Women Complimenting A Mans Looks

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Keymaster wrote:

If there were no such thing as a mirror, and I solely went by female compliments as a barometer for how attractive I am….. I would think I look like Shrek.

Gawddamit KM! I shot diet coke out my nose when I read that sh*t!!! You’ve got to give warning before you go and say stuff like that… now I gotta clean this mess up.. and you oh me a coke of the diet type!

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[coolthingy450Participant 1223]

Only time I ever had been told that I was good looking is from a older gentleman in his 50s.

As you guys mentioned, whenever a women complements me on anything aside from looks. It’s because they want something. Or when I get asked to shave because I look old by a bunch of women in their 20s.

I don’t care If I look like a 40 year old, I’ll shave when I feel like it.

Just yesterday I got a haircut and only two guys at work (including the boss) and a older women that’s nice to me around town has said “nice haircut man”.

Then there is the usual “how come you don’t have a girlfriend yet” line by countless adults in their 40s. The same people with wives that drain the lifeforce out of their husband. The only thing to say in that situation nicely without upsetting anyone is “I haven’t found miss right yet, and I am in no rush to anyways”.

Actions have consequences and consequences have prices. Cause and effect at work.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Never got a Compliment from perfect 10 female, (i.e. celebrity looking). But then again beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I would have to agree that it is nice every once in awhile to get a Compliment from a Female.

I’ve gotten more compliments from Older Females (40s/50s) though.

One thing I do notice is that when I dated down, the sex was great. I’ll profess that till the end of time. I dated a few model looking Females one of them even had the face of Rachel Bilson, and good lord almighty they were TERRIBLE in bed, absolutely TERRIBLE. This is no exaggeration, they’ll just sit there, lay down and have this “Pleasure me” attitude, no blowjob, no riding the dick, NOTHING, just “f~~~ me, make me cum, me me me”

Females from a young age are used to a barrage of compliments at a young age, to a point that when they grow up they expect the whole world to compliment them on their looks or anything they achieve. So it’s not really ingrained into them to compliment that much. And if a girl does compliment a Guy and is genuine about it, without any malicious indent, then those females are alright in my book.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[narwhalParticipant]

I can’t say that I’ve gotten more compliments from less better looking women really. It seems to me compliments come in 3 situations. The first being that we’re obviously just friends. Either she’s much older or younger and there’s no chance of anything happening and we both know it. The second is she feels she’s out of my league and the only way she can get me is by boosting what she hopes is low self esteem. In others, she’s got nothing to lose, so why not go all in. The last is when getting laid is a forgone conclusion. That seems to be when she feels like she can let down her guard a bit and let me know what’s turning her on. It not so much about giving me a compliment and more about letting me know what’s turning her on. The hotter girls are less likely to do this though. In fact, if I tell I her like her boobs, the hotter ones are more like to respond with “I like them too”, then “thank you, you’ve got a great ass”…or whatever.

If I’m 100% honest though. I’m not sure that I’m really all that different. I’ll compliment a friend. I won’t compliment out of desperation. I will compliment when getting laid is a given. I also like to compliment women on their shoes. It confuses them, they can’t tell if I’m hitting on them or just admiring their sense of fashion.

I am cautious about complimenting someone in I’m in a relationship with…the compliment can be taken in highly unexpected ways. With my ex-wife, when I told her I like the shirt she was wearing, she tell me I only liked how her boobs looked and would never wear that shirt again. When she gained weight and starting wearing black pants all the time to try and look thinner. I told her I didn’t think she was fat and needed to wear black. Somehow she took that to meant that I thought she was fat and I didn’t like her sense of fashion or whatever. So yea, be careful with that. Ironically, since the divorce, I don’t think I’ve ever seen her wear black pants and she’s usually wearing something that makes her boobs look big. Whatever.

Ok. Then do it.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

You know, the best compliment I could probably ever expect from a women wouldn’t be about my outward appearance at all but rather like: “You keep surprising me, man…” That’s it, that would really make my day, no sweat. But then, never came across any woman whatsoever to gimme that one…

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[vurrichParticipant 25]

I was on FB telling some gals that they wouldn’t compliment the same guys IF they didn’t know them and the guys were walking down the street without fame and wealth. They were constantly talking about how beautiful the members of Lynyrd Skynrd were.
I said you gals would only see two poor old hippies walking down the street if you didn’t know them and they wouldn’t interest you at all.
One replied, “why are you sad?”
I responded “sad about facts?” I’m not sad, I’m just giving you the facts!” That’s the way you all are
.she replied “oh, okay, maybe so.. But you don’t have to tell us.

You women scream like to say to average men who want to date you “Men are perverts and only think of one thing”
Then when you see a celebrity you are fond of you women rip your panties off and throw them at guys like Elvis.

She admitted I was correct and just dint’ want to hear how f~~~ed up they are.
They rarely ever say anything nice about a man on FB but lie to every woman on their about good beautiful she is.

Women get vajaja tingles from successful men and designed to throw compliments at them in an effort to get what they dream of and ruined their lives in the process.

Women are one of the biggest reasons I no longer believe that there is a God up there working towards our best interest or the old script that says, “he made man a help-meet.”

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Russky wrote:

The most compliments I received was from women of my mom’s age. Usually it’s followed by “You’ll make a great husband for some lucky girl” or s~~~ like that.

I’ve had that s~~~ happen too many times. Even worse, I had an elderly lady in a wheelchair grab my leg right under my ass check in a nursing home. I thought it was a mistake at first but the look on her face said otherwise.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

Relations between two people are transnational in nature. IF the woman is very hot, then she doesn’t need to compensate for her lack of attractiveness, by being nice or by being overly complimentary. The converse is also true with regards to a woman who isn’t very attractive. In the former case a Hot woman has no shortage of male suitors from which she can filter and pick out the best ones. (Women are constantly filtering out men), an average or ugly woman isn’t in the same position.

If you need the ego boost that you get from compliments, and a greater eagerness from a woman to please you in all sorts of ways, then hang out with the average woman.

However once a woman has you…then whatever behavior she exhibited in the past will be gone (this is true about marriages)

Women mostly view a man in terms of immediate cash, and if the woman is at the age where biology tells her its time to start making babies now or never, she will view the man in terms of DNA quality, otherwise its just how good you are in bed. But the monetary aspect is always present, it never goes away. And frankly women don’t give a rats ass about who YOU are and what you believe in. They ONLY care about what you can do for them, the same way an Amish Farmer will look at a Draft Horses that he needs to plow his field.

A woman doesn’t think too far into the future and doesn’t necessarily consider a man’s potential unless it is in the near future. And any past benefits that she derived from the man are meaningless to her. (See Briffault’s Law)

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

I am always put off when a woman compliment my looks, not that it happens that often. It’s not because I have a bad self esteem, but because I have learned what it really means when a woman does that. It means she wants something from me and to stay the f~~~ away from her. Or at the least, it means she is a basket case. and bad news.

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