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Sadly or happily depending on how you’re looking at it this eliminates about 99% of all the women. I had totally had it with online dating all the profiles are fake. Not only the screens you use but just an overall sense they’re portrayed themselves is always a picture with an obfuscation. This is as the feminist would say problematic because you can never really get a clear picture of what a person looks like. And it never is better than advertised so like I said that’s about 99% right there. Especially the Instagram filters s~~~ oh my God that drives me nuts it really makes it not worth going on there. Anyway just my two cents MBR
Always expect the unexpected and gird your loins appropriately. It's a no-fault jungle out there.
My best experience with online dating was with Craigslist before Tinder came out. Met one girl I wrote 2 lines back to her casual encounters ad along the lines of “I guess I could use a good work out. Pic attached ready to get plowed?” She replied with “Yes sir! Mine attached, here’s address, come right on by.” Walked in, made out with her before she could say anything and banged her against the front door. Kept that one on the rotation for awhile, never knew her name, number or any personal information, relationship was just e-mails and pure sex. Never paid a cent, she had any needed supplies and would buy any toys I wanted to use on her. I went on a long vacation and I guess she found someone else when I was slow to reply. Second one clearly didn’t know how to use technology by the pic she posted but my god could she ride, slender young and tight traditional country girl who was tired of the hick losers in her home town and wanted to try an older guy. Last girl I would have actually considered a long term relationship with.
Those were more exceptions than rules but it was always less BS on Craigslist, I just ignored everything they said and never used the word sex and got laid almost every time, turned down a lot of liars though and ran into a number of misfires. EHarmony was a complete joke, tried a free month and never actually met anyone after all the bulls~~~ between chatting directly. OKCupid is still pretty reliable for an easy hookup but lots of work messaging back and forth. Tinder is Tinder, I don’t use it because it’s like a gathering place for the entitlement crowd and I’d rather not deal with them.
End of the day people are people and do the same dumb s~~~ whether you meet them online or in person, in person there’s just a shortcut of getting quick feedback and it’s a lot faster to get to a date. Online is where you can warm them up and get fast sex on the cheap as long as they aren’t the “Are you an axe murderer?” or many others that have been described on this thread type, who need to be blocked immediately biggest time wasters ever.
My field experience with online dating has been almost a decade so I think I’ll chime in…
I have one word to describe what has been the most accurate and successful identifying variable and that is (Eagerness.)
Men always disagree with me on it, but if she isn’t the slightest bit excited to meet you, communicate with you, likely to take initiative, RUN don’t walk.
I’ve had dozens of solid pulls from online dating, and all of them had it in common that they either began eager out of the gate, or slowly became eager at least by the point of texting. Level of eagerness is not that important, just that it is present. Extremely eager is not always better than moderately eager.
The naysayers will say eagerness is a redflag. If they’d like, I’d be glad to compare with them how many non-eager women I’ve met or only had a one date opportunity with, to the plethora of eager women that allowed me to make advances with relative ease.
They call it a sexual marketplace for a reason. Attraction is capital in this business. Don’t listen to the feel-good rhetoric of want vs need. When you need a car, you are more likely to get a car than when you want it. Wants change. You may want pizza today, but sushi tomorrow. Don’t let folks fool you into thinking women are any different. Feminism glorifies women that are coy in their desire for a man because it empowers their privileges when he is unsure of her.
The only exception is women on the rebound, or those that are so desperate they’ll take the first thing that comes to them. You have to use some common sense and first evaluate if the woman is in general a desirable person with options outside of you. If she shows eagerness, she is attracted to you and you should put her at the top of your list.
Nothing is 100% foolproof however.
I too tried the online dating warzone a while ago and quickly discerned that it was like applying for a high end job, extremely filtering criteria and a ludicrously high rejection rate. Why? Because many of them weren’t even looking for someone, only for a little stroking of their ego perhaps? I learnt quite quickly not to bother, why waste time and money on someone or something that come the end of the day you may not even want?
Thus I moved on and discovered doing anything else, it turned out to be more rewarding as I learnt a new language and made a host of new friends doing so!
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I agree [[[and agree again for snake’s echo recorder.]]]Dating theez laydeez is like choosing to buy at a pawn shop:
So much used crap.
But at least at a high asking price and a high final price.
Except what you bring is estimated as being worth s~~~."It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."
Posted this last fall:
I usually troll POF about once a year to keep abreast (ha ha) of the online dating situation as it relates to the influx of “I can’t get married/find an LTR/where are all the good men” articles on the Interwebz, as well as for data to store in the MGTOW archives for reference. Once again it correlates with the collective experience of men and many of Popp’s videos. However, despite the constant whining of “I can’t find anyone”, entitlement, attitude and inflation of their looks has become worse. Mind you, I’m going to use MGTOW knowledge/techniques to expose the hypocrites for what they are. I used my age, 43, up to 49.
Contact on the site:
1. T~~~ (4/10): It’s nice to see a picture of just a man and not his motorcycle or house.
2. CAP: That’s refreshing; you don’t care about material things.
Never heard from her again.1. CAP: (Sees picture of T~~~ (7/10) in Hawks gear with mock Stanley Cup over her head at her office). So, you a real fan or been on the bandwagon since 2010?
No response.1. T~~~ (3/10): (overweight mother of 2) *trying her hardest to get me to respond*
2. CAP: *one word responses*
3. T~~~: See 1.
4: CAP: See 2
5: T~~~: You’re a man of few words; I’ll stop bothering you now.1. CAP: (Sees T~~~ (7/10) 45 years old acting like she’s 25 in her pictures with aviator sunglasses selfie.) You fly F-18’s?
2. T~~~: No, lol! But I can still rock a pair of aviators!
3. CAP: Your opinion of how cool you are is quite over inflated.
4. T~~~: *paragraph long cliché shaming/insults.*1. T~~~: (2/10, grandma haircut, frumpy clothes) Help me get off this site lol!
2. CAP: Not interested.
3. T~~~: Why! What’s wrong with me?
4. CAP: Not physically attracted.
5: T~~~: Take a good look at your pictures! You’re not as hot as you think you are!
Blocked so I can’t reply. As we all know, not being attracted to a certain person means you have an inflated sense of your looks.1. CAP: (Sees T~~~ 6/10. Slender, tan but Mr. Eds Face. With opening “Want’s a man who respects women”.) Respect has to be earned.
2. T~~~: I meant respectful, as in manners. Thank you for your military service.
3. CAP: There is a difference between respect and manners. Open a dictionary.This led to multiple exchanges of her bragging about her Literature degree despite her obvious lack of vocabulary skills. I wasn’t raised to right, you get the idea.
4: T~~~: You weren’t raised to respect women.
5. CAP: I see you’re entitled as well.
6. T~~~: Entitled?
7. CAP: Yes, you think you’re entitled to respect immediately because you were born with t~~~. (Seems she forgot what she wrote in her own profile.) I have more respect for the dogs I served with in Iraq than I do you.
8. T~~~: *Paragraph long cliché shaming/insults*
9. T~~~: No wonder you’re single!
10. CAP: You’re single. #double standard1. CAP: (Sees T~~~ 8/10, 44 years old) You’re cute, but you couldn’t crop your ex out of the picture entirely?
No response. However, the next time her profile showed up, the main picture was empty.Some of you might remember public restroom selfie/picnic girl from another thread. Miss, a first date should be a man dressed in khakis and a nice shirt taking me on a picnic to the beach with nice music (whatever the f~~~ that is) playing while we watch the sunset. She talked about how classy she was and Keymaster caught that she had taken a selfie in a public bathroom. Doesn’t get much classier than that.
1.CAP: Isn’t that a bit much for a first date?
2.T~~~: I’m from near the gulf of Mexico and this is nice.
I don’t actually remember the rest of the exchange. I do remember her paragraph long cliché shaming/insults. She was completely oblivious that a selfie taken in a public restroom was the complete opposite of class.Also, still many of the same girls that have been on there since 2009. Only their requirements have dropped….some, and their weight has increased.
Text conversations:
Remember, I keep feeding rope until they eventually hang themselves.
T~~~ (7/10): Decent exchange going. Get her to tout the “I don’t need a man for his money” yet shortly later I get the “I need a man who is financially stable’. Informed T~~~ she was no different than the rest and looking for a wallet. She still wanted to talk and something came up about her friends. To which I replied “If you were happy with me, I’m sure your harpy friends would find some reason for you not to be”. Herd mentality kicked in and she broke contact.
T~~~ (3/10 I was totally playing this fish (pun intended) overweight mother of 2 with meme about “once you have thick, you’ll never go back” or something like that. Same as above, touts strong and independent but needs a man who is ‘financially stable’. Only she didn’t have the looks to demand anything. Says my hair is too long as she likes the bald look on men and how she’s dated bikers that look like ZZ Top. Funny how those guys like fat hogs on their hogs. This degraded into me dropping MGTOW nukes and her hamstering (cliche insults/shaming) to the point of blocking so she got the last word. Remember, this is a single, overweight mom with mostly high angle cleavage shots.
T~~~ (7/10) apparently owned her own cleaning business. I mentioned the hours that I worked. She makes a comment about how I need to be the boss like her. I replied that she seems to be looking for someone who is ‘financially stable’ and told her no thanks. She left a bewildered goodbye.
T~~~ (7/10) kind of hit or miss. One picture looked meh, but one would look stunning. All face shots mind you. We texted a good long while, at least a couple hours. I was actually wondering if this would pan out. How can woman go that long without putting her foot in her mouth? I didn’t have to wait much longer. Eventually, the talk turned to things of a sexual nature. So of course, she’s bragging about how great she is and that she has fairy dust coming out of her pussy (yes, she actually said that) and that her friends say it must be true because of all the men hanging around.
CAP: Pretty strong words.
T~~~: I know you would be happy.
CAP: So would you.
T~~~: Pfffffft
CAP: My ex-girlfriends nickname for me was cunnalingus.
T~~~: I’ll believe it when it happens.I should take her word but she won’t take mine? Hello double standard. Still, the conversation continued about sex and what have you for a good, long while. She’s saying what a great time she’s having, she’s sexually excited and how she can’t wait to meet me. Her shields are probably at 50% so it’s almost time to fire the photon torpedo. We got on the subject of kissing and it followed exactly as above exchange. It led to this:
T~~~: We should just do a walk-by, text yes or no and just make out if it’s both ‘yes’. (More on this later.) You wear yummy cologne?
CAP: No
T~~~: Moment ruined.
CAP: Cologne is a deal breaker? What’s next, my shoes?
T~~~: Maybe lol! Those are easy fixes.
CAP: This was a colossal waste of time. Go ‘fix’ someone else. I’m out.
T~~~: What?! Are you really out? (Sad emoticon)
T~~~: You’re killing me Smalls.I explained how this was doomed as she would hate my lack of cologne, hi-tops and Batman shirt. I also explained how this is what dating male/female relations has come to (remember what I said earlier about the walk-by?) and that it’s not of my making. As I go on, I’m getting belligerent and mean. She’s actually hanging on and still wants to meet. I’m guessing she’s knows she’s being rejected, is confused and doesn’t know what to do.
T~~~: We can still meet.
CAP: Why the hell would you still want to that after what I’ve said? Sick curiosity?The only reason I can think is for a free meal and drinks and to publicly reject me.
T~~~: Wow. Ok. So I’ll leave it at this. If you don’t text back I’ll guess the answer is NO.
CAP: It is no. Have a pleasant evening.
T~~~: Wow. Ok.
Some time goes by.
T~~~: No response?
Some more time goes by.
T~~~: No response?
Yet more time goes by.
T~~~: You sound like a bitter woman.Dates:
T~~~: 50 years old 6/10 (in her pictures), but we all know how that turns out in person, don’t we? We meet for coffee….and has anyone ever heard the term ‘rode hard and put away wet’? Well, Cap was looking at it. In person she immediately became a 3/10 and this is done up to meet a guy. The makeup was caked on. Caked. I could see how haggard she was through it, it was f~~~ing astounding. Decent rack but no ass. She’s sitting there going “I don’t look 50.” I sat there dumbfounded with no response. In my head I’m going: “Yeah, you look 63.” I don’t know what happened. I couldn’t speak or move. Mild shock or something. Imagine her when she gets complacent and waking up to that on a lazy Sunday with no makeup and a frumpy night gown. Yecchh.
T~~~: 48 6/10 according to pictures. Name is zumbagirlsometingorother. Mostly face shots and one in yoga pants. During the course of texting, she sent me two pictures in her underwear. I think she has a funhouse mirror in her room. Even in the low light and poor resolution of the picture I could see the lower half of her body was a f~~~ing train wreck, her thighs in particular were foul. All the Zumba, spin classes and tanning wasn’t going to hide this. Rack looked ok in the bra but Crom knows what would happen once it came off. Time to take one for the team. She wanted to meet as soon as possible for some reason. She mentioned I should drive the 20 minutes to her work and meet her on her lunch break. Uh. No. She wound up driving out to a bar by me. She didn’t look bad (done up for a date) and had on those mom jeans. The wide bottom, cuff at the mid-calf and slightly snug as tight would give the mess away. I could tell right away that she wasn’t interested. She had stated when we first started she was very attracted physically. However, I’m assuming my Batman shirt and hi-tops turned her off right away. The rate I was consuming Guinness might have factored in as she asked how many I had. Star Wars came up as an interest and I don’t think she was impressed. She mentioned a friend who was on the site for years and I said she’s looking for a unicorn and will never find it. When I came back from the bathroom I did a stealth approach and noticed she was texting somebody “what are u doing tonite?” Wonder who that was?…..That’s when it was time to go. Cost for date? Her $3 beer.
I get the text the next day “Thank you but there was no connection. I don’t want to waste your time.” That was totally cool, honest and polite. However, in my experience they use that because if they use specific reasons, they’ll get it right back and they don’t like that. I was 5 years younger than she was. She complained the entire date that men her age were out of shape, had pictures with their grandchildren, etc. Who the Hell does she think she’s actually capable of getting with a train wreck of a body and two kids?
Make no mistake, for as much as they crow about how they can’t find a man, their entitlements are still off the chart and their attitudes are still terrible. I bolded the paragraph long responses because they only respond at length if you call them on their s~~~. Otherwise it’s short phrases and text-talk. I don’t think things are changing anytime soon. Just more of their empty rhetoric.
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Change the applicable things and post this for s~~~s and giggles.
Let’s play a game I call ‘Reverse the Genders’. I’m going to write a profile similar to those of women in my dating range (late 30’s to late 40’s). Since you all have this Santa Clause long checklist where every box needs to get ticked, let me treat you in a similar fashion. I can’t speak for all men, but many, more than you know, agree with me. Don’t worry, plenty of thirsty of simps out there. Wondering what you’re doing wrong? Wondering why you can’t find the ‘perfect’ guy after being on multiple dating sites for 5 stinking years? Don’t act like you haven’t been. Imagine if every male profile you read was like this:
Hello. My money is my own and you will get none of it. Not for some time at least as trust and respect have to be earned. I have a kid and you will never be more important than her. Not. Ever. I prefer petite, women who aren’t land whales with at least shoulder length hair, and so if you’re amazon like tall, have a short ditzy-bob haircut or can’t control your eating, you need not apply. My exercise and hockey league take up much of my time but I’ll squeeze you in if I can. They also take up money…and that’s not going to stop even if we dated on a regular basis. You need to have job. You’re all equal now. If you’re not liar and are truly interested in real companionship, why does what I do for living, what car I drive or where I live matter? Pick equality or chivalry, you can’t have both. At our age, let’s face it; marriage is out of the question as most of us have been dragged through the divorce ringer. Why is just having a long term relationship a problem? Marriage is bulls~~~. Disagree? Probably means you’d like the law involved to get your hands on my cash. Move on.
You will never be my best friend as those are the guys I’ve known since the age of 17, military buddies I’ve bled with, kindergarten and birth. They like me for who I am. You never will. Sex is a very important part of a relationship. Yes, it takes more than sexual attraction and looks but let’s not kid ourselves. You know within the first 45-60 seconds of meeting us if you want to get horizontal (more on this in the date section). So none of this ‘friends first’ bulls~~~ as that means I’ll be shelling out lots of cash for God knows how long. We’re all adults here. No sex by the third date? Move on. Nor did I just fall off the turnip truck. You think I don’t you’re texting the guy you’re probably going to f~~~ later while we’re sitting at dinner? I’m on to you and tired of competing with your 24/7/365 connection to the hive mind. For the love of God, stay of your phone for 10 minutes, it that’s even possible.
You like to talk about how relationships take work while you won’t do it yourselves. I know your inboxes are over flowing so why work you can sit back and get your ego stroked? Same goes for first dates and as the relationship goes on. I work for the ‘pleasure’ of your company while you do nothing. I won’t put on a clown suit? The next sucker will, on to him. You want to work for a relationship about as much I like the Lifetime channel. It’s all empty rhetoric.
In no particular order, don’t message me if:
1.You have high angle pictures or other deceptive ways of hiding your body. We’ll have to meet in real life eventually so why lie? You want an honest man? Be honest yourself.
2.You think overweight means ‘average’ body type.
3.Have pictures of you with men in them. Who are they? Old boyfriends? FWB’s?
4.Pictures of you with your girlfriends. Which one are you? I’ll wager not the attractive one.
5.Pictures of you with duck lips. Are you 15?
6.Text talk. See 5.
7.Pictures of pets, flowers, motivational quotes, etc. Who the f~~~ cares?
8.Talk exercise and your body doesn’t reflect it. See 1.
9.Pictures of you in Chicago. I’ll just assume you’re pretentious.
10.Pictures of you with wine, going on about wine, good wine, etc. Giant red flag of pretentiousness.
11.What I should be doing or how much I should be drinking on the first date. Anything else mom?
12.You plan on giving me a job interview on the first date. Instant walk out.
13.On your phone? Instant walk out.
14.You have a motorcycle. Cool, but no thank you.
15.You have stupid statements in your profile. “I like to have fun!” No s~~~?
16.You are a ‘career’ woman. Pass.
17.You can’t cook.
18.We live in the same town and you want to drive all the way to the city to go to bars. F~~~ing really?
19.You get your life lessons/ideas from Sex in the City.
20.I like super heroes and science fiction. Deal with it.
21.Hockey season is coming. Hope you like watching the Blackhawks.
22.If you started liking the Hawks in 2010, Do. Not. Contact. Me.
23.If you can’t explain icing or off sides don’t even talk to me about hockey.
24.I’m a straight male. I don’t dance.
25.I own guns. I carry one. Get used to it.
26.If you’re “Waiting for Superman, Mr. Right, Prince Charming or the Perfect Guy”. Don’t hold your breath. Remember what I said about being on here for 5 years?
27.“If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.” I just threw up in my mouth.
28.“Tired of games, liars, players”. Heard it before. Prove it.
29.You’re ‘just looking’. This is a dating site professor.
30.I mostly watch animated shows. Deal with it.
31.I will not go to 50 Shades of Grey. Have fun.
32.If you like the beach. I hate sand.
33.You can’t pull off a bikini. A real one.
34.You have cats.
35.You have anything in your profile stating how crazy you are or how you’ll stab somebody because of your ethnicity. No thank you. Don’t want to be killed in my sleep.
36.You live in Chicago. Too far. Don’t like crowds, waiting or $8 beers.
37.If you think I’m meeting your friends anytime soon.
38.You’re looking for ‘casual dating/no commitment’. Translation – free s~~~ and no sex.
39.You list travel as an interest. It means I’ll be paying for trips. Plus, who the hell would want to go to an airport if they didn’t have to?
40.You think I care what your sign is.
41.You think you’re a queen or princess.
42.You’re pushing 40 and looking for someone to marry. For what exactly?
43.Your tongue is out. Put it back in your damn mouth.
44.“I’m done with the bar scene.” No, it’s done with you.
45.You do anything in mud. Are you a pig? Just another stupid fad you latched on to.
46.You have pictures of girls’ night out with stupid sideways peace signs. You’re always telling us to grow up, why don’t you do the same?
47.Contact me if we dated/talked before. I have a mind like a steel track and I will burn you.
48.Go on about your ‘career’. This does not turn me on, nor do I care.
49.Get surprised when I tell you to go f~~~ yourself if you flake on the first date. No, I won’t’ reschedule.
50.All your friends are guys.
51.You use the following words when describing a man: Career oriented. Secure in his career. Stable. Has a good job and so on. Translation-“I want $$$$$$$$$$$”
52.You have a motor mouth. That is why men play video games. Our consoles have an ‘OFF’ button.
53.You think communication means running your mouth 240 MPH while saying nothing. See 52.
54.I don’t want to hear about your ex. By all means, go back to the guy who spent his paycheck on cocaine or physically abused you as you can’t stop talking about him.
55.You’ve gone through a ‘cougar’ stage. Not paying for sloppy seconds, thirds or fourths you gave away for free to guys young enough to be your sons.
56.You think I’m going to communicate here for days.Date:
A bar I will pick where we will watch professional hockey and you can pay for your own overpriced drink. Or, for once, you come up with something. Do I look like a jester that’s supposed to entertain you? You’ve gone on and on about how educated and intelligent you are but can’t figure out a date idea? It won’t be dinner. Whatever it is, you’ll be paying for your own s~~~. We’re adults, so if you think we won’t be horizontal after the third date, just move on because you want free dinners or lack the will to act which is probably worse. $40 is my limit. $0 is optimal.
Whoops. I just disqualified every woman in America. How does it feel? There are reasons you’ve been on dating sites for half a decade. Keep searching for that unicorn.
Friendly advice: Peruse the interwebz for multiple articles and videos of women lamenting about “Where have all the good men gone” and the like. You may control sex, but we control LTR’s and marriage. A little self-reflection wouldn’t hurt either.
Hahahahahahaha funny as f~~~.
I tried online dating years ago, what a wretched experience. I’d rather scoop my eyeb~~~~ out with a rusty spoon than ever do that again.
I used to do online dating before I got stuck in an abusive relationship but I’ve actually had a good ratio of message replies to meeting & sex … just not many replies 😛
Infact, out of all the women I met there was only one girl I never took to bed. I think that one was my fault, I was having a bad day when I met her so I was not very direct and kinda… s~~~ and boring 😛 hahahaWhen I finally cave in to my urges and sign up again I’ll be much more direct, like Mr. Draconic1 there 🙂 That’s a good strategy to weed them out fast.
I’ll let you know how it goes, updates to come.
Thanks for the tips everyone 🙂
I don’t use tinder but I do you use okcupid.
This is what I use as a guide:
– I never read their profile. (I’ve learned that they judge you on how long you look at their profile before you send a reply)
– If their messages are short, I move on
– My replies are very short and I never ask them questions. If I do ask them a questions, it’s more in the form of “My question..?” then “My statement”(I’ve learned that if you ask questions they label you looking for a relationship, provider, and all that other weak s~~~)
– I try to insult them as much as possible 9 messages the most. (For some f~~~ing reason they like when I insult them), then I get their number, then the lay sometimes. But sometimes when I do meet them out, it don’t lead to sex because the bitch was looking for a meal ticket. I always meet them at some cheap bar in NY.Recently:
I said to a girl why does every girl in the world have those stupid flower filters in their photos? I’m guessing all of you must be in a cult or like looking the same. Their has to be girls out their that are not followers or atleast orginial. (She had the flower filter in her profile photo)
She said: It’s because it makes us look pretty. Don’t I look pretty.
I said: No. I think it’s pathetic, you and every other woman has a serious AWD problem.
She said: What’s AWD.
I said: Attention Whore Disorder, get yourself checked out asap.
After that she pretty much got offended and sent a long message explaining how she’s different and I’m rude. She then disabled her account. But hey I did’nt give a f~~~, one less f~~~ing c~~~.
Here is how I do it:
I only go for the very hot ones (If they are ugly and also dangerous why even bother?).After I meet a hot one I check if she has a brain by talking about different subjects.
If she looses interest in the conversation (or shows TOO much interest), I know to move on.
If she cant keep her attention span for a while, I move on.
If she is affected by what others say about her, I move on.
If she is religious, politically focused (on a certain political group), I move on.
Is she is a feminist, (Insert “dude, run” meme here).
If she is not interested in economics, I move on.
If she fakes to be interested in my interests, I move on.
If she uses heavy make up, I move on.
If she has no ambition (of her own), I move on. (too much ambition is also a bad thing, but thats easy to spot).
If she has more than 1 pet, I move on.
If she is not interested in having her own home, I move on.
If she asks you how much you make or where you work early on, I almost instantly move on.
If she has a double standard, I move on.
If she says anything like “I dont cook, I dont clean, etc”, I move on.
If she tells you that you should loose some weight, I move on.
If she tells you you need to eat healthier food, I move on.A few good points to look for:
She does not care if you meet her family.
She does not care what you do in your free time.
She calls you on your bulls~~~.
She brings you a beer after work without you telling her anything.
She wakes you up early in the morning and goes for a run with you.
She brings food home and asks you if youd rather cook or clean after.
She figures out a way to make healthy food taste good for you.
etc.In simple terms:
She looks to solve a problem when it presents itself instead of looking for the guilty one for the problem.Dont forget that a Man sees a woman as the desired object of the relationship.
A woman sees the qualities of a Man as the desired object of the relationship.That is why they want to sleep with the “bad guy” (that would be the alpha) but want to marry the “good guy” (the beta).
So, you guys want to find hot young girls who only want to sleep with you, or finally find that one true love in marriage with the ones that know are getting too old?
Simply put: It is good to be bad.
I decided to try online dating for the first time a few months ago and i am on the verge of giving it up. On one hand you have fake sites that will take your money and is full of fake profiles of women. The well known ‘geniune’ sites like POF and Tinder have been a headache too. On Tinder i have wasted immense time and drained my phone battery many times swiping like crazy. With hardly any results to show for it. And i am considered by many to be a good looking guy and i have some cool photos of myself. But still hardly any matches.
On POF however i have managed to get messages from quite a few women. But nearly all of them end up flaking. Making me wonder if my game is not tight enough or they are just deliberately wasting my time by getting my attention.A while back I even joined a dating site specifically for Christians. All I can say is that if anything that was even worse. The expectations were even higher. Messages sent and never responded to eventhough they had been read. That was it for me.
Hi gents.
My experience on the online dating scene has been pretty miserable. I’ve been on 50+ dates this year and slept with ~10% of them and made out with about 20% of them. So, 8/10 times I’m wasting my night with an elephant who misled me into the date by using very outdated picts.
1/10 times I’m kissing them which leads to sexual frustration and then they walk.
1/10 times I’m having a sloppy one night stand with a skank and coming to work tired the next day.I have probably spent ~$60 per date so that’s $3,000. I can get jerked off by a smoking hot girl for $70. So, a side by side comparison of what $3,000 can get you looks like this:
dating vs. whoring
Number of times of sexual relief: 5: 42Conclusion: if you want 8x more bang for your buck = get a whore.
“Number of times of sexual relief: 5: 42 ”
So these were all one night stands, nothing more?
sloppy one night stand with a skank and coming to work tired the next day.
Dating/nailing women is time-inefficient. Even the most accomplished PUAs don’t number-close 90% of the time.
Dating wastes both $$$ & time.
Online dating is female hypergamy on steroids.
How many times have you seen women with things written on their profile such as “I’m looking for a career driven man/must have drive and ambition/career focused” – these are all sugar coated terms of saying they want a man with money (but will never admit it).
If you subscribe to the 80/20 rule (where 80% of women are chasing after the top 20% of men) – then you should avoid dating sites at all costs (I say this as a guy who has had numerous relationships via online dating – but that was in the early days of online dating when the odds were better stacked in a man’s favour).
Even women who are a 5 or below will get hit on by sex thirsty blue pill men – a bang average woman is suddenly elevated and has more options in dating than she could ever have imagined. Women have always held the upper hand when it comes to dating – all she has to be is ‘not fat’ and most men would consider dating/sleeping with her to some degree – however women are way fussier when it comes to men.
Online a woman who is a 5 or 6 will rarely accept dating a guy who is a 5 or 6 because she would have to admit that she herself has average sexual market place value – remember modern women have been raised to believe they are all special snowflakes. Most will even knock back a man who is a 7 and actually has slightly higher sexual market place value than themselves – because the bombardment of messages they have received online has led them to believe they have higher sexual market place value than what they really do. In essence – a female 5 in the real world becomes an 8 online.
Men are largely the hunters online – so you are putting yourself in direct competition with lots of other men for the attention of a single woman. If you approach a woman in a real world scenario, it’s just you and her – and even if she doesn’t initially find you attractive, your personality may shine through and win her over – this cannot happen online. When women have more options online, their standards go up and they start thinking “which one is the tallest, has the best job etc” criteria which doesn’t apply as much in the the real world.
Have you ever seen average to below average looking men with beautiful looking girlfriends and wondered how he got her? Chances are he didn’t meet her online where he would have to put himself in direct competition with 100’s of other men.
What you also have to remember is that for women in their late 20’s to late 30’s (when women have the baby rabies) a man’s sexual market place value is more linked to his social status and wealth rather than his looks. Women generally don’t date down. Studies have shown that the higher educated and better paid a women becomes, the smaller her dating pool becomes, while a the higher educated and better paid a man becomes, the larger his dating pool gets – why is this? – because women generally don’t date down so the wealthy/successful woman will only date men roughly on here level or higher, and since she is fairly high up the ladder, it means there is a much smaller number of men that she will consider dating.
You also have to look at the double standards of online dating. Nearly all women will have a height requirement for men – even the land whales will have the audacity to do this, yet if you were to to put a weight requirement for women, you would probably receive a nasty backlash. If women can height objectify men, then why can’t we weight objectify women?
Keep off dating sites – focus on yourself, your career, making money, building savings etc Get yourself hobbies and interests – mines are working out, my love of cinema/films, graphic novels, video games, city breaks, road trips. I also have a dog who I love to the moon and back – a dog will give you more loyalty and love than any woman. If you get sexually frustrated then there is always pornhub and your right hand.
Online dating is female hypergamy on steroids.
How many times have you seen women with things written on their profile such as “I’m looking for a career driven man/must have drive and ambition/career focused” – these are all sugar coated terms of saying they want a man with money (but will never admit it).
If you subscribe to the 80/20 rule (where 80% of women are chasing after the top 20% of men) – then you should avoid dating sites at all costs (I say this as a guy who has had numerous relationships via online dating – but that was in the early days of online dating when the odds were better stacked in a man’s favour).
Even women who are a 5 or below will get hit on by sex thirsty blue pill men – a bang average woman is suddenly elevated and has more options in dating than she could ever have imagined. Women have always held the upper hand when it comes to dating – all she has to be is ‘not fat’ and most men would consider dating/sleeping with her to some degree – however women are way fussier when it comes to men.
Online a woman who is a 5 or 6 will rarely accept dating a guy who is a 5 or 6 because she would have to admit that she herself has average sexual market place value – remember modern women have been raised to believe they are all special snowflakes. Most will even knock back a man who is a 7 and actually has slightly higher sexual market place value than themselves – because the bombardment of messages they have received online has led them to believe they have higher sexual market place value than what they really do. In essence – a female 5 in the real world becomes an 8 online.
Men are largely the hunters online – so you are putting yourself in direct competition with lots of other men for the attention of a single woman. If you approach a woman in a real world scenario, it’s just you and her – and even if she doesn’t initially find you attractive, your personality may shine through and win her over – this cannot happen online. When women have more options online, their standards go up and they start thinking “which one is the tallest, has the best job etc” criteria which doesn’t apply as much in the the real world.
Have you ever seen average to below average looking men with beautiful looking girlfriends and wondered how he got her? Chances are he didn’t meet her online where he would have to put himself in direct competition with 100’s of other men.
What you also have to remember is that for women in their late 20’s to late 30’s (when women have the baby rabies) a man’s sexual market place value is more linked to his social status and wealth rather than his looks. Women generally don’t date down. Studies have shown that the higher educated and better paid a women becomes, the smaller her dating pool becomes, while a the higher educated and better paid a man becomes, the larger his dating pool gets – why is this? – because women generally don’t date down so the wealthy/successful woman will only date men roughly on here level or higher, and since she is fairly high up the ladder, it means there is a much smaller number of men that she will consider dating.
You also have to look at the double standards of online dating. Nearly all women will have a height requirement for men – even the land whales will have the audacity to do this, yet if you were to to put a weight requirement for women, you would probably receive a nasty backlash. If women can height objectify men, then why can’t we weight objectify women?
Keep off dating sites – focus on yourself, your career, making money, building savings etc Get yourself hobbies and interests – mines are working out, my love of cinema/films, graphic novels, video games, city breaks, road trips. I also have a dog who I love to the moon and back – a dog will give you more loyalty and love than any woman. If you get sexually frustrated then there is always pornhub and your right hand.
Well said. I honestly don’t give a s~~~ if a woman is a 5 or a 10, I am not interested in them. I am not interested in talking to them. Todays ‘women’ are little immature bitches with pea brains who have absolutely f~~~ all to offer a man but misery and bulls~~~.
I hate having to hear some bitch at work yacking away loving the sound of her own voice, thinking shes supremely important, it gets on my f~~~ing nerves.
I say hello
I ask if they want to trade sexy pics.
If she is horny I keep her, if she decline I unmatch her.As simple as that.
Hi Gents,
My name is Jack123 and I’m an addict. I am addicted to online dating. It is ruining my finances, my time and my mental health.
Last night I went on a date with a girl who looked very average in her online picts. She seemed nice and so I took my chances. She showed up and oh my god, she was a stone cold glamour – big t~~~, classy tight dress and a face you could kiss for hours.
How about her personality? Dog s~~~ dry and boring, god was she boring! I provided all the entertainment and although she was genuinely laughing at all my jokes she couldn’t help but cut me down and say I was silly at the end of her laughter. This date goes for about 3 hours and she makes no motion towards her purse to pay for any of the food or drink she ordered. What am I doing Jack123, at least try to get laid!! I make some moves towards her and she’s as frigid as a nun.
So we wrap it up, she gives me a hug goodbye and I leave with an unfinished boner and $100 lighter. I write to her the next day ask her out for the weekend and she plays the ‘busy busy busy, some other time’ card on me. ARGHHHHHHHHHHH!!! F~~~ you online dating!!!
Hi Gents,
My name is Jack123 and I’m an addict. I am addicted to online dating. It is ruining my finances, my time and my mental health.
Last night I went on a date with a girl who looked very average in her online picts. She seemed nice and so I took my chances. She showed up and oh my god, she was a stone cold glamour – big t~~~, classy tight dress and a face you could kiss for hours.
How about her personality? Dog s~~~ dry and boring, god was she boring! I provided all the entertainment and although she was genuinely laughing at all my jokes she couldn’t help but cut me down and say I was silly at the end of her laughter. This date goes for about 3 hours and she makes no motion towards her purse to pay for any of the food or drink she ordered. What am I doing Jack123, at least try to get laid!! I make some moves towards her and she’s as frigid as a nun.
So we wrap it up, she gives me a hug goodbye and I leave with an unfinished boner and $100 lighter. I write to her the next day ask her out for the weekend and she plays the ‘busy busy busy, some other time’ card on me. ARGHHHHHHHHHHH!!! F~~~ you online dating!!!
You should really revise your list of vices. Even a heroin addiction would be more satisfying and cheaper too. F~~~! Just go to a casino and gamble it away – still better than online dating you’re describing
proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome
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