25-year-old Virgin Who’s Lost All Hope

Welcome Brother,

I lost my virginity when I was 19. My second woman I had 3 years later, by now my count is 3-digit including approx. 30 bookers. So a late start means nothing.
I haven’t have sex within the last 5 months and that’s absolutely fine.
And I’m bald, broke and fat. So women will happen. Nothing to worry about or be afraid of missing out on anything.

DisenchantedBro wrote:

She promise we would have sex and that it would be special or whatever. This weekend was supposed to be that special weekend. We were supposed to take a weekend trip. I got us a nice hotel. I tried to be romantic or whatnot. On Friday night when I was going to pick her up she didn’t answer her phone and eventually she sent me a text saying she didn’t want to go anymore.

Bro’ she was s~~~-testing you and you failed. This happens to the best of us.
So lesson #101: women are insecure and try to cover their own lack of confidence by bringing down others, especially men. One form of it is s~~~-testing. PuA’s counter this behaviour by making women jump the hoops first. Very exhausting, but probably you want to try these ways, just to get that “virginity” thing of your mind. Just know Pick-Up is only a phase in your development. Once you’ve seen how easy women are influenced and it’s actually easier than training a dog, you’re going to loose any respect. Side effect: the more disgusting women become, the more attracted they will become to you.

Lesson 102: Your way is your way! No one can tell how to. You will have to figure it out yourself. There is no golden path. Because every MGTOW goes his own way, the movement is invincible. Nobody can stop what no-one can get hold of. We will provide what we have learned, but it’s up to you, to figure out, what’s applicable to you and what is not. For example I still consider myself rather left-wing orientated. If I’ve had a vote I would most probably have voted Bernie Sanders. I recommend Turd Flinging Monkey’s YT vid of February 10th 2016.
Once there also check Joseph Smith’s videos (and see my comments on some).

Lesson 103: This is a no-shame zone. You don’t have to consider asking for forgiveness. The way we talk here, will have an influence on how you act IRL. It will help you to discover: Being a man is nothing to be ashamed of. There is nothing wrong with behaving masculine. -for me and a lot of other single mum sons this was an epiphany.

Welcome again and enjoy the rollercoaster ride, your life is going to become in the next months. You just swallowed the red pill and it’s going to be a hell of a trip. 😀

That was tower bro with the digital healing punch . Medical emergency till the km ambo arrived . This patient is in a critical condition . Lol

Well this could be my thread as well. I had my “Mid-life-crisis” at age 23…

I was a virgin until age 35…

And then – after earning money – it was like being able to pick between the gold diggers like on a menu.

And the strength in rejecting them and tell them “It’s too late now…”

That’s all women are after. You are a millionaire and it doesn’t matter what you look like or how big your dick is.

Disenchanted Bro, I invite you to read my story and it might help you to see how valuable you are and maybe your unconscious knowledge of women was what kept you away from them. To everything that happens, there is a reason.

And they had a reason for not wanting you (and me).

Women don’t like men that see through them…

/forums/topic/gargamels-7-part-mgtow-story-introduction-as-a-work-in-progress/

We are better than any pussy whipped shrink that will not tell you the truth because this would hurt his income.

There is truth about the saying:

“Have you ever seen a motorcycle parked in front of a psychologists practice?”

Replace “Motorcyle” with whatever gets the disapproval from c~~~s: Junkyard car collections, workshops, huge collections of books, PC’s, test equipment, stereo equipment…
All the things that make life fun and worthwhile for a man will make c~~~s “disenchanted”…

A female word.

“She is disenchanted” (Remember that 80’s Martin Murphy song)…

Please let us be with you and turn it into “Proud”!

blade wrote:

That was tower bro with the digital healing punch

Sorry Bro. I’ve been drinking and thoughts are coming in like a flood.

Still though, it seems like something you’d say too! 😉

My bad.

And women don’t like men they can’t control.

If you are too nice, too beautiful, too helpful, too result oriented and solution (peace) driven – and thus not prone to the vile, manipulative and evil thinking most women have, then they don’t want you.

Women look for the guy that is on their mental level.

Because that level is low and filled with drama and bad entitled behavior, they look for men that “fit in”…

To us, that appears that they are into “bad boys”…

“Real men” that are aggressive and “alpha” get pussy…

They why don’t “real alpha’s” that own companies and “make things happen” get pussy?

Woman hate smart men that have a mind of their own and can’t be used, abused, ordered around, bossed, driven into suicide by shaming.

I can be a real bad boy but still don’t get any pussy when they see me closer. They fly on my looks and status. They fall for that “eloquent man” and then they see that I am soft on the outside but hard on the inside.
Most men are the other way around: Hard on the outside but soft on the inside: Women get their hooks in them and destroy them.

How many “bad boys” or “men that were better than you” have been “tamed” by women (their speak), f~~~ed over in a divorce and thrown out to sleep under the bridge?

Men are too soft and we are here to feed you the “red pill hardener” paste…

Available from “Keymaster Pharmaceutical” at MGTOW.com

Drink it and you’ll be fine…

DisenchantedBro wrote:

She came out and just told me to leave her alone that she didn’t want to see me anymore and that if I tried to approach her she would tell everyone at work that I’m a virgin.

I can’t even explained how f~~~ing miserable I felt. Like if someone had punched me in the gut and all the air had left my body. I couldn’t believe it.

Well, on a more positive note you’re learning what women are really all about and (for you) it was a cheap lesson. You may not realize it now but you got off extremely lucky.

The other lesson being is that you NEVER, EVER DATE ANYBODY FROM WORK!

Now you understand why that rule exists. Welcome aboard… 🙂

DisenchantedBro wrote:

After a month or so of dating, like an idiot, I told her I had never had sex. She seemed understanding.

Haha, I had went through that same thing at 21. They pretend to be understanding, until they threaten to use that information against you. Now you have learned your lesson the same way I did. Never ever tell a woman something personal like that. They use any perceived insecurity like a weapon against you. You CANNOT EVER, confide in a woman about your insecurities. Now, I’m almost 30 (Wizard age) and my policy with women is NO CONTACT EVER AGAIN. I’m no longer interested in sex or relationships. BTW, don’t go around advertising you are a virgin, society will try and shame you for it both Men and Women. Otherwise, Welcome to the Club brother Monk.

DisenchantedBro wrote:

I’m ashamed to say it, but at 25 I’m still a virgin.

Relax buddy, i’m 29 and can say the same. Also, look at it this way, you’re “ashamed” because you’ve been shamed … into thinking you should be ashamed … You shouldn’t, infact it’s wise to avoid getting laid by these women if you can. You avoid STD’s, you avoid accidental pregnancy, you avoid getting hooked by someone who will continue to emotionally torture you, or simply abandon you any damn ways. You avoid her regretting the sex the next day and filing a rape charge against you.

To the average mentally inslaved guy out there, it might be something to be ashamed of, but not here, i can’t speak for anyone else, but personally i believe it’s like having a superpower, having the lifelong ability to resist the one thing women have to entrap us. It bothered me up until last year, quite honestly i can already feel my drive declining and i barely even desire to bate or watch porn anymore. Things will get better believe me.

Antipathy wrote:

You shouldn’t, infact it’s wise to avoid getting laid by these women if you can. You avoid STD’s, you avoid accidental pregnancy, you avoid getting hooked by someone who will continue to emotionally torture you, or simply abandon you any damn ways. You avoid her regretting the sex the next day and filing a rape charge against you.

That comes on top of the things we had to deal with in the 1980’s and early 1990’s:

Widespread STD's are turning “dating” and sex into a very dangerous matter…

And:

She only has to make a phone call!

Women's smartphone addiction. Run for the hills!

Staying a virgin has almost become a must for a young man to make it through life.

Lurch wrote:

Well there’s your first problem. Why… Berkeley, ’nuff said!

Couldn’t be any worse than a small village in Germany. A place where everybody knows everybody else. At least everybody puts their noses in everybody else’s problems.

Either become hard and indifferent to these people or kill yourself.