Why do millions of men have no close friends?

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

http://www.executivestyle.com.au/why-do-millions-of-men-have-no-close-friends-gl3tu2

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

Most of my old friends are manginas and married. Most of them became housewives right after they found their woman. The power of the pussy is strong, that’s why I am now only friends with guys who aren’t mentally capable of being a man.

[Anonymous 3]

Oh Jesus, what a mangina. He writes that women are smarter than us and live longer.

It’s amazing though to even see the media admit there might be a problem. Society is designed to beat men down and isolate us. When we finally embrace it and ghost, suddenly it’s a problem and then want to force us back onto the plantations. Or maybe hunt us down and force us into slavery/war. I’m sure it’s not for altruistic reasons.

I have few friends and I rarely ever see them. Most are married or in their own worlds. Nobody cares about men, especially unmarried men. Society wants us to go away, and we did, now society is whining because it’s apparently not so easy to keep things running with just women and manginas.

[RennieParticipant]

Better to have a few real friends than a million fake ones.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Because we don’t consider 750 “friends” on facebook a “close friend” like women do in the first place.

A man knows if he’s got TWO real “friends” he’s doing very well.

That’s the REALITY of it and it applies to everyone. A woman goes shopping with her BFF all day and stabs her in the back when she’s not looking. But she will sing about their “close friendship” all day long. “OMG WE’RE BFFS!!!”. Then there’s the “gay best friend” who goes to the mall with her and tells her how fabulous and “beautiful” she is – even when she doesn’t believe it herself. She also keeps a “token fat friend” by her side to make herself seem more attractive. She also has her c~~~-blocker feminist “friend” to make sure she gets a free drink but no funny business! Then there is the “all my friends are guys” chick who is so delusional we don’t need to get into it.

Men don’t take part in that manner of horses~~~.
We don’t go shopping and spend an entire day and eat meals with people we can’t f~~~ing stand.

Unfortunately, she won’t learn or realize the REALITY of it until she’s in her 60s and beyond or when they start to drop. That’s when a woman starts to realize the people she called “friends” for the last 40 years were never really her friends.

Men are already pretty hip to all of this by the time we are 21.

I know this because I was exposed in VERY close proximity with girls and young women by the many dozens at an early age. I watched their jealousy of each other from the inside. I watched them compliment each other while hating each other at the same time. I watched them prop each other up on the surface while tearing each other down. I watched them claw each other;s eyes out for the last handbag on sale 50% off.

“Why do millions of men have no close friends?”

Here’s a better question.

“Why do millions of women LIE to themselves – and each other – and call their enemies “friends”????”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22558]

Keymaster wrote:

A man knows if he’s got TWO real “friends” he’s doing very well.

That’s the REALITY of it and it applies to everyone. A woman goes shopping with her BFF all day and stabs her in the back when she’s not looking. But she will sing about their “close friendship” all day long. “OMG WE’RE BFFS!!!”. She also keeps a “token fat friend” by her side to make herself seem more attractive. She also has her c~~~-blocker feminist “friend” to make sure she gets a free drink but no funny business!

That is true. And this reality is really f~~~ed. In addition, there are those just stirring the pot to make reality more f~~~ed up.

If honesty was value, that might solve some problems. But, it seems that honesty is a sin in this society.

Keymaster wrote:

“Why do millions of women LIE to themselves – and each other – and call their enemies “friends”????”

Simple. No one wants to be alone. Truly alone. Not being able to talk to anyone, nor be able to socialize with anyone.

[HitmanParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

“Why do millions of women LIE to themselves – and each other – and call their enemies “friends”????”

i think the truth is they have no real friends ..friendship involves loyalty , trust , understanding , empathy ..among other values that are foreign to most women ..unlike self-centered women , men can actually put themselves in another persons place ..

[hmskl’dParticipant 6413]

My two closest friends ever since we were kids .. friend #1, my neighbor who died three years ago. The other friend who I have known all my life, recently began dating the early middle aged widow of friend #1.
I almost made a Topic Post about this a few months ago as the guy who started dating this widow hasn’t been around my place since they got together. My personal belief is that he feels a little guilty that she & he have become something of an item .. and for some unknown psychological reason .. he doesn’t want to talk with me now. He used to stop and chat regularly before they began dating but hasn’t been around in well over six months.
If only he knew how little I care and actually am happy he’s gone on with his life; and she with hers … I couldn’t care less about their relationship other than wishing them both all the best. I guess if I went out on a limb and totally speculated on his thinking process .. not having spoken with him recently; I’d tend to say that he thinks I once had feelings for her .. after all, she is my closest neighbor in a very rural locale and only a couple of years younger than me. We have adjoining fence lines.
Someday, I’ll just have to drive over to his farm and chat with him. It’s a difficult topic to address. I’ll just tell him the truth .. I wish them both well and greatly value our lifelong friendship .. beyond any non-existent jealousy issues that he might be erroneously fantasizing about.

[Everything is all we’ve gotParticipant 233]

I don’t have any close friends, I’d love to have a group of close friends to have a couple pints with talking about MGTOW or any other intelligent conversation and experiencing the world rather than what my current friends are like; All drinking in clubs on the weekend trying to get laid.

"You can suffer from a life experience, or you can learn, move on and thrive."

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Keymaster wrote:

A woman goes shopping with her BFF all day and stabs her in the back when she’s not looking.

Faust For Science wrote:

That is true. And this reality is really f~~~ed.

I spent International Men’s Day having an afternoon rooftop BBQ with some down-to-earth Russian friends of mine whom I hang with occasionally. They all spoke Russian except for me. I think it was 5 couples and a few singles in total. I made that statement about women going shopping with friends they despise ….. and ALL of the females busted out laughing. It took a few seconds to register but the general reaction was “OMG!!! HOW DDI YOU KNOW THAT???? IT’S TRUE!!!!”. Interestingly enough, the guys were rather perplexed by this and displayed no real reaction to it, like they never considered it before. But I had the girls HOWLING.

Everything is all we’ve got wrote:

I don’t have any close friends, I’d love to have a group of close friends to have a couple pints with talking about MGTOW or any other intelligent conversation and experiencing the world rather than what my current friends are like;

I’m nodding.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Everything is all we’ve got wrote:

I don’t have any close friends, I’d love to have a group of close friends to have a couple pints with talking about MGTOW or any other intelligent conversation and experiencing the world rather than what my current friends are like; All drinking in clubs on the weekend trying to get laid.

Im compelled to add….. I was out one night at a coffee shop. It was dark already and I talked to this guy with a motorbike.. Nice bike. Commented on it while we were in line waiting for our drinks. It turned into a 3 hour red-pill conversation. A really good time.

Turns out he was Katie Perry’s body guard. And bodyguard to a few other celebs. (dude was HUGE)
I’ll tell you…. you think you’re lonely and have no really close friends?? Wait until you’re famous. THAT’S lonely.

I’ve enjoyed some pretty surprising good chill sessions just by striking up a conversation with some random guy. Interesting in the most unexpected way.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MendokusaiParticipant 256]

I have one close friend-a former boss if you can believe it,he’s married but comes from a family where his old man ruled with an iron hand and he does the same. Stepping into his house is like time traveling back to 1955 with all the benefits. His wife does the cooking and cleaning while we drink beer and watch TV and his kids are respectful and quite around us which is quite a f~~~ing shock considering most young punks today. I can rely on his word as a man and don’t hesitate to use him as a reference. He is a dying breed unfortunately,now we have mostly MGTOWS, pussy whipped manginas, or outright f~~s that make up the modern male.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I always had the same group of buddies I’d hang around with. As we got older a few moved out of state for jobs, a few got married/had kids/turned into manginas so I don’t really see them anymore, and a few just turned into losers that got into drugs so I’d rather not be around them anymore.

I’ve noticed as I get older its harder to make real friends. I mean…I have no problem getting coworkers or people from one of my teams to go out for a beer and shoot the s~~~ for a while, or to go grab a bite to eat, but its hard to replace the friends that you’d call up when you were bored and had nothing going on that didn’t think it strange when you were just looking for someone to be bored with.

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

Friends on Facebook do not equate to friends in real life. That is a huge myth. You could have 700 friends on Facebook but only 5 friends in real life.

I think people are just crazy, especially since the rise of the millennials and the want to not hang out with masculine men has increased. I’ve just hater more and more people as time passes by.

[VeganMgtowParticipant 6]

I have just turned 22. I have never had a best friend and I probably will never have close guy friends. The power of the pussy is just too strong for most men and thats all they care about. All their actions in everyday life revolve around getting the girl, getting the pussy.

[TheQuietManParticipant 13]

Keymaster, brilliant post.

The “friends” a woman has are merely pawns on her chess board – they’re there for a specific purpose, not because they genuinely enjoy the camaraderie of shared experiences. The kicker is that most of them suck at chess because they can only see the board as it sits – no real foresight or planning to be speak of. That’s why red pill knowledge is so powerful – it opens your eyes to the fact that the moment you are in the company of women, you are on a chess board playing a game – and in that moment that you realize this, they lose..

I have very few genuine friends anymore – my social circle got significantly smaller after college though it was never really that big to begin with. This does not bother me – I welcome it as a reduction in the quantity of disingenuous bullsh*t and nuisance level noise I have to deal with on a day to day basis. Towards those ends, I also deleted my facebook and don’t miss it at all. No pretending to be someone you’re not to please other people, no annoying invitations for things you really don’t want to go to. Gentlemen – I come and go as I please, operating under the radar as I soak up my solitude and utilize my free time to reflect, read, learn new things, enjoy my hobbies, and stay in shape – mental and physical fitness. It is a wonderfully beautiful thing and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. When I do want company, I can call up one of my friends at any point in time and talk to them as though no time had passed since our last correspondence.

Men are all unique in their own way, but I think the progression towards being a “lone wolf” is often a natural one – at least it was for me and it’s a journey that I’m really only embarking on in the grand scheme of things. When you become established in the world and have secured the resources you need, there’s no longer a reason to tolerate or network with people you don’t genuinely enjoy the company of – especially if you don’t care about finding a woman. I look at it as a sign of maturity and of being honest and true to yourself. Just because you don’t have a lot of friends doesn’t mean you’re alone, it’s a progression that should be welcomed.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Women, of course, are smarter than us and live longer

That is where I quit reading.

One of the reasons being their uncanny ability to maintain great friendships.

Does this include complementing each other and not meaning it? Insulting each other behind the back? Stealing other women’s husbands? Being ‘BFF’s’, which usually lasts about 3 years?

This F-A-G fruit is from the generation that would throw another guy under the bus for a piece of ass and/or was raised by a single mom. No close friends? It’s also obvious he never served in the military. I’m still friends with the guys I went to Kindergarten with. When is the last time a woman loaned her friend $500? When is the last time a woman put her friend in a fireman’s carry because she drank too much and couldn’t walk?

Guys are friends to the end.

Fuck this planet.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I read enough to understand the writer whole thesis is: men have no close friends because we are not women. That’s where I stopped. I did enjoy clicking on the wrist~~~ch articles at the bottom.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Cap285 wrote:

Women, of course, are smarter than us and live longer

They neglected the part where women make up the majority of residents in nursing homes..

I have 3 friends. One has a family, but we hang out usually once a week or fortnight with our kids or for beer and boardgames. The second was a mutual friend of my ex-partner, whom I see now and again. And finally the last friend I see everyday. We sometimes go for walks together and occasionally he s~~~s in public, but I forgive him because he’s always happy to see me.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

a lot of my friends get with women and then their woman tells them “no more friends for you”. Isolating your partner and limiting their contact with their friends and family is a form of abuse and it is all too common for women to do to their partners. Why do they do it? because a woman has no real close friends. She tries to make her boyfriend her whole world and expects him to do the same. Then when he is completely isolated with no friends in the picture, she turns the knife.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

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