"You need to socialize more"

[cardenio27Participant 144]

As Nietzsche said “Become who you are.” Under the social conditioning and herd mentality discover the greatness that can drive you to the heights.

[NomadgParticipant 249]

The older I get the more I understand we must act in accord with the laws of nature. Very few male and females of any species interact/socialize for long periods of time or are monogamous. It is only for breeding purposes do they interact, then the males go on their merry way and do whatever the f~~~ they want. Only man has allowed our existence to be so disrupted that we are but a shell of what we once were thousands/millions of years ago. Socializing is a buck “bachelor group” or men getting together for beer and poker, then going back into solitude. There is no need, nor has there ever been a need for men to be constantly entertained through social distractions. Misery loves company. Those of us that have figured out that living on our own terms is the only way to live, represent a threat to the control women have over men.

It's never to late to be what you might have been...

[The_Mad_PirateParticipant 1278]

Anonymous wrote:

It’s a woman thing. Women are weak and very dependent, their strength is to dominate others and force burdens on others. So women want men to “socialize” so men can be conditioned, abused, and attacked into following the female imperative.

That’s why they hate MGTOW too.

Women can babble they don’t need men and that they are strong and independent, but it’s a farce. The second men leave, the entire thing collapses, and women just stand there hopelessly, unable to survive, depressed and anxious.

I don’t talk to people that don’t respect me and don’t give me a benefit. I am civil and cordial. But people don’t expect me to show up at places and give me my space. I’ve pretty much demanded it. And I think most masculine men are the same. Only effeminate men want to socialize and obey women.

My thougths exactly.
“Socializing” = be conditioned to be a good blue pill mangina lapdog who follows orders without questions.

I believe a good motto is “your life is your life to live it in your own terms”. I think it’s much better to find people you like to be around with, people who will respect you and love you for who you are, people who will never tell you who you “have to be” or “what you should do”. In my opinion , those are the kind of people you want to be pals with.

"We didn't start the fire. It was always burning. Since the world's been turning" "A world that vilifies men only breeds a generation of men that feel no empathy towards women" “In a woman’s mind , there is really no such thing as a ‘we’. In her eyes, earth allways revolves around her, not the other way around. So thinking that your needs , aspirations or desires are valid enough to be persued, or even that you are entitled achive such goals, is like asking your boss for a pay rise in your very first day at the job.”

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Computernerd wrote:

I hate small talk and how other people’s days went. I hate talking about the weather, or the traffic. I hate talking about the random news story on TV or whether or not Kim Kardashian is going to do X at any given moment.

This is why I generally hate being around people. Most, if not all of them, only talk about stupid s~~~ I couldn’t care less about.

I see myself in those words, Mr. Computernerd.

I just don’t see the point of asking “Are you from xyz?” or “Who do you live with?” or “Are you married?” I don’t care who or what you are, as long as you do your job well, you’ll get my respect. If I do not really require the information, what good will come out of it? Oddly, my mother is quite the opposite, and I have been subject to lots of nagging and antisocial shaming from female relatives.

As long as you’re okay, as long as you’re happy and not in a problem, as long as you’re not plotting somebody’s murder, why would I be concerned about you anyways? It just doesn’t make sense.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

When I hear the saying “Go your own way” that is exactly what I do when women try to shame me, I go my own way meaning I turn around and walk away from their bitchy asses. The only f~~~ed up part is they keep contacting me after their bitch fit. I just keep giving them more bitch fits. More where that came from ladies!

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[WraithParticipant 242]

I agree that when women are telling you to socialize more, it’s largely about their perception of socially engaged men being more valuable to them. But with both men and women, some people are convinced that introversion is a kind of disorder. Most people accept that I’m an introvert, but a few people (almost always women) have tried to make it their business to “pull me out of my shell.”

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Simple.

If they’re female, tell them to keep their noses out of their f~~~ing phones for longer than five minutes.

Tell them that you will consider being more social if women can put their phones down….and we know the chances of that.

Social media has made us anything but sociable.

End. Of. Story.

Fuck this planet.

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

I want to socialize more than anything in the world. The problem is finding people worth socializing with.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[narwhalParticipant]

I’m of the opinion that socializing more would be better for me. I look at the same way I look at going to the gym more. I’ll likely be happier if I had more friends, and that makes it worth it. It doesn’t really have much to do with women or what women want out of me. I want to socialize more for fun, but certainly don’t want it to dominate my life.

This weekend, I went over to neighbors house for a football party. First time in about 5 years. I knew no one but the owners. It was somewhat fun, and I barely spoke with anyone, but worth it I think. I was definitely ready to go when the game was done. Our kids are friends and play football together, so I’ll be seeing a lot of them. Hopefully, they can be solid friends, people to hangout with when I don’t feel like being by myself.

The way I see it, there is nothing wrong with someone wanting to be by themselves. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to do things with others as well. It’s important to figure out what works for you, without letting others dictate who you should be. There is no doubt that many of us would socialize a lot more if there were more men only events and places to go. Although I’m fine by myself, I don’t want to let this messed up world keep me from being as happy as I could be.

Ok. Then do it.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

“The more powerful and original a mind, the more it will incline towards the religion of solitude.”

― Aldous Huxley

Also, this is a question of the introversion/extroversion scale. i know for me that i am on an introverted side but not extremely. Socializing really saps my energy. I can go for some 5 hours endurance bike ride and i am ready to do whatever i have to later in the day, but if i am forced to socialize for 5 hours i am halfway dead.

This is why open office plans are horror movies for introverts, where extroverts ping around looking to leach off energy from others. Introverts are often unaware that even though blue pillers try to sell them this “loners” shaming, they are indeed the powerful here from which extroverts draw energy. Seems to me that it is pretty safe bet that most Mgtow are introverts.

So just shut the shaming off, really. Just look around man, everywhere there are organizations, businesses, ideologies, mass media, consumerism, organized religions, feminazis, sjw, banks trying to enslave you with debt, unicorn dream sellers, and just about pretty much eveybody else doesnt give a s~~~ about you, with only interest to gain something from you. Well from Mgtow you gain only what you are allowed to gain and schemers can only resort to shaming.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I think at some point a person needs to settle into who they are, and value that whatever the amount of socializing you do, it is the correct amount for you. Trust that water seeks its own level and you are just like that water and have no need to adjust.

Unless you can tie changing your behavior to a specific goal (E.G I want run a marathon, therefore I train harder), then assume what you are doing is correct.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[UnbelievableyetnotParticipant 512]

I have a friend, long term friend actually, who everytime we go out he takes it upon himself to lecture me about “life”, you know the type. The one who has a problem with you dropping out on society and thinks its their job to “save” you. I barely speak to him online anymore and I rarely accept his invite to go places. Why would I? What exactly is fun about being lectured at for hours? F~~~ that.

[Anonymous 3]

Women are full of s~~~ on this whole socializing thing anyway.

Women can’t initiate conversations, can’t keep them going, and suck at including people in anything. By every objective measure they suck at socializing.

It used to be they’d try to shame men into doing all the work, then they’d act like they were the world’s best communicators and were great socially.

But as women got more and more repulsive, less and less men were willing to do this anymore, until only the lowest tier men, the PUAs, would run around trying to hump women’s legs every night, like some sort of chihuahas.

After the internet came out, at first women kept mocking men for using messaging and all sort of that type of stuff. Then once the technology matured, suddenly women jumped all over it, and began to pretend the internet was “socializing”. I remember when they used to say the internet was not social. Now women sit on facebook all day and get thirsty men to kiss their asses all day, and they call that “social”.

Have a woman come out for some sort of actual social event, and most of them have their faces buried in a phone and can’t be bothered to string together even a few sentences. This is “social”.

Problem is women are always coddled and so it’s a taboo to spit any of this stuff out, despite it all being true. Most men are either so stupid or so conditioned that they just won’t violate their programming and say any of what I’m typing. But it’s a farce if you understand it.

Let these “masters of communication” figure out how to “socialize”. And if they can’t do it, then they at least have to admit they suck at socializing. And if they suck at socializing, how can they be the ones to pass judgment on what is “socializing” in the first place? Every single angle, if you actually inspect what women say, it always falls apart as the stupidity it always is.

[KimmurielParticipant 480]

Yeah I openly admit to people that I’m a people person, but not a social person. That gives me the avenue to hang out with a select few in certain venues for small periods of time. After that they know what to expect. If they get confused, I can say “refer to the defenses opening statement”

"You meet a few exceedingly forsaken, Sit around the cooler refusing domestication" Aesop Rock

[AutoliteParticipant]

@computernerd

You could just be a Schizoid Personality Type.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizoid_personality_disorder

Technically, it is no longer classified as being a ‘disorder’ as it does not necessarily have a detrimental effect on the individual’s life.

Most people just do not understand that Schizoids are most comfortable being by themselves. That’s likely why your family nags you…

[SolidParticipant 7520]

It will look like an idiot thing to say, because usually c~~~s say this s~~~, but, do what makes you happy.
Seriously, married men are forced to to so much s~~~ that they don’t want to, to please their snowflake. Be free, do your things, in your way.

Socialization is good, for those people who likes it. The same as beer, wine, fishing, video games, hunting, shooting, working out…

Not everyone like all those things, you don’t need to like everything. I socialized in new years eve, but I TOTALLY regret it. A c~~~ invited me to a party where some other friends would be, I gone for them, but I depended on her for the ride because I was out of gas (commie country things !) that was a disaster. But a certain point it was good, all my friends were turned into mangina zombies, things like we are talking and then the girl “go get me some beer”, they stop talking, and gone get some beer.

One of the girls hit on another friend, when her boyfriend was out to get her a beer. Too much drugs, too much bitches, too much attention whores with shallow personality. I feel sad for my friends, I really missed them, but those girls show us that there is no hope. One of the girls were 14yo, I don’t have idea what she was doing there, she was high as hell and keeps saying sexual jokes to everyone, like when I said “f~~~ yourself bitch” she replied with “oh, just come and f~~~ me, it would be better”, God only knows all kind of drugs that this KID took, but I guarantee that someone (or maybe more than one) f~~~ed her that night. But that party was a good thing to remember me that “don’t go out with that kind of people in that parties anymore”. My friends are nice guys, the problems were the c~~~s, their junky friends and all the nonsense.

Better to stay at home studying or doing something else. But “socialize” like that, no more !

[ghostParticipant]

Diamond wrote:

We MGTOW are brothers regardless of nationality or race….. And we don’t need to socialize with anyone else either. We will keep growing because of our good-intentioned, social and peaceful ways. The rest of society can f~~~ itself to death for all we care.

I agree, brother. Thank you.

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