25-year-old Virgin Who’s Lost All Hope

Welcome!

I’m pretty late to the thread, but I’m glad to see you have already received some great advice from so many members on this site.

After reading your story, I sympathise with your situation at the weekend I can imagine the way that bitch treated you would have been horrific to experience, but her behaviour doesn’t surprise me. I know it won’t have felt like it at the time, but in hindsight, it could likely be the best thing that has happened to you this year! I don’t believe in coincidences too much myself, but her actions, fortunately, led you to get that Uber home and thankfully your driver introduced you to MGTOW.

So to reiterate, Welcome. There is a plethora of information on here and Youtube etc. which I think you will find incredibly insightful and beneficial and can say from personal experience once your eyes are opened up to women and their actions/behaviour/manipulation/general BS. you’ll never think or see them in the same light again.

It is so much better on this side

Alright, I just read this whole thread and here is what I have to say that would probably help you more than all these other opinions that the other people have said. First of all, you have been sh*t tested like one person in this thread pointed out, and you failed miserably, but there is a lot more to this. If you would of not agreed to have sex in a hotel room with her that was paid for by you, maybe she would of over looked the fact that you are a virgin and even stick around in your life still, because you would show that at least you have standards. The reason is because you would prove that it is not like if you are creepy enough to just lose it just like that in a cheap hotel probably, on your own dime. You see, there are actually girls out there that hate creepy guys with a passion to the point that they would mentally hurt them the way she did to you. For certain girls, if you are creepy, you are probably also rapey too, and to them, people that are rapey are scum. So it is not the fact that you wanted to have sex with her that is the problem, it was the way you went on the delivery in trying to set up the sex event which to her is very creepy in itself. Also, she knew that if you failed this sh*t test, she would have just so much ammunition to use against you just to get rid of you in her life. I am sure that you will learn a lot from this so that this will never happen again and you would be a better man for it. I just basically told you what you need to hear to see the past event for what it was and I hope that you would at least understand the event enough to not be traumatized by it all anymore because there is like nothing much left worth figuring out anymore.

(Still new at replying on forums, sorry if the post is not organized)
Sorry to hear this happened to you Disenchanted Bro. Frankly, you had to learn and take the red pill one way or another. You have been brainwashed by society to be ashamed to be single, a virgin, and not living up to a woman’s standards. Keymaster is right about everything that he says.

Don’t be ashamed to be a man, to be a virgin, or living up to someone’s standards. The truth is, none of it matters in the end. You were not a man until you understood what you have done, and learned to never do it again. Stooping down way low and giving your all for a woman who could care less doesn’t make you a man, it makes you a brainwashed coward.

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Oh, you didn’t ejaculate in a female reproductive organ? Big deal. Stop thinking like you owe a woman something. You owe women NOTHING.I like what Keymaster also said about asking a woman out. The second you ASK her to do something with you, she knows you will put your blood, sweat, and tears into her. She knows you are a slave to her beauty. While you work your ass off trying to get with this woman, she can sit back and watch you like a wild animal at a zoo.

Blue-Pill man- Hey bro, I just lost my virginity to this hot girl! Bro, why are you a virgin? You need a girlfriend man.
Red-Pill man- That’s cool. I work in management at a business making $75,000. Good for you.

Being single lets you think clearly. You are a free person with nobody to govern your life. Focus on doing what you love and making the sweet cash flow. You will also have twice as much cash than a married couple with kids (even if you don’t make a fortune). Think about it, a marriage alone can cost hundreds, maybe even thousands. Then, a child costs another few hundred, even a few thousand. Why not be independent?

I’ve been in a similar situation. My last and final attempt finding true love (true torture) was with a girl that also teased me for sex. Of course afterwards, it fell apart due to an already present boyfriend and with no loyalty.
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Overall, don’t fall for a women’s tricks anymore. Sorry to be direct, but you had to learn. You need to understand that you shouldn’t be hopeless from not finding love. A woman should not be the reason to have life on this earth. Don’t be ashamed, don’t be miserable, and certainly don’t be a slave. Be a man, be smart, be vigilant, and go your own way.
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We are the generation of men that will not be slaves to women. We are awake.

Guys, I am sorry for being so direct with this guy, but at least I also gave him a way to save face because that past does not equal the future in my view. I really thought that he needed to know what I told him out of respect so that he will grow as a person out of this experience. A lot of times it is the pains of life that make you grow as a person as a whole.

I can relate to DisenchantedBro as well – I didn’t lose my virginity until 34 (had a couple of one-night flings in college that were more making out and feeling around), and only had one relationship in my late 20’s that lasted around six months or so (we didn’t have sex but would stay the night with each other – that’s the way she wanted it). After we broke up, I had the best life – had a decent job, owned my house, had money to invest and save, hung out with single buddies watching sports, drinking beer, etc.

Now I’m pushing 50 with two little kids, and married to a woman that I can’t bear to be around most of the time – our sex life is non-existent, she sits on her ass when she’s home with a computer on her lap playing games or on Facebook (while if I’m home, I’m playing with the kids), and she’s overweight and won’t do anything about it except complain about how fat she is. My favorite times are when I have the kids and she’s not around to bitch about everything (I purposely plan activities that I know she doesn’t like so she stays home). I have to hide money in my business so that she doesn’t see it (also make sure to max out our business pension, my IRA, and the kids’ college accounts) otherwise she’ll find things to spend it on. My mom is in the process of selling a piece of property, and she’s planning on giving my brother and I a chunk of the proceeds as a gift – have to tell her not to tell my wife so that I can hide it so that she doesn’t see it.

Believe me, as much as I love my kids, I would love to just be a single guy again doing what I want, when I want. The sex fades – now like most married guys my age, we’re just roommates except I’m stuck with her as I don’t want her to ruin the kids with her laziness.

Enjoy your singleness – MGTOW is the way to go. I just wish this site was around back 15 years ago as I’d be a hell of a lot happier now.

DisenchantedBro wrote:

Yesterday, after trying to get in touch with her the whole day I went to her place. She came out and just told me to leave her alone that she didn’t want to see me anymore and that if I tried to approach her she would tell everyone at work that I’m a virgin.

I haven’t read this thread as I was ‘away’ when it started.

BUT

That bit I quoted, THAT’S the part where the MASK simply dropped off.

This is your whole problem, you’re thinking how can the sweet girl I knew say and threaten such a despicable thing for no reason. This has shocked and hurt you, I mean how the hell could she?

WRONG.

She was never THAT girl.

She was ALWAYS a F~~~ING NASTY EVIL C~~~.

She just hid it for a while.

Once she didn’t want to play anymore off comes the mask and then you get to see the real demon cupcake who lurks inside.

This one’s a real rotten, nasty, f~~~ing evil piece of s~~~.

I’m sorry, man.