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Keymaster : Its like you knew her your so on point !!
That’s actually a very terrifying thought. Like understanding so well, that I can describe a woman I never met, dated, or lived with so accurately.
WAIT!!!!!
I think I can hear a woman screaming “Not all women are like that!!!!!”.
That would be funny right about now – especially with documentation and testimony provided by women themselves.
I think I would have torture
No you wouldn’t. The best payback for this is ALWAYS to let the other guy keep her.
I would promise you that, but you won’t have to take MY word for it.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.She doesn’t own your self-confidence.
It belongs to you and has to come from YOU.
That’s why it’s called … “SELF”-confidence.
It’s not hers. She can’t have it. And it’s impossible for her to take away.Bra-VO. God dammit, you’re good at this.
The whole “women take the shape of the container they’re in” thing is so true. A female friend of mine was into art then music, then hockey, then porn, then kayaking, then toys and comics, then coding… each new boyfriend who came into her life brought a different passion and, as they left, so did those passions. Now she is single and is going insane because she has no idea what to do with herself.
Cats.
Women have no self-esteem because they have no sense of self. They just sit on the only thing they believe they have that’s worth anything and let the men who want it create their world for them. Then when men stop wanting it, they are lost. Men, on the other hand, must create ourselves and, thereby, have the ability to create our own self-esteem.
The sociopath thing is on point she loved vampires and was intrigued by sociopathic personality disorder books on it etc
That says everything.
Mate, a sociopathic ex nearly ruined my life. Just over 2 years down the track I am so glad I healed and she actually did me a massive favour. All I can say is it is hard to see now but you’ll be fine and one day she will see you with a younger hotter woman, you’ll be successful and carefree and trust me, this drives a woman nuts but moreover it sends a sociopathic woman insane!
Oh and when a woman earns more than you, like the others said, they won’t let you forget it and rein power over you and definitely be looking for a guy who earns more than them. It’s amazing, they want all this equality, yet, they still want a guy that earns more than them.
This is this kind of s~~~ you can look forward to after 16 years of busting your butt to make her happy. Brought to you directly from the last place you would ever expect! — Oprah Magazine.
I love the fact that she blames him for running her over even though she specifically stated that she crossed IN FRONT OF the car.
Every schoolboy knows that when you exit a vehicle, you always cross BEHIND it.
And hey, if the guy scratches his pits, smells his fingers and makes dumb jokes 16 years into your marriage, chances are he was doing it when you first let him f~~~ you,.. so f~~~ you!
Re.: Oprah Magazine article that Keymaster linked to above (@ 1:02 pm):
I’ve got a few choice epithets. I’m sure you guys do, too.
Whenever I feel a tinge of regret for not getting married, I read articles like the one linked, and everything is all right with my world again.
Truer words were never spoken
"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."
I will say this though @dobie
Once you’ve had the sociopath experience you’ll NEVER be fooled by one again once you know the traits, red flag ques and behaviour.
These types of people/women study their prey and read up on said prey’s hobbies, careers and life to slide their way in.
As it was once quoted “These women are so low they could parachute out of a snake’s asshole and still have a freefall.”
Take the lesson and thank God, luck, fate…whatever that you survived. I know mate it stings atm, that’s your ego and your mind still processing wtf happened? But over time, with yourself, you’ll get clarity.
Thanks for sharing your insight, this may be one of the best threads yet..I was shattered when my ex took the kid and split. .beyond words. .devastating. .it took me through hell. I found mgtow and it started to get better. .a lot better! My confidence comes from who I am not what a woman thinks of me now. .thanks everyone and especially key master’s wisdom. .This is the best thing to teach a young man. .self confidence, not being reliant on anyone else for approval.
Btw. .all women meet the clinical definition of psychosis.
I will say this though @dobie
Once you’ve had the sociopath experience you’ll NEVER be fooled by one again once you know the traits, red flag ques and behaviour.
These types of people/women study their prey and read up on said prey’s hobbies, careers and life to slide their way in.
As it was once quoted “These women are so low they could parachute out of a snake’s asshole and still have a freefall.”
Take the lesson and thank God, luck, fate…whatever that you survived. I know mate it stings atm, that’s your ego and your mind still processing wtf happened? But over time, with yourself, you’ll get clarity.
I’m a bit of an hobbiest when it comes to personality disorders I wouldent count her as sociopathic more borderline (inverted NARC) with low emotional IQ
I’m not missing her more the dream that has been shattered the loss of financial security , kids , etc etc and just having my eyes open its like the blinkers are off and I can see women now and in my past for what they truly are parasites .
Thanks for sharing your insight, this may be one of the best threads yet..I was shattered when my ex took the kid and split. .beyond words. .devastating. .it took me through hell. I found mgtow and it started to get better. .a lot better! My confidence comes from who I am not what a woman thinks of me now. .thanks everyone and especially key master’s wisdom. .This is the best thing to teach a young man. .self confidence, not being reliant on anyone else for approval.
I really feel for you mate I can’t imagine what that must feel like to have your kid taken ! When I read some of the brothers stories I thank God I only lost innocence and not something precious like a child .
Anonymous42Once you’ve had the sociopath experience you’ll NEVER be fooled by one again once you know the traits, red flag ques and behaviour.
My wisdom came when I was 20/21, dating a full blown habitual liar psychopathic Terrorcane! She was “the one” (not marriage) the one that tore my insides out and sent me fleeing from any kind of intimacy! (where I learned to RUN)
After psycho bitch (friends dubbed), woman after woman, I knew when it was time to vanish, and time and time again I simply vanished, then one day I was a ghost……. LOVING IT EVER SINCE!!!“I’ve not loved you for a year bomb” along with “I don’t respect you” “I want more romance” “I want to find out who I am ” “I have friends now so don’t need you” “I could have dated José the investment banker” “I want to live abroad but you will never leave your sick dad ” and a host of other stuff
Am I the only one who thinks how obviously f~~~ed up and wrong it is that a woman would live with you, sleep with you, eat the same food as you, have sex with you, share years of experiences with you, want to marry you, accept a proposal from you and then talk to you like she hated you the whole time?
What was she doing living with you for a year for? Get out! Ya f~~~ing c~~~. Why did she stay? Too lazy to move?
Women don’t “love” men.
No they don’t. Break up with the guy, bitch, if you don’t love him anymore, fine, but she doesn’t just not love you anymore. On her way out , she makes a point of saying the most hurtful s~~~ as possible like she can’t just leave and say “sorry I can’t”. She’s picks up the loudspeaker and announces “you’re a piece of s~~~”.
I would laugh at her. She wants your self esteem to be crushed. You’re not all that, ladies.
Yeah she made sure she went out with a “bang” she even brought up the resentment of 6 years ago when she “made me eggs at 2am” when I was staying at her place wtf !!
Stripped the house of pretty much everything, charged me for an av cabinet and took back all my birthday presents
I should not be shocked her dad is a repulsive drunk , massive loser , “ex criminal” and all round scum bag her sister got pregnant at 15 her mother is a “hot” 50 something who is bitter because she can’t tie down guys in thier 30s and 40s .
She had a good education , spoke well and a good job but the bitch had no class .
I mean if I had cheated or beat her then one could have said I deserved it !!! My “crime” being her best friend she addmited it and she told my family she should have left a year ago but was a coward (monkey branching) more like it behind my back .
Bitch even addmited she had not bother with my family for over a year lovely after all they did for her .
“I’ve not loved you for a year bomb” along with “I don’t respect you” “I want more romance” “I want to find out who I am ” “I have friends now so don’t need you” “I could have dated José the investment banker” “I want to live abroad but you will never leave your sick dad ” and a host of other stuff
Am I the only one who thinks how obviously f~~~ed up and wrong it is that a woman would live with you, sleep with you, eat the same food as you, have sex with you, share years of experiences with you, want to marry you, accept a proposal from you and then talk to you like she hated you the whole time?
What was she doing living with you for a year for? Get out! Ya f~~~ing c~~~. Why did she stay? Too lazy to move?
Women don’t “love” men.
No they don’t. Break up with the guy, bitch, if you don’t love him anymore, fine, but she doesn’t just not love you anymore. On her way out , she makes a point of saying the most hurtful s~~~ as possible like she can’t just leave and say “sorry I can’t”. She’s picks up the loudspeaker and announces “you’re a piece of s~~~”.
I would laugh at her. She wants your self esteem to be crushed. You’re not all that, ladies.
She had to put the boot in take back her birthday presents she was even screaming resentment about how six years ago she made me some eggs at 2am when we were first dating .
She told my bro she was “hoping things would get better” would have been nice to have had a heads up on how she was feeling lol she addmited she was a coward “code for monkey branching” and covering her ass
All she was really p~~~ed about was the money she had lost on our flat decorating etc
The vile harpy even had the cheek to “wish me a happy xmass” two months later and inform me “she is a good person and how else could she have broken up with me ”
This creatures are sick truly it reminds me of serial killers and such justifying thier crimes
Every time I catch myself questioning my self-confidence, I remember that no matter what – it will be me who will have the last laugh
Yes, gentlemen! Time is on our side, and it’s one powerful friend to have.
proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome
Your fiancee is going to continue telling men she “needs to find herself”…. until she finds a cat.
Awesome quote,I almost tossed up the dinner,very funny quote!!
Never lose sight of what brought you here.
Awesome quote,I almost tossed up the dinner,very funny quote!!
I laughed too, but not an Quietly’s story. Did we all date the same girl in this thread?
@dobie: My first such experience came at 22, during my first real relationship. This girl broke up with me out of the blue; we had made plans to go see a movie (The Simpsons Movie, during the premiere) along with some of her friends, and she wanted to meet up with me and get a bite to eat at a café, first. Then, right there in the café, she dumps me to get back with her ex-boyfriend, with whom she had had daily contact even though she had previously claimed she had cut all ties with him. And then she says she wanted to dump me in a café to avoid me making a scene, as if she didn’t know me well enough to know that I wouldn’t have. Instead, she humiliated me in front of a bunch of people for no reason.
Oh, and did I mention her ex-boyfriend abused her, and that all her friends thought she had gone mad because she dumped me for him? Yup, all her friends, male and female, considered me by far the better match. Didn’t matter one bit.
As you can probably imagine, this totally shattered my self-confidence. If an abusive jerk can make girls come back to him even after they get into a new, loving relationship, whereas I couldn’t keep a girl from doing just that, what chance did I have? I got into a new, briefer, relationship the next year, but dumped the girl when I found out she had lied to me about just about everything and then, when I confronted her about it, she showed no remorse whatsoever nor did she apologize. In the 7 years since, I’ve dated occasionally, but I haven’t had what I would call a “relationship”, because I haven’t found a girl whose lies I couldn’t see through early on, nor have I found a girl who didn’t lie. Then, less than a year ago, I found out about MGTOW.
There lies serenity in Chaos. Seek ye the eye of the hurricane.
Women have no self-esteem because they have no sense of self.
You and I are in total agreement – except that needs a little clarification. On the surface (and even slightly beneath), they appear to have no self-esteem but are intensely arrogant.…… and the depth of this is phenomenal. This “reverse grandiosity” becomes apparent when she cuts herself down in front of you :
• “I feel fat”
• “I wish I were prettier”
• “Im getting old”……. or whatever she says to appear to to have humility.
Now AGREE with her, and watch what happens.
You don’t even need to cut her down, you can just suggest: “maybe go to the gym a little more often.”The gates of hell will open, and the true beast emerges. “WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY???”.
It’s not a threatening beast with big fangs or anything, but the rest of your day is definitely ruined….. and six months later you will hear about it again, when she says “remember that time you told me I was fat? I never forgave you for that.”. Oh god. Do we REALLY have to tell a “mature” adult female “no honey, you’re the most beautiful woman in the whole wide world and there is no other like you in all the universe” just to avoid her going off??
The last women to pull something like that was almost 33. Blaming me for her own inadequacies. You can’t have a “relationship” with a creature like this. It can’t be done… unless you want to be in it all by yourself.
I believe Cap calls it……. “Mental gymnastics”. It’s exhausting.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.On the surface (and even slightly beneath), they appear to have no self-esteem but are intensely arrogant.…… and the depth of this is phenomenal. This “reverse grandiosity” becomes apparent when she cuts herself down in front of you :
Like the old saying about the church… simultaneously extravagant beyond belief and desperately in need of your contributions… females are, at the same time, both completely devoid of any ability to generate their own sense of value and fantastically full of themselves.
I couldn’t agree with you more,
I think of most of them as red giant stars… huge, fiery shells burning up everything they touch but only expanding outward because, at the core, they are cold and dead and barely able to hold themselves together,
Anonymous42Why is it that most men are horrified, terrified, and besides themselves at the prospects of being a woman?? Hmmmm…….
Why are women obsessed (their whole f~~~ing lives) with equating themselves with men??? Hmmmm…..
Gee,,,,, I wonder why men are marching away from women in droves??? Hmmm…..
When all is said and done for (Western man’s biggest mistake) allowing women to advance their cheating corrupt ways over the statute and strict laws of mens logic, the entire Western world of women’s bones will be found at the foot of the WALL®……
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