Cutting the crap early on, in online dating.

[NotaFoolParticipant 134]

This woman on adult friend finders has four or five photos of herself in provocative poses with no clothes and some clothed but barely. She still had her “private” parts just out of view or covered but any exhale from someone nearby would blow enough to expose everything. She is very hot so I wrote her a message.
She had written some s~~~ in her bio typical of some game player pretending to whore but just wants the attention. I found out she was crazy early by the conversation that ensued.
I wrote saying some bulls~~~ to butter her up. She had said in her bio to let her know what we thought of her pictures.
So, I told her I did like the photos and if she had anymore that she didn’t post that she might want to share, after all she likes having guys comment on her photos.
She responds by saying what she posted is what she has to share and that she doesn’t have pics with a camera shoved halfway up her vagina and that I’m out of line that she isn’t blah blah blah…. this is the exact copy of the results of her repeating what I asked as if there was something wrong with how I asked for more pics. It starts with me first.

I know what said and what I asked. Not one thing I said had anything to do with pictures of your pussy from a camera shoved up inside, or however you put it. So I don't know where you came up with that response. That was all you, not me. <br> If you are upset about asking for some pictures you might have that aren't being shared, I think that's a reasonable question. If you are upset about me saying that I know you like to hear the responses from men or feedback from what you look like, you can't very well get mad or deny that either when you are on a website like this with very sexy pictures of yourself posted and when you are in the chat rooms talking and flirting and eating up the compliments you get. <br> I'm here for the same reasons I posted my photos for the same reason. I'm in the chatrooms for hopefully someone might say something positive about my pictures. So, don't try to shame me or s~~~ test me by getting or pretending to get all bent outta shape because I asked if you had any other photos that you haven't shared with the whole damn internet. I even apologized for your misunderstaning what I wrote and did you say anything about that?<br> I don't know who you think you are or if I give a s~~~ about you. I'm sure you've read my profile. I'm someone who speaks my opinion and is very straightforward and in doing that I also try to keep respectful and from hurting peoples feelings. If I happen to offend someone it's usually because they deserve it or because they can't handle the truth and reality being put on a plate for them to see because they've been living in some self-centered make believe world they created. I'm also the type who will ask questions that most people won't or are afraid to ask. I do that because I fully expect to have questions turned on me and I will always answer truthfully or as truthfully as I can be without creating a problem for anyone else that it may have a negative impact on. <br> So again, I don't appreciate having words or thoughts put into my mouth or written words that I never said. Why do women always read between the lines and come up with the most far off the mark thoughts? It's because women are never straight with what they say to anyone. There is always a hidden agenda or ulterior motive. Women don't do a thing or say a word that isn't pre thought out and it must benefit whatever your wants are from the person you are speaking with. So you assume that everyone else is doing the same thing. You don't just randomly decide to talk to a guy. You choose to talk to a guy because he has something you want or that he can do for you. Where as a man talks to a woman because he thinks she's attractive. And yes because he wants to f~~~ her. But 99% of all men will let that be known where as a woman won't ever reveal why she's actually talking to a man. Half the time they don't even talk. They give four word single sentence answers to our questions and always ever careful of giving any answer that may reveal anything about where they are what they're doing, or if they like you. Unless they just want to f~~~ you because your hot and have nothing else to offer. That's the only time women are truthfull and show their hand. Otherwise its cards to the chest. <br> I'm not your average guy out here on the internet trying to find women because I can't do it in real life. I'm on here to try to find women that might be more open and real because they have a barrier between us but its the exact opposite. They are worse. The attitudes that you all have is simply amazing. You do know you aren't any hotter online than you are in real life, right? Its just that there are more men who are less afraid to talk to you online that wouldn't on the street or in a bar or party. It's still the same thing but multiplied and those guys are still the same ones that you would never give the time of day to in person but here its another boost of ego and a shot of your self esteem enhancer. <br> I apologized and I never said anything rude. Don't ever come at me sideways like that again. <br> And in this message I was never rude or called you any names. I only laid it out for you to see what you and other women do everyday to men and only the suckers fall in line for your shaming tactics so you can feel better about yourselves when the truth is revealed about you and you don't like it.
4/14/2017 4:50pm

Why would you do that to me? Why would you say what you said to me? Did you just assume I would let you make me out to be some creepy pervert and I would go hide under a rock because some self-centered, self-absorbed, self-righteous, arrogant, exhibitionist, accused me of something you pulled out of thin air? What made you come up with that description of the type of photos you imagined? Is it secretly what you wanted me to ask you for? Is that something you've always secretly wanted to do? Or do you want me to talk to you that way because it gets you wet when a man talks to you and treats you like a dirty whore? Were you mad that I was too polite and you got mad at me for not degrading you? <br> I'm really a very polite man but I am not afraid to call you names and degrade you if that's what gets you off faster and harder.<br> Just don't play games with me. If wanted some hot angry banter to make you feel wanted or is it any attention is good attention with you?<br> I'm just curious as to why you would have done that to me'
4/15/2017 5:43pm

I did not reply to your first rant because I didn't want to waste my time. My only reply to this latest message is that you might want to consider seeking some kind of professional help. This message from me will end our communication. I've no interest in trading messages with anyone who seems to be so unbalanced.

" if women didn't exist , all the money in the world would have no meaning" Aristotle Onassis "Women are like Elephants, everyone wants to look at them but, nobody wants to have one" W.C. Fields

[NotaFoolParticipant 134]

So, that’s how it ended. The dumb slut blocked me after her lame reply after I gave her that verbal lashing. F~~~ing cowardice c~~~. It amazes me how women do that s~~~ when they lost an argument or when they get caught playing their games and realize that they are f~~~ing with the wrong kind of man.

" if women didn't exist , all the money in the world would have no meaning" Aristotle Onassis "Women are like Elephants, everyone wants to look at them but, nobody wants to have one" W.C. Fields

[ThaddeusParticipant 71]

Just had the following hilarious exchange via Line, with some dumb, hypocritical c~~~. FYI, I’m 45 y/o white English male living in Japan. Dumb c~~~ is 40 y/o Jap female who is back in Tokyo after 10 years in London “writing comedy scripts” (which should, in retrospect, have been a red flag). We had been flirting via Line messages for about 2 weeks, but I had played it really cool. This is the denouement after she finally asked for a date:

Dumb C~~~: So when can we meet?

Me: Don’t you want to exchange pics first?

DC: It’s okay for me if we don’t, but if you want I will.

Me: Wait, so you don’t care about looks at all – not even a tiny bit?

DC: No. But are you short? How tall are you?

Me: I’m 185cm (that’s about 6’1″ in old money). If you are below 165cm it might be a problem…

——-Several Hours Elapse——-

DC: Okay you hate short women. That’s fine. Goodbye and good luck.

Me: Don’t put words in my mouth. I never said “hate”, I said it might be a “problem”. Anything over a 20cm height gap makes it hard to be a couple from a physical perspective in my experience. It’s like I’m holding hands with my kid daughter when we’re out and about.

DC: My BFs were all tall and yes I like tall guys but you hate short women. Anyway, I’m deleting you!

Me: No, I’m deleting you.
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No logic, no accountability, and falsely attributing words and motives to you. That’s c~~~s for you. (And btw, what happened to the fantastic sense of humour she claimed to have?)

"And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her."

[Red KnightParticipant 720]

NotaFool wrote:

This woman on adult friend finders has four or five photos of herself in provocative poses with no clothes and some clothed but barely. She still had her “private” parts just out of view or covered but any exhale from someone nearby would blow enough to expose everything. She is very hot so I wrote her a message.
She had written some s~~~ in her bio typical of some game player pretending to whore but just wants the attention. I found out she was crazy early by the conversation that ensued.
I wrote saying some bulls~~~ to butter her up. She had said in her bio to let her know what we thought of her pictures.
So, I told her I did like the photos and if she had anymore that she didn’t post that she might want to share, after all she likes having guys comment on her photos.
She responds by saying what she posted is what she has to share and that she doesn’t have pics with a camera shoved halfway up her vagina and that I’m out of line that she isn’t blah blah blah…. this is the exact copy of the results of her repeating what I asked as if there was something wrong with how I asked for more pics. It starts with me first.

Hey man, I know what you were trying to do, but I think you’re going about it the wrong way. You wrote mile long rants to her with a lot of vitriol, and when you do that it shows that you care wayyyyy too much about her opinion. That’s why she was able to dismiss it so easily – she feels like she has power over you when you were clearly bothered by what she said/did. I’d say, keep it simple, straightforward, and to the point. Just my opinion.

Formerly MoneyOverBitches

[NomadParticipant 44]

Online dating is a waste of time. Noting but fake profiles, & scammers.

Life's too short to spend with promiscious women. Enjoy your passions while you still can!!

[YoungshredderParticipant 33]

When i used to use tinder i would always esculate after chatting for a short while or atleast try to get their number. Escalation is key. The faster you try to escalate the quicker youll know this saving more time. If they are trully intrested it will follow through.

You take the blue pill—the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe.You take the red pill—you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes.

[GetaPoasParticipant 73]

I gaveup on online dating years ago. There is no nawalt and even if there was it ain’t gonna be there.

Literally you should see the mental gymnastics women will pull when she says she’s not looking for a hookup but meanwhile I have pictures of her upclose pussy she sent me within 24 hours of talking.

It’s because she associates hookup with “just any dick” rather than “specifically Chaaaad”.

You’re still a whore you’re just a whore with a premium package. Oohlala. That pussy has only seen five dicks instead of fifteen dicks I’M SO LUCKY WHAT A DEAL.

I hate women.

[LEO THE WISEParticipant 249]

Sadly the online and real dating scene is a true waste of time for men.

Even pump and pump because :

The women of value are either in for an ego boost and growing their orbiter bases. Or they have too high standards to meet and the chase will be a marathon.

The skanks and dirty hoes just pumping and dumping material ARE “dirty” so full of STD’s, smoke alcohol and drugs, full of tattoos and wrapping it up double is not enough anymore, having a good sex for few hours, then worrying about it afterwards for the next 2 weeks before tests results coming out negative…Is not worth the hassle for me.

I have no attraction for those stinky dirty hoes, I mean the ones that you see on their face they have strong mileage…

The top and the bottom are rotten, and the middle is uncertain and flakes and bullcrap waste of time with average girls that are of average value.

My sex drive is getting down fast having that in mind.
I am tired of that crap.

The current Sexual Market Place is a s~~~ mess, I do not want to go back to this Hell, not counting about pleasing the other, disrespecting myself and my time just to get in her pants. Not dated since years…Because of this messed up situation.

Leo the wise : Giving to all men their needed uprise My MGTOW YOUTUBE channel, first vid : https://youtu.be/Xt-tJgVUGuI

[MusicianMGTOWParticipant 9]

This is PUA sh*t and it works. I’ll send a slightly customized version of this e-mail after ~4-7 back and forth messages on OkStupid or Tinder. It generally gets me a solid phone #, “or a lets meet up, number later” — or else flushes ’em out quick.

I have just ok game and ok looks, It has gotten me laid ongoing, plenty of times.

“So, we could totally flirt and back and forth for a few years…and eventually get a rabbi to marry us in a swanky online chat ceremony, with the entire Def Jam records catalog (or whatever music/band she’s into) providing a live soundtrack…or, we could just have a quick phone chat and possibly decide to meet up in real life and make friends like, well, you know, normal people. I’ll vote for the latter, tho the former is pretty damn tempting. MgtowMusician 111-867-5309. Yours?”

[StealthParticipant 5373]

Dusted this one off just for this thread:

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

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