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Im trying to stay objective about this, looking back to when I was in the best shape of my life bodybuilding, and anything in between.
Ive found that everytime I dated down, a girl I think is less than my ideal standards, they are overwhelmingly vocally complimenterary to my appearance compared to the really hot ones. The hot ones will give you the f~~~ me eyes and the occasional compliments, but NOTHING like if your dating down.
Maybe this is seems like a no brainer- but do most of you experience this as well? I dont need tons of compliments, but it is so refreshing to hear women vocally being so positive.
Irrespective of how one themselves looks like, your only attracted to what you find attractive. I think most hot girls dont want to vocally compliment their guys. Which is kind of f~~~ed up when you consider it. Especially when they EXPECT you to take care of yourself, be attractive AND foot the bill.
Your thoughts/experiences?
Resident cynic.
I think it’s the age old story. Should one go through life getting an easy ride (good looking female) Then there is no need for working at anything ….. including relations~~~s.
If your like me … or her … Jo Average … then one must find ‘what works’ to keep you in the game ….. and generally what works are nice things. Complimentary remarks, smiling, giving, supporting etc.
Unfortunately with lookers ….. it’s all a one way flow …. and that’s the fault of the idiot that is blinded by those looks.
Personality over looks every time for me. Those looks can’t hide the bag of s~~~ beneath.
Iagree with you Iliveagain, but to be more pointed my question is:
have you noticed an inverse relationship with how attractive a woman is and how little she compliments you?
Resident cynic.
Great topic! Have never seen this come up. But I know what you’re talking about.
I happened to think it’s normal for women not to compliment men on our “looks”. They compliment us on our DOINGS. i.e. “you’re so smart”… “i would have never been able to fix my computer without you”….. “you sure know how to show a girl a good time”….. etc. It’s almost NEVER “hello handsome”. And I do mean >>> almost NEVER.
I was a parttime bartender for 7 years, and I happened to resemble a famous movie actor – especially back then. At least 5 times per night, women would ALWAYS say it this way: “you know who you look like???”.
• They didn’t say: “you look like so-and-so”…….
• They didn’t say “well hello handsome….”
• They didn’t say “Hey you’re really cute.”It was always “you know who you look like???”. I got so f~~~ing sick of hearing it – every f~~~ing weekend – and not a single one of them actually paid me the compliment. Not one in seven years. Oh, I got phone numbers! And I got hit on. And I got offers. But not a single compliment on my looks where she came out and said you’re attractive / handsome / good looking / hot / or whatever.
It was so annoying to me that they would play this f~~~ing guessing game like I was supposed to NAME the actor for her. And she would say “YESS OMG!! YES!!!” that I started to treat them like assholes.
“you know who you look like???”
“……… (shrug shoulders)………. OPRAH???”
“LOL NO!!!!!”
“.No wait I got it!! George from Seinfeld. I’m a huge fan. ”
“OMG NO!!!!!”
“Billy Crystal, then. ”
“Wait …. who’s he?”
(*rolls eyes*)
I’m serious. That’s how it went – every f~~~ing time. Eventually I said to myself “the first girl who compliments me on my looks, I will buy her a drink.” Hundreds of them would flirt and would even expect me to pour her a free one if she showed interest. But I was waiting for ONE to actually pay me the compliment. This is how women would “hit on me”. The same predictable, boring unoriginal line every f~~~ing time.
You know who actually had creativity and complimented me? The gays.
Women were just “too proud” to come out and say it. They wanted me to think SHE was cute – and not the other way around.
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I don’t think this is a problem though. It’s just the way it is. I also know when a woman is really attracted to a guy, she will refuse to admit it – even to herself. She will even go so far as to pretend she does NOT think he’s attractive. She will behave like she doesn’t like him at all. Often for YEARS. Then 15 years later a girl who acted like you had the cooties sends you an email and says “are you still as handsome as ever?”. That actually happened last Christmas. I replied with a WTF?? She never eluded to that in her life. Even if I dated down….. she wouldn’t say anything. She would just assume I already knew it.
If there were no such thing as a mirror, and I solely went by female compliments as a barometer for how attractive I am….. I would think I look like Shrek.
But looks aren’t everything.
it is so refreshing to hear women vocally being so positive.
It is. They just generally aren’t. A man’s positive traits are actually spun into a negative these days. I once showed a woman a picture of a good friend on my phone who I talked about setting her up with. This guy was built perfect. Worked out, good looking all of that. His shirt was open and there were 3 of us on the beach. She took one look at the photo and said “he looks like a jerk.” (because he was really buff) . What a c~~~.
I remain convinced women don’t want to compliment men on anything.
They want YOU to compliment them.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Iagree with you Iliveagain, but to be more pointed my question is:
have you noticed an inverse relationship with how attractive a woman is and how little she compliments you?Oh yes … very much so. I’m sure it’s so definitely like that …. that you could obtain the data and produce a scale from it.
I have heard that for some of them, they became like that because they are always being hit on.
That doesn’t work with me because when in a supposed loving relationship …. they’re still that was.
I can only concluded that they’re just privileged bitches that one should ignore.
@ AncientWisodom. Valid topic.
When I was 30 years old I was in the best shape of my life. Interestingly enough, I received no compliments from my then wife.
I only received a singular compliment from this little twenty something that was very cute but had the IQ of a doormat.
Aside from that, I was approached by another soldier that had a wife with huge cans that wanted a three-way. Off putting to be sure, but that was my reality.
But the hot ones? Not a single compliment. I guess they were either hold out for the chance at dating an officer or someone with money.
"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.
have you noticed an inverse relationship with how attractive a woman is and how little she compliments you?
Not especially. But when I dated down, they were definitely MUCH nicer to me. That was very noticeable.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Soldier Medic,
I only received a singular compliment from this little twenty something that was very cute but had the IQ of a doormat.
That is my experience as well and why I mentioned trying to stay objective. When I was 25 and in fantastic shape, I would get verbal compliments and hit on but it was typically by the outlier groups – either girls 19 or under who just wanted to have fun and didnt yet realize their potential or need to pull money down from dudes or chicks 35+ who just wanted a f~~~ and were probably miserable in their marriages or divorces. It was never by the prime market aged girls.
Key Master,
It was so annoying to me that they would play this f~~~ing guessing game like I was supposed to NAME the actor for her.
Youve mentioned this before and based off of the era and your proclivity for Harrison Ford, Im betting dollars to doughnuts its him lol!
You know who actually had creativity and complimented me? The gays.
Women were just “too proud” to come out and say it. They wanted me to think SHE was cute – and not the other way around.
Its funny you mention this as its somewhat what got me thinking about this. Some of the best compliments Ive had are not just from gays but straight friends who make some passing compliment that wasnt gay at all but just in the context of conversation. Got me thinking – why dont CHICKS say this more often?
Girls always toe the line “thats your JOB. YOURE A MAN”… Wtf isnt my job?
I recall one girl who came onto me stronger than any girl in my life. When we finally consumated congress, she was cold as a fish and just laid there. I told her basically this isnt what I was expecting wtf? Her words, literally –
I just lay back and let the guy do what he wants to do
While that is far from the worst Ive heard from a chick, when a girl is making herself appear as though shes so turned on and full of passion, you expect a bit more than a cold fish lying on her back. But that is what women think there role is – entirely passive. Thats the most she csn give: a simple spreading of her legs and acceptance for you to enter. Nothing more.
Resident cynic.
Youve mentioned this before and based off of the era and your proclivity for Harrison Ford, Im betting dollars to doughnuts its him lol!
I would never make it that obvious. 🙂 But I am a long time Harrison Ford fan though.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Youve mentioned this before and based off of the era and your proclivity for Harrison Ford, Im betting dollars to doughnuts its him lol!
I would never make it that obvious.
But I am a long time Harrison Ford fan though.Hahaha! Your STILL too classy to say who it is! I love that about you man.
Resident cynic.
i had a woman tell me ” you’re SOMEWHAT handsome ” recently , i replied ” only somewhat ? ” ..her answer was ” i don’t want you to get hung up on your looks , it only matters how the WOMAN looks ! MEN love with their EYES .. WOMEN love with their EARS ! ” ..
i had a woman tell me ” you’re SOMEWHAT handsome ” recently , i replied ” only somewhat ? ” ..her answer was ” i don’t want you to get hung up on your looks , it only matters how the WOMAN looks ! MEN love with their EYES .. WOMEN love with their EARS ! ” ..
I actually do the reverse now and compliment MYSELF in front of them, to point out just how terrified they are of saying something complimentary.
Picked up a girl I know for a drink after work and she says “you got a haircut!” and the look in her eyes (with my jacket on ) was like “you look good” but she didn’t say it. I said “you know you can tell me I look good if you want, it’s not gonna f~~~ing kill you. Why don’t you try it. Repeat after me. You look sharp today!”.
She says “your HAIRCUT looks good”.
Just your basic American bitch that CAN’T say anything positive about a man..
She can snowflake about how awesome SHE is all night long though — NO problem.So I’m shaking my head while listening to her talk about how wonderful she is and I interrupt with “F~~~ I can’t wait ’til tomorrow!!!!”.
She says: “Why? what’s tomorrow?”
I said “Oh nothing. I just get better looking every day”.
Just p~~~ed her off and inside I am laughing my head off. That’s what I do with women now. I compliment MYSELF in front of them. Just to irritate the living s~~~ out of them.
Ameri-t~~~s CAN NOT compliment a man on anything. They can’t do it.
Hardworking. Smart. Handsome….. whatever good stuff you are, they REFUSE to compliment you.The BEST compliment you’ll ever get from an American female is “you’re such an asshole”.… followed by a blow job.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.WOMEN love with their EARS ! ” ..
This is the epitome of women expressing the antithetical truth. Give a woman a compliment, prior to her earning it in a relationship, and she immediately perceives you as unworthy.
Short story, when I was young and freshly minted to the bar scene, there was an extremely attratctive girl noticing me. Being young, dumb, and buzzed I told her “your georgous” <—-dont flame, it was a LONG time ago….She simply turned and walked away.
An older guy was standing next to me within ear shot. I blurted out “wtf”. He said “you gave her what she WANTED”. Mistake learned and never repeated.
Key,
She says “your HAIRCUT looks good”.
The indirect/implied compliment. Of course! They are f~~~ing MASTERS at this! Everything is indirect, read between the lines NOT the f~~~ing lines…Masters of illusion and deceit. Its NEVER some express overture of a compliment; but rather some back handed display which gives plauaible deniability and doesnt COMMIT them to anything. Theres always shades of grey left for interpretation. Zero absolute commitment.
Honestly – it disgusts me, because its reflective of their overall attitude.
Resident cynic.
The indirect/implied compliment. Of course! They are f~~~ing MASTERS at this! Everything is indirect, read between the lines NOT the f~~~ing lines…
I wouldn’t call them “masters” of anything. They aren’t even aware of their own wo-manipulations.
I actually have to point it out to THEM: “you’re doing it again”.I don’t really need to hear a woman say it. I’m a man, so I don’t REALLY give a f~~~ if a woman thinks I’m good looking or not…. but you did start out saying it’s refreshing and you’re right. Beyond that, when she’s telling me everything she hates about me…. that’s compliment enough. Her nipples poking through her J.Crew sweater is the only compliment I care about when it comes to women.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Women compliment me only when they want something from me. For example, the statement, “You must work out” is inadvertently followed by a request to carry something. “You’re so smart” is the female co-worker’s preamble to asking me to spoon-feed her (again). And, I swear, I gain at least three points on the attractiveness scale whenever I walk into a strip club. Is it me, or is it the wad of singles I’m carrying in my pocket? Gee, I wonder …
"The wisest follow their own direction." -- Euripides
“Women compliment me only when they want something from me. You must work out” is inadvertently followed by a request to carry something.
YESSSS.. Damn fine point.
In fact it’s so true, if a women actually compliments you, you can immediatelky follow it with “what do you want”.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.But you did start out saying it’s refreshing and you’re right. Beyond that, when she’s telling me everything she hates about me…. that’s compliment enough.
I know what your getting at: the complaint of someone who is morally inept is a compliment; however, I dont (and in reality I bet youd agree) want to be in the company of someone who tells me “everything she hates about me”.
What point, purpose, or joy is found in that? I dont need negative confirmation from a morally corrupt person, and neither do you, Im sure youd agree.
Getting back on topic- its intriguing how dating down results in overwhelming compliments from women. Point is- these girls are attracted to the same qualities the hotter girls are. But their more vocal.
The hotter girls NEVER feel the need to state it or think its below them to say it. Its night and day.
I think if a somewhat attractive girl lands a guy she considers a stud, shed be reluctant to express it to him directly.
Hed still have other expectations to live up to, beyond looks. Thats a f~~~ed up situation for men. But a reality.
Resident cynic.
i’m borrowing that key-master !
I dont (and in reality I bet youd agree) want to be in the company of someone who tells me “everything she hates about me”.
I admit that, but she doesn’t have my respect and she won’t get an ounce of it until she WORKS for it.
This is how I am not remotely affected by her “rejection”.
And since her “rejection” means nothing to me, I cannot be affected by her compliment.When her disapproval is worthless to you….. her compliment is too.
i’m borrowing that key-master !
Feel free. It’s even more effective if you’re NOT that good looking. Compliment the s~~~ out of yourself around women. It will drive them crazy. When you change a tire or install a plugin “damn Im awesome”. They want you to be as insecure and low on self esteem as possible. A man who thinks highly of himself – they HATE that s~~~. But it turns them on.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.I have seen both points being made from women first hand (humbly speaking of course). I think the main topic roots to mannerisms.
The lower numbers usually(or used to)have better manners in general. So it just carried ovet into the compliment territory.
But on the flip side, a woman will compliment what is important to her. Also, they want what they don’t have.
Ugly chick=”You’re hot”=looks/genes
Broke chick=”Nice butt”= wallet
I like your car= ???? That one I still think that they are just being honest for once.
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