"You'll end up changing your mind and wanting kids."

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

I’ve gotten this comment a lot from my family over the years. Whenever some similar subject comes up about my uncles/aunts/parents asking me if “I have a girlfriend now” I always end up saying “Nope!”

I don’t remember exactly how it’s brought up, but almost every time I even visit my family or they visit me, they bring up the question “Do you want kids?”

I always say I don’t because I don’t want the responsibility.

Every single time I tell them this, they end up saying this quote almost line by line:

“You’ll end up wanting kids, you’re still young and you’ll change your mind.”

“I didn’t want kids when I was your age either, but one day I suddenly changed my mind and wanted kids.”

And these quotes are almost always from the women in my family. They’re almost never from any of the men in my family except for my dad.

But I find these moments to be funny as hell because it’s like listening to a broken record. All they do all the f~~~ing time is say those exact lines whenever this topic is brought up.

They’ll definitely be surprised when I’m 70+ years old and never having married or having kids haha.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[experiencedParticipant]

“They just don’t make girls like you anymore mom…

…but if you’re certain they do, put a binding note on 100% your home and retirement that uses that to pay ALL court/attorney/investigative fees, as well as what the female will be awarded via alimony, child support, re-education, relocation, etc.”

“WELL! that won’t ‘necessarily’ happen.”

“Good, then you won’t mind signing it will you?” [even have these drawn up beforehand]

When their ass is on the line, in a rigged game, they don’t want to participate.
Interesting, the whole “wedded bliss” is ducked.
It mirrors how that is why THEY get married, except the detail that the guy’s shredded and they keep that kid, “if it doesn’t ‘work out'”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22524]

I would like to have a family someday.

But, the law denies me from ever having a family. All I am is a potential debt slave and have not right to have or raise children.

This is one of the reasons I hope the world burns sooner rather than later. Because there is a slim chance that I may survive and then I may be able to have a family, with me being able to shoot anyone that tries to take my children from me.

And if I don’t survive the collapse. For me, that is fine too, because I know this s~~~ will not be able to exist in a more individualist situation as a collapse of society. Where one has to think and do to live. Not bitch and complain.

The so-called “golden vagina” does not work on hungry men with empty stomachs.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2730]

1. EX#2: [During dating] Do you want more kids?
2. ME: Nope.
3. EX#2: Me neither, got my tubes tied four years ago.
4. ME: Cool.
5. EX#2: Let’s get married.
6. ME: Really not interested in marriage.
7. [REPEAT steps 5. and 6. hundred times]
8. EX#2: We can’t have sex anymore unless we get married.
9. ME: Whatever, let’s just get married then.
10. EX#2: [After marriage] Let’s have a kid. Doctor says for $8,000 he can untie my tubes.
11. ME: I told you I don’t want another kid.
12. [REPEAT steps 10. and 11. fifty times WHILE she blows through all my cash and credit]
13. [EXIT loop]
14. ME: Here are the divorce papers

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Anonymous 42]

With kids comes divorce (if married), child support, alimony, court dates, an 18 year tread mill, fall down once go straight to jail, get released back on the tread mill, and do it over and over again, you’re in what has become the greatest destruction of men for all time!

Go ahead, have a kid, what could go wrong?

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

experienced wrote:

“They just don’t make girls like you anymore mom…

Haha, if I bring that up, she’ll say “NAWALT.” So I avoid trying to talk about subject to my family as much as possible.

experienced wrote:

“Good, then you won’t mind signing it will you?” [even have these drawn up beforehand]

When their ass is on the line, in a rigged game, they don’t want to participate.

That’s exactly it right there. They’re willing to brainwash their sons, friends, and boyfriends into signing the damn thing, but they’d never sign it themselves.

Faust For Science wrote:

I would like to have a family someday.

But, the law denies me from ever having a family. All I am is a potential debt slave and have not right to have or raise children.

This is one of the reasons I hope the world burns sooner rather than later.

I can’t relate, but I definitely get why a man would want to have a family. But, it’s too risky for men to even be around kids in this day and age. I’ve heard stories where men were arrested in a park just for hugging their kids.

I’m also waiting for this gynocentric society to end. When that happens, I’ll hopefully be living in the wilderness away from it all spending my last days as a survivalist.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[experiencedParticipant]

Faust For Science wrote:

The so called “golden vagina doesn’t work on hungry men with empty stomachs.

And thankfully, nor does it work on men with working memory banks of mental destitution. Nor on their mgtow brothers.

CPT Obvious wrote:

1. EX#2: [During dating] Do you want more kids?
2. ME: Nope.
3. EX#2: Me neither, got my tubes tied four years ago.
4. ME: Cool.
5. EX#2: Let’s get married.
6. ME: Really not interested in marriage.
7. [REPEAT steps 5. and 6. hundred times]
8. EX#2: We can’t have sex anymore unless we get married.
9. ME: Whatever, let’s just get married then.
10. EX#2: [After marriage] Let’s have a kid. Doctor says for $8,000 he can untie my tubes.
11. ME: I told you I don’t want another kid.
12. [REPEAT steps 10. and 11. fifty times WHILE she blows through all my cash and credit]
13. [EXIT loop]
14. ME: Here are the divorce papers

THANK YOU CAPTAIN for this ONE. I could have fallen for it hook line and sinker.
I REALLY do appreciate your sharing it. (well I’ll just get him ‘unfixed’ in the future = what a C – word, what a C~~~.)

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[KeymasterKeymaster]

FearlessMGHOW wrote:

“You’ll end up wanting kids, you’re still young and you’ll change your mind.”

RESPONSE:

“Why are you behaving like wanting kids is reason enough to just go ahead and have them? That’s pathetic. And you should already know that aside from surrogacy, a man doesn’t just DECIDE to have kids”.

It’s a thoughtless statement.

And it is usually followed by blank expressions on their faces, because thy are too f~~~ing thoughtless to piece it together. What if you DID want kids? COULD YOU just have them? Are you allowed to raise them as you see fit? Does a man have any parental rights at all? If your girlfriend or wife is pregnant and she decides to flip a coin, abort, or take them away… you have 0% say in the matter.

Tell them that, and they will never bring it up again.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[CaliParticipant 753]

You’ll end up changing your mind and wanting kids

Then I’ll adopt

Seriously, though, one of the most annoying things to me is when older adults patronize me and say stuff like “Don’t worry, you’re time to get married is coming soon”, or “You might not want kids now, but wait until you get older. You’ll want to find a nice girl, settle down, and have a family.”

I get so tired of it.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2730]

experienced wrote:

CPT Obvious wrote:

EX#2 nagging me for kids…

THANK YOU CAPTAIN for this ONE. I could have fallen for it hook line and sinker.
I REALLY do appreciate your sharing it. (well I’ll just get him ‘unfixed’ in the future = what a C – word, what a C~~~.)

Glad it was of value. My realization from this experience and watching some of my peers get re-married, was that women (especially divorced women) use having children as a chain on the man. Either it will help keep them vested in the relationship or it will ensure many years of child support.

One of my best friends (divorced and 44 years old) married a recent divorcee. He has 4 kids. She has 3. Within a few months of marriage, she was constantly badgering him for a kid. Well, they did. Now they have 8 kids ranging from newborn to 17 years old.

She’s a self-righteous bitch. And he’s miserable.

Unfortunately, because of how blue-pill he is and how c~~~y she is, I had to cut off contact.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Only c~~~s say stupid s~~~ like that. They think, relationship is what a guy wants. The c~~~s are going to have a rude awakening.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22524]

FearlessMGHOW wrote:

I can’t relate, but I definitely get why a man would want to have a family. But, it’s too risky for men to even be around kids in this day and age. I’ve heard stories where men were arrested in a park just for hugging their kids.

Though, there is a difference between wanting to start a family, and not doing so because one realizes it is not workable in this day and age.

Just wait. When the collapse happens. Those government checks will bounce and we will see natural selection kick in. And if the welfare whores in New Orleans after hurricane Katrina are any indication, many of the parasites are going to literally die waiting for someone to help them.

During the collapse, many people will learn that those so-called “alphas” are not even “betas”. They just learned how to game a system that will no longer function. With none of these “alphas” knowing a thing about how to survive on their own.

For men that do survive, it is going to be pick of the litters towards women. And such men are thinking long term. They are not thinking about a quick f~~~. Men in such a situation will be looking for women that will not immediately stab them in the back at the first opportunity. So, welfare whores and those women that rode the c~~~ carousel need not apply.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

Keymaster wrote:

And it is usually followed by blank expressions on their faces, because thy are too f~~~ing thoughtless to piece it together. What if you DID want kids? COULD YOU just have them? Are you allowed to raise them as you see fit? Does a man have any parental rights at all? If your girlfriend or wife is pregnant and she decides to flip a coin, abort, or take them away… you have 0% say in the matter.

Tell them that, and they will never bring it up again.

I definitely will. Because whenever they bring it up, it just annoys the f~~~ out of me to no end. I’m still laughing in my head, but at the same time it’s annoying as s~~~.

Men NEVER have kids. Women HAVE KIDS. When kids are born, they’re automatically given custody of the mom. It doesn’t matter what the dad thinks at all.

Men have no say in what to do with their kids ever.

Cali wrote:

Seriously, though, one of the most annoying things to me is when older adults patronize me and say stuff like “Don’t worry, you’re time to get married is coming soon”, or “You might not want kids now, but wait until you get older.

I hate that as well. I don’t mind you being older than me and actually give me REAL advice that I can use that doesn’t involve gynocentric bulls~~~. That’s what p~~~es me off about tradcons even more so. The older tradcons have this arrogance of acting like they “know it all” just because they’re older.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

The world is fool of hairless apes who have children they can’t afford to raise.

Here’s an example.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

CPT Obvious wrote:

8. EX#2: We can’t have sex anymore unless we get married.
9. ME: Whatever, let’s just get married then.

When a woman attempts to use sex as leverage, END THE RELATIONSHIP IMMEDIATELY!!!
YOU are in control of your sex life, NOT HER!!!

[HawkeParticipant 197]

Luckily my folks stopped asking this quite a while ago. I think they got the picture.

Qui audet adipiscitur - Who dares, wins

[Anonymous 11]

ZT’s picture is one of the many, many fractional families that we all support. Baby making is her business and business is good.

I’ve made it this far w/o children. I don’t regret it. If I could have had a son w/o any female involvement at all then that might have been OK. Though I’m too old to be taking on any children these days.

[PacifistParticipant 143]

Every time the bring it up make a bet with them. Maybe you can make some cash. Beside people take you more seriously if your willing to put money on the line.

I thought I was done with family asking me about getting a wife and kids but my sister brought it up 2 weeks ago on the phone. No one had mentioned it for the last 4 years.

[bob__Participant 946]

Why are you asking me? Ask the women, they’re the ones who “choose” to have kids (when it suits them). Men don’t actually have kids, they just donate sperm.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

bob__ wrote:

Why are you asking me? Ask the women, they’re the ones who “choose” to have kids (when it suits them). Men don’t actually have kids, they just donate sperm.

Exactly. Men are nothing but sperm donors in the eyes of the government and women.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

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