine all the time, have sex, sleep in, go out and do whatever.  It was nice.

Now options are leave, or stay, at least accorting to the forums!  So I’d ask, there is no hope of productive long term relationships with any women?  I leave, I’m back to being a 30 something bachelor, with no sex, and a bunch of married friends with kids, and I have to somehow hit the dating scene again.  I did get sex while I was single, but it was sporadic and the women were…well not really great.

I guess I could end up a broke 50 something divorcee anyway.  F~~~ is there no relationship happiness anywhere?  Seems pretty bleak is all.

 

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Canadian SportsFan wrote:

Entropy wrote:

I hear the things you are saying man, I understand. Mark Twain once said “It’s easier to fool people than to convince them they have been fooled”. I was fooled by all of societies (women’s) lies, and it took going through hell for me to realize it. The guilt that you are afraid of feeling exists only to trap you… but you won’t die from feeling it, and will feel unfathomable free once you face it. Herein lies the fact that we can only show you the door, you have to walk through it.

Thing is I like the relationship. I like going out to eat with a partner and talking about stuff. I like going on vacations and having vacation sex. I like coming home to a house I own with pets and my girlfriend when she’s not doing something that p~~~es me off. Her getting pregnant was the worst thing that happened to our relationship. Up until then it was actually really good. F~~~ we’d drink wine all the time, have sex, sleep in, go out and do whatever. It was nice. Now options are leave, or stay, at least accorting to the forums! So I’d ask, there is no hope of productive long term relationships with any women? I leave, I’m back to being a 30 something bachelor, with no sex, and a bunch of married friends with kids, and I have to somehow hit the dating scene again. I did get sex while I was single, but it was sporadic and the women were…well not really great. I guess I could end up a broke 50 something divorcee anyway. F~~~ is there no relationship happiness anywhere? Seems pretty bleak is all.

There is always that .000000000000000001% of marriages that are excellent.  The same chances you have of winning the lottery. The lottery costs a few dollars. The marriage ticket costs much more and then some. Will you buy the ticket?

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

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