"You need to socialize more"

[HitmanParticipant]

yo, tower spelled it out.
the LAWS are what make men not want to socialize.
it’s a death trap , so WHY would you want to go in ???

[Anonymous 54]

People asume your unhappy or something is wrong. Say the word loner ,and they think of the guy on the news that has done evil. They never mention the evil doers that have friends! Most people cant handel being alone. It just bothers them that some of us are fine with it. I like to get together with other men for some action activiteis (bike rides,baes ball if i could f~~~ing play) but other than that I enjoy solotude. We will allways be seen as odd,a threat,what ever. But it really is about there weakness.

[Anonymous 0]

Do what you want and like, its your life to live. Not theirs or anyone elses.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Personally.

I have come to the realization that I am the way that I am due to being over socialized.
Some of the overly social aspects came from my career. Forced familiarization, assimilation into a culture that was (at the time) apart from “normal society”.

Some came from marriage/relationships and trying to fit into a “normal” community environment that held welfare recipients and convicted felons in higher regards than professional soldiers.

Some of it came from over socializing in reform school/juvenile detention as a child/pre-teen. In order to be programmed to fit into “normal society”. One would be surprised how many female sexual predators were actually licensed “social workers” in the mid to late 1970’s.

Some of it came naturally by watching what passes as supposedly “good and normal socializing”.
Too much socializing leads to being a lemming IMHO.

I think I earned my solitude, my time, my resources, and my perception of my freedom the hard and honest way. I don’t require anymore “socializing” that takes more away from me than it gives back to me.

I offer my own words when anyone tells me “you need to socialize more”…
Thank you for the advice, but no thanks. (because apparently saying “quit breathing my air and go f~~~ off and die” may offend some people).

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Bromance > rest.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

There are introverts and extroverts. Society has us convinced that one is right and one is wrong. They’re different but nothing’s “wrong” with either. Kind of like how left handed people were told they wrote with the wrong hand. This isn’t some dark age s~~~, it’s the way the world works.

Reminds me of those people that tout 3000 fakebook friends but don’t speak to them. I’d rather have 2 or 3 good buddies than 500 people that I barely know. Like being told the right and wrong ways to socialize. Text? Social media? Phone call? Personal conversation? Different strokes for different folks. Maybe if all the “SOCIAL” people talked less and thought more we could achieve world peace, but they’re too busy jabbering away to be productive.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[ComputernerdParticipant 465]

Anonymous wrote:

What? Am I antisocial? No! You stupid f~~~ing c~~~s I’m doing want it takes just to SURVIVE!

I couldn’t have said it better. My thoughts exactly.

[Anonymous 3]

Even if you were social, they’d attack you for other things.

It’s all just misandry and the culture of attacking men. Nobody ever says anything to women at all, and puts zero pressure on them.

But for men there are a million things to attack, so men will always feel inadequate and will be easy to manipulate into anything.

Being “social” is one of the easiest ways to manipulate someone, because they get used to valuing the opinion of others even more. That’s what social means, to constantly seek validation. At least for men. Since women always get to define what validation is, there is zero pressure on them and they just throw out demands. Women make up social customs, always in their favor and to their benefit. A man is to just follow those “rules” without question, and when a new one comes up or he fails one because it’s just so bad for him, he gets excommunicated or shamed into compliance.

For a man it’s better to skip that step, refuse to submit to women in the first place, and set the rules yourself. So women are forced to either accept your rules or have nothing at all. A woman will still seek to dominate a man even under that arrangement, so MGTOW is the best overall, but at the least a man should be calling shots if he insists on dealing with a woman.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

I realized something. The only people that tell me i need to socialize more, are women, and the men attached to them. The agenda is very clear. And phoenix is right, no matter what you do as a man in this world, they will find something else you “should do”. It’s a circle of things you should do, and if you complete the circle of things you should do, they invent a new circle.

So you simply ignore them, don’t even bother responding, simply walk away without any expression whatsoever.

Another great point by phoenix, socializing means validation to them. Thus we call women “social creatures”. They are constantly seeking validation.

When you think of how f~~~ing pointless 99.999% of socializing is in this world it’ll blow your mind. It’s one person asking another questions, to give them a shot at validating themselves, and in return the other person asks the same bulls~~~ questions to give the other person a shot at validation. This is what small talk is, people validating themselves to one another … for no f~~~ing reason under the sun.

[2muchtruthSpectator 130]

My issues go deeper than that…

my family respects my wishes even if they aren’t positive wishes, they let me quit my job… for example…with no back up plan or nothing… and they were still supportive…

yet i’m still not happy….. even though i know the truth about women, the government, society at large… the media…i’m still p~~~ed off and angry

you’d think i’d be happy now i have all the answers too lifes questions and everything makes sense.. but nope.. i’m more depressed than ever..

i think alot of it comes down to lost hope… before when i was barely blue pill things were s~~~.. but i had hope… i had blind faith…

i have none of that now because there is no ”blind faith” there’s nothing.. everything f~~~ing fake…

and people will say ”get a job” ”get a hobby” it’s not like i haven’t thought of that s~~~ before… of course i have but nothing… and i mean nothing, interests me.. atleast realistically…if i could legit do any job i want i could think of a few things but i’m not about to spend years chasing them dreams down on the off chance it might work out.. i aint got the energy…

i just need a few small wins to get my confidence back… but it aint gonna happen …..

so in short i dunno what i want, but i sure as hell know what i don’t want…anything the invovles leaving my bedroom and bong.. pathetic but true..

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Aka: hurry up and be nice to women so they’ll let you spray your baby gravy inside of them and trap you for 18 years.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

2muchtruth wrote:

My issues go deeper than that…

my family respects my wishes even if they aren’t positive wishes, they let me quit my job… for example…with no back up plan or nothing… and they were still supportive…

yet i’m still not happy….. even though i know the truth about women, the government, society at large… the media…i’m still p~~~ed off and angry

you’d think i’d be happy now i have all the answers too lifes questions and everything makes sense.. but nope.. i’m more depressed than ever..

i think alot of it comes down to lost hope… before when i was barely blue pill things were s~~~.. but i had hope… i had blind faith…

i have none of that now because there is no ”blind faith” there’s nothing.. everything f~~~ing fake…

and people will say ”get a job” ”get a hobby” it’s not like i haven’t thought of that s~~~ before… of course i have but nothing… and i mean nothing, interests me.. atleast realistically…if i could legit do any job i want i could think of a few things but i’m not about to spend years chasing them dreams down on the off chance it might work out.. i aint got the energy…

i just need a few small wins to get my confidence back… but it aint gonna happen …..

so in short i dunno what i want, but i sure as hell know what i don’t want…anything the invovles leaving my bedroom and bong.. pathetic but true..

This is understandable. When you take a look at the job listings. It’ll f~~~ up the rest of your day. Then begin to think about college grads who are currently delivering pizza or working at wal-mart, with a mountain of school loan debt.

It’s understandable to not want to leave your room … Look at the garbage world.Go out of your room and you can either socialize with dumbf~~~ white knights, or evil natured women.

Then there’s the joy of working 2 jobs just to afford your own appartment. And you’re lucky if the complex isn’t full of section 8 landwhales, who pay 1/6th what you do for rent, and they pay it with child support they get from a man they mistreated and left. They will also have food stamps, free transportation passes, a paid for life. Then they won’t have any concept of why you need to nap during the day from working so much just to have what THEY have for free. So they will allow their kids to scream at the top of their lungs, while they s~~~post about what they had for lunch at TGIF on facebook. Oh and don’t bother complaining to the landlord, cause guess what ? He’s getting major financial rewards from the state government, for accepting section 8ers. He’s making more from their stay than yours, because of the state rewards programs.

So yea, pretty much everything is f~~~ed. I wish i had answers, but i don’t.

[MrMeParticipant 651]

It might sound very cliché but I used to not talk much and not socialise much with people, except when I wanted pussy. I started talking to people and going out and actualy … social interaction can be fun.

I am now much more social but I don’t do it for pussy anymore, I am doing it to converse and exchange with my fellow brothers. I notice alot of those brothers of mine stopping being cool when a girl is around and I let them know and remind them that it should be bros before hoes.

Socialising should be fun. If you are not having fun socializing you should at least treat people with respect and be polite and awknowledge people’s presence.

There is a difference between being an introvert and being a complete dick. Know the difference, be nice to people and carry on with your life. People are usualy nice when you show them you won’t hurt them and your intentions are peacefull

[AttonParticipant]

In the words of George Carlin: I like people, but I like them in short bursts. I don’t like people for extended periods of time. I’m alright with them for a little while, but once you get past around a minute, minute and a half, I gotta get the f~~~ outta there.

When things last longer than that harm is done.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[clint englandParticipant 341]

You know, i’ve always found it strange how ficiticious loners on the big screen are idolized and yet in real life we’re ostricised by idiots that think we need to fit in ‘THE MOULD’ of wife, kids, barbecues and bulls~~~.

Sure a great deal of us are simple creatures and don’t feel the need to be too adventureous and show off to people.

But even those of us who are the clint eastwood types with a cool edge (not me! Lol). We still get crap for wanting our own space.

The fact is many of these people, epecially the guys envy us.

For me? Just leave me and my brothers the f~~~ alone!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Computernerd wrote:

“You need to socialize more”

This is a very common thing especially from women, because “being social” is their lifeblood. To women, it’s all about BEING SEEN.

When you don’t subscribe to that, you deny them fuel for gossip.

I went out with a girl who just got a good job, and all she could talk about was how she was practically “invisible”. Thats’ when it hit me, and ever since, I noticed women go out of their minds when they are not BEING SEEN. That’s what they are like in the workplace too. More interested in office politics, socializing and petty gossip – than shutting the f~~~ up and doing WORK.

And make no mistake, it’s all about PERCEPTION and “PERSONALITY”.
(I capitalize these key words for a reason)

Women are always talking about “personality”.
“So-and-so has a really great personality”.
But “personality” washes off like makeup.

Turn on your television and you will see personalities, famous personalities and split personalities. But “CHARACTER” is what you have when you turn your television OFF.

“You need to socialize more” is them telling you to show your “personality”. They look at the superficial and meaningless, and that explains their fascination with fashion magazines, gossip, Entertainment tonight etc. And they love to make judgements based on how people want to BE SEEN – instead of how they actually ARE.

As a man (or MGTOW), we could give a f~~~ about “personality” and “socializing”, because we don’t give a f~~~ how the world PERCEIVES us. We pay much closer attention to someone’s CHARACTER – including our own – because where the real value is.

You will never hear a woman use the word “character” to describe someone, because they don’t pay attention to that.

Don’t ever let them seduce you into thinking your “not socializing” is a problem. It’s only a problem for them, because it doesn’t fuel their incessant need for gossip. Deny them that. Let them WONDER about you, and let it drive them crazy.

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Think of all the jobs men do that are “invisible”. Submarine workers, sewage workers, airport ground crew, garbage men, security guard, parking lot attendant, Alaskan King Crab Fisherman. These are “lonely” jobs women would rather die than sign up for, because nobody is looking at them, noticing them, and it doesn’t give them their fix for “socializing”.

A woman would rather be in front of the camera than operating it.
She would rather be a fight attendant showing her ass off, rather than the ground crew.

That’s what “you need to socialize more” means.
They want you to be — >>>> MORE LIKE A WOMAN.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ComputernerdParticipant 465]

Anonymous wrote:

But for men there are a million things to attack, so men will always feel inadequate and will be easy to manipulate into anything.

That’s completely true. Even if you’re a blue pill man, gynocentric f~~~s will still always find things to attack. Which is why I try not to even pay attention to them. Most don’t even care about you anyway, they only care what you can do for women.

2muchtruth wrote:

yet i’m still not happy….. even though i know the truth about women, the government, society at large… the media…i’m still p~~~ed off and angry

I’ve been in that type of mindset a few times as well. I just learned nothing’s going to change as far as society goes, so I just try to make the best of it and ignore all the bulls~~~ that comes along.

MrMe wrote:

There is a difference between being an introvert and being a complete dick.

But here’s the problem. You’re always going to be some type of asshole to gynocentric f~~~s. That’s just a given. You don’t want to go to a wedding? You’re an asshole. Don’t want to get married or have kids? You’re an asshole. Refuse to date or have sex and instead f~~~ fleshlights or use porn? You’re a creepy asshole.

I’m also really aloof to people I don’t have to talk to in general. So that alone makes me an asshole.

[ComputernerdParticipant 465]

Keymaster wrote:

Don’t ever let them seduce you into thinking your “not socializing” is a problem. It’s only a problem for them, because it doesn’t fuel their incessant need for gossip. Deny them that. Let them WONDER about you, and let it drive them crazy.

I completely agree. From what I understand, women only want you to “socialize” more in order to gossip about you. They never want you to socialize in order to get to know you or to be friends with you. They just want to know more about people in order to cause more drama in their lives.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Computernerd wrote:

They never want you to socialize in order to get to know you or to be friends with you

Bingo.

You know that expression “just be yourself”? You will hear that bulls~~~ from women too. They don’t actaully MEAN that. They mean…..

“Make yourself easy for me to figure out, so that I can socially manipulate you”.

A man should not even be CONTENT with “just being himself”.
He should be the man he always wanted to be.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[cardenio27Participant 144]

Amen brother. I f~~~ing hate that bromance thing it is so repugnant. Such a lack of condescension and lack of understanding of male dynamics.

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