Women Complimenting A Mans Looks

[22DeeboiParticipant 259]

I’ve actually had woman say I was cute, even the pretty ones. I didn’t care to much because most of em who said it were clearly f~~~ed up ( high or drunk) besides it was empty because they just looked like dumb lil whores who just want to get f~~~ed and I leave those alone cuz they’re usually bat s~~~ crazy

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Very rarely I had someone stating directly “you’re cute” regarding my outward appearance (lean figure & nice looking face according to my peers). It was rather more like either put forward as a hidden compliment or like KeyMaster said, similarly covert which I also couldn’t approve off or was downright p~~~ed off by for instance (from women that I knew for some time) like the old : “Why don’t you have a girlfriend? I mean, you’re handsome and all…” Damn, how distasteful. Imagine what would happen if the positions were reversed and I said that to a woman that I know a bit longer, boom –> smack right into my face. But as always, women can easily get away with that, boring double standards once again.

But again by now whenever I get that classic phrase “So, why don’t you … …? Because … …” I either ignore it right away or just respond like: “Leave that to me…” or better still “‘cos I am smart enough not to, thanks…”

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

Compliments most of the time are not understood properly.
There are two ways to look at them:

1) You used them previously and they yielded a certain reaction (say, a positive reaction from a female after you gave her a compliment).
This format is mostly used by people who are interested in something. In female world, complementing a Man in this regard is mostly used after he performs a task. This way, the man will relate doing a good work with being praised. Another format for women is to pre-praise a quality of a man to try to get him to work as said quality or to show interest in him (this second is less likely, but it can happen).

2) The compliment is very well understood and the use of such has a specific target (this means the person giving the compliment knows exactly how it will affect the other party in both EGO and self esteem. Used mostly by expert manipulators).
Although females like to think they all capable of using this second format, most of them are dummer than a sack of doritos.
This can be used to great effect, but is both dangerous and unethical.

When A woman gives you a compliment, its a good idea to ask yourself why. Personally, no women I have known for more than a week has given me a compliment (but many have done so in the first hour of meeting me). Its in a way a s~~~ test to see how easy you are to manipulate.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

The most compliments I received was from women of my mom’s age. Usually it’s followed by “You’ll make a great husband for some lucky girl” or s~~~ like that.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 11]

Great thread!

Complimenting someone is always a manipulation attempt. In the dating down scenario, the lower person is manipulating. If you want something from someone, you manipulate via complimenting. Even a benign compliment to make someone feel better, is still manipulating them to feel better about themselves.

Beware the unsolicited compliment.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

Great thread!
Complimenting someone is always a manipulation attempt. In the dating down scenario, the lower person is manipulating. If you want something from someone, you manipulate via complimenting. Even a benign compliment to make someone feel better, is still manipulating them to feel better about themselves.
Beware the unsolicited compliment.

I’ve seen the best of NewYork’s shuck and jive, walking talking scam artists! It always starts with a compliment, a praise, the friendliest friendly in a barrage of smooth talking words, then they’ll steal the teeth out of your head!
One complement from a woman is a mangina’s four course meal, he thinks he died and went to heaven!
The best way to filter out the worst kind of narcissist, is to ignore any complements or enticements, the stealthy c~~~ will always go sourpuss on simmer, lifting her veil! It’s a good way to flick their emotional switch to see how unstable they are, A MGTOW S~~~ TEST! And they think we’re ignoring them…..
It’s all in how you boil the clam boys. it’s all how ya boil the clam………….

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Keymaster wrote:

I was a parttime bartender for 7 years, and I happened to resemble a famous movie actor – especially back then.

All I can think of when I read this story is this guy talking to the ladies:

But seriously though, I was always compared to at least 2 actors over my lifetime. One of which I was literally thought to be him. I can say the younger one, as I don’t think I look anything like him now. But I DID have a girl ask for an autograph until it was found out I wasn’t him:

That was years ago, but is still hilarious now.

I’ve had women say they like my “eyes,” but that’s about it. Other than that, the only time I’ve ever been complimented was when I was dressed fancily for work or something. I had a job back in 2011/2012 where I had many women hit on me. One, because NONE of them had any jobs, and two, because I know they had kids as well and were looking for someone to leech off of.

[Anonymous 11]

Anonymous wrote:

I’ve seen the best of NewYork’s shuck and jive, walking talking scam artists! It always starts with a compliment, a praise, the friendliest friendly in a barrage of smooth talking words, then they’ll steal the teeth out of your head!

That sounds just like the panhandlers down here. I had one compliment me on my broad shoulders before he hit me up. From a man, WTF????

Of course, I live in the San Francisco of the South.

A compliment from a woman is worthless to me too.

[treznik87Participant 570]

For guys who are/were in a great body shape, ever notice how they almost never (at least not sober) say something like:
‘You have a hot body’ but always ‘Do you work out?’
Thats her compliment right there!
A question!
f~~~ing lol.
The proper answer to that questions should be – yes, but do you wash your hair?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

treznik87 wrote:

For guys who are/were in a great body shape, ever notice how they almost never (at least not sober) say something like: ‘You have a hot body’ but always ‘Do you work out?’

YESS. I have to add to this. This is the weirdest phenomenon. Even when I worked in nightclubs, a body builder bouncer / waiter / doorman would have this compliant all the time. OBVIOUSLY he works out…….. and a woman says “do you work out?”. One guy came over to me and ranted about this stupid question being a constant occurrence. He says “NO… I was f~~~ing BORN this way.” I actually kept that response in my back pocket for myself and used it recently.

I was at a car wash at 11PM . The only one there taking 2 hours to detail my car……. and two American “Amy Shumer” type girls were stumbling home talking loudly ( a little drunk). They stopped to talk to me asking what I was doing washing my car at night. And one of them says “do you work out???”. I actually stopped and stared at her for 3 seconds before I could respond.

“Nah I was born sexy. You girls take care and have a pleasant evening”.

Translation: Get the f~~~ out of my face.

treznik87 wrote:

The proper answer to that questions should be – yes, but do you wash your hair?

lol2

• “you know who you look like?? ”
• “do you work out?”
• “do you have the time?”.
• “can you break a twenty?”.
• “can I ask you a favor?”.

It took me years to realize it, but all of those questions are a woman hitting on you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[DethklokParticipant 153]

Compliments are only used because someone is trying hard to get what they want by being extremely nice. The attractive women hear it all day, so you’re just another desperate guy to them. Fat ones crave it because no one tells it to them. Good looking girls don’t have to pay compliments to men, because they’re going to get his attention anyway. If they give him a compliment, they lose their upper hand.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Well there is a crop of women who will compliment good looking men all the time and they are called Seniors! Let you be nice looking and a senior (60 y/o +) female has to interact with you 9 time out of 10 she will tell you directly,”you are such a handsome man,I bet your gf is happy” etc.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

Well there is a crop of women who will compliment good looking men all the time and they are called Seniors! Let you be nice looking and a senior (60 y/o +) female has to interact with you 9 time out of 10 she will tell you directly,”you are such a handsome man,I bet your gf is happy” etc.

Oh yeah!!!! You know who said “hiya handsome” all the time??

It wasn’t my girlfriend at the time. She never called me that. Her mom did.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ManocalypseParticipant 321]

I get compliments regarding my choice of tie/shirt from a girl at work. I have no idea of the significance of that other than perhaps making her devoted beta co-worker jealous. The main schtick with me is that although I’m approaching 40 with gathering speed, I pass easily for late-20s…

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

I was always compared to at least 2 actors over my lifetime.

Ha haa. Now that reminds me I only once happened to be compared to an actor and that was Kevin Bacon. Not that it flattered me all that much and besides that chick as gorgeous as she might have been clearly didn’t have a clue … … but cheers for reminding me , Megachris% (and KeyMaster).

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Anonymous 5]

In agreement here Ancient; Pretty women know there hot, So they act on that – I noticed that most hot women usually have weird sense of life – and the sub par ones have usually a outspoken confidence about them. Regardless am not in amazing shape anymore ether but yeah I can also add nowadays its like sub par wont look at you (forgive me for the rating system/ but bear with me) if your not a 9/10 and hot wont unless your 11/10 (which means money/plus looks) –

-Ah hell dose it f~~~ing rock to get compliment though! Hey you ever feel like your becoming an observer (A free man) ? when am at my friends bar I see hole lot of s~~~ similar to your analysis and the teachings of this site as a hole.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Ive actually had woman say I was cute, even the pretty ones.

Oh yes, Im sure everyone here who cares about their appearance has as well. I have to, but my point was how much more women do it when you date down vs the really hot ones.

I know this topic was kind of a no brainer, but its the simplicity that makes it illusive. Girls that are slightly above average are still attracted to the same guys really atteactivr girls are. But the latter rarely want to build a guy up in ANY way shape or form.

For guys who are/were in a great body shape, ever notice how they almost never (at least not sober) say something like:
‘You have a hot body’ but always ‘Do you work out?’

Oh man…I used to go to the gym twice a day, six days a week to lift weights. I HATED it if a girl asked me “do you work out?” On the one hand I would feel douchey saying yes on the other hand its f~~~ing obvious!

Can you even imagine asking a girl that? You would be considered a “creep” and a douche bag.

Getting down to brass tax, and to answer my own topic in this thread:

women always give themselves plausible deniability when they speak.

This is why women dont DIRECTLY compliment men or DIRECTLY say anything. They want an out. They want wiggle room, like a politician, so they can later say “you took that wrong”. Or “thats not what I MEANT”,

They do this s~~~ night and day. Men speak directly. Women want us to read between the lines so they have plausible deniability. Theyve been practicing since they were toddlers.

Resident cynic.

[Anonymous 42]

Back on topic…. C-Pig, I’m living in New Sodom, here in Gomorrah County, A turtle couldn’t bury it head deeper than I do to avoid all the nasty….. Back on topic (again)….
I never felt one bit comfortable receiving complements on my looks, It started with my grandmother’s obsession about my hair; “Girls would kill for a head of hair like that”, I shaved my head only once, they say “we” have more fun, yea until you shave and burn your head in the hot sun! Never did it again!
Then there’s the dimple thing, I had one girlfriend I couldn’t smile without her freaking out and saying how cute, I controlled my smiling by stopping, she’d tickle me just to get me to smile, complements really f~~~ up my mood.
When I was younger I used to climb freestyle (no ropes) I had people cheering me on when I attempted an inverted outcrop, about 25ft. up a face, I came within arms length and decided the risk was to high, my fears weren’t that I couldn’t hang on, it was the fear of sand or stones on the handhold I couldn’t see the top of, nor reach to clean it off. My brother has a local cliff named after him where he was stranded until we could get some rope, and on the same side of that mountain he ran to an outcrop where running was the only way to get to it (without going up over and around) Hey Tower, your brother just fell! (that was the day I discontinued free climbing). My bro was OK but all banged up from landing on the steep grade that sent him tumbling through the rocks. Another time I climbed over piled shale covering an outcrop, I spent 10 minutes tossing shale until I could grab hold of something large enough not to dislodge, that was about 100 feet up, higher than my highest high dive! absolute death! Water can break your bones at 100 ft. up! Think of what ROCKS would do!
It’s safe to say I maintained a good build, but not a body builder build, just a low fat to muscle ratio. and yes I get the DO YOU WORK OUT? My Response, No, I hate WORK, Work Sucks!
Man, just the other day I had a woman do the touchy feely thing, my cousin introduced her to me, Smoking hot, “Married”, and she just had to touch, one of those touchy feely types, and yes, NO WEDDING RING! WTF! I mean really! At first I’m very quiet and observant of ALL people in my realm!
The price for ignoring them, not being a pussy beggar, not giving them any undeserved attention, it’s like no matter what they have to feed their egos by getting sensual and physical when a man ignores their outward appearance, I’m smart enough to know “all women look to gain orbiters wherever they travel”. F~~~ man, any other setting and I would have likely turned all touchy feely on her! THEN WHAT!
You can learn allot from a turtle!!!
I don’t ever want to hear MGTOW can’t get laid! I work real f~~~ing hard not to get laid!!!

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Men speak directly. Women want us to read between the lines so they have plausible deniability.

And that is where my twig snapped! I got more pussy by giving them their way out, or getting my way in. B~~~~ gentlemen, it all about b~~~~!

[Anonymous 29]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Women Complementing A Mans Looks

Complementing a mans looks is a female weakness and that is why they rarely do it because it lays bare their true intentions of wanting to f~~~ you.
However, if you are loaded with cash and assets, compliments will come thick and fast as long as you keep spending or they get bored of you.

[qeeqoParticipant 1168]

“Beware the she Devils” They are all she Devils, which one?

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