Would a woman say that you are manipulating her?

[AntonioParticipant 142]

My girlfriend told this after she dumped me of their home a sunday night. This is not the first time it happens.

“you are manipulating me”

I previously thought that she was the controller, abuser and manipulater and now i am totally shocked. I had a migraine two days straight after this.

[GreekDragoonParticipant 460]

Whoever says that is usually projecting; someone who is really manipulated or emotionally abused is usually keen on just avoiding any and all contacts with their manipulator and or abuser.

[chirParticipant]

That’s womansplaining for “I couldn’t get what I wanted out of you so obviously you are manipulating me.”

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Another good one is, “you made me feel _____ (fill in the blank).”

Would a woman say that you are manipulating her?

Of course she said that! It’s because she had a mood swing in the past half-hour; you are a man, and that’s reason enough.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[AttonParticipant]

The female victim complex

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[HitmanParticipant]

When they don’t get what they want it’s you “manipulating “them. .
Unless you really are manipulating them….
I used to be pretty good at it, but have concluded that it’s not the right thing to do. .
Thank you MGTOW university! !!

[Dr. SableParticipant 1064]

Don’t fall for that s~~~. Ever!

Zero Tolerance

[experiencedParticipant]

If a woman says,
“You are manipulating me.”
I’d ask her,
“No I’m not, ‘What are you talking about?'”
Since I don’t manipulate women and I doubt that guys at mgtow manipulate women, it’s time for her to explain her accusation.
I’d wager it’s a new ‘version’ of an old word. The new ‘version’ is thrown around knowing full damn well that it will be received like the old version:
He raped me….with his eyes,
He abused me….he set up a budget,
He cheated…..I saw him cheat in his mind,
Wolf, wolf…….

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[AntonioParticipant 142]

GreekDragoon wrote:

Whoever says that is usually projecting; someone who is really manipulated or emotionally abused is usually keen on just avoiding any and all contacts with their manipulator and or abuser.

of course she told that and dumped me and now i am blocked from everything again (4th time this year)

Three days ago i presented in his job and said to her that she hurted me and that next time she enter in my life will not be the same but now i regret.

[AntonioParticipant 142]

She said that i am the one who acts like the victim. And somewhat is true!!! So she abuse me then blame for beeing a victim.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

Woman will say ANYTHING to further their agenda or deflect blame from themselves.
Move on.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[AntonioParticipant 142]

I know i am difficult person to deal with also…i am trying to recover from lots of things, ADHD and lots of infections and mood that i obvioulsy dont like. I wonder if i am like this because i am sick, if i am sick because i was abused(since child even) or if i am sick because i deserve for beeing bad or everything. I am very negative while she is always happy, laughing etc…(unless i express my emotions or try to cure myself, then she rages).
For example: one day i was taking acidophilus for my gut flora, one day my long beard smell bad because i didnt dry it she said “it is the acidophilus” so i ended taking antibiotics…when she discovered that i was taking antibiotics she raged “you are destroying your flora!!!!”

Sometimes i think this is crazy making behaviour and that i would do whatever to try to be ok for this woman.

[AntonioParticipant 142]

Mr. Spock wrote:

Woman will say ANYTHING to further their agenda or deflect blame from themselves.
Move on.

Yes, and i have a big emotional dependence problem.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

SHE is manipulating YOU.

SHE is garbage. Leave her. Never talk to her again.

[AntonioParticipant 142]

MattNYC wrote:

SHE is manipulating YOU.

SHE is garbage. Leave her. Never talk to her again.

I like to f~~~ with her and we had plans together (plans that she dump everytime she wants). Are there any other options to just be able to f~~~ with her sometimes? Some form of improving myself in order to be less dependent and take just the good things from her? I know i have been like that also, but not that way for sure.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Antonio wrote:

Are there any other options to just be able to f~~~ with her sometimes? Some form of improving myself in order to be less dependent and take just the good things from her?

Not anymore, no. And this is why:

Antonio wrote:

dumped me and now i am blocked from everything again (4th time this year)

She’s walking away from you, and she *knows* you’ll try to contact her, to chase her, to get her back.

You need her more than she needs you. She has the power in this relationship.

Antonio wrote:

“you are manipulating me”

S~~~ test.

Antonio wrote:

she hurted me and that next time she enter in my life will not be the same but now i regret.

You’re dependent on what she thinks/feels about you. She’s in control.

Antonio wrote:

So she abuse me then blame for beeing a victim.

Controlling/abusive behavior, on her part. [If the genders were reversed, you would be in jail]

Antonio wrote:

when she discovered that i was taking antibiotics she raged “you are destroying your flora!!!!”

S~~~ test.

This girl is poison. She is toxic. She is an anchor.

With this amount of negative influence in your life, you will never improve.

[AntonioParticipant 142]

So you think that telling her that she had damaged me and to not expect the same in the future was a bad play on my part right?

[AntonioParticipant 142]

MattNYC wrote:

S~~~ test.

This girl is poison. She is toxic. She is an anchor.

With this amount of negative influence in your life, you will never improve.

She (and some other friends) say that i am the negative influence.

[AntonioParticipant 142]

Amazing all this, one of the things we had in common was to achieve health. She is healthier than me right now and earns more than me for sure.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Antonio wrote:

“you are manipulating me”

A solid ex GF and I went through your basic breakup and we each moved away. When she was in town, SHE contacted ME, and over the phone, I suggested we meet for dinner. She said to me “I don’t think that’s a good idea. You can be pretty convincing.” …. as if I was somehow thinking of “manipulating” her into doing something she didn’t want to do.

This is not the first woman who tried the same s~~~.

After 3 years of living together and 8 years of knowing each other… she projects that “how do I know I can trust you?” pre-victim s~~~, where I am now expected to *PROVE myself.

I never spoke to her again and told her never to contact me again.
She was DEVASTATED.

A woman can accuse you of “being manipulative” when you just buy her a drink, dinner, or even when you’re NICE to her. Because technically, when you’re being extra “nice” to get someone to like you more…. you are being manipulative. So that’s why being an asshole to women works so well. Then the only manipulator is HER. Her FAKE hair color. Her makeup. Her push up bra. Her indirect communication style. Her FAKE eyelashes. Her FAKE nails. Lying about her age, weight, and her motivations. Lying about being on the pill….

Women don’t ever get to accuse men of “manipulating” them.
That’s what they DO. It’s one of the ONLY things they do.

As a man, you can’t even COMPETE with women on that level.
Understand, she is projecting.

Women are so manipulative, that if you don’t fall for it, they will accuse you of manipulating THEM. They hate it when a man can’t be manipulated. When he knows her game and what she’s up to. Even when a woman just seems to like you and wants to marry you… she is being manipulative.

http://www.wikihow.com/Manipulate-Men
http://www.lovepanky.com/women/understanding-men/how-to-manipulate-men
http://elitedaily.com/dating/gentlemen/women-men/
http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/1074625/ways-to-manipulate-your-man
TACTICS. TACTICS. TACTICS. TACTICS…. EVEN “TANYA TKO’s TOP TEN TACTICS“.

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“YOU’RE MANIPULATING ME!!!”

“lol!!”

The thing about manipulators is, they think they are in control of everything. And that’s their hubris. Because NOBODY is easier to manipulate…… than a manipulator.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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